Stop wasting your time on NL guys. Just get on with the tests. How hard is it?

WoundedLamb:


Better. Though I believe the thought of doing that signifies preexisting problems.

Definitely. Absolutely. Correct. Good luck to them.

cassyrooy:
Many of us are clicking and commenting about this new social anomaly that has come to the fore because of the recent saga with late Mr Tunde, his estranged wife, Mrs Moyo and the former FCMB MD, Adam Nuhu, as well as other cases we've read on the cyber spaces regarding infidelity.

Opinions are diverse but the question remains, what solution does paternity testing offers in a union?

1. It unearth fraudulent women and their deceitful ways: any man, out of choice and/or suspicion that something isn't right can get a test done to ascertain whether he has any direct biological relationship with his wife's birth. This will help put him in the know as to how to manage situations arising and/or linked to a situation of infidelity, betrayal of trust, fraud by his wife, or a possible scenario of baby swapping.

Solution: When you must have failed to ascertain for sure that the kid is yours, men, please remain calm and try again somewhere else. The probability of a misinformed lab technologist handling your case may eventually cause you to break your home. Revalidate that outcome in separate centres.

2. Run maternity tests too to ascertain for sure the child belongs to your spouse: paternity fraud and testing is a very sensitive issue, therefore, as a man who wants to know the truth, don't take a fraction of what exist as truth by conducting only a DNA test for yourself and then exclude the woman who birthed that child. Once you have established that your spouse is the mother but you're not the father, she has a clear case to answer and that is where next-to-confirmation of cheating and adultery may come in.

Solution: don't hastily conclude, gather impeccable proof that you're not the father but your spouse is the mother. There you have trapped her and telling you the truth will become easier.

3. When both paternity and maternity tests fails, then you have the hospital and delivery team to answer as to why you or your spouse share no direct biological relationship with the child: there are plenty reasons why a paternity test may fail, and cheating may not be directly the cause, so watch your handling of the issue and investigate properly before making unwarranted and provocative accusations.

Solution: paternity tests seeks to unravel the truth and the truth is a very complicated thing to understand. We know of baby factories where people go to buy babies in Nigeria, we also know that the tendencies for people to buy children based on their sexes are other forms of premeditated crimes in Nigeria. Therefore, seek the truth, and the total truth which can also be found in cases where nurses engage in switching babies of opposite sexes and then collecting money for thee illicit endeavour.

4. Paternity fraud vindicates or allay fears of the unknown: we all know that not all cheating women authenticate their infidelity with a child, but where you can genuinely prove that the children belongs to you and your spouse, your mind should as quickly as possible return to your marriage, to work on your insecurities and other marital issues in other not to give room for eventually problems.

Solution: sue that institution that out of their negligence has put you and your wife under intense financial drain, emotionally traumatizing endeavour and get justice for those who went home without verifying the biological identity of their offspring. Also, to unearth the criminal culprits perpetrating these crimes.

Therefore, men and women, do not stand against paternity/maternity tests if you know you've not committed any marital infractions, rather stand down and let the suspecting spouse carry own with his/her investigation, you never can tell, you may not be at fault but someone has explanations to give to you and this may be another experience altogether.

For the women, it hurts when you are seen as someone who had done the worst thing on earth, if you love that child, or any child in your union, please always do the right thing. Don't cheat when you're cheated up, rather be bold enough to walk away. Cheating out of revenge will eventually bring more problems than your intended revenge seeking. And also, please women, terminate every thread connecting you to any ex no matter what. Focus on your new life no matter how challenging and do not listen to friends who may come with good revelations buy bad intentions towards your marital life.

For men, please, stop legitimizing infidelity in marriages, whether in private or social media, you expose yourself to horrors and pain when you do.

Stand against infidelity and kick at it with all sincerity to help allay the fears that you may one day join them.

Please, kindly note that these are my personal takes on this trending issue and may be subject to readers evaluation and scrutiny.

The aim is to villify women. If you are so passionate about infidelity how come men are not held to the same standards.

DNA this! DNA that!!
Watin go be, go be.
Que sera sera

This is ridiculous. If you find yourself in a marriage where you question paternity, why are you even married?

If you do this, not out of actual suspicion, but just to do it because you want to, something is wrong with you. Why would you want to hurt your spouse like that?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....

I fit bet my balls say 80 percent of first child in a family nor be the husband get am

Bros remeber say ur mama sef born first pikin

EyezofGod120:
Charlie Charlie are you there ??

Charlie charlie dn carry rain cum lagos

Jaqenhghar:

The aim is to villify women. If you are so passionate about infidelity how come men are not held to the same standards.

Kindly. Go. Back. And. Read. My. Original. Post. Again.

Please. Be. Slow. And. Thorough.

Thank you.

Hathor5:
Stop wasting your time on NL guys. Just get on with the tests. How hard is it?

Madam, you're here to draw blood but others can give you that. Keep enjoying yourself.

Jaqenhghar:

The aim is to villify women. If you are so passionate about infidelity how come men are not held to the same standards.

Infidelity and paternity fraud is different

How will they vilify woman? You mean the woman brought a bastard home?

Kestolove:
I support dna test, how I wish it's free

keep deceiving yourself,hoes every where

Jaqenhghar:

The aim is to villify women. If you are so passionate about infidelity how come men are not held to the same standards.

Does men commit maternal fraud?
Don't you know what you are saying?

How does cheating lead to bringing a bastard home to your husband?
Why can't you mother the child outside and never tell your husband?

Kestolove:
I support dna test, how I wish it's free

No matter how expensive it is, raising a BASTARD will be more expensive, even a billionaire can't afford it

You guys should do the DNA make we rest abeg. Na wetin?

WoundedLamb:
I don't know about women. I can't speak for them. But if I were a lady and my husband comes back asking for paternity test on our kids, I know for sure that marriage would never remain the same again regardless of how hard I try. There's simply no better way to plant the seed of distrust than making such a request.

. Go and sit down with your Trust Crap ...

I come in peace

If you are faithful to your husband like they claim to be why afraid of NDA test?

cassyrooy:
Madam, you're here to draw blood but others can give you that. Keep enjoying yourself.

The energy you have wasted on opening these threads could have been used to test your children and your children's children and grandchildren.

pocohantas:
You guys should do the DNA make we rest abeg. Na wetin?

We go do am.

We just raising awareness

Hathor5:


The energy you have wasted on opening these threads could have been used to test your children and your children's children and grandchildren.

Yeah yeah, we go do am. We men love doing DNA, we go DNA everybody including our children

No more hideout for Incoming hoes

futurerex:
DNA this! DNA that!!

Watin go be, go be.

Que sera sera

. Paternity Fraud Sympathiser Spotted.

maynia:


Yeah yeah, we go do am. We men love doing DNA, we go DNA everybody including our children

No more hideout for Incoming hoes

If you marry a cheat, the joke is on you.

usj:
When you must have failed to ascertain for sure that the kid is yours, men, please remain calm and try again somewhere else. The probability of a misinformed lab technologist handling your case may eventually cause you to break your home. Revalidate that outcome in separate centres. OP your head get good oil. The post is very objective I'm sure your background is in science.

no be money them dey use do the test, he should try another lab, like say na free

generationz:


He does not have to ask. He'll do it without your knowledge.

You're very smart, she didn't know that the man don't need to ask. But if he requested shows he truly loves the woman. Anything can happen, what if the both don't share any trait with the child? What now happens if the hospital did some switching or even the woman masterminded it just for the love of a particular gender. It mustn't be as a result of cheating all the time. Except they don't have the intention of traveling out as family. The truth will still come out if there is anything fishing.

Hathor5:


If you marry a cheat, the joke is on you.

DNA comes in handy. Immediately after birth

And I'm not even thinking of marriage.
Of what purpose, women nowadays are HOES

Kestolove:
I support dna test, how I wish it's free

To hell with DNA tests..

Charlie Charlie has come to the rescue. It's quite affordable, just get two pencils and do the needful..

Hathor5:


The energy you have wasted on opening these threads could have been used to test your children and your children's children and grandchildren.

Biko, ejoo, please, da'Allah, leave those innocent kids out of our talk.

I'm not going to get pulled in your web, I've said what I think best of this issue. Good night.

Hathor5:


If you marry a cheat, the joke is on you.

And I hope you even give birth, before we start talking about DNA or not

Infertile hoes say the MOST.

I support DNA test but, how many men can afford it? No be to me noise upandan...

WoundedLamb:
I don't know about women. I can't speak for them. But if I were a lady and my husband comes back asking for paternity test on our kids, I know for sure that marriage would never remain the same again regardless of how hard I try. There's simply no better way to plant the seed of distrust than making such a request.

Seconded