The internet has been agog for a while over the death of Tunde Thomas a.k.a "Gentle Tunde" who died of heart break over his ex-wife's infidelity.

Tunde Thomas was said to be married to Moyo Thomas (alias Nee Ojo) with two kids.

According to the story, his wife, an adulteress which is common with most Nigerian women was engaged in an office romance with her MD of FCMB, Adam Nuru. It’s said that their secret relationship that was well known throughout the organization.

Though Adam was happily married, he was overwhelmed with adultery despite knowing that her staff was also married to Mr Tunde.

Not knowing the truth about the kids, Tunde spent all his resources on the children as how every responsible father would do for their wards.

He flew them (the two kids) to London and Dubai during holidays and they attended the best schools just to give them better foundation.

Tunde’s wife resigned from FCMB all of a sudden when the older child was about 8 years old and went on holidays in the US as planned by her ‘boyfriend’ boss.

Little did Tunde know that was the last time he would ever set his eyes on the children.

His wife refused to return to Nigeria when the school resumed and she gathered courage to tell him that the children were not his.

To prevent Tunde from hunting her down in the US, she filed asylum in the US based on marital violence in Nigeria.

According to reports, Tunde couldn’t take the bad news in 2017. He never felt good after recovering from a stroke.

He tried to get his life together by beginning another relationship with a lady who is a lawyer. It was gathered that he invited a few friends to help him visit the lady’s family on 26th December.

Alas, Tunde didn’t get to see that day. He collapsed and died while returning from work on December 15, 2020. He was laid to rest on Wednesday, December 30, 2020.

If Tunde hadn't died, we probably wouldn't have heard about this story. Even with his death, there isn't much weight thrown around it if not for the call for paternity testing that has been trending for a while now, women activists and feminists have all gone hush!

Nobody is carrying placards with hashtags like #JusticeForTunde...WHY?...Because Tunde is another MAN who is a victim of treachery perpetuated by a woman! If the tables were to be turned, by now there would have been a procession to Aso Rock by women, petitions would have been opened in websites like Change dot org for Moyo to be deported and all that.

But no...v@ginal people have suddenly gone mum because it was perpetrated by a woman against a man!

I don't blame women like Moyo who shamelessly opened her legs for her Boss and still got pregnant not even once but twice for him...

I blame men like Tunde Thomas who was too daft to reason like an alpha-male because he was lost in the euphoria of that stupid over-hyped emotional irrational feeling they call love for his estranged wife!

Yes! Men like Ozor of Big Brother Naija and Tunde Thomas who would see the signs and still ignore it simply because they want to play "the good guy" and "perfect gentleman" to please a woman simply because they believe that women are "frail" and deserve attention and deserve to be showered with love!

Although Tunde Thomas was not as lucky as Ozor to survive his ordeal although he lost concentration in winning the quest for which he signed up for in a reality tv show to win a whooping N85m worth of prices in both cash and materials.

What exactly is my point in opening this thread? I simply want to remind the male folk just like i have always hammered it here that is it really worth it to show a woman all the care, love and affection in the world and after that, you still get stabbed at the back?

Women have known to be crying all over social media about how their men maltreat and mistreat them and often we see them in talkshows and even religious institutions where the message is always about how men should treat women right with respect.

But the question is DO WOMEN TREAT WE THE MEN WITH RESPECT AFTER ALL THE LOVE AND ATTENTION SHOWERED ON THEM? If the answer is yes, Tunde Thomas would be alive today with kids looking like him with darker complexion just as his unlike those kids who looked more like Shuwa Arab kids with the same replica of his wife's sugar daddy!

I heard from some close sources that the reason why the hoe decided to relocate to the US was because tongues had already started wagging about the questionability in resemblance of the children to Tunde which was becoming obvious each passing day.

Some people even whispered to his ears about the fact that those kids were not him but he even lashed out at them and told his wife not to mind "rumor mongers" who wanted to separate her from him and assured her of his "undying love" for her! So much for undying love!!

I have played the Ozoemena Chukwu role about thrice or more in the past until experiences from Red Pillers taught me that loving a woman whole heartedly, giving her attention she needs and bending down to appeal to her sense of entitlement is akin to living in self-denial and cheating yourself!

I have always said that the only woman on earth who deserves your true and undying love is your mother (that is if she made motherly sacrifices for you) and not a dead-beat mother! The next creature you should give undying love to which will forever remain loyal to you till the very end is your pet dog! Yes...little wonder they tag dogs as "Man's Best Friend".

A woman is not meant to be loved! It is totally unnatural and abysmal to bring yourself as a man to giving love to a woman!

When God created Adam, he brought Eve to Adam to be his companion and not for him to love her! The lame concept of love for a woman in the bible originated from Ephesians 5:25 where it says “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” This was coming from an apostle called Paul in the Bible who was not even married! and so doesn't know the rudiments of what marriage between a man and woman entails. So to me that bald-headed Paul had no right to tell men what to do with their wives!

Apostle Paul went further to state that Men should love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it (Now if we look further, the church Paul talked about is known as the body of Christ which Jesus Christ said he would come back for when it is rupturable (only Bible scholars and chronic Bible readers would understand and agree with me) isn't it?...
Now my dear Bible Scholars, with the events of what is going on in the world today in the so-called body of Christ with all the moral decadence and increasing sinful activities, would it be out of place to say that the church is becoming less and less rapturable with each passing year? So you see...Even Jesus Christ who gave his life for the Church is even being disappointed by the church he gave his life for how much more you that is a mortal man who thinks that being a puppet in the hands of your woman will make her loyal!

Paul was purely a SIMP and was definitely trying to brush the feminine ego of women because of the role they played during his evangelism in feeding him, providing meeting places for his preaching and even hiding him from those who wanted him killed. ( Read the Epistolary evidence of Paul the Apostle and Women on Wikipedia). Of course it was natural to talk in favor of those that provide food, shelter and safety for you when the opportunity arises!

There are so many men like Paul littered all over our society today. Men like Ozor who was emotionally manhandled by Nengi but still refused to take a cue until he came out and saw the damage he had done to his personality, men like Uti Nwachukwu who hailed Ozor for being a mumu in the house and men like Tunde Thomas who was being a loving wife to a hoe and enrolled the kids of another man in the best schools outside Nigeria until the hard reality hit him like a thunderbolt which cost him his life!

If only Tunde Thomas had a side chick or baby mama outside his unholy marriage with "Moy-hoe", at least the effects of knowing that the kids who called him daddy for years were not biologically his would have been drastically reduced. He would have ended up fathering his own kids outside because from what i have noticed, Nigerian v@ginal people a.k.a women will most of the time carry your own seed when they are rolling in the sheets with you while you are married to your main wife!

But of course he wanted to be a "good husband and loving father" and so he was "faithful" to Moy-hoe and look where his faithfulness and gentility got him...SIX FEET BELOW! To even think that the man even saw that these children had no semblance to him in anyway but tuned a blind eye to it got me gobsmacked!

What has the modern day Nigerian women who are notoriously known as the second in position to committing paternity fraud after Jamaican women have to offer these days? Absolutely nothing apart from buying you boxer shorts and singlets during valentine or your birthday! Show me a Nigerian lady who has gifted her man "Husband or lover" a Play Station 4 or 5, an iPhone not to talk more of a posh ride?

It is foolish Nigerian men who are the ones doing all the spending like the women are entitled to it! Why? Simply because you want to please her so she can allow you slip your stiff male appendage into her slippery smelly female anatomy?

Stop wasting your time being a good guy to a woman because it will always end up in premium tears! Women do not deserve love. They are only meant for procreation and sexual gratification! The earlier you as a man understands it, the better for you! Women can only stay loyal to you when you treat them like the second fiddle and make them feel like they are not really worth it!

The only thing you should ensure you offer a woman living under the same roof with you is the shelter over her head! This is because when she is the one who pays the rent, and there is a dispute, it would be ratified that you the man should leave the premises except you are in an environment where the women are given an upper hand like the United States which will impose it on you to vacate even if you are the owner of the house. (Something which the women here wish that it would be played out in Nigeria which as God lives, will never happen).

