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Manoftheyear:
The thing is that, I'm leaving here immediately my bro return from his trip, so it will still go the Normal way because that one no dey too dey shop

reason your bro na..

NwaAmaikpe:



The problems you listed are actually your answers.

Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her.

Problem 2. Forgive yourself.
Because

Problem 3.
She is a single mom who is vulnerable.
It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution.
If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access.

She is young and attractive....you could as well start a relationship with her so that you can cater to her.
That way, what she steals is still within the family.

werey no Boda yi sha

Jessepaid:
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Collect the shop keys...

Make the sacrifice and come early to open the place

But it wasn't me that give her the keys initially, it was my bro

44Bulldog:
1...Talk to her like a brother-sister conversation, let her know that you're aware of what she's doing and let her know that if she doesn't change, it'll cost her "her job" (of course she'll still do it, but the fear of being caught will be there so she won't over do it, she go use sense).... that's if you're pitiful and u don't want to be the reason someone joy is taken


2...Tell your brother and let her get the Bleep out of his shop since she's greedy.... that's if u don't give a damn , but I won't advice u to do this because country hard and everybody deserves a second chance and there is no guarantee that new employee won't do the same (even worse)



Since u don't want her to lose her job

Tell ur brother to be watchful and monitor everything anytime he's around, warn ur brother wella

Don't act like you caught her red handed to ur brother just tell him to keep his eyes open


Although being a single mom isn't an excuse for stealing but country hard

Put urself in ur brother's shoe...if u you're the owner of the business, can u do with her staying, if yes....fine

If no...let her go

Lalasticlala needs to see this

Lalasticlala where are though

Please I need more views on this

Jessepaid:
reason your bro na..

Alright boss

She's a thief shikena. Report and get her fired simples

thebosstrevor1:
A thief is a thief no matter the gender and condition

I have seen some Simps trying to take caution with the thief because she is a female.

Go and report to your brother

Your brother business will soon crumble and you wont have food to eat.

I onder how Nigerians think, the lack of taking responsibility is why this country is like this today.

Thanks boss

NnamdiN:
She's a thief shikena. Report and get her fired simples

He ask you to take care of his business, so now its your business. Do what would make your business prosper and sack that sales lady

Manoftheyear:

Be more careful so the lady does not harm you. If you Love your bro, you need to tell him.

How do u think Ur brother will react if you tell him the blind truth?

You will have to inform your brother.

Talk with the lady first. Get her reaction. If she is remorseful, then inform Ur brother but plead with your brother to forgive her and perhaps increase the pay/incentive but keep proper record of the stocks & sales.

oga !!!don't be stupid go and tell your brother now if u are reading these ...this is how I lost a business of millions..

Manoftheyear:
Good day guys, happy New year to everyone, please I will make this post as brief as possible.
My brother asked me to help him look after his business when he wants to travel for Xmas, and it happens that I know much about the business, and he have a salesgirl too whom from my observation is a single mother though she is still very young.
Now this is the problem, since I started coming to that shop, I noticed this girl used to do some uncertain things (wuru wuru), so I decided to be more watchful and that's when i found out what she has been doing in the shop. I have caught her red handed in this act.

The first occasion was during last week Tuesday when we were about to close for the day and I was going through the sales book only for me to realized that the items we sold earlier in the day, the quantity in the book was different from what we actually sold, she minus some quantity and I called her to it and she acted as if it was a mistake, I acted as if nothing happened.

Second incident was last week Saturday, I was in the shop and one woman came to the shop with an Item she bought from our shop, so I was in my corner not minding them but I realized she came to complain of something to her and later bought another thing, I saw the item she came with so after the woman left, I called the girl and asked her when the woman bought that item, she said it was on Thursday, so after sometime, I went to the sales book to check if she wrote it, but I was shocked when I went through the whole week sales but I couldn't find it. I kept my cool, till in the evening when we were about to go and i asked her to show me where wrote it, only for her to be going through over and over again, I asked her, I thought you said you sold this thing on Thursday and she said no. Now because we have closed for the day, she wrote it as Monday sales, but I keep wondering if it was only this item that the woman bought. Even is she sold it on Thursday and forget to write it down, the Money would have reflected after the close of the day, but it didn't, that means she intentionally stole the money. She is the one with shop keys and she opens the shop before i come every morning.

