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Misslilbootay:
I have this friend of mine that recently had sex with her boyfriend. She was a virgin until she slept with him.
The thing is she had been in two relationships prior to this but she was fortunate enough to keep herself until her recent relationship.

Now after sex, the guy claimed she wasn't a virgin because she didn't bleed. Secondly, ever since she had sex with him, she had been peeing on herself.

My question is to the ladies, Is bleeding that important during the first sex of a female?

Also, they have broken up because of this issue. Do you think she should get back with the guy and try to get him to trust her?

Bornu1stSon:
Her inability to hold urine can be traced to "She still feel like having sex or the satisfaction she got is still stuck on her mind"

Trust me, when you are full, You get sexually aroused somehow. If you can't control yourself, it will overwhelmed you.

Donspicey:
Nawaooo.....

The matter deep oooo.....


Sometin need to be done both medically and spiritually bfr its too late.....


Tell her to open up to u so u can know wia to start frm.....

There is more to what she ve told u.....

Misslilbootay:
I have this friend of mine that recently had sex with her boyfriend. She was a virgin until she slept with him.
The thing is she had been in two relationships prior to this but she was fortunate enough to keep herself until her recent relationship.

Now after sex, the guy claimed she wasn't a virgin because she didn't bleed. Secondly, ever since she had sex with him, she had been peeing on herself.

My question is to the ladies, Is bleeding that important during the first sex of a female?

Also, they have broken up because of this issue. Do you think she should get back with the guy and try to get him to trust her?

Misslilbootay:
So she would be urinating on herself in public because she wants to have sex?

Bornu1stSon:
She urinates at night. Some are sensitive than others

Tell her to learn how to control her sexual urge

Lawliet:
Have sense guy

Bornu1stSon:
You too. Why do you people pea when the sex is intense ?

Misslilbootay:
this may be related to urinary tract infections....tell her not to be ashame discussing it with a doctor either Male or female, delay may be dangerous

She pees on herself involuntarily even in public. Like a baby

Misslilbootay:
She pees on herself involuntarily even in public. Like a baby

Maczeeh:
Regarding the bleeding issue,not all ladies bleed after their first sex.It varies from women to women,the hymen is just a thin tissue layer.Why it is common for most women to bleed, sometimes the bleeding may be very noticeable,sometimes it might be a small whitish fluid or even a tint of blood that is barely noticeable(in this case most guys find it hard to believe that the lady is a virgin).Medicially,a woman can lose her hymen without any sexual penetration due to a lot of factors including strenuous exercise,even our bad roads can affect.
However if you are a really attentive guy which I am sure the above person bf is not you will notice that that is first sex whether she bleeds or not.
About the urinary issue,some ladies face this problem after their first sex.The urinary bladder,vagina,cervix are actually close.That is why most pregnant women urinate a lot due to the pressure of the baby on the bladder.
My guesses are:
The sex was done without lube or oil,or the guy wasnt really experienced or patient with her leading to a painful sex and affecting her urinary control or inability to hold urine.
The worst case scenario will be that a urinary tract infection was transmitted to her during the process.She should probably see a doctor preferably a specialist(gynaecologist) for quick treatment before complications arise.
THIS WHY SEXUAL EDUCATION AND COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT .DON'T JUST RUSH INTO IT. DON'T BE SHY OR AFRAID TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT YOUR N
EDS.

My advice as a gynaecologist.
HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL!!!

Misslilbootay:
I have this friend of mine that recently had sex with her boyfriend. She was a virgin until she slept with him.
The thing is she had been in two relationships prior to this but she was fortunate enough to keep herself until her recent relationship.

Now after sex, the guy claimed she wasn't a virgin because she didn't bleed. Secondly, ever since she had sex with him, she had been peeing on herself even in public.

My question is to the ladies, Is bleeding that important during the first sex of a female?

Also, they have broken up because of this issue. Do you think she should get back with the guy and try to get him to trust her?

Bornu1stSon:
You too. Why do you people pea when the sex is intense ?

timibare:
OP my advice for you is to visit any Tradomedical hospital....I think you guy has used you to cash out.....

ednut1:
We know its you lol

Misslilbootay:
I am not the one. I lost my virginity a long time ago and I bled

Misslilbootay:
That's another angle. Thanks

Anfield247:
I love ur honesty! My dear, you can only trust yourself! Before I continue, how long have you known this friend of yours?

DMerciful:
Does your friend ride bicycle? Why are you making it seems it's a possibility?