A man in love is blind to his best interests but a woman in love is far from insane; she is anything but unwise or blind to her interests.

Peaceyw:
This tweet is irritating

Greet riquelme for me

No matter how red pilled you are, you'll still periodically fall in love with women.
If you understand the body chemicals responsible for "Love", you'll realize that you can't/may not be able to help it. However, the difference between a blue-pilled man and a red-pilled man in love is that: the red-pilled man realizes that the things MEN IN LOVE do, are so stup.id that only MEN AT GUNPOINT should do --hence a red-pilled man is more aware of himself, and maintains his sanity when his body system releases the chemicals responsible for "Love." He knows it will pass; so he takes a chilled bottle and continues observing life.

— oyolohi

More like a red pilled man loves with his sense of reasoning still intact and functioning effectively but a blue pilled folk loves without his using his sense of reasoning.

Emmynator:
Resist the urge to be the hunter for once in your life and watch the change of the level of your game. The hunter constantly chasing could always easily end up being exhausted.
Be that trophy that sit still on the podium while the athletes run and battle tooth and nail to attain it. Be that prize and everything will be rigged to your favour.

This should be the one of the most important red pill principle, I don't know why most guys don't get it, being the price has a lot of benefits that you can't get by chasing.

Put yourself out there as the trophy and you will excel where others fail and will not go where you are doomed to fail.

Wise words sometimes u take a break from women to focus more on ur goals. Las las no award for womanizin

One good thing abt d redpill is u get to know d consequences of simpin, hence u always play safe wen dealing with anyone not just females..

oyolohi:
No matter how red pilled you are, you'll still periodically fall in love with women.
If you understand the body chemicals responsible for "Love", you'll realize that you can't/may not be able to help it. However, the difference between a blue-pilled man and a red-pilled man in love is that: the red-pilled man realizes that the things MEN IN LOVE do, are so stup.id that only MEN AT GUNPOINT should do --hence a red-pilled man is more aware of himself, and maintains his sanity when his body system releases the chemicals responsible for "Love." He knows it will pass; so he takes a chilled bottle and continues observing life.

-oyolohi

As a rule, I disengage from girls that I find my self attracted to, I recognise the danger she poses and I choose not to be party to it.

Frolicking with a girl you are in "love" with is the fastest way to fall into simping. Sure you may be able to maintain frame, but you will only struggle to do so, and the chances of your emotions getting the best of you is very high.

The one who loves more in the relationship suffers more.

343tipster:


Greet riquelme for me o... for Saturday set for osogbo stadium

The guy formation na die, if he says no team dey beat us before you know it na zero zero....

If refree just say any ball out !!! na that time people dey know say riquelme dey Field

I think u got the wrong person. I have never been to osogbo

Emmynator:


As a rule, [/b]I disengage from girls that I find my self attracted to[b], I recognise the danger she poses and I choose not to be party to it.

Frolicking with a girl you are in "love" with is the fastest way to fall into simping. Sure you may be able to maintain frame, but you will only struggle to do so, and the chances of your emotions getting the best of you is very high.

The one who loves more in the relationship suffers more.

Word, it is better to disengage when you feel attracted to her, I follow your idea

Emmynator:


As a rule, I disengage from girls that I find my self attracted to, I recognise the danger she poses and I choose not to be party to it.

Frolicking with a girl you are in "love" with is the fastest way to fall into simping. Sure you may be able to maintain frame, but you will only struggle to do so, and the chances of your emotions getting the best of you is very high.

The one who loves more in the relationship suffers more.

True talk
One bottle of beer for you

No need to fall in love in the first place
If they can be used by you then use them if not cut them off
Women no be am

i926:
A man in love is blind to his best interests but a woman in love is far from insane; she is anything but unwise or blind to her interests.

