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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by mich2012: 10:29pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Afromentalist: Lol |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by PissfulProtester: 10:40pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
stupidmod2:she is a very stupid girl. If I see her one on one, I go tear am slap before anything |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by PissfulProtester: 10:42pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Chimaokigwe:
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Chimaokigwe: 10:57pm On Jan 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Stingy people with poverty mentality? Them take begging swear for una? Why don't you direct your advice to beggars too? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by abimbola74(m): 12:05am On Jan 11, 2021 |
not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handedSmiles , so he must always come in handy whenever he visit. Weldone ma. So because he doesn’t go with anything this time around , u have to fight him. I pray he fall in love with someone else sooner than expected. He deserves a loving MIL who is not a glutton |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by exegesis: 12:22am On Jan 11, 2021 |
lanreHeda:Yes. Amen. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MakyavelitheDon(m): 12:57am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Fiscus105: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BOSMANARIS(m): 5:49am On Jan 11, 2021 |
oshorstan: What due? So, if I'm to give all my ladies' mama due, on which account do I write them now? The point is, he's still a boyfriend and not husband yet. He can decide to give or not to give. That is, if he's got the financial strength |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BOSMANARIS(m): 5:51am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Chimaokigwe: She don offend you before? But, so bad for a mother to be crying over not getting gift from a visitor! I think the best tactic is this, once there's a knock at the door, the mother should slightly open window to check and double check the visitor's hand to confirm if there's a gift. If there's gift, open door. If not, remain shut. This is to avoid giving the visitor who doesn't bring anything drink to take o I come in peace 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ceeceeuwa: 7:00am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Exodora:Rightly put, a whole lot of them lack home training! Have you noticed that they quickly respond to people's post with insults? Imagine you insulting people on a faceless forum, when you don't know if the person in question is your parent or relation...civility among our current youths has been thrown to the dogs! Reason I visit Nairaland less and use other forums like Quora and the others! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Deffjam: 7:23am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Chimaokigwe:lolx how did you know....if true her behavoir must have caused her alot. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by stupidmod2: 11:18am On Jan 11, 2021 |
PissfulProtester:hahhaha some grown up girls dey lack brain |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 11:41am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Mariangeles:my dear, you're right. So many hungry people on nairaland here. Don't mind them. What is wrong in getting someone a gift. Unless of course you don't have the money 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 11, 2021 |
your harlot of a mother and your entire family have grown so deeply in foolishness. BASTARD. Your stupid and useless father should be blamed for bringing a scallywag like you into the world.you don't need to reply them. They don't worth your time na. Come on |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 5:19pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Lol,.single mother wey suppose calm down. only low self esteem can make a guy take back a lady (a,single mother at that) back after shouting at him and hanging up phone on him. Either she is lieing,the guy is a simple or dude gat some mad upcoming plans. I will say it till tomorrow,. traditional igbo parents dnt receive gifts from their daughters boyfriend or sons girlfriend. to Traditional igbo parents you only have one slot of your boyfriend or girlfriend visiting them and to them it's a confirmation that they are taking you to marry her. infact they will call you meeting in evening same day to know your plans as a man,.or as a woman to inquire more and when the man is coming (if they see him again its marriage list he came to collect or he is seen as unserious).or he can be there talking to them on phone. any traditional igbo woman that allows her daughter boyfriend to be visiting the house and be expecting him to bring gift ontop is crey crey. What girls dnt understand is that igbo tradition will tell you that,if you want to know how the girl you want to marry will behave later you should take a good look at her mother...Lol..Just saying...maybe na fact finding mission my guy go. If you are coming to igbo land to marry please visit once and watch the family closely..then go use people ask questions while you keep communication (phone). Next you will be Seen is to collect list and start. after you have become in-law anything you want to and can be able to do for your in-law in relation to their status it's your own thing. This is the real traditional igbo way. * this is necessary so people don't start seeing Igbos in wired light. we don't do nonsense 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 7:54am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Lol Seems you studied Igbo linguistics? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 99thEnemy(m): 10:07am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kriss216: Google Translate maara otu esi aru oru ebube nye anyị mgbe ufodu. obu enyi m n'oge obula maka udi ihe a |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 10:18am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kriss216: Onye Igbo ka'm wu. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 10:22am On Jan 14, 2021 |
99thEnemy: Onye gwara gi nke ahu? Ngwa dee ogologo edemede n'Igbo, I were google translate tugharia ya, lee ihe o ga gosi gi? Lee ma o ga enwete ya? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 99thEnemy(m): 10:55am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Who told you that? Nobody told me oh! Google only showed me how very feasible it is. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 10:59am On Jan 14, 2021 |
99thEnemy: Nke mbu, ihe m dere adighi ogologo. Nke abuo, google enwetechahu ya. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 99thEnemy(m): 11:28am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 11:36am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Mariangeles:You can’t be Onye Igbo. Igbo people are respectful. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 12:00pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kriss216: Lekwa onye n'ekwu okwu gbasara nsopuru! I ma ihe wu nsopuru? Ginwa mara aju, buru mkpari n'ishi. Mkpari zuru gi ahu! Owu ihe e ji mara gi na nairaland. Ya bia na mkpari, I wu eze! N'elu ya, I biazie nwe ajo obi ebe umu nwaanyi Naijiria nu. Ihe m n'aju onwe'm mgbe ufodu bu "owu na nwoke a enweghi ndi umu nwaanyi n'ezi n'ulo ha?" Ha kpoputa ndi nwere nsopuru, I kwesighi I puta, m'obu tinye onu Kriss. Kriss, gbalia gbanwee! Otu a anyi ka no n'afo ohuru! Ihe karia, a tuo ya aka! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 12:05pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Lol God bless Google Translate You've seen an opportunity to unleash your venom on me. Ajo nwanyi. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 99thEnemy(m): 1:08pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kriss216: Helping our internet lives since 28 April 2006 . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 1:59pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kriss216: I hope google translated correctly though |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 2:01pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 2:02pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
99thEnemy:Obviously, hehehe |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 2:05pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by deltateam: 2:08pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Una still dey solve this matter so? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by VanillaIyce(f): 11:31am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Don't vex much now.. I am sure she won't insult again when trying to make a point.quoteor=TransAtlanticEx post=97809986]Are you sure you really wanna do this? Cos I'm ready when you are. Feed me and my family( a whole my family ooo) for ages yet your mama dey want kill herself say your fiance no buy bread for am?. Why not use that money weh you want use am feed me and my generation buy your mama provisions keep for house na And somehow its from this miserly,miserable existence that you wanna feed my family(really rich ) from? My eldest sister got married in 2004,in 2003 when the man came for introduction,he wore shorts and was empty handed. You know why?There was nothing he could bring that we don't have and he knew it What you could have done sef to even cover your bf is send some money to your thirsty mom and claim your bf sent it,but instead you fought with him over it,maybe because you and your mama don plan as una go share the stipends weh the guy suppose bring, Yet a bottom feeder like you wants to feed my generation? [/quote] |
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