Now my problems are

1. I love minding my business

2. It's my brother's business which he entrusted to me to look after for him, so if after finding out all these things and still keep it to myself, if anything goes wrong in future I won't forgive myself.

3. This lady is a single mother and very young, I assume this is the only place she gets what she's using to take care of her herself and her baby, I really feel for her and I know she is going to loose her job if my brother gets to know about this.

Please what should I do?


Please forgive my errors, I'm not perfect

You’re indeed very stupid someone is stealing from your brother that’s almost yours and you’re here talking about minding your business

:She's a thief shikena. Report and get her fired simples

NwaAmaikpe:



The problems you listed are actually your answers.

Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her.

Problem 2. Forgive yourself.
Because

Problem 3.
She is a single mom who is vulnerable.
It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution.
If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access..will you be able to forgive yourself?

She is young and attractive....you could as well start a relationship with her so that you can cater to her.
That way, what she steals is still within the family.

So in summary;
Mind your business and don't tell your brother. Forgive yourself for not telling your brother because the culprit is a single mother who needs to do what she is doing if she and her baby will survive.

your mentality shock me tbh, you are probably a student and still depending on your parents lol so being a single mother na excuse to be a thief? When you have your own business in the future leave your workers to keep stealing then we would see how that goes ode.

Possiblegee:
which kind advice this clown day advice like this

I swear all the advice I'm seeing here is probably coming from people who dont have any business and prolly being paid at their jobs,if she is a single mother and needs more money then she should go do another job that pays more. Dont take people's advice seriously most are kids who dont know what life is all about yet or adults who are still living and surviving by their parents.

If I am your brother and I later get to find out that you saw something that will crumble my business in medium/long run and your annoying pity for a thief made you to look away, I WILL HATE YOU FOR LIFE.

She's a thief and she's just starting small. Soon, she will increase her loot and your brother will be out of business, his family suffering, while the looter girl enjoy her loot.

It's an unfair world. Don't even try to be faint hearted

Talk to her or she will finish your brother money due to greed

This one na question.. abi u get eye for the girl?

Forgive the young woman and tell her to go and sin no more.

thebosstrevor1:
A thief is a thief no matter the gender and condition

I have seen some Simps trying to take caution with the thief because she is a female.

Go and report to your brother

Your brother business will soon crumble and you wont have food to eat.

I onder how Nigerians think, the lack of taking responsibility is why this country is like this today.

sharap

Quietly tell her to stop and warn her to not do it again or else you'll report to her boss. Case closed

Manoftheyear:
Good day guys, happy New year to everyone, please I will make this post as brief as possible.

My brother asked me to help him look after his business when he wants to travel for Xmas, and it happens that I know much about the business, and he have a salesgirl too whom from my observation is a single mother though she is still very young.

Now this is the problem, since I started coming to that shop, I noticed this girl used to do some uncertain things (wuru wuru), so I decided to be more watchful and that's when I found out what she has been doing in the shop. I have caught her red handed in this act.

The first occasion was during last week Tuesday when we were about to close for the day and I was going through the sales book only for me to realized that the items we sold earlier in the day, the quantity in the book was different from what we actually sold, she minus some quantity and I called her to it and she acted as if it was a mistake, I acted as if nothing happened.

Second incident was last week Saturday, I was in the shop and one woman came to the shop with an Item she bought from our shop, so I was in my corner not minding them but I realized she came to complain of something to her and later bought another thing, I saw the item she came with so after the woman left, I called the girl and asked her when the woman bought that item, she said it was on Thursday, so after sometime, I went to the sales book to check if she wrote it, but I was shocked when I went through the whole week sales but I couldn't find it. I kept my cool, till in the evening when we were about to go and i asked her to show me where she wrote it, only for her to be going through over and over again, I asked her, I thought you said you sold this thing on Thursday and she said no.

Now because we have closed for the day, she wrote it as Monday sales, but I keep wondering if it was only this item that the woman bought. Even is she sold it on Thursday and forget to write it down, the Money would have reflected after the close of the day, but it didn't, that means she intentionally stole the money. She is the one with shop keys and she opens the shop before i come every morning.