That's cos women cannot fall in love bro
They will only strike an agreement with you
It's like an exchange
When you cannot deliver on your own part
Oga carry your love dey go oooo

Only a simp will open his mouth and say something like
My girl is madly in love with me

If truly a woman can fall in love with a man then all these attitudes of women we are learning about is supposed to be subdued when the woman falls in love with the man.
What am saying is this
Women are deceptive, manipulative and bla bla bla
But when she gets into serious commitment with a man
She's supposed to put all those things aside
Someone that you have entered a covenant with to become one
You are not supposed to be lieing to him or manipulating him and so on
But you will see them lieing, cheating their husbands
Mtcheeeew
All those love Tory na for your head
If we men dey fit read women mind
Hmmmmm
Nobody go marry
U think say as you take love am na so she take love you back
SORRY FOR YOU

luminouz:


1. No girl who sees me would wanna get physical. This is not only because I look very ruthless and I'm fuqin strong. I always lay down a no domestic violence rule at the start of the relationship. Girls who have played with me and seen my strength don't overstep their boundaries

2. Any woman who slaps me,gets slapped in return. No excuses and no handouts. All I can do is make sure I have witnesses who can back me up if shit hits the fan.

3. The worst her dad would do is arrest me. I will bail myself out. This is one reason why I cultivate friends in the police and army sections.

4. If all of the above failed, then I have a plan E. I would let her leave my house in peace and give her a month or two, then I will strike when the moon is down and shadows are about. But one thing is sure,no one,woman or man,slaps me and gets away with it.

This is all my personal opinion

Lols. Luminous boss. I always enjoy you. . My man

SOZINN:
Only a simp will open his mouth and say something like
My girl is madly in love with me

At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.

SOZINN:
If truly a woman can fall in love with a man then all these attitudes of women we are learning about is supposed to be subdued when the woman falls in love with the man.
What am saying is this
Women are deceptive, manipulative and bla bla bla
But when she gets into serious commitment with a man
She's supposed to put all those things aside
Someone that you have entered a covenant with to become one
You are not supposed to be lieing to him or manipulating him and so on
But you will see them lieing, cheating their husbands
Mtcheeeew
All those love Tory na for your head
If we men dey fit read women mind
Hmmmmm
Nobody go marry
U think say as you take love am na so she take love you back
SORRY FOR YOU

At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.

The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.

Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.

luminouz:


1. No girl who sees me would wanna get physical. This is not only because I look very ruthless and I'm fuqin strong. I always lay down a no domestic violence rule at the start of the relationship. Girls who have played with me and seen my strength don't overstep their boundaries

2. Any woman who slaps me,gets slapped in return. No excuses and no handouts. All I can do is make sure I have witnesses who can back me up if shit hits the fan.

3. The worst her dad would do is arrest me. I will bail myself out. This is one reason why I cultivate friends in the police and army sections.

4. If all of the above failed, then I have a plan E. I would let her leave my house in peace and give her a month or two, then I will strike when the moon is down and shadows are about. But one thing is sure,no one,woman or man,slaps me and gets away with it.

This is all my personal opinion

I dey feel you bro
The best
After doing 1-3
She should just leave my house in peace
I pray they all work though
Should I find myself in such situations
Cuz that plan E looks like something that will have negative effects later in life

GLYCOLYSISS:

These thread actually got me thinking out loud :

https://www.nairaland.com/6361704/what-happens-when-man-chooses

It's all about men that cut ties with their family members because of a woman.

What's your take on that ?

Is it actually a wise move ?
Because it's actually not uncommon for men to go against their parents and siblings for women who they mostly claim is "the one",especially when marriage is in the picture.

You got any story or life experience you actually felt it was the right choice ?

Your opinions will highly be appreciated and may help a brother who is in similar situation to make a more informed choice.

Good evening everyone..

Lord have mercy
Hey
Men
I don weak

Men it's very heart breaking when you read this type of story about someone who you respect so much.
I see Kobe Bryant as an inspiration.
This is beyond bad.
Very hard to accept.
Choi

I'm still recovering from my dead uncle's own
I've not even fully recovered
Someone with so much potential
A lady made him cut ties with his friends and family
He turned against his own family
Nearly killed his brother
And when he died what happened
She was running his business non stop
Even when he was gravely ill and when he died
That shop did not close for one day
When he died she didn't tell anybody
She just buried him secretly
Of course none of his friends or family showed up
Not even the elders came
We found out through the lawyer
That the man is no more
After burying him she changed the name of all his businesses to her own name
Now she's the one running everything
Nobody wants to give a fvck
Everyone is just watching
Cuz when he was alive he pushed his family away
Any time I walk past one of his houses
I'll just look at it and shake my head
A man with so much potential
She just came into his life and took over everything he worked for
Within how many years
Tufiakwa
Only for me to read today that Kobe Bryant did the same thing
It never ends well for them ooo
Another person I respect so much
Men
This thing is bad ooo

A

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okrikaboi:
A woman is truly in love with you when she has invested more into the delusion that both of you would be together forever. A girl that invests her money into a relationship, her time, emotions, committment and a lot of sexual fetishes will not leave you easily.

