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TheHulk616:
again if you can talk to many people you are not an introvert.

Introverts are shy, and we need help. But since fake introverts are saying its OK, so how can true introvert such as myself find help?

Michaelcas:
they're not really shy, if you're shy, work on yourself esteem, that has absolutely nothing to do with introversion, being shy means you want to work with other people but can't because you can't approach them, that has nothing to do with loving your own space to the death

TheHulk616:
that's the point, if my self esteem becomes high, i wouldn't be an introvert again

Liliantalks:
I don’t see a problem with it , if it’s with someone I care about. if I know it’s an irrelevant conversation, i won’t pick up, it’s not because I don’t like calls or can’t pick calls . It just has to be with the right person. Texting sometimes is stressful , I don’t even reply fast enough.

Michaelcas:
myself, i mostly ignore calls except it's something too important, most times i ignore all except you text me

We have a Whatsapp group by the way, Whatsapp me +2348134656117 to add you to the Introverts Lounge Whatsapp group.

Michaelcas:
myself, i mostly ignore calls except it's something too important, most times i ignore all except you text me

jkuvira:
that's peculiar to just you. Introverts don't ignore calls or texts

jkuvira:
that's peculiar to just you. Introverts don't ignore calls or texts

tot:
It's a known fact that introverts are not at all fans of phone calls. This image captures it perfectly, lol.

Apt...

tot:
It's a known fact that introverts are not at all fans of phone calls. This image captures it perfectly, lol.

DivineGrace123:
Apt...

Jobia:
funny

Apus:
Says who?

Most phone calls involve chit-chats and small talks which introverts like myself hate. I always advice people to send messages instead. Most times I only pick calls if it is official or from any of my immediate family

Michaelcas:
actually most intoverted peeps don't like calls, you can call and call, they won't pick up, you wanna talk, you better text

TheHulk616:
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you are not an introvert

Windflower:
Actually it is not like introverted people don't like phone calls. It depends on three things; who is the person calling; what's my mood like; and what does the person have to say.
There are times I have ignored someone's call or had to chat them in return because they called at a time when I was having my alone time and didn't feel like talking. There are times I have also talked on the phone for hours with my close friends.

iamyemiakins:
Let's set the record straight!

Like, If you're just an Introvert.
Share, If you're an Introvert with social anxiety.

jkuvira:
that's peculiar to just you. Introverts don't ignore calls or texts

Jobia:
who made you introvert police?

Windflower:
Actually it is not like introverted people don't like phone calls. It depends on three things; who is the person calling; what's my mood like; and what does the person have to say.
There are times I have ignored someone's call or had to chat them in return because they called at a time when I was having my alone time and didn't feel like talking. There are times I have also talked on the phone for hours with my close friends.

Scholar94:
It's being a while here . There are so much going on here but I was particularly caught up by the argument on whether Introvert like Phone calls or not.

Phone calls itself are not what introverts hate rather it is the reasons for making or receiving the calls. As an introvert, I only make calls when it is very important or urgent. I'll prefer to talk to you via chat or messages if it it is not a really an urgent conversation. However, I am not in the habit of not picking people's calls. In fact I don't hesitate to call back when I miss phone calls. For me it's really a bad habit and not associated with introversion not to pick someone's call deliberately.

Liliantalks:
who made u introvert police too ? Or who made the person u are supporting introvert police . Hypocrites

Olarewajub:
@ Liamm . Do you have hard time starting a conversation with strangers and asking questions?

Reuben700:
Yeah for being an introvert is quite scary to me especially shyness I can’t look at people eye ball to eye ball it so sad but believe me I don’t have to engage in much talk but believe me I believe in respect I believe that instead of me to be known as a great talker while can’t I be known as a very respected person so I have to hustle in order to achieve results

Liliantalks:
that’s ur thing , not an introvert thing please.