Exc2000:


She is an Adult and makes her own money, she earns salary 4 times higher than her husbands Salary.. she is free to take a loan to celebrate her daughter's birthday.. failure to pay back is the only issue here

If she was living off her husband's income or her mother in law, then it's another thing, but here is a woman working and you don't want her to spend as she wants

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general111:
you will slap your own mother for slapping you?
Good for you

Preshmane:


remember, the husband didn't go against her celebrating her daughter's birthday but she brought shame to the family when her friend come shouting in their house..

newdawn2017:
Yes I will. All those nonsense abuse I endured from her hands when I was a helpless child dependent on her for survival & she was narcissistic to me, I will no more take it in my adult life.

Exc2000:


A sensible Elderly woman, peacefully advises her grown up Daughter in law after the debtor goes, on why she should not spend like that, and not slap her

This same scenario happened in Canada, the Wife is white, the Man his black, his Mother came around from Nigeria and rudely treated the white wife, immediately the wife called in cops, and both the mother and the son got kicked out of the house, as the mortgage was in her name


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khia:


You're not a man.

Kamdil:
Hmmmn!


Your wife was wrong, not justifying your mums rage,but your mum is just like a mother to her too. If her mum slaps her,would she retaliate?

She is a very ruthless,mannerless,and inconsiderate wife who you are not supposed to marry In the first place.
But drop the divorce idea ,and sort our your differences. .

tasalanoni:


T[s]his is the most foolish thing I've read this year. Her mother in-law dished the first slap and the young woman was supposed to return a smile. Nigerian Mother in -laws take their mad quest for power to their sons homes and always forget the boundary lines..FYI, I'm a single man and when I finally settle, I'm never gonna condone any show of disrespect by wife to my mum but if my mum lowers her bridge of selfrespect, l'd graciously watch her bear the brunt.
As for the birthday party squabble that caused this show of shame, the man could have sorted it out with the wife without the nasty mother-in-law getting involved to that point..[/s]

BlueAir:
. Imagine.The fact she went behind his back to incur debt! And expected him to pay it off isn't crap!! If she wanted a king's party within and outside her means,then she should incur it on her account or why drag the husband into her own misery! The fact that she has the mind to slap his mother and may have been disrespecting him before this incident isn't crap?! The fact that u pussy unwashed niggas believes shes entitled to drive the family anyhow she wants,because she reimburse him sometimes isn't crrap? And she also thinks the same hence the mind to slap her husband's mother! Wahala for man wey no get manhood.. don't blame you guys tho,too much of chasing and submitting to pussyy nowadays don dey cloud y'all reasoning

Exc2000:


A sensible Elderly woman, peacefully advises her grown up Daughter in law after the debtor goes, on why she should not spend like that, and not slap her

This same scenario happened in Canada, the Wife is white, the Man his black, his Mother came around from Nigeria and rudely treated the white wife, immediately the wife called in cops, and both the mother and the son got kicked out of the house, as the mortgage was in her name


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cooooooks:
Clap for yourself. If and when you marry or even with a gf, call all your family members to be slapping her daily.

That will be her breakfast. Cornflakes and slap.

BlueAir:
You don run of sensible argument so quick?

cooooooks:
You did not make much sense in your reply sir.

You devolved into craziness.

Men need to stand up for themselves and get into this century. Marriage is and should be a partnership.

Men should not attempt to buy love, it won't work.
Men should not try to provide all the finances, they are just seeking an early grave.
Men should not even be paying bride price, it is a partnership not a cow market.

Men who do the above cannot now stay akimbo like idiots while their mothers slap their partners-wives.

Of course they should not slap their moms, that is insane; but they should not retaliate against their wives (partners) who defend themselves. That is, as you say, 'pussy-ass-nigga' behaviour.

Bennysam:

If her mother slap her will she retaliate?

sorepco:
The mum is at fault alright. But the lady is more at fault for retaliating. I don't c anything that wud make me slap my father in law or mither

Exc2000:



If my Wife's Father Slapped me I'll punch a tooth out of his face

Never ever tolerate people attacking you physically for whatever reason

A mother wanted to give her own child the best second birthday (after poverty made the first one uninteresting) and make the child happy, she works and have means of income, took a loan at a grocery store to make her child happy on the 2nd birthday, she got embarassed for defaulting, untop that she got Slapped by the mother in law

Let them go their separate ways, marriage is not by force or for any party to suffer or become slave


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