Magnoliaa:
The highlight for me in everything that's been said here is how Naija men and red pillars UNANIMOUSLY agreed that Naija women are hardworking and it's not a big deal to find a woman who has something going for herself.

Because they wanted the op to feel as if the kind of person his babe is is not a big deal, they compared her to "hundreds" of working women doctors, engineers, lawyers, accountants, CEOs, actresses, entrepreneurs and other "high value" women out there. Everybody suddenly knows a respectable, big girl that compromised for them in a relationship they are in control of.

Later in the day, the wailing resumes and all objectivity becomes suspended... *catwalks out of thread and site*.

sirjamesjnr:
She has seen the thread.

sirjamesjnr:
Don't mind those fools. I had to get some stuffs in computer village, It was late, so I had to sleep in a hotel in Ikeja. Babe couldn't come over due to traffic and workload. Next day I went to VI book a hotel, Babe was on calls with a serious case of the emergency, third day, she spends all day with me. I won't dignify those fools with any further reply, let them wallow in their ignorant.

pocohantas:


Lmao. They change their opinion every other day. The aim is never to be on the same side with you. Me sef shock as they are all dating working women who have time for them o.

You have to love NL guys.

Asinnn. These guys. They all know what they are doing and wahala for pesin wey dey follow them.

temi4fash:



The mistake you made is bringing your relationship here.

it would never remain the same after this thread.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

gforce5:
See what I am saying? Inferiority complex has messed up this poor fellow's mind. Chaps like this one are intimidated by educated female professionals and believe that they are "sluts" and "arrogant". No man who is well exposed and is comfortable would reason like this. It's the common trend for Nairaland "alpha males" and "redpillers". Any woman who is educated, exposed and is a high earner is seen as a "slag" or "not being submissive".

NLRulesEnforcer:


Credibility matters to any business investor(s). Point is very few people will want to invest in the business of an individual who is not credible by virtue of the fact that you continue to abuse and break forum rules with your constant spamming of this content all over the forum threads.

Not only are you spamming content, the content you have up there has no relevance to the current thread topic. In short, you are breaking forum rules 1 and 18, and this is not your first time.

Rule 1: Please post all threads in the right section, and don't derail threads by posting off topic.

Rule 18: Don't spam the forum by advertising in the wrong places or posting the same content many times.

Hence, kindly receive sense and stop spamming the forum threads with your content ads which abuse and break forum rules. Continue and you will be reported to the Mods and your account will be permanently banned within the next 24 hours.

Red7:




Good. Here's your assignment. Copy the question I asked and the answers you provided and send it to her privately. You will see the magic it'll work out on your behalf




If only the mods could push this thread to front page so guys seeking to date high value ladies could learn a thing or two tips and add more ideas on how to compromise when dating a high value babe


Mods can you help?


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Chii59:

Ever heard of "relationship dynamics"?
Every relationship is different. Many of you that form "I can't take this" on nairaland, make far worse compromises for love offline. Abegggggi

Hassanmaye:

Share me your experience abeg I'm dating one currently

Chii59:

No two people are the same. Same thing with relationships.
The "nonsense" you speak of, makes him happy. So shift.

Too many bitter souls on this forum.

kazyhm:


Its a long and needless story.....I'm married to a Doctor and she didn't engage in these shenanigan.......I'm enjoying it


The word high valued woman sounds stupid though

joe4christ:


This guy sef. U just dey break guys code of conduct up and down , left, right, center.
You say the bolded about my sister, ama break ya neck aswear down. Get your act together, you're messing up big time. You've insulted ur woman countless times while trynna buttress ur point and while being defensive.
You should first proceed to wife her. Then after 10yrs u can come back here and tell us how high valued she really is.
Na love dey shack u so o. And Nairaland will only compound to your problem.
This relationship I pray will survive after this bashing from Nairalanders.
Next time keep ur relationship private bros!

kazyhm:


Nonsense can make a delusional person happy.....it is allowed

Chii59:

Let him be delusional, it makes him happy. Shove your opinion where the sun doesn't shine.

kazyhm:


I can't even interpret you statements accurately

Are you happy for him, Jealous of her or bitter for both of them.....?

Chii59:

Sighs. You're on a much lower frequency. No need for any further explanation.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Wow!!!

You are allowed to have your opinion. But then your opinion is dusty. Good day.

pocohantas:


Lmao. They change their opinion every other day. The aim is never to be on the same side with you. Me sef shock as they are all dating working women who have time for them o.

You have to love NL guys.

MMXX:
So ona don make that girl deactivated ba

Wicked fifu

Karleb:
Funny thing about this lady is that her co e-feminists treat their men right, she on the other hand doesn't know where to stop.

I'm very sure po.co and Ishi cannot do this shiit with their men.

Even in their feminist coven, these two ladies ranks combined no reach that of funmi.

Profkenny1:


What you just wrote doesn't reflect high value in a woman. Again, from what you wrote, it appears she ain't on your program! This means she isn't cooperative with you! Tell me how many hours she spent on phone with you on your birthday? Tell me how often she has found time to visit you? Tell me how she has shown she's willing to be submissive to you?

If you're a Christian or Muslim, according to the scriptures, you should know that the purpose of a woman is a man.

Heathrow44:
Mad oo! How can u call funtamistic queen high value babe? Are u OK? Funtamistic queen is an infamous misandrist and men hater, she hates men to the extent she's emotionally and psychologically torturing u and because u are a victim as u can't see, u av learnt to enjoy ur chains and pain, CIA intelligence reports after 9/11 leaked classified information showed that when u withdraw attention from a tortureree and invite them again on phases, the person tend to crave ur attention whenever he/she gets it, and can go to any extent to get that high and can grow to enjoy the pain, she's a feminist-extremist and has found someone she can control and have wrapped around her fingers, she's the man and u are d woman in d relationship, u would be washing her pants, brassiere's and fishy smelling lingerie while she lies on the bed with her macbook air using the internet! I've not seen a bigger low self esteemed sad person as this op that doesn't have any value for his sanity to want t date such a disgusting man hater!

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

DrFunmisticGlow:
excuse me?!