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I disagree.

what about orphans(not all) who grew up with their upbringing from the streets and themselves, yet are disciplined? I am 23. My parents never brought up any topic like sex education to me but I have my own policy and have maintained it. Your parents have nothing to do with ur insatiable sexual appetite or urge. its ur hormones and ur decisions.

I TOTALLY DISAGREE.

thebosstrevor1:
How old is your sister.

Delete the app and tell her to go and read her books or learn some tailoring. An idle mind is the devils workshop

Threatened the guy and block him.

Even the founders of all these chatting app do not allow their children to use them until they reach a certain age of maturity.

Don't be deceive by all these woke generation nonsense, if you don't monitor now, you might end up regretting.

She's 14 going to 15 in ss2.
Her phone was seized over a year now. Just checked my phone and realised her account was logged in here and she's been active. Don't know whose phone she uses.
Maybe in their hostel they smuggle phones

emmy512:
She's 14 going to 15 in ss2.
Her phone was seized over a year now. Just checked my phone and realised her account was logged in here and she's been active. Don't know whose phone she uses.
Maybe in their hostel they smuggle phones

She has a phone, you better threaten her to bring the phone or you report her to the school. Sit her down and tell her the consequences of her action

At that age should be the age of educational development not sex awareness.

A good role model is all that she need.

Let's stop blaming our parents for their limitations. They did what they felt was the best for us. Mistake is a learning process and it's not necessarily our mistake but even that of those before us. So the fact that we now know better is a natural growth process for a society. And for sure, people that will come after us will see our own mistakes, learn from it and be better. That's societal evolution.

pek:
Corrected.

Thanks for the correction. I will read more about that later for improvements. Any recommendation on the topic to read on?

I wasn't given such education by parents but, I was taught in Christian faith that it's bad if unmarried and all that. Even to type the S - word is somehow, not to even mention it.
I didn't ask my parents about it, so they won't look me somehow. Anyways, I don't even have time for it.

Henrywalker:
Thanks for the correction. I will read more about that later for improvements. Any recommendation on the topic to read on?

Parents should befriend their children. It starts from there. Let them know things from them first.

pek:
Parents should befriend their children. It starts from there. Let them know things from them first.

No. I was talking about the corrections that you made.

Henrywalker:
One of the main reasons why there are so much immorality on the side of séx is because our parents didn't gave us séx education. That's an ugly truth right? I mean most of us (including me) find out about séx by ourselves. It's through our curiosity to know the difference between the men and women's body that led us to finding and believing whatever that's exposed to us through the internet, peer pressure, or books. And most of the times, the informations that we got weren't genuine.
Children are curious beings. They have a long way to go, a lot of things to learn, and that's why parents should guilde them when it comes to choosing what to read, see or learn. Unfortunately, many parents failed in this area, because they were too busy with work (or some time consuming activities)that they forget their children's need for them.
For example, My parents didn't gave me séx education, I found out everything on my own. I as a kid was curious to know what I don't know, and out of my curiosity, I was exposed to the wrong kind of information. I got the information in the wrong way (through peer pressure, books or the internet), and the negative effects were not left behind.
Honestly, I wish my parents taught me what I needed to know about séx when I was a kid, but they didn't.
Curiosity is like a force of attraction; the more you want or think about something, the more you are likely to do it. So out of curiosity, many kids has been exposed to the wrong knowledge of séx. The funny thing is that social media or peer pressure will always tell you what you wish/want to hear; they will tell you the exciting and fun part of it. They won't tell you the side effects behind it until it's too late.

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Alright, let's confirm if this information is true! Did your parents gave you any séx education when you were a kid? Comment your answer below!

Even some teachers in the name of holiness and religion purpose avoid REPRODUCTION in Biology.

Stephenmoka4:
I wasn't given such education by parents but, I was taught in Christian faith that it's bad if unmarried and all that. Even to type the S - word is somehow, not to even mention it.
I didn't ask my parents about it, so they won't look me somehow. Anyways, I don't even have time for it.

Some parents are so strict and hard!!!