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heartofcity12:
we are not getting married to ex runs girls.

Pandev:
man, do give us some insight on 'green light'. I, particularly am not very good in recognizing it.

Pandev:
man, do give us some insight on 'green light'. I, particularly am not very good in recognizing it.

Dannnn:
I want to believe most redpillers are open-minded folks, and if you are, please try and read "The Satanic Witch" by Anton Lavey.
The Human Animal has two sides; The ONE it shows to the world and The ONE it carries within itself.
Your interest should be in the one it is hiding from the world(THE OTHER SIDE, THE DARK SIDE).

Krrt576:
Brothers number 10 and 11 should be written on your palm with a knife so that you can remind your self every day. Guys with tears in my eyes pls and pls DO NOT SAVE A DAMAGE WOMAN You will pay with your life, career, future ambitions, peace of mind etc etc etc if you attempt to be her savior. I don't know who needs to hear this I have said my own

Danycrusoe:
I didn't know too, I deleted her contacts tho we meet at work, someone saw pictures and sent to me.

CaveAdullam:
NB: With Green light alone you will get fewer women around you, compare to when you are a pick up artist. The former is highly important when you need to commit and the later when you need to exercise your sexual prowess. It is better you go for a woman that choose you (well armed with the vetting parameters) because she's highly invested and can easily submit, than the one you selected from your "whoring" adventures. Lol!

However, the amount of green light you received is directly proportional to the height of your sexual market value, your stance in the society's totem pole and the place you occupy in the pyramid--upper echelon with top tiers men e.g Politicians, Celebrities, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Inventors, etc. It is also dependent on the environment you place yourself. Pastors, youth leaders, choirmasters, have access to women because in their environment(church) women are in a plethora.

Green lights are abundant where women are abundant or where your high value is shining resplendently. Green lights can be direct or indirect, but irrespectively, watch out for the following signs. However, these are few and not comprising of all.

She always touch you.

Call you pet names.

Lean on you.

Want to be around you.

Always text/call you.

Respect you in public.

Always listen to you.

Always seek your advice.

Relates her personal secrets with you.

Don't pick offence easily even when you deliberately wrong her.

Always want to play with you.

Bridge: the above can also be similar to the friendzone, then, to be able to bye pass it and fully know if it is a "potential" greenlight;

She allows you to touch her freely or resist slightly when you touch her on her bo*bs and as*.

Allow you to rub her tummy. You can easily turn her on if you are very good with the tummy game.

Uses her bo*bs to brush you.

She makes sexual jokes.

She eager to sit on your legs.

She doesn't get angry when you peck or kiss her.

She eagers to come visit you.

Eager to cook for you.

Eager to want you taste her food.

Eager to share in your work.

She's jealous when you add/mention another woman in the triangle.

She allow you to lift her by placing your hands on her as*.

The key point: if she doesn't reject any of your sexual advances just know she's into you. And you must also be good in the understanding of body language and most especially reading people's intents from their eyes.

Authority: For love/marriage, let a woman choose you, but for lust, you can decide to go fishing yourself.

PS: green light guarantees high investment, high submission, high respect. But it doesn't in anyway guarantees that a woman will stick to you forever, because hypergamy is an inherent female nature. Although, the relationship can tarry for a long time depending on your frame.

baiaon:
@Emboldened Nothing new there.She wanted his kidney and she got it.What else did she need him for?Nothing.Life goes on.Are you a man searching for love and loyalty?Forget women and get a dog

CAPSLOCKED:
OGA,
IF YOU LIKE GIVE HER YOUR HEAD, LUNGS AND KIDNEYS. THE DAY SHE'LL LEAVE SHE'LL GO WITH THE GUY THAT GAVE HER ORDINARY GALA, AND PROVIDE ENOUGH NONSENSE EXCUSES TO JUSTIFY HER ACTION.
THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. MARTINEZ39S SAYS FEMALE NATURE IS UNIVERSAL, SO DON'T THINK THERE'S ANYTHING YOU CAN DO IN THIS WORLD MAKE HER YOURS FOREVER. THEY'LL ALWAYS LEAVE FOR PETTY REASONS SO WHY GO THROUGH VOLCANOES AND HELL FOR WORTHLESS SOULS?

Karleb:
Did you know that these girls get paid to humiliate their client by thesame client?

