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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by enonche85(m): 5:09pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You are EVIL man!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:27pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Ablemed:Lol exactly |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:30pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
mrblessed:God bless you exactly he did the right thing, no woman will assist a struggling man, but my men with good heart residing in Europe still come back to Nigeria and carry their old girlfriends only to go to Europe and become monsters, he did the right thing. 5 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Toks2008(m): 5:31pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup: You are wicked. To even think you are not dating any of the ladies that would have suggested any form of fear of breakup so why withold the help? 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:33pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
DukeJoe17:Chai! Just like how I send one girl free 30k in this corona, girl was like is too small, I went to their house and collect my money, I hate ingrate creatures 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 5:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
One of the things that prompt me to make some decisions is putting myself in the shoes of whom i want to help ,perhaps about to help is "Would I be happy if someone hold back something than would have been beneficial to me" Anyday anytime without expecting anything in return, I'll prefer someone who I have relations with to benefits even if I can't; that's why I prefer cutting deals with family and friends than an outsider. |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Blackdisciple(m): 5:38pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Well that you bro, as for me I help and look other side cos I dnt expect sh**t from whom ever I'll help . its just a simple maths help and commot face then make the person do as the thing Pleases him/her. I was expecting you to fear the person not putting your sis in trouble out there that's all |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Bankalert:Atleats now you have learned another lesson 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by AdedoyinO(f): 5:56pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup: I pray all the females in your life get to know about this your stance and belief so they'll know how to relate with you, what to expect from you, and what they can do for you based on your gender. The females I am referring to includes your mum, sisters, aunties, girlfriends, your wife(or wives), your female colleagues and your daughters. The funny thing is another female will get the opportunity you have denied your female friends because about 70 to 80 percent of nurses are women. How do you think your friends will feel if they get to know you denied them an opportunity just because of their gender? They'll continue to be friends with you? I am sure you don't care about that. You care about females not been helped by men because they are 'whores'. Continue to let the vague stories you read on social media influence your decisions and life. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 5:59pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tollyboy5:Lol another lady has shocked your life Abi 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by MummyD2020(f): 6:01pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
AdedoyinO: I wish I can like the last paragraph a million times. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:02pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Lol a man can feed a woman for decades but just a little problem set in and the wife take over for three days she will start treating him as trash or worthless my gender! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by DukeJoe17: 6:09pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Hassanmaye: a girl will never remember what you did for her yesterday if you can't provide for her today's needs and she will go all out to get it either from a long time ex or from a guy she has friend zoning, Don't kill yourself for a woman, learn to put value your money as they value their pussy Kudos to you for going all out to retrieve your hard money from a glutton. your happiness should always come first to avoid disappointment 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by comrChris(m): 6:13pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You've done the deed and you know deep down you that what you did is evil, why asking again? You're simply seeking attention because you know what you did 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Gerrard59(m): 6:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Chai! Nairaland alfa meilsism have spoilt people's minds o. TwitterNG feminists aren't even helping issues sef |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by lanreHeda: 6:36pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
AdedoyinO:But those ladies were not his family na........and you call them vague stories but the fact that numerous men can relate and act on such "vague stories" should tell you something 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by joyousever(f): 6:42pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You would have helped if you really wanted to, irrespective of popular opinion of ingratitude on the part of help recipients. I truly understand your point, because it once happened to me. I helped a random lady who stopped me on my way home from work and asked how her cousin could get a teaching job. I gave her all the necessary answers and even linked her to my office for C V. submission and all.Long story short, she happened to be the so called cousin that needed and got the job, all through my influence. Barely a few months into the job, she turned an enemy. Hmmm...she ended up leaving the job out of frustration on the long run, due to an endless guilt. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Gerrard59(m): 6:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Palema007: Exactly! OP was just unnecessarily wicked. He probably assists people with the condition he gets appreciated either in kind or with money which is a very bad reason to help people. I've assisted lots of females in my life via education or career tips and I had no thought of what OP reasoned about. Thank God for home training, exposure and good education. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nelsizzy(m): 6:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
All I have to say is that we are HUMANS first before Male or Female. You didn't even get the chance to decide your gender. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by themanderon: 6:43pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
The real definition of wickedness. Since you can't cross the bridge burn it down so nobody can. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Rawhumper(m): 6:44pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Ubunja alias greatresearcher at work..... virginprincess: |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by CHoccolaTE: 6:48pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
MummyD2020: Men are worse when it comes to betrayal. They cannot help without demanding something back(usually sexual favours) and if you help them they are very likely to stab you in the back. Do you know there are threads in this same nairaland where males tell each other that it is ok for rich men to dump their wives that stayed with them when they were poor because they dont owe her anything. Omo if you see how the ungrateful shit men were hailing each other on that thread and agreeing with the OP that it's normal to dump their former wife and upgrade to a better one if they become rich in future. Also, I cant count how many girls I knew that were looking for jobs but the males in their lives that could connect them wanted to sleep with them before they help them submit CV. Even a woman begging money for her sick relative from a man will be met with the same demand for sex by that man. NL males are here claiming that men always help women without expecting anything in return. How? On what planet? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Rawhumper(m): 6:49pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
You are partly right bro, ues Nigerian women especially feel entitled to what any good a guy does for them. But if a guy can help and just see it as helping a fellow human, without seeking any form of reward from her...that is maturity bro. Though most of our girls deserve to be left in the dirty GUTTER if you look their attitudes but there are nice ones amongst them, many girls have helped mein life thats why i never fully urge any guy to destroy or harm any lady. quote author=PopSmoke post=97204768]you did the right thing these hoes ain't loyal and they hardly appreciate any help rendered to then [/quote] |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by CHoccolaTE: 6:51pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
lanreHeda: The random men dont help women without expecting sex in return from the women. Na their way be that. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by lanreHeda: 6:55pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:so if your answer is no.....why blaming the OP ?........since you said random men dont help random women |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by CHoccolaTE: 7:00pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
lanreHeda: Where did you see me blame anybody? Can you read at all? |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by lanreHeda: 7:08pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Then leave this random man to as he pleases......and the question was unneccessary as i can obviously read. So as i asked earlier can YOU help random men not your friends and family ? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by AdedoyinO(f): 7:10pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
lanreHeda: Imagine if the ladies in your life, related and non related treat you based on their sad experiences with men and sore stories from other women? You'd not mind being treated like a scum because there's a general belief that 'men are scum'? Right? |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup:You sound like a vile person. May God deliver me and my kids from people like you. You’re not nice at all. Your heart is full of bitterness and evil. Would you have done the interview for them? Would you be the one paying for their visa fees? Would you have paid for their flights? Ordinary vacancy!! There’s lots of nursing/medical jobs and if they’re determined to leave they will anyway, while you will continue to be a nasty piece of work. I’m on the lookout for people like you, malevolent and narcissistic lot |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by lanreHeda: 7:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
AdedoyinO:some women do this already.if you think its not true, ask men around that you are close to |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 7:38pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
tyup: And u actually post this?? |
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by tyup(m): 7:48pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
AdaNri1: On the contrary I'm one of the most nicest and kind guy you'll ever meet. true. but well, you don't have to believe 1 Like |
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