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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by At10tion: 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado:Don't just jump to the conclusions that your mom will do so, I'm sure she's not a charity organization! I'm sure your mom will do so having found him worthy of such act of love. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Simple...its a thing of choice not a must...will you swear that you carried gifts in all your visits and wedding attendances in your life. Every single one of them? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by afroxyz: 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:A red flag for what exactly? So a gift overides the character of the person? Hungry people 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Homeboiy: 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BusinessCity: She said he used to bring gifts but he did not bring any gift on his last visit. How do that sound to you. It clearly means that the mother is a hungry woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I wanted to like this your contribution at least twenty times. But alas that's not possible on NL. TransAtlanticEx: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 8:49pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Homeboiy: Kolanut doesn't fill the stomach. Prestige costs nothing but add honor to the one that acts right. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
basbone: Wise words 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 8:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: Not to all wedding attendance, no, as I didn't know some of the people but family friends, yes. I know them. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by freeman5050: 8:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
obstead200: My friend shot up there. All these lagosian indomie children. What do you know about courtesy. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Dipwater(m): 8:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
As an igbo man i cant go to my inlaws house without gifts.but it depends if the inlaw lives in the same city or locality with the young man and he wants to breeze in and say hi,there is nothing wronmg with that.nairalanders dont forget that the lady said its not the first time he came visiting ,that he bought gift the first time .the guy is not stingy,maybe he doesnt have .you as the lady made a big mistake by calling him to talk tras/h .you should have deffended him .your mum is a typical igbo woman .they expect too much from a would be inlaw but you should have protected your guy with solid excuse .dont be surprised when mumsie start to bad mouth and talk down on you in the presence of your younger ones .politics dey every family nne na wisdom you go take dey handle matter .you no try for this one . You behaved like a lil baby . 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Brayss(m): 8:50pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by descarado: 8:51pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:If it comes to this, the babe loses especially if the guy is a good guy. Once parent start measuring the "love and care" their daughter gets from her man with material things, the man is taking note and will treat the wife or wife to be as property.i do hope babes take note. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mypeople2(m): 8:52pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
If we say you're st*pid now, you would be angry. You too listen to yourself... Please free that man, he doesn't deserve an entitled human being like you. Trayceey: 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Homeboiy: 8:53pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BusinessCity: It was not his first visit The mother should have focused on the mans personality and what he is up to rather than gifts 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Collins4u1(m): 8:54pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Too much expectation creates disappointment 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 8:54pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
WILLuKPquiet: What a rebound load of craaaap Obey your moniker or are you dëaf? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by itsja4: 8:54pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Our African mothers with gift mentality. At least the young lad brought a gift once Even if na ritualust he no concern the mama All den know na gifts and money. Am not saying it's bad And I hardly go to my in laws without gift But I personally feel it shouldn't be enforced on anyone. Ways we were brought up differs. Judge no man! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by swankylay(m): 8:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Wait o. Is this not Nigeria again? Y y'all abusing the lady and her mama? Are y'all not trained ?? Courtesy demands you go along with a gift if you're visiting someone let alone your MIL to be . And y'all there saying rubbish ! E ma ni eko o. BTW, ur fiancee should call and apologize (find an excuse) if he's really interested in the marriage. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: You must be the son of Lie Muhammed. Go back to the OP's post and point out where it was written he has been going there before with gifts. Must you lie to make a point? The whites who says "you shouldn't have brought this" are saying it for courtesy. The same courtesy that demands he brings a gift no matter how small. Stinginess and irresponsibility are running in your vein and I bind every such spirits in you this year. Kid always leave matters of this kind to your elders to treat. This matter is way too big for your reasoning. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Collins4u1(m): 8:57pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Assuming the guy has been bringing something in his earlier visits, has he? Why would not bringing this time be an issue.. Tell your mum to stop too much expectation, it breeds disappointment. Fiancee = provider 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bullman(m): 8:57pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Olojukokoro family 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DrewMX(m): 8:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
@ OP, You guys are not yet married, but your family has given him a red flag. Try and talk to your mum that not all that glitters is gold. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Dminister(m): 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: You wicked o! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by comtem2011: 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
YelloweWest:According to the OP, that's not the first time. And he has been taking gifts along all these while. Just this single visit, the mum was complaining. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Emperorlanky: 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Are you still on this issue? The girl in question is a teenager! |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
luminouz: Not everyone needs a hearing aid like your dad. This matter is way too big for your reasoning. Go suck on your mum's b000bs. And wait till Seun creates the kindergarten section. There you would have the chance to play Charlie Charlie with you peers. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 9:03pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
WILLuKPquiet: Obey ya moniker!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 9:03pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
WILLuKPquiet:Olodo read well next time..even for the first time, no be by force to carry biscuits there...its when you lack basic things you will start complaining that ur gf or bf didnt bring you bread and biscuits. Foolish hungry elder like you..better go and make money and stop expecting bread from visitors everytime . No elder with sense will get a moniker like yours...you are either a small broke jambite or a foolish elder that is looking for small gifts like bread and biscuits for every visit 6 Likes
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by mechanics(m): 9:03pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You should have tried to know the reason he gave rather than hanging up on him. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 9:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado: Once parents start measuring the "love and care" their daughter gets from her man with material things, they are quickly able to decipher the stingy ones from the caring ones and save her from a marriage of sorrows. "...For by their fruits you shall know them." |
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