Ablemed:
to me I would say you did nothing wrong....cause investing in a Lady these days is like planting on a Rock expect nothing bountiful Infact expect the Regular words "What has he done that no guy has done Bfr"

I'll leave the matter over to

mrblessed:
You are guilt-stricken because you are a good man, which is something good and commendable. But if it were these ladies who were in a position to render assistance to you, would they assist you? Your guess is good as mine. No lady assists a man, any man, without doing profound calcalation on what such assistance would fetch her. It is my view that you know these ladies very well, and can vouch they are not eligible to be assisted by you. You haven't done any wrong.

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

DukeJoe17:


rugged you niggarr,
anything that you do and same doesn't disturbs your conscience is a right direction,
Most women will never appreciate what you did to them no matter how magnificent it was,
That's why during break-up they'll say, " what have you done for me since I knew you?"
In case you want to help a woman in the future, just know that you are feeding a cat that will surely run far away into the thick forest without looking back.
Even God says He will bless whom he wants to bless.
Bless who you want to bless niggar but don't expect same person to reciprocate else you will badly disappointed
don't allow those ungrateful mofos to make you feel bad, remember your happiness shouldn't be jeopardize (RP)

Bankalert:
While both gender are prone to uncertainties in future, you can't deny it is a natural thing for women. Women feel entitled to your money, your assistance, everything. If he gave them the opportunity and it worked out well, same ladies will ignore him in future, call him a broke guy and even tell him "what did you do for me?" "You were only a tool" bla bla bla...

Nonetheless, only render help as long as your feel comfortable with it to both genders.

I borrowed a lady a sum of money last week to help her broke corper sister. She promised to pay back the next day or the following week. The following week has ended and she does not want to pay up the money after calling her about three times for it. Is this what we expect to get when we help ladies? I swore in the past never to borrow a lady money and i decided to make an exception for her(she is not a close friend sef) .

Now she just made me realised helping ladies(not sisters, mothers, or even girlfriends) is not worth it 95% of the time. They always feel entitled to it!

tyup:


whatever y'all got to think is solely ur business and heartburn not mine

I still maintain the stand that if such opportunity comes up and there's no Guy/male to fill in I'm helping no female. go Bleep urself

tollyboy5:

What about ex that billed life out of someone?

A female friend has also shocked me also. I don't do too much for ladies. Note I'm not expecting anything either

AdedoyinO:


I pray all the females in your life get to know about this your stance and belief so they'll know how to relate with you, what to expect from you, and what they can do for you based on your gender.

The females I am referring to includes your mum, sisters, aunties, girlfriends, your wife(or wives), your female colleagues and your daughters.

The funny thing is another female will get the opportunity you have denied your female friends because about 70 to 80 percent of nurses are women.

How do you think your friends will feel if they get to know you denied them an opportunity just because of their gender? They'll continue to be friends with you? I am sure you don't care about that. You care about females not been helped by men because they are 'whores'.

Continue to let the vague stories you read on social media influence your decisions and life.

Martinez39s:
I thought I was the only one that didn't believe her bullśhit story. I don't trust the stories or words that come out of a woman's mouth without evidence because they are full of śhit, and to boldly speak the lie as if it is the truth is their speciality.

As for the ladies shouting "it will soon be the OP's turn" or "karma is real" should swear that they will help a close man friend before a female acquaintance. How many guys have they helped without looking for something in return?

Hassanmaye:

Chai! Just like how I send one girl free 30k in this corona, girl was like is too small, I went to their house and collect my money, I hate ingrate creatures

AdedoyinO:


I pray all the females in your life get to know about this your stance and belief so they'll know how to relate with you, what to expect from you, and what they can do for you based on your gender.

The females I am referring to includes your mum, sisters, aunties, girlfriends, your wife(or wives), your female colleagues and your daughters.

The funny thing is another female will get the opportunity you have denied your female friends because about 70 to 80 percent of nurses are women.

How do you think your friends will feel if they get to know you denied them an opportunity just because of their gender? They'll continue to be friends with you? I am sure you don't care about that. You care about females not been helped by men because they are 'whores'.

Continue to let the vague stories you read on social media influence your decisions and life.

Palema007:
Dear tyup !

I will only type this once, brother forget the hype by shallow people who think life is all black and white. What you did is bad, very bad! For humanity sake, you call these two your "besties" . Something made them your friends to start with. How would you have felt if a supposed "friend" boycott an opportunity that could have helped your Life? How would you feel if you get to know that a "friend" didn't help you because you are short, tall, dark, light-skinned, big or small head etc? Things you have no control over?

You know the irony in this, your friends are oblivious of your actions, you alone bear the guilt and will continue to skip beats anytime you see them. Joke is on you brother! The sad part is, Karma does not necessarily come directly. Who knows a GUY or even your future WIFE may pay you back your coin in the most painful unforgettable way.

What's there in sharing a link, they might not have even been selected for the job in the long run, but you would have done your part and have peace. Sometimes I wonder why you all let gender banters get into your heads.

virginprincess:
Chai, redpill has spoilt this one's brain. .

MummyD2020:


You are right when you said they have not seen life. Wickedness goes both ways and I can relate that's why i am so surprised that people are demonising women like this. Do u guys know how many guys i have been opportuned to assist? Even my own male cousin too stooped so low to defraud me. So I'm not saying it just to garner likes. Who cares biko nu It goes both ways. That's my point

lanreHeda:
you said husbands and boyfriends...meaning y'all help your loved ones and family.........we talking about random men which you would not benefit from if you help them. have you helped any of such people.......

CHoccolaTE:


The random men dont help women without expecting sex in return from the women. Na their way be that.

lanreHeda:
so if your answer is no.....why blaming the OP ?........since you said random men dont help random women

CHoccolaTE:


Where did you see me blame anybody? Can you read at all?

lanreHeda:
But those ladies were not his family na........and you call them vague stories but the fact that numerous men can relate and act on such "vague stories" should tell you something

tyup:


Thanks man, normally helping girls have always been a big issue to me, stories heard, lessons learn et al. my biggest wish was that I had a guy that fit in but none was

AdedoyinO:


Imagine if the ladies in your life, related and non related treat you based on their sad experiences with men and sore stories from other women?

You'd not mind being treated like a scum because there's a general belief that 'men are scum'? Right?

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

AdaNri1:
You sound like a vile person. May God deliver me and my kids from people like you. You’re not nice at all. Your heart is full of bitterness and evil.
Would you have done the interview for them?
Would you be the one paying for their visa fees?
Would you have paid for their flights?
Ordinary vacancy!! There’s lots of nursing/medical jobs and if they’re determined to leave they will anyway, while you will continue to be a nasty piece of work. I’m on the lookout for people like you, malevolent and narcissistic lot