Some men don't deserve their peniis.

CaveAdullam:
NB: With Green light alone you will get fewer women around you, compare to when you are a pick up artist. The former is highly important when you need to commit and the later when you need to exercise your sexual prowess. It is better you go for a woman that choose you (well armed with the vetting parameters) because she's highly invested and can easily submit, than the one you selected from your "whoring" adventures. Lol!

However, the amount of green light you received is directly proportional to the height of your sexual market value, your stance in the society's totem pole and the place you occupy in the pyramid--upper echelon with top tiers men e.g Politicians, Celebrities, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Inventors, etc. It is also dependent on the environment you place yourself. Pastors, youth leaders, choirmasters, have access to women because in their environment(church) women are in a plethora.

Green lights are abundant where women are abundant or where your high value is shining resplendently. Green lights can be direct or indirect, but irrespectively, watch out for the following signs. However, these are few and not comprising of all.

She always touch you.

Call you pet names.

Lean on you.

Want to be around you.

Always text/call you.

Respect you in public.

Always listen to you.

Always seek your advice.

Relates her personal secrets with you.

Don't pick offence easily even when you deliberately wrong her.

Always want to play with you.

Bridge: the above can also be similar to the friendzone, then, to be able to bye pass it and fully know if it is a "potential" greenlight;

She allows you to touch her freely or resist slightly when you touch her on her bo*bs and as*.

Allow you to rub her tummy. You can easily turn her on if you are very good with the tummy game.

Uses her bo*bs to brush you.

She makes sexual jokes.

She eager to sit on your legs.

She doesn't get angry when you peck or kiss her.

She eagers to come visit you.

Eager to cook for you.

Eager to want you taste her food.

Eager to share in your work.

She's jealous when you add/mention another woman in the triangle.

She allow you to lift her by placing your hands on her as*.

The key point: if she doesn't reject any of your sexual advances just know she's into you. And you must also be good in the understanding of body language and most especially reading people's intents from their eyes.

Authority: For love/marriage, let a woman choose you, but for lust, you can decide to go fishing yourself.

PS: green light guarantees high investment, high submission, high respect. But it doesn't in anyway guarantees that a woman will stick to you forever, because hypergamy is an inherent female nature. Although, the relationship can tarry for a long time depending on your frame.

automantle:
Please I need a copy of the book, who can help

CuteRat:
(Man A) cheated with his close friend's wife, is (Man A) bluepilled or redpilled?

CuteRat:
I have a question,

Some guys here said a man shouldn't fight or turn his back against another man over a woman (in case of the woman cheating), because the woman is to be blamed for breaching commitment with her initial partner.

So I want to ask, what if the man who cheated with your woman is your best Friend or a very close one. I.e you have a sort of commitment as friends. Should you turn your back against your said male friend because he broke a commitment you both had, or keep him or reward him because he made you realise your woman is a biiish. just as Julius Caesar did? What if Caesar had trust in his subject before the subject cheated with his wife, what would you do if you were to be the Caesar? Reward your subject?

Not forgetting a Friend who could betray his friend because of a woman could also betray a friend when it comes to other deals. Should we still keep this kind of friends?

waywardpikin:
Dear Diary,

Chase Money, Not Women

Men spend the entirety of their short lives planning and scheming on ways to bag both. I am most definitely guilty myself. Being the humanitarian that I am, I want to share with you a secret — or shortcut, if you will — you need to stop chasing women. Stick to chasing money solely. Chase money and you’ll never be short of beautiful women to indulge in. If you bank it, they will come.

As the great lyriscist Nas once said: “You lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.” The man knew exactly what he was talking about; it is impossible for you to chase both at the same time and have it turn out exactly how you want it.

All the smart men who came before us knows, as Tony Montana in “Scarface” explains, first you get the money, then you get the power and then you get the women. It’s about having your focus on the right thing, your success, which will ultimately culminate in money and women — beautiful women — because that 19-year-old Bulgarian model on your yacht isn’t really in it for your personality.

The saying “kill two birds with one stone” could not ring truer. The sad truth is that most of us are extraordinarily materialistic. Of course, not everyone, but you don’t need to sleep with every woman in the world, 75% of them will have to suffice.