Oh! Dear men, do not be fooled by a woman's investment in a relationship! I repeat, do not.

A woman who invests in a relationship is highly dangerous. These kinds of women are capable of seeing a lifetime into the future while the man sees only a few years ahead.

Recently, my friend's good friend passed away. His wife was the kind who invested in relationships. Her husband went up the ladder and passed away as a multimillionaire. After his death, I noticed that there were no family members and friends! That was strange for a man of such status.

I was shocked the day I heard that his wife went against their family doctor's advise when the man was ill --something that cost the guys life. This young, healthy man died like a goat. He was fooled by his wife's investment in the relationship (Which of course, yielded profits for her --the sole aim of investment!)

Enchanted by her investments when they were younger, this man deserted his family and friend. As soon as he died, the woman took over everything. I was in denial of what went into play --only to later hear that the woman sent away the man's one nephew who was living with them shortly after his burial. This lady returned home barely 2 days after putting the guy in the hole, she left her husband's village; contrary to their custom/tradition. It is all her and her kids as I speak. She've sent away the "outsider" (her late husband's nephew).

She's still young and ready to mingle.
I find it hard to bring myself to think: what if her late husband's 2 kids aren't even his owing to the kind of paternity fraud perpetrated by some Nigerian women?

Women do not freely give, a woman will most likely invest in a guy with a brighter future (financially or whatever ways). While this isn't a general rule, I think I've seen and said enough. Begin to take note of such relationships and tell me your findings.
Even if the guy has no obvious bright future, believe me, for 'mere' companionship, provision and protection when she becomes old and 'expired.' is investment with good return. Same reason while you'll hardly see very young girls investing in a relationship: proof me wrong.


Remember, the sole aim of a woman's investment in you is profit --even at the expense of your life. Be warned!

okrikaboi:
We are still together though I pity her she might still get heart broken cuz I'mma end up marrying a 17 year old reserved girl when I'm ready.

Please, Men needs to stop doing this. Let's not string women along when we know we are still going to end up leaving them. It's bad. In as much as we know how women can be bad, they are still human also. We feel pain. Heartbreak is perilous. In as much we are redpilled also, heartbreak is not something you joke with. Not everyone can handle heartbreak lightly. You can't ruin someone's life because of your own personal desires and expect peace of mind.

It's better to define the relationship you are having with a woman from the onset. If it's just FWB, let her know immediately. Don't let her put all her hopes on you when you're still gonna disappoint her. Refrain from it.

This is why I say some Men can be very dangerous as much as Women. You keep ruining other girl's lives and you're also one of the masses still calling those who you ruined their lives "damaged women". Isn't that hypocritical?

mickelkingz:
if y'all notice this scriture of Jesus first miracle
John 2:1-5

think deep. you will notice is mother didn't tell him to brings wine but complained. smile. I love you JESUS

please!what's the relevance of this to this thread!

TheUndercover:

Please, Men needs to stop doing this. Let's not string women along when we know we are still going to end up leaving them. It's bad. In as much as we know how women can be bad, they are still human also. We feel pain. Heartbreak is perilous. In as much we are redpilled also, heartbreak is not something you joke with. Not everyone can handle heartbreak lightly. You can't ruin someone's life because of your own personal desires and expect peace of mind.

It's better to define the relationship you are having with a woman from the onset. If it's just FWB, let her know immediately. Don't let her put all her hopes on you when you're still gonna disappoint her. Refrain from it.

This is why I say some Men can be very dangerous as much as Women. You keep ruining other girl's lives and you're one of the masses still calling those who you ruined their lives "damaged women". Isn't that hypocritical?

I get your point really, I think this just has to do with personal moral standards.
There are a lot of factors involved in scenarios such as this, some ladