ichidodo:
If It looks like a duck...Quacks like a duck...Walks like a duck...My brother don't let pant wear u before you do the needful..

thesicilian:
Everyone's now shouting DNA upandan when 90% of them can not even afford 2 square meals a day

Juliusmomoh:
@op,
Are you sure u are the real son of your father ?....

Mgbadike80:
The op is a liar, i checked his moniker and discovered that he likes creating stupid stories like this and ask for advice.

dontjuststop:

I look 100% like my father. Just can't post pics

dontjuststop:


Thanks for the advice. The children all have hairs on their body while I and my wife don't have any including our parents.

dontjuststop:
Hello House,

Am not gonna bore you with long speech and epistles. I got married several years ago to my wife and we had two lovely sons and a beautiful daughter.

Before we got married, she cheated on me twice and I forgave her and she turned a new leave afterwards which I love and appreciate about her.

The first child a son looks a little like my wife with eye and body physique and same eating habit.

The second daughter has her nose, body physique and eating habit but different complexion.

The third son looks nothing like anyone we know even her relatives and mine. The only person I can match his looks to is their family pastor before she got married to me. He has his hair looks and a strange eating habit different from anyone in the house.

I have been trying to talk to her about the looks of the children for years but I couldn't summon the courage cos I fear she may harm me without leaving a trace to protect her secret if she's hiding anything. I have checked their eyes nose ears and feet but none of them matches mine.

Should I tell her my concerns about the looks of our children? Or run DNA test secretly and live with it without letting her know.

Please advise.....

iLegendd:
Are men really this stupid?

Cheated and you forgave?

The one person that should be forgiven when it comes to cheating is a man. Yes, that's hypocritical, but that's the truth. Yes, only a man deserves forgiveness when it comes to cheating. Though, men shouldn't cheat too for peace to reign.

Some things favor women while others favor men. That's just how life is. Feminists want equality, but it's impossible.

Rape accusation favors women 90% of the time.
Cheating, on the other hand, is supposed to favor men 90% of the time too.

This is to say: when a woman cheats, she is 90% in trouble just the same way when a man gets accused of rape — whether he did it or not, he's 90% in trouble.

In your case, she cheated and you forgave all because of love and fear of losing her because she is beautiful or smart.

A woman that cheats will always cheat as long as the man she cheated with is better than her boyfriend or husband in bed (those that read the book Lasticle know what I'm talking about). Make I tell you the truth; a dick that knows its job is sweet! Women are my witness.

Once you go black, you can never go back. Even if you manage to go back, you'll soon go black again and blame is on highness.

Now, back to your case: You caused everything for forgiving her when she cheated. This is what low self-esteem causes. You broke one of the rules of "48 Laws of Dump."

Those men that can't approach women and woo them are always contented with a cheating partner.

It's more like: If I lose her, how will I get another one? And I have even introduced her to all my family members, so let me suck it up and just marry her like that — she will change after marriage. Nah! It gets worse.

Talking about telling her, my question is: are you really a man?

Communication is key, but real men know it's 50/50. Not everything should be talked about — some should be done in silence without a trace.

The only time you should talk about it is when the result is out and not in your favor. If it's out and all the kids are yours, then continue keeping quiet as if nothing happened and love her more for not making you raise bastards.