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You were played by her... Just pick up the pieces and move on. This may be hard to do at first, but you must. I hope this experience teaches you.

JJoce:
You were played by her... Just pick up the pieces and move on. This may be hard to do at first, but you must. I hope this experience teaches you.

Yes it's really hard just pained.

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Rule number 1.... Even if you don't have options, don't let a girl know

Isaac86:
Thanks very much bro...you really nailed it.

sir, Stop Giving Her Whatever Support You're Giving Her...i Believe There Are People Around You That will Pray God Bless You For Giving Them Just 5k, or Enrolling them To Learn a Skill Or Become Apprentices(doing Something That'll Change Their Lives For Good).

Baba we have similar issues mine I knew the girl is dating someone else but just keep mute and stop giving her any money, she done something that made me to finally end the relationship on first this year After shouting happy new year, no be say the boy weh dey date even better pass me in terms of finance and handsomeness lol just dey look the idiot despite good plan's I had for this babe this 2021

Agbebakun22:
Baba we have similar issues mine I knew the girl is dating someone else but just keep mute and stop giving her any money, she done something that made me to finally end the relationship on first this year After shouting happy new year, no be say the boy weh dey date even better pass me in terms of finance and handsomeness lol just dey look the idiot despite good plan's I had for this babe this 2021

omor NAwa o...girls are something else.

Abeg who brought you UP??

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

And u still need advice

Isaac86:
omor NAwa o...girls are something else.

Abi boss this 2021 na to use am improve myself more, make enough money and use my Money for investment than investing on top GF I don't do that shit

Bros i have been in your condition before.if you feel you are alone in a relationship, then you are definitely alone.
Just move on

[quote author=aprilwise post=97667360]There are somethings I don't want to talk about ladies cos I have sisters.

Lol

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Bro use your head ooo!! Them swear for you say na only Jobless girl you go see to date You no fit see working class girl date Habah!!!!! Suffer no dey tire you ...why are guys so funny!!! You make small money you run Fiam!! Go carry Unnecessary Responsibility!!! Can't you look for a girl who has goals , visions and plans for her self Bro get yourself a maturd girl if not Poverty go tie you like wrapper ooo... For God sake as a man that has plans of having a Financially stable future you need to have a partner who's focused and has goals no be all these small small pikin wey no know wetin life dey talk!! Use your head ooo. See there is a kind of woman you would get ehn!! Your life go change for the better!!! For example I'm working on travelling out of Nigerian this year ...my babe dey plan gimme 750k... While I try gather 1.5M ... Now tell me why if I see person wey dey disturb my babe I no go Off Shirt kee that person!!

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her .

I usually pity guys like you..

Op, it is obvious that you are a pussy-worshipper. Keep worshiping her pussy....it shall always end in tears...
But lemme give sense to some of those guys in your shoe here...
In life, there is always a rule of engagement....before you engage anybody into your life.....define the rule of engagement....and talk about everything.....so that each party will know his or her responsibility in any relationship or marriage or business or career or family....but some dubious people who have sinister agenda will not want you to talk about this so that they will not be exposed...

So, dude, what is the rule of your engagement with that chick?
I was in a club last year, and i saw this fine chick, I approached her and started conversing...because I don't want the unforeseeing circumstances to happen, I have to spelt out the rules and condition of engagement.....I bleeped her and she collected her money and both of us parted ways.....

She is emotionally imbalance, you are too fragile for her but never worry with time you will outgrows this feeling then you learns to be firm in your dealing with ladies.We all pass through that face,now they are begging to be wife.

You are the greatest simp of the century wake up from the shackles of manipulation.

It's obvious you're not relationship wise yet

That girl is childish and wants to explore
Don't give her no dime she's a bitch in disguise

Be yourself and clean ur love from ur heart cuz she's not even worth it a bit

Even with the loads of money we make daily we don't use it uselessly on women , we Don learn

Ask her to come over then bleep her seriously then you pay her , it's that simple

If she sleeps over pay her and if it's a short time bleeping you pay her , seems it's money she loves and u love pussy cuz I don't see love here at all
You both are childish

If she asks you why you treat her like a bitch, ask how bitches act
Bitches wants money all the time and that's what she is , keep the relationship on a bitchy level and get yourself a good woman from a good family background simple and remember to grow up in relationship, learn more from experts , cuz women got a million sides to show a man in due time

Lights up my kpoli in peace

lordally:
Bro use your head ooo!! Them swear for you say na only Jobless girl you go see to date You no fit see working class girl date Habah!!!!! Suffer no dey tire you ...why are guys so funny!!! You make small money you run Fiam!! Go carry Unnecessary Responsibility!!! Can't you look for a girl who has goals , visions and plans for her self Bro get yourself a maturd girl if not Poverty go tie you like wrapper ooo... For God sake as a man that has plans of having a Financially stable future you need to have a partner who's focused and has goals no be all these small small pikin wey no know wetin life dey talk!! Use your head ooo. See there is a kind of woman you would get ehn!! Your life go change for the better!!! For example I'm working on travelling out of Nigerian this year ...my babe dey plan gimme 750k... While I try gather 1.5M ... Now tell me why if I see person wey dey disturb my babe I no go Off Shirt kee that person!!

Simp simp simp simp..................................kill person for woman

lordally:
Bro use your head ooo!! Them swear for you say na only Jobless girl you go see to date You no fit see working class girl date Habah!!!!! Suffer no dey tire you ...why are guys so funny!!! You make small money you run Fiam!! Go carry Unnecessary Responsibility!!! Can't you look for a girl who has goals , visions and plans for her self Bro get yourself a maturd girl if not Poverty go tie you like wrapper ooo... For God sake as a man that has plans of having a Financially stable future you need to have a partner who's focused and has goals no be all these small small pikin wey no know wetin life dey talk!! Use your head ooo. See there is a kind of woman you would get ehn!! Your life go change for the better!!! For example I'm working on travelling out of Nigerian this year ...my babe dey plan gimme 750k... While I try gather 1.5M ... Now tell me why if I see person wey dey disturb my babe I no go Off Shirt kee that person!!

Thanks very much brother...may GOD Bless you....you really nailed it bro...thanks alot o

Agbebakun22:
Baba we have similar issues mine I knew the girl is dating someone else but just keep mute and stop giving her any money, she done something that made me to finally end the relationship on first this year After shouting happy new year, no be say the boy weh dey date even better pass me in terms of finance and handsomeness lol just dey look the idiot despite good plan's I had for this babe this 2021

I hope say you dump the motherfvvking hoe of a girl.. Wise up bro and pursue the money this year, not women.

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Young man, you're dating yourself. Wakeup seriously

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Imagine if u had paid all those money for her to learn a. Vocation...
Stop dating jobless girls...they only got pusssssy to offer

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Better leave that girl allow and go ur way. If she comes back begging don't accept. She's playing with ur emotion. And u talked of her blocking u, maybe u are the one forcing urself on her. This is not a healthy relationship. I didn't say is bad spending a girl but that girl is not productive, maybe she might have a guy she truly loves outside.

Mide3367:
VAGINA PEOPLE are evil . I stop anything dating with them long ago

which one is VAGINA people, which country is that again?

Zzor:
Impressing and taking care of a lady's needs isn't the magic, learn to be yourself and stop forcing your love on her, let her go and have your peace

can u imagine, and to leave no hard, 3 weeks practice (be yourself) u are done @OP.

Jack005:
I hope say you dump the motherfvvking hoe of a girl.. Wise up bro and pursue the money this year, not women.

Sure now I'm only after the dough and how to have self improvement

Weneda:
Better leave that girl allow and go ur way. If she comes back begging don't accept. She's playing with ur emotion. And u talked of her blocking u, maybe u are the one forcing urself on her. This is not a healthy relationship. I didn't say is bad spending a girl but that girl is not productive, maybe she might have a guy she truly loves outside.

Thanks very much may God bless you... she unblocked me saying we should talk about what happened yesterday that I should be mature for once...cuz I'm just ignoring her messages...I just have to block her and delete her number.

Things dey happen. Girl tell you it's over and block you join and you come here dey find mumu advise.. Bro you be mumu..

Where do you people meet orphans?
Because I don't understand how her parent cannot pay the 60k for her.

Isaac86:
Thanks very much brother...may GOD Bless you....you really nailed it bro...thanks alot o

Omo na God o

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