Now my problems are

1. I love minding my business

2. It's my brother's business which he entrusted to me to look after for him, so if after finding out all these things and still keep it to myself, if anything goes wrong in future I won't forgive myself.

3. This lady is a single mother and very young, I assume this is the only place she gets what she's using to take care of her herself and her baby, I really feel for her and I know she is going to loose her job if my brother gets to know about this.

Please what should I do?


Please forgive my errors, I'm not perfect

As a business man
Fire her
Her cup is full

NwaAmaikpe:



The problems you listed are actually your answers.

Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her.

Problem 2. Forgive yourself.
Because

Problem 3.
She is a single mom who is vulnerable.
It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution.
If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access..will you be able to forgive yourself?

She is young and attractive....you could as well start a relationship with her so that you can cater to her.
That way, what she steals is still within the family.

So in summary;
Mind your business and don't tell your brother. Forgive yourself for not telling your brother because the culprit is a single mother who needs to do what she is doing if she and her baby will survive.

Which kine Advice be dis?

My one Saudi Riyal.

Tell your brother but be diplomatic.

Firstly, there's nothing like minding your business here. I don't know your culture or religion but in Islam once you're charged with a responsibility, you must act in the best interest of those who charged you with the responsibility.

If your brother caught her by himself, do you think he would have sacked her or kept her? Your answer will determine if you're not betraying your brother.

In fact, since you're asking this question, it means you're almost certain that he'll fire her. So concealing this from him is betrayal.

Secondly, for your own safety and sanity don't let her know you've caught her. People, especially women, can be desperate and irrational when seeking revenge (even when they're wrong).

So you should be diplomatic. Even if your brother will fire her, she shouldn't know you're the one that exposed her. It's very important.

sit her down and talk to her.... tell her reasons her life is far worth than stealing those stuff.... maybe God want to use u to change her.

I suspect you are also stealing from your brother hence you won't even think about keeping a thief in his shop.

Manoftheyear:
Good day guys, happy New year to everyone, please I will make this post as brief as possible.

My brother asked me to help him look after his business when he wants to travel for Xmas, and it happens that I know much about the business, and he have a salesgirl too whom from my observation is a single mother though she is still very young.

Now this is the problem, since I started coming to that shop, I noticed this girl used to do some uncertain things (wuru wuru), so I decided to be more watchful and that's when I found out what she has been doing in the shop. I have caught her red handed in this act.

The first occasion was during last week Tuesday when we were about to close for the day and I was going through the sales book only for me to realized that the items we sold earlier in the day, the quantity in the book was different from what we actually sold, she minus some quantity and I called her to it and she acted as if it was a mistake, I acted as if nothing happened.

Second incident was last week Saturday, I was in the shop and one woman came to the shop with an Item she bought from our shop, so I was in my corner not minding them but I realized she came to complain of something to her and later bought another thing, I saw the item she came with so after the woman left, I called the girl and asked her when the woman bought that item, she said it was on Thursday, so after sometime, I went to the sales book to check if she wrote it, but I was shocked when I went through the whole week sales but I couldn't find it. I kept my cool, till in the evening when we were about to go and i asked her to show me where she wrote it, only for her to be going through over and over again, I asked her, I thought you said you sold this thing on Thursday and she said no.

Now because we have closed for the day, she wrote it as Monday sales, but I keep wondering if it was only this item that the woman bought. Even is she sold it on Thursday and forget to write it down, the Money would have reflected after the close of the day, but it didn't, that means she intentionally stole the money. She is the one with shop keys and she opens the shop before i come every morning.

Now my problems are

1. I love minding my business

2. It's my brother's business which he entrusted to me to look after for him, so if after finding out all these things and still keep it to myself, if anything goes wrong in future I won't forgive myself.

3. This lady is a single mother and very young, I assume this is the only place she gets what she's using to take care of her herself and her baby, I really feel for her and I know she is going to loose her job if my brother gets to know about this.

Please what should I do?


Please forgive my errors, I'm not perfect

Sack her.. Thieves no dey change. Talking from experience.