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| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by luminouz(m): 1:26pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Yen yen yen.... Goan make me lunch, right NOW |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
StacyO:it was not their shine see in this life when you loss another gain am happy for what the op did the one his sister later dash the opportunity need it more than them |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Liposure: 1:29pm On Dec 19, 2020*. Modified: 3:18pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
To whom much is given much is expected (that is why we help one another regardless of gender sterotypes) |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by UCHIHAmask: 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
if that's the case. why didn't you look for needy strangers that can feel that space.. i tell you,there is more probability that they would be forever grateful to you in all ways even without you making an agreement to enforce it. nevertheless,help should be selfless,you shouldn't expect a thing from it,like the ones that pay tithes just to get Gods blessings but would never help the poor around them... yes,you were unfair,its more like payback |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
DrayZee:Exactly . you summarised everything as it is. He's just being wicked . there was a guy who offended me. A work opportunity came and I gave his contact so he could get the job. He was called for the job at my street . my house is close to the location. When he was coming he saw me and I could see how ashamed he felt when he saw me. He sent me a message apologizing for his mistakes but I waved it off as nothing . We should learn to keep differences aside when it comes to helping people. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by LordKO(m): 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2020*. Modified: 5:03pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Come on! Humanity comes before any needless gender segregation and discrimination. Learn to relate with people based on their ethical leanings rather than nomenclature, sentiment, or stereotype. You're wrong, provided that in the cause of your interactions and closeness with them over the years, none of them has given you a reason to believe that men from strong ethical leanings, or men in general, are foolish. As a principle, the kinds of women and men who don't deserve voluntary favor/altruism from me are the self-absorbing or opportunistic ones - they can only benefit from my generic generosity where and when necessary. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by sexuential: 1:32pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:U'll understand better the extent of your deed when u find urself in similar situation. The grace of God we enjoy today isn't becos we are saints or sinners, it's His Divine will upon us as an ever loving Father. Yet, a simple chance of playing the scale balance, u chose to abandon the role. Wait for ur turn |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by ManIzHot: 1:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
There is always a difference in helping people because you really care, and helping people "because no body knows tomorrow and also wanting some kinda favour in return" we practise the latter often And that is not of God! That is out of hypocrisy! There is always room for change...... Work on your self and be a better person tyup: |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by DAVE5(m): 1:42pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
RedPanthar:I like your maturity, couldn’t have been said better |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by worworbabe: 1:42pm On Dec 19, 2020*. Modified: 4:06pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:Internet should not be for idiotss. Because some people said this or that on nairaland, you decided to believe it is so about all women including your friends. Don't take everything you read here seriously. Most of you are kids sha. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Openbusiness: 1:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:You did nothing wrong. Don't let anyone guilt trip you. People have preferences and you have yours. Continue helping your fellow men whenever you have the chance to do it. They are more likely to appreciate you and return the favor at another time in future. Men are more naturally instinctively loyal by nature, we hardly forget those who helped us when we needed it badly. The other co-species are like cats, dey don't send anybody oh, your reward is in heaven ![]() |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Mac2016(m): 1:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Nazgul:In addition to your submission above Bad act.. Why shd you find to be "worshipped" for helping people. Your fear of not being appreciated later made you slide what could have changed your friend's story for good.. The job occupant now that doesn't even know you exist will praise you now... Change o |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by COdeGenesis: 1:45pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:Are u doing it because it's the right thing to do or because you need something in return? If everybody thinks the same way you do, you probably won't even get the link in the first place from your sister. After all, if she gives you the link she wouldn't benefit anytin from u in return |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Cleanworld(f): 1:46pm On Dec 19, 2020*. Modified: 4:23pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:Your have 60% Narcissist traits first job is not directly link to you nor are you working in that office, you ain't even sure if the ladies are qualify or not but you have calculated the end result What if the one you will help now end up being your future helper? don't you known that helping people is like banking for the future espcially when you are not hoping to gain from it. Have it in mind that not all story end up bad...you only get to hear about the bad ones start sowing good seed in people's life and build bridges. My2cent. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by maiquel: 1:46pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Redpill wannabe That's how foolish you people have turned to. You don't want people to call you a simp or a bluepiller. You forget that tables turn, and that blessings comes in different pack and sizes. You denied someone of something beneficial because of one lame belief. He goat... ![]() |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by VEXT: 1:50pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
maiquel:Y e so pain you.... Everyone has the right not to help any one in life.... So free him.... Miss shegoat.. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by hstar: 1:54pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Is alright |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by balingaonline(m): 1:59pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
you have done ur worst already, what concern us with your stupid action. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by alizma: 2:00pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:One small help you can't do, now this will hunt you all through your life. Before you say nothing will hunt you, sebi your sister don fill the space, why do you think you asking us to tell you whether you are right or wrong? The hunting continue |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by stonecoldcafe: 2:01pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:They say black man nor like to help theirselves abroad. Well not all black men but it's kinda easier with Asians. Your own was to help if you could. I'm not sure if you want the ladies to be kissing your feet upndan after the help. Besides they are only friends with no strings attached, so what would you have required from them afterwards on a continuous basis? God Amighty helps us too whether we fail him or not later. Try and be like your heavenly father |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by PisciMan: 2:07pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Stop feeling guilty if you finally helped someone. Let's imagine you picked your bestie, you prolly didn't pick anyone else based on personal reasons. You can't help everybody. You're just a man. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Healthquest: 2:12pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:den y not come drop it here... Redpil or wat De call it s really disturbing u... I derive joy helping pple especially wen De grew to anoda level.... Not necessary I chop but if De gve me fine and if she didn't no pro. It will even increase my ego to boast to her dat, I made u what you are today even though we r not in gud term again. Never try such again. I ve series of babes av helped, some later Carry d toto con gve me ,some get away with it. I remember one dat I use to gve money all d time even though she has said we can't Av anything and I shud only buy her product... On a fateful day, she was too bore and ask we go out to a night show unfortunately we can't go bak to her house cos d gate will b locked by den so we took a walk to my house which is closer to d venue and dats how small touch she say it out dat we can go down. I surprised because I tot she will sleep on d couch while I goto d room but nah, she planned it and now we r bak to only vibe. My conclusion, derive Joy helping people, it will boast your ego not necessary for u to get anything in return |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by maiquel: 2:15pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
VEXT:I'm not pained... if you don't have anything to say just GTFO! Are you him? Why quote me telling me about rights? You're also a male goat. And I'm not a she FYI. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Tyup_ pls my brother has a nursing degree frm unizik & needs the link(he's always wanted t work in uk) call 08162842870 |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:you're very right man |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Dear tyup ! I will only type this once, brother forget the hype by shallow people who think life is all black and white. What you did is bad, very bad! For humanity sake, you call these two your "besties" . Something made them your friends to start with. How would you have felt if a supposed "friend" boycott an opportunity that could have helped your Life? How would you feel if you get to know that a "friend" didn't help you because you are short, tall, dark, light-skinned, big or small head etc? Things you have no control over? You know the irony in this, your friends are oblivious of your actions, you alone bear the guilt and will continue to skip beats anytime you see them. Joke is on you brother! The sad part is, Karma does not necessarily come directly. Who knows a GUY or even your future WIFE may pay you back your coin in the most painful unforgettable way. What's there in sharing a link, they might not have even been selected for the job in the long run, but you would have done your part and have peace. Sometimes I wonder why you all let gender banters get into your heads. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Cleanworld:shut up! how many people did u ever help in your life? |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by seanwilliam(m): 2:24pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Ginaz:make we hear word jare .. ye ye ye.. Ok God wey create people wey Dey sleep under bridges, or mad people wey Dey room about or people with critical medication conditions , or extremely poor people , will you now say God is wicked ? I’ve noted something about naija girls, y’all sabi play victim cards when the game is not in your favor.. and to the bolded no one cares about that .. and I tbh I don’t believe that atall .. Well to the op , you have done well.. I’ll rather feed a dog than to feed naija girls .. even though a dog is an animal , it will forever appreciate me.. And to y’all shouting and blaming the op, even God that created us expects something in return after doing us favor .. and remember Jesus said “ we should act like God’ And we never knew if the said ladies are paying for karma of what they did.. If I was the one, I’ll create a topic on nairaland before the opportunity slips away and I’ll find a sensible guy to give the slot make he travel out go Dey enjoy his life.. Naija ladies are wicked and selfish... they bank on you when they’re � 100% sure they’re winning ... |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Dalil8: 2:32pm On Dec 19, 2020*. Modified: 2:52pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
LadyTianna:Unfortunately that's not how life works. Sometimes, the reward for Bad is Good. Tyup I'm so pleased to hear this, i have sworn never to help anything female in my lifetime, even in the next. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by capitalzero: 2:32pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:It was wrong Do good without expect anything favour in return |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Heavance(m): 2:40pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You should have helped out. When helping, do not expect anything in return, just be good. Just imagine how you would have changed their lives for better, if you had helped out. |
| Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Janet200: 2:40pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You have a bad spirit you need to pray against. Spirit of jealousy. You have done the calculations of how successful they will be but you never had the thought of them helping you in future. You rise by lifting others up. |
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