Chasing women, in all honesty, is never the answer — to anything. The days when men would court women are far gone and forgotten. The only options available these days are to either go on the prowl from bar to bar, club to club, or to become a successful version of you that will resonate as a mating call bringing all the high heeled, round-tushed gazelles bounding towards your direction.

Logic is man’s best friend — it will help you avoid doing a bunch of dumb poo. All that you have is thought and action. Nothing more. Life being as short and sweet as it is, it is your job as a person — a person with high aspirations I hope — to minimize the time and energy you waste. Doing so will allow you to free up time to focus on things that are most important to you which is of course building your legacy and making the money.

Why waste time doing stuff when you can be efficient and complete multiple tasks with one action? You want a massage and an orgasm? Go get a happy-ending rub and tug. You want to grab a bite to eat, have a drink and look at some Unclad women? Go to an upscale strip club. You want to Bleep beautiful woman and live like a goddamn rock star? Become rich and successful. Simple.

Chasing women not only will leave you holding your dick in your hand, it will also leave you looking like a fool. Keep in mind that the dating game is one big mind-Bleep. I’m not referring to the lies that some men tell women just to get into their sweet spot; I’m talking about the fact that every time that you meet a women you are basically putting on an act, a show not only in front of her but in front of everyone else you know as well.

No man (or woman) is ever completely himself when he first meets someone to whom he is attracted. Whether it’s human nature or the effects that society has had on our thinking is irrelevant, the truth remains that no person allows himself to be completely transparent to anyone new. It’s a defense mechanism that we all use because we are scared of rejection.

That being said — I will also tell you this: women don’t want to be chased. They want to play games; they want to be mind-bleeped. All the women reading this are probably shaking their heads in opposition. Stop it; you look like bobble head dolls.

Women may not understand the workings of their own minds, but I’m cocky enough to say that I do. As soon as you start chasing a woman, she will lose interest in you — instantly as well as the money you want to make. Being chased is boring.

Women want to feel needed, wanted, but they also need to be entertained. Women need to come to the conclusion themselves that they will need to put in a bit of effort in order to have the pleasure of sucking
your dick. If you just approach them with your fly open, she’ll just point, laugh and walk away.

So stop chasing. Let them come to you instead. No woman — I repeat — no woman can find a successful, wealthy man unattractive. Being successful is universally attractive. Being wealthy is universally attractive. Focus on yourself, work diligently, hustle like the player you are, make that dough and I promise you that you’ll have to beat them off with a stick.

Or, if you’re smart like me, you either schedule them across empty pockets in your planner or invite them all over to your penthouse for a tickle-fest, pillow-fight Fun. If you’re worried that your apartment isn’t large enough then don’t forget that you are now a millionaire and won’t be living in the hole in the wall that you currently call home. Work on you and you’ll have more women working on you than you know what to do with. Happy pimping.

Lastly, life comes down to prioritizing. The people that become successful are the ones that know how to weed out any distraction that they have in their lives. Women are a distraction to men, sex is distraction to men and they have the power to derail our progress.

Friends of mine who are extremely successful now have told me when they started their businesses, they gave up sex for a year. Sure you can laugh at them, but trust me they’re laughing at you now from 35,000 feet in the air getting cocaine snorted of their dicks.

#copied

XOXO

Wayward Pikin.

CaveAdullam:
Correct.

But, as a man, always be ready and prepared for her, because women are like weeds; appearing where they are least expected, and fluctuates like the stock market---they are like black swans. Be prepare to lose her; and if adequately prepared, you won't suffer the heart break much.

The lady below has been married for 7 years, with 3 beautiful kids, and a seminar which didn't lasted for 24 hours automatically resets her brain.

Authority: see women as an attachment; not as a goal or purpose.

CuteRat:
(Man A) cheated with his close friend's wife, is (Man A) bluepilled or redpilled?

CuteRat:
I have a question,

Some guys here said a man shouldn't fight or turn his back against another man over a woman (in case of the woman cheating), because the woman is to be blamed for breaching commitment with her initial partner.

So I want to ask, what if the man who cheated with your woman is your best Friend or a very close one. I.e you have a sort of commitment as friends. Should you turn your back against your said male friend because he broke a commitment you both had, or keep him or reward him because he made you realise your woman is a biiish. just as Julius Caesar did? What if Caesar had trust in his subject before the subject cheated with his wife, what would you do if you were to be the Caesar? Reward your subject?

