Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,166,680 members, 7,865,735 topics. Date: Thursday, 20 June 2024 at 02:41 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened (79107 Views)
Kenyan Man Returns Empty-Handed 42 Years After He Left Home For Greener Pastures / None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help / My Fiance Has A Child Out Of Wedlock. But Kept It A Secret From Me. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (22) (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) ... (45) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by GetMeRight: 9:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I can't say your mama was wrong but it wasn't your issue, why taking it personal with your bf? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Komu1048(m): 9:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Going through your comments, I conclude you are the best fit for the girl. Just go on and marry her. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 9:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Seems your bad mood is back or what? Can't take a joke again? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 9:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
britiko: Buying bread will lead people to rituals? There's nothing I won't read on this forum |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BabaIbo: 9:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Go and settle with that guy asap. Any delaybwil create distance between you two and that is the beginning if the end of your relationship with him, and he might just meet a new girl or give another girl chance which will endanger what you guys have together. You should have gotten something for your mom out of your pocket and claim he sent it and after that you can stylishly correct who needs correction among the tow which is obviously your mom because the man is not yet married to you and probably still hustling. For you to call him fiancee is even a sign that you don't want to lose him but your ego and unnecessary pride is having the better part of you. Well, aside from my advice to you, I have also seen a number of good advice here. It is left for you to pick one but remember delay is dangerous. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MummyD2020(f): 9:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: God bless u. The story is kind of dicey for me honestly. He could have just done it even though it's not compulsory. It doesnt take anything away from him. In life, no matter how disciplined or a no non sense person we claim to be, there are times we can just let go of somethings to make peace reign or to fulfil all righteousness. Somethings we consider here in Africa are absurd . Some people here calling name will get something for the woman in order to win her heart. Let's be honest |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DEBJOCH1(m): 9:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
IS YOUR MUM A TASK COLLECTOR? HABA. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 9:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
luminouz: This particular joke is already mouldy and stale. This is a new year. Make it fresh and warm, will you? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Raskasal(m): 9:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: Uncle have Vex finish ooo. Abeg free this babe jare. You've given her the best advice of her being on the side of her guy which she lack. I wish the guy more fortunes as I wish my self also |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 9:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
UnBanEbenezer: What is surprising about it? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by allawizzow(m): 9:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GIANTPLUSHUB:Pls use this advice. Very mature and Diplomatic |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nnamdi640: 9:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Most Nigeria ladies are always standing at the receiving end forgetting that there is love in sharing. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kayClt(f): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:m sure this is not the first time he is going to see her mum, so are u saying for every visit he has to go with something? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:You still dont get it ..e be like you are part of those naija girls that are slow and empty upstairs ..carrying gifts no be by force...i can choose to do it or not but I'll be irritated when you say i must do that or when you get angry i didnt bring bread...i read where u said carrying gifts to parent will make them know if he is stingy or caring. So by ur own standards, if he visits 20times and doesnt give una bread just once, he becomes stingy. Its poverty that is the problem here and not courtesy 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Why do I have to do all the work while you enjoy the proceeds? You come with a joke and keep it oven warm and morning fresh. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by prince2pac(m): 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:
|
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nwaezeson(m): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
truth be said Nigeria have cultures and traditions but when overstretch it becomes problem like this for crying out loud you are not yet married to this man and even if you are married to him there is no where it was writing in marital vow that one must buy a gift when visiting an inlaw,sometimes we use our hands to spoil the plans of in our life and come back later to regrets it the simple truth is that you and your mom have successfully passed wrong signal to your potential husband, my advice pray hard so that the unexpected doesn't happen 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: Lashist don vex Don't take stuffs here too serious. I don't. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Zurich1844(f): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Like mother like daughter. Broke ass family looking for who they will milk dry! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bluffly: 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Obviously you will find it easy to fight with him in marriage |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kayClt(f): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff:God bless you Biko |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kingsolomonjnr01(m): 9:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
bjprodint: op I wk advise u to take this one... do it |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by mywells: 9:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
At lease courtesy demand it,even if you're visiting anybody just buy at lease bread is better than nothing,that bread would go a long way you can imagine in your absence. charity begin. at home. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by solonubinho(m): 9:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
May God open your "fiancee's" eyes to the woman that is right for him. That's why I keep advising young men- dont date hungry people you will not hear. Now you see. Entitled bunch. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 9:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
luminouz:Vex ke...its just funny how some people think their bf money is suddenly theirs 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Dayoebe(m): 9:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I really pity this lady. 1. You told your fiance about your mum's lust for material things - red flag 2. You bring your matter to Nairaland hoping to get supporter - It ended in shame Please, for God sake. That guy deserves someone better I always try to avoid people like you, I'd advice my enemy to do the same 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bluffly: 9:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Good question |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by descarado: 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Babe, it doesn't follow that way at all. Going to your inlaw with gifts doesn't make u the good son inlaw. A load we give these guys to carry makes them treat our girls like commodity. Even if your family don't have, show some dignity. This is for your future. When guys say they don't want to marry again and resort to baby mama, we will all condemn them. Ok, reduce your expectations, no. The wise ones know what to do anyway. From girlfriend to betrothed to marriage to wifey, bring bring bring. I wish u guys luck. This generation needs it My own na to tie gele and occupy one table 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DEBJOCH1(m): 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
IS YOUR MUM A TASK COLLECTOR? HABA YOUR MUM NO GET CHILL AT ALL, I VISITED MY INLAWS THOUGH WHAT I TOOK TO THEM WAS INSIGNIFICANT, WHEN I WAS GOING BACK, THEY INSISTED I MUST CARRY LOAD OF FOOD ALONG, EACH I CALL MY INLAW OR HE CALL ME, I TELL NOT TO WORRY I WILL COME VISITING SOON, JUST THAT MAN STILL DE ORGANIZE THINGS, MY INLAW WILL ALWAYS ASK ME TO COME WITHOUT ANYTHING, THAT HE KNOWS THAT VERY SOON THINGS WILL SOON BE ORGANIZED FOR ME, THAT I SHOULD NOT BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT I AM STILL ORGANIZING THINGS AND STAY FAR FROM THEM. INFACT OP YOUR MAMA GO BE WAHALA INLAW, SHE NO GET CHILL AT ALL. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by providencia(m): 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Kaeboy:Haha..asking a nigerian girl that? Some don't even know if they are! How many times have you approach a girl and she will tell you outrightly she has a boyfriend. Send her a pm. Along the line, you will get a clue |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by friend2Macron: 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: So he must not come empty handed every single time? What have we turned into? Entitlement mentality! Na wa o! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mcslize: 9:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: If you attend a party and food do not get to you, will you usually complain and grudge? Look at it that way. It shows an entitlement mentality. It's embarrassing to complain for things like these. Because after all you will still eat in your house without that. Same thing apply to this scenario. Don't always expect people to bring gift for you when visiting. It's an entitlement mentality we should get rid of. 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) ... (22) (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) ... (45) (Reply)
Life Before Marriage Vs Life After Marriage (photos) / Lusting After My Husband's Cousin / Mother Goes Unclad In Birthday Shoot For Her 4-Year-Old Son
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 81 |