As for Feeding, to me, it should be reciprocal. If you are not capable of feeding her in a particular point in time, she should return the favour.

Afterall, in the animal kingdom, most of the times, the Lion sleeps while the lionesses hunt and he the lion comes to eat and it doesn't strip him of his kingship.

Exchange of gifts should be reciprocal! Outings should be reciprocal....paying of bills should be shared! If she sucked you dry during the dating and courtship era, after the marriage, revenge by taking care of your basic needs and wants as a man and let her be the one to start the spending in the house to recoup all your loses!

You as the man IS DOING HER A FAVOUR IN MARRYING HER AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

If she can't deal with it, let her pack her things back to her father's house and stay there! Don't bring yourself down to go there and plead for her to come back!

A woman is more attracted to a man who has other women in competition with her and abhors the man who is clingy to her alone! When she sees there is no competition, she will kick you to the curb and go after that bad guy who she knows has numerous women flocking after him.

As foolish as they are, their quest is to WIN THE PLAYBOY'S HEART TOTALLY but ignore you WHOSE HEART HAS TOTALLY BEEN WON AND MAKES YOU COMPLETELY USELESS TO HER!

Many men be looking radiant before their union with women all in the name of marriage and all of a sudden, they start taking semblance to a disheveled cockerel suffering from feather-loss! It is because you allowed yourself to look and be that way! Get yourself girlfriends and let your wife know that you have them in abundance! In that way, you will keep her on her toes.

If she is the toxic type you feel can go lethal because of your escapades like Maryam Sanda, kick her out of your house and file a petition and restraining order stating that if anything happens to you, she should be held accountable for it. Do a DNA test on your children and if they are yours, take care of them by providing their basic and fundamental needs so they won't forget you.

If she is the one who has custody of the kids, share the responsibility of caregiving between you and her. It is either she pays for their school fees and you provide for their feeding and wardrobe or the other way round.

You can accomplish this by opening a something like a "Kids Savings Account" with the names of the children where cash remitted for their personal use will accounted for with relevant documentation which you will show to them later on in life! This is to counter any damaging lies she will tell your kids about you abandoning them and not taking care of them! Remember, women are very trecherous beings!!

I Decryptor is a typical example...i have 2 children from 2 different ladies (a boy and a girl) and they come to visit me during the holidays. I opened a Kiddies account where monies for their fees is sent to their mothers' account with the statements clearly documented. I have a lawyer whom is on standby to show them every documentation on every dime i spent on them from their birth till if (God forbid) anything should happen to me before they both turn 18!

When they are 18, the accounts will be changed to a normal savings account but not until i sit them down to have a rundown of all the figures spent during their childhood! I still have further plans for the both of them which i will not want to enumerate here for personal reasons and in order not to give away my identity.

The mother of one is married to another man whom she has some kids for. One day when she brought my child during their mid-term break, she made advances at me and was proposing sex! A request i turned down.

You can imagine if i accepted to sleep with her and maybe she conceives, she'll take it home for her husband to "topup" and 9 months later, he will be beaming with smiles that "his loyal wife" has given him another child!

Both women even though not living with me see me as a demi-god because of how i decided to carry myself as a man. I chose never to get married and my kids are my priority. Marriage to me is never a union between a man and a woman but an emotional enslavement of a man to a woman!

These women don't love you! They only want you to help them achieve the highest societal strata a woman can achieve by bearing the title "Mrs" and you as the man is the only one who can help them climb up that ladder. After that, they'll continue their whoring activities unabated!

You reading this, if you aren't married, i am not asking you to take the decisions i took as it is a matter of choice...but know your place in a woman life!
Place higher value on yourself before you place value on a woman!

Sex these days is cheap and you can get it if you have the right verbal slurs and the right amount in cash or kind.

LOVE YOURSELF and LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST and don't allow any woman to take you to eternal demise like Tunde Gentle!

Always remember, "Good Guys finish last"!

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Tell them.

tbh ignore sure signs at your own peril. in Fela`s voice, “I no be gentleman at all o”

Honesty,i still blame tunde.He was a weak man,and very good at it.The signs were there,but he just let love take over him completely.Infact that little girl is a carbon copy of his wife boss,just baffled that he never noticed at all.That's why i don't fall in love with my heart but with my head.All the ladies have been with always complained that they can't predict my next move.So fellow men abeg try dey get sense for love or marriage matter cause the serpent in the garden of eden already implanted deciet in women specifically.

You know what's funny?

People would have told the M.D na woman go kill you.
And not the Tunde Thomas.

Tunde Thomas MUST have seen NUMEROUS signs and chose to ignore ALL of them

Tunde Thomas MUST have gotten this hoe by throwing gifts at her

I don't ignore signs that's why I'm still single

I had a girl in uni who wouldn't want to walk next to me at certain places around our Uni, she made up a b.s story about a lecturer wanting her next another b.s story, I took that as a sign I enquired and found out she had a boyfriend in a certain department so around his hostel area and department she would try to make us seem non sexual. I left her azz her beauty is tanking as we speak, the guy is doing nothing, she's struggling, I refuse to simp. But what struck me was she was a "good girl" honestly her friends were worse but she saw nothing wrong with it when I told her you have a bf and your willing to kpansh me? She waved it aside like it was nothing, I added 2 and 2 together and thought to myself she MUST have other guys too, not just me and that dude, so I knew from that day on that that's how most Naija women are and the necessity of Redpill.

Another lady was too flamboyant for her dad's wage level, I told her male friend who told me it was a good idea to get together with her, he told me she was a good decent girl all the stories I hear about her are b.s. I went in after some rounds of knocking I knew for sure this girl isn't decent at all but that's not why I abandoned her, truth be told being indecent in bed is Freaky and even a plus. It was her taste I knew her dad wasn't rich her mom was worst off, mom had no job. But this girl would drink expensive drinks every night and eat the fanciest meals in the best eatery around wherever she was I took that as a sign. She'd spend my cash without flinching or looking back and expect more cash just the next day. I knew it's either she gets the cash from servicing other men or she used to live lavish from servicing other men because I enquired and her dad has always been in that low paying job (less than 100k with 6 children along with his wife and himself 8mouths for 100k he had been in this job for over 20years, her brothers weren't anywhere near as lavish), so where did she get a love and acquired taste of luxury living that without certain luxury stuff she wouldn't even sleep. I used style to ask if maybe she grew up with a rich relative, No she didn't, I had to run for my life despite the good pucci

She was that kind of girl who you'll buy her gifts on her bday and still buy her gifts and take her out on your own bday, she called me one time and said she wants cash called a huge figure I was shocked, the money she called if I spent it on her colleagues in the street at night I'd go over 100 times

Another hoe knew I have cash so we weren't even sexually active but she just wanted us to get together so that I can spend on her, I refused she kept chasing me I kept running she already asked me for iPhone 13 I laughed I told her no P, I ghosted her, iPhone 13 for what? Poo see? Tah? Go and find an idiot who doesn't know what to spend 300,000k on than not even sex but the hopes of getting sex, so I'd be giving her something worth over 300k hoping that one day I'd smash lol

I respect hoe's that stand on the street atleast they don't over estimate their value and they are honest about what they want or do. Finally they ACTUALLY sell you sex, most bros are willing to pay for not sex but "Maybe sex" just keep spending on her and one day she'll give it to you.when she finally gives it to you and even marries you, know that she may meet a higher bidder somewhere and pray you won't be the next Tunde Thomas

Back to the matter

People always assume the bad guy would lose especially in infidelity cases

But That's rarely the case

Women are actually the bad guys most times, especially because people don't expect them to be the bad guys, they know their market value and market value duration so these hoe's will try to make good use of their time.

Give themselves up to the highest bidder until their market value (which is looks) plummets to zero

Tunde was the highest bidder while she was saying "I do"
But when a higher bidder (Mr. M.D) came along she had to accept his bid, that's what hoes do.

She isn't going to switch off that part of her, simply because she said two words in a building in front of people she doesn't care about their opinion.

She's a how, that's how she probably got through uni, by forking her way out, best believe she's gonna ATTEMPT to fork her way to the very top, doesn't matter if she's married to you or not.