Not forgetting a Friend who could betray his friend because of a woman could also betray a friend when it comes to other deals. Should we still keep this kind of friends?

yahjac:
there are 2 types of women that gives you the green light.
1 the ones that like/love you.
2 the ones on their own sexual adventure(it's not only men that have their own sexual adventures)


how do you differentiate?

there are girls that truely like you but they would rather die than make the first move (they seem more traditional).

CaveAdullam:
Greenlight is for sexual adventure regardless of whether a woman like/love you or whether she's a wh0re. The mission of both is letting you have access to their body. But in the case of the former she may want you to posses her, while for the later, she might be there for fun or to gold dig you. For these reasons I stated in the post you mentioned: "always be armed with your vetting parameters". Green light varies and you must be very smart in decoding it. It is very easy to decode. Take for example:

I was moving from a particular state in Nigeria to another state last week Wednesday, the side of the bus I was sitting down has 2 in 1 seat, I and a very young lady shared the seat and she was very responsive when we started talking. The cap I was wearing already signified high value, but I had to progress with the normal rapport bla bla bla.

Beside me, was another young lady, though older than the first who was doing her own thing. I first saw her when I entered the bus, wanted to open but her body language signified that she will not easily be respond; she was serious from her facial outlook, and looked disappointed. On our way, our bus developed mechanical faults and the driver had to call another driver from the park to come pick us. Everyone came down from the bus......... meanwhile, before this time, me and my seat mate has progress farther in gisting and having little fun.

Now, the new bus arrived, I entered my position waiting for other passengers to transfer their belongings from the previous bus to this new one. Guess what? That lady that was forming seriousness gave me her sweater and phone to hold for her as she go transfer her belongings......... this is green light. The rest is history.

The key to demystifying green lights is you first having a proper understanding of the female nature, body language and reading people's inner motives from their actions and eyes. Don't mind what people say; people are what they do.

No woman that really like/love you will let her intentions go unnoticed without sending green lights. It is impossible! It is either you're unable to decode it or have doubts about it. No matter her godly a woman is, once she sees a man she loves, she will definitely send him signals, it is then left for the man what he can make do with the signals.

For your information, hardly any woman will walk up to you and make direct approach. Don't even wait for it because they are outliers. According to Ubunja: she invites; you initiate. The reason is because they feel less value if they outrightly initiate and because men has been bastardized by the chasing syndrome, they won't really appreciate what they didn't worked for---a common trait among humans though.

The green light is an invitation, and your response is your initiation. Your initiation now seems like a chase, of which is not, but it will make her feel so, and you will do little or nothing to please her, so far you maintain frame and continually boost your value.

Thanks.

Compguy:
Read "Think and Grow" rich by Napoleon Hills.You can just skip to Sexual Transmutation(Chapter 11 or 13) I think you'll find ur answer there

luminouz:
Today? And you no invite us?

I for carry plane come eat better soup na


On a serious note: She wants a stable man(which translated to be rich or loaded to cater for her needs),height,weight and looks are mostly discarded in favour of ego,kudi and owo. Most women marry who is ready,not who they love. Reason why their exes can still get the coochie after her wedding.

It's just the hard and bitter truth y'all!!!

ichidodo:
Tis because of sh**t like this we say death to simps or Simphood is a disorder or simphood is dangerous to mankind.....You can't be redpilled when going on a hunt you snag an elephant then whilst taking your kill home on your head, you become daft and use the toes on your feet to scramble for measly ground nuts on the forest floor with that heavy load on your head...FYI, Rapists, sexual predators, paedophiles, etc are a product of a dysfunction premeditated, engendered, catalyzed and bred by simpism...What do you call a guy who spends disproportionately on Pucci? Now, what do you call a guy who is liable or who sacrifices his sacred friendships, freedom, even his life for a f**king Pucci?!.... That's a motherf**king Simp, My Friend..[/b][/color]

Joker09:
You're very intelligent, all you have been saying is facts and I can relate. I'm really interested in this 'greenlight' of a thing, coz I have a recent experience about it lately.
I went out to buy a stuff somewhere few days ago, this girl started looking at me the moment I got there and she wouldn't remove her eyes. I thought I was imagining it until I looked again and we lurked eyes for almost 15 seconds or more, then I realized this was an 'extreme greenlight'. Immediately I moved close to her and initiated a conversation, she seemed very excited to meet me and we exhanged contacts, in fact she was smiling and she still touched me. Mind you, I hadn't even had my shower that morning and I wasn't wearing the best of clothe, I know I'm goodlooking to a fault, but this girl looks like these so-called expensive girls, she had an expensive hair and nails on and she's very beautiful, I'm still wondering what could make her do such move because we know how girls are these days(especially the ones that look like this), they're always looking for rich guys or guys that look flashy. I'm doing well on my own tho, I have my crib and my small car but I won't spend a dime on any girl I'm not dating except on date. I haven't even called her, I only texted her once because I don't want to be played. Why I used the word 'played' is that I've had experience once when a girl showed greenlight, she eventually billed me, she insisted that I must pay before we can have sex when she came to my house and I realized she was a prostitute/runs girl, I had to chase that one out of my house. I don't want the same thing to happen with this girl. Also I'm feeling she could be thinking I'm one of those simp ballers that waste monies on her types, when she gets to know me and realize that I'm not one of the ballers, I feel she may start ignoring me and I wouldn't like that at all. Don't blame me for thinking like this, there are just too many hoes and simps nowadays, we don't know the girls with genuine intentions anymore. She's very cute and all but I'm not making any move yet, she has my number and I want to believe if she has a very high interest in me, she'll call me or text me at some point. Or should I call her?

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Trouble dey sleep jejely...Inyanga come go wake am... This here is your first sh*t test..Sometimes we wonder if there is a unicorn out there amongst the female folk of nowadays, that's why we "thanklessly" take the plunge knowing fully well the cost of our time, money and efforts it will expend and all for what?....That cute face?...That f**king pussy?! All of these just gets us into sh**ts we never envisage for? Sh**ts that can tank promising careers,potentials Heck even destinies. My people say If you must eat a toad, you gotta eats a very fat one..I for one, if given a green light... The numbers (not the pussy) must come correct..does she have a job, business even assets? will she be emotionally moved over basic not expensive tokens of affections and what not etc...I understand her biological clock is ticking thus her need for a man, hypergamy and sh*t but If I surrender the keys of commitment to her via giving in to her green lighting then The Numbers most definitely has to come correct....[/color]

luminouz:
This is just what I don't like. Tolerating indiscipline and bad behaviour. Once she did that shiit and you begged once,she would do it again but put her in her place firmly and no budging no matter what she does,shows you know your value as a man and you have boundaries.

Most of them usually suddenly become relationship counselor or motivation speakers of Jack Ma status. They can post 12M messages on WhatsApp daily,hoping you will see one or two and have a rethink. Once, I decide on my mind to discipline bad behaviour and I send you out, these scenarios play out

The first day/week

1. She acts tough...
2. She behaves as if she doesn't need you and makes a hundred posts on SM
3. She acts like she is over you but strange numbers always seem to suddenly pop up on your phone.
4. You maintain your frame and never call or text her back or even check her statuses

The second week

1. She either calls you back with her main line or sends 'i miss you' messages
2. She begs to come back
3. She repeats 2 above and may include her friends or family
4. If you take her back, she would RINSE AND REPEAT the process, driving you into a vicious emotional cycle.

My advice: Emotionally unstable people drain you of life and energy. It's best you let them slide and never take them back. Just take care of your kids@OP.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Trouble dey sleep jejely...Inyanga come go wake am... This here is your first sh*t test..Sometimes we wonder if there is a unicorn out there amongst the female folk of nowadays, that's why we "thanklessly" take the plunge knowing fully well the cost of our time, money and efforts it will expend and all for what?....That cute face?...That f**king pussy?! All of these just gets us into sh**ts we never envisage for? Sh**ts that can tank promising careers,potentials Heck even destinies. My people say If you must eat a toad, you gotta eats a very fat one..I for one, if given a green light... The numbers (not the pussy) must come correct..does she have a job, business even assets? will she be emotionally moved over basic not expensive tokens of affections and what not etc...I understand her biological clock is ticking thus her need for a man, hypergamy and sh*t but If I surrender the keys of commitment to her via giving in to her green lighting then The Numbers most definitely has to come correct....[/color]