Redpill, MGTOW is the way

Trust me rejecting poo see will make you even more attractive to these hoe's they'll miss you more, call you more, chase you more, if you keep giving them love for free, attention for free, gifts and time for the hopes of getting poo see they'll rope you in and use you well

But wise up you have the upper hand in less than 5 years time our society will force her to marry you'll see better looking chicks home and abroad when your finances have grown from avoiding hoe's.

And trust me you'll ask yourself "What did I ever see in that hoe" while looking back at the time when you were hell bent on smashing lol

Interesting piece but it's your personal opinion and experience. There are decent families and women out there. A person is shaped by his or her experiences, especially from childhood.

The only thing I agree with is that men should be firm, not overly show their love for women anyhow. Be mysterious and let a woman always wonder if you love her, not blabbing about how you love her every minute.

Men should be street smart, you should know if you are being played. I wonder how a man will not know he is raising another man's child. If my kids don't look exactly like me, I will wonder and probably do a DNA. The case of that guy is absurd, the kids looked absolutely different from him and his wife.

Men should never place a woman on a pedestal, no matter how beautiful she is. Never make her feel she is different from an ugly woman, always let her know she is still a woman and women are women. Women still bleed from same place every month, nothing special about her shape or face.

Provide for your woman and treat her with respect but never worship or adore her if you want to keep your dignity as a man. Women are not like men, give them an inch and they would want a mile. Give them the world and they'll still think you haven't done enough. Be wise.

OP, people cheat.

Men cheat, women cheat too. The boss Tunde's wife had the romantic affair with is a male and he is married too.

Don't turn this against women. We should be talking about THE LADY that cheated.

We've seen cases where a cheating husband takes a crazy, untreatable disease home permanently changing the trajectory of his wife's life. Or haven't you heard of married men birthing children outside thereby emotionally traumatizing their wives?

There are millions of good men and women out there. There are perfect spouses that are honest to each other and are happy. There are happy homes. Don't let the media influence you into being an "alpha male" (whatever that means).

@ All, please, if you desire to get married, by all means, please do. Go out there and get yourself a spouse that suits your person. The person may not be perfect (you too aren't) but you both can always build each other. Don't follow this new alpha-male ideology, run away from toxic philosophies.

People don't know how boring old age can be. In our hospital, I've seen scenes where an old patient is taken care of by his/her old spouse. We once had a fifty something year old male who came down with benign prostatic hyperplasia. He couldn't pass urine easily. He was always in one distress or the other. He needed surgery. His wife (younger and very pretty) was visibly worried and concerned. She didn't abandon him. Guess what? He had had a hernia surgery before and it was sponsored by this wife. To correct his current condition, they'd be needing quite a huge amount of money. She is still the sponsor. So, this lady takes care of their kids and the husband!

Not all women are cheats. Not all men cheat. Do not be fooled by the internet and the media.

Generalization is bad. Let's stay away from it, please.

Good morning.

Simps won't die well example is Tunde Thomas

Tunde killed himself, he allowed the slowpoke to compromise his life. He was prolly decieved with the usual 'real men' trash. I pity his family sha.

This OP is very smart and streetwise...kinda people I reason with. I enjoyed this write-up 100%

Mgtow guys mgtow

U get bad mouth. Lol
Tho, this piece is informative and educative. Tnx

[quote author=TONYE001 post=97699026]OP, people cheat.

Men cheat, women cheat too. The boss Tunde's wife had the romantic affair with is a male and he is married too.

Don't turn this against women. We should be talking about THE LADY that cheated.






Brother, nobody is saying that we should turn this against women. The moral here is that all guys should be street wise, especially the single guys. It's so unfortunate that the mentality most of these young girls have is money is everything. And they are willing to make any compromise because of money such as date multiple guys, selling the body to the highest bidder, and more. Maybe you haven't been played before. But I will tell you these for free.most of the girls out there are players and not really into the old ways of sticking to a guy. Many of them are so materialistic that they need other guys to handle their finances. They are not contended with what they have. You cannot be nice at your own expense. You should be nice to someone who will be 100% nice to you also.

Very great write-up!

Lessons for all.

He who has ears to hear let him hear.

I'm saving this piece for life.
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

There are unfaithful men and women everywhere. This Adam Nuru and Moyo Thomas episode is just one case among so many.

As a man, your principles mustn't waver, or else the woman won't feel you are in control.

As a man, you must be able to read signs in your relationship. Act decisively on any activity by the woman you consider suspicious. It is better to be proven wrong than merely wishing.

Love your woman sincerely. be affectionate and stern at the same time.

Pray with your woman everyday just as you f*ck/romance her too. It deals with her conscience unless if she is a readymade stone cold harlot.

Hmm very interesting read. I feel so sorry for the tunde guy. He had a great career and everything but died for noting

take the redpill and liberate yourselves if u are not an an alpha male who reason with his senses and not his emotions. never force any man to take the redpill cos experience soon teaches him but it comes at a price.
a woman can love many men but a man can love a single woman

Truth is, there is nothing Tunde or even the FCMB MD could do to stop any woman from sleeping around.


But there are a lot even a kid could do after.

Women have nothing to lose in paternity fraud because no matter the matter, they are still the mother of the child but you as a guy have everything in the whole world to lose.

That is why I pity yes yes guys.
Even on NL here, you see them supporting women especially the unstable feminists who can't finish a sentence in real life just to be in their good books.


Now the woman and her bastards, no offense, will live on to enjoy the rest of their lives while Tunde won't even get to see his own biological child.

This is something a simple DNA test could have fixed.

zed7:
Interesting piece but it's your personal opinion and experience. There are decent families and women out there. A person is shaped by his or her experiences, especially from childhood.

The only thing I agree with is that men should be firm, not overly show their love for women anyhow. Be mysterious and let a woman always wonder if you love her, not blabbing about how you love her every minute.

Men should be street smart, you should know if you are being played. I wonder how a man will not know he is raising another man's child. If my kids don't look exactly like me, I will wonder and probably do a DNA. The case of that guy is absurd, the kids looked absolutely different from him and his wife.

Men should never place a woman on a pedestal, no matter how beautiful she is. Never make her feel she is different from an ugly woman, always let her know she is still a woman and women are women. Women still bleed from same place every month, nothing special about her shape or face.

Provide for your woman and treat her with respect but never worship or adore her if you want to keep your dignity as a man. Women are not like men, give them an inch and they would want a mile. Give them the world and they'll still think you haven't done enough. Be wise.

Excellent posit.
Kudos bro.

[quote author=spectator101 post=97700128][/quote]

Girls too should be street-smart, no? With the increase in the number of boys that "hit and run," exploiting unsuspecting females (especially the young and naive ones), shouldn't ladies be street wise too?

Your concluding paragraph summarizes it all and I do agree with it. PEOPLE (males and females) should be nice to others that are nice to them (actually, be nice to all, whether they are nice to you or not). This principle is applicable to all aspects of life, not just romantic relationships.

What I am against is generalizations. People can be bad, irrespective of the gender.

Yeah.

Thank you OP. The truth is we are humans and not perfect, both male and female.

Even the bible emphasised on trusting God only. Jer. 17 vs 5 "This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who depends on flesh for his strength and whose heart turns away from the LORD"

And you think a manufacturer don't understand his product?

Me, I respect my woman a lot. But I don't trust people generally. It hurts when they break your trust.

DuBLINGreenb:
You know what's funny?

People would have told the M.D na woman go kill you.
And not the Tunde Thomas.

Tunde Thomas MUST have seen NUMEROUS signs and chose to ignore ALL of them

Tunde Thomas MUST have gotten this hoe by throwing gifts at her

I don't ignore signs that's why I'm still single

I had a girl in uni who wouldn't want to walk next to me at certain places around our Uni, she made up a b.s story about a lecturer wanting her next another b.s story, I took that as a sign I enquired and found out she had a boyfriend in a certain department so around his hostel area and department she would try to make us seem non sexual. I left her azz her beauty is tanking as we speak, the guy is doing nothing, she's struggling, I refuse to simp. But what struck me was she was a "good girl" honestly her friends were worse but she saw nothing wrong with it when I told her you have a bf and your willing to kpansh me? She waved it aside like it was nothing, I added 2 and 2 together and thought to myself she MUST have other guys too, not just me and that dude, so I knew from that day on that that's how most Naija women are and the necessity of Redpill.

Another lady was too flamboyant for her dad's wage level, I told her male friend who told me it was a good idea to get together with her, he told me she was a good decent girl all the stories I hear about her are b.s. I went in after some rounds of knocking I knew for sure this girl isn't decent at all but that's not why I abandoned her, truth be told being indecent in bed is Freaky and even a plus. It was her taste I knew her dad wasn't rich her mom was worst off, mom had no job. But this girl would drink expensive drinks every night and eat the fanciest meals in the best eatery around wherever she was I took that as a sign. She'd spend my cash without flinching or looking back and expect more cash just the next day. I knew it's either she gets the cash from servicing other men or she used to live lavish from servicing other men because I enquired and her dad has always been in that low paying job (less than 100k with 6 children along with his wife and himself 8mouths for 100k he had been in this job for over 20years, her brothers weren't anywhere near as lavish), so where did she get a love and acquired taste of luxury living that without certain luxury stuff she wouldn't even sleep. I used style to ask if maybe she grew up with a rich relative, No she didn't, I had to run for my life despite the good pucci

She was that kind of girl who you'll buy her gifts on her bday and still buy her gifts and take her out on your own bday, she called me one time and said she wants cash called a huge figure I was shocked, the money she called if I spent it on her colleagues in the street at night I'd go over 100 times

Another hoe knew I have cash so we weren't even sexually active but she just wanted us to get together so that I can spend on her, I refused she kept chasing me I kept running she already asked me for iPhone 13 I laughed I told her no P, I ghosted her, iPhone 13 for what? Poo see? Tah? Go and find an idiot who doesn't know what to spend 300,000k on than not even sex but the hopes of getting sex, so I'd be giving her something worth over 300k hoping that one day I'd smash lol

I respect hoe's that stand on the street atleast they don't over estimate their value and they are honest about what they want or do. Finally they ACTUALLY sell you sex, most bros are willing to pay for not sex but "Maybe sex" just keep spending on her and one day she'll give it to you.when she finally gives it to you and even marries you, know that she may meet a higher bidder somewhere and pray you won't be the next Tunde Thomas

Back to the matter

People always assume the bad guy would lose especially in infidelity cases

But That's rarely the case

Women are actually the bad guys most times, especially because people don't expect them to be the bad guys, they know their market value and market value duration so these hoe's will try to make good use of their time.

Give themselves up to the highest bidder until their market value (which is looks) plummets to zero

Tunde was the highest bidder while she was saying "I do"
But when a higher bidder (Mr. M.D) came along she had to accept his bid, that's what hoes do.

She isn't going to switch off that part of her, simply because she said two words in a building in front of people she doesn't care about their opinion.

She's a how, that's how she probably got through uni, by forking her way out, best believe she's gonna ATTEMPT to fork her way to the very top, doesn't matter if she's married to you or not.

Redpill, MGTOW is the way

Trust me rejecting poo see will make you even more attractive to these hoe's they'll miss you more, call you more, chase you more, if you keep giving them love for free, attention for free, gifts and time for the hopes of getting poo see they'll rope you in and use you well

But wise up you have the upper hand in less than 5 years time our society will force her to marry you'll see better looking chicks home and abroad when your finances have grown from avoiding hoe's.

And trust me you'll ask yourself "What did I ever see in that hoe" while looking back at the time when you were hell bent on smashing lol

Your story is too long ...o can't read it finish. ...lol

Omo Op that your post long oh.

E get one single mom wey I done use dick hold captive. she dey currently whine me to serious with am when her baby daddy dey stay for my street.

My conclusion is that she wants to use me to pepper her B.D and as a sharp guy, I sensed this and stopped giving it to her. Like women just dey think about themselves only. Tell her your shop got burnt she go still bill you next week.

But not all. some are just too feminine and submitting. But then on an average they r

How did this article arrive at the conclusion that "Adultery is common with most Nigerian women"?

Make I pitch my tent here.
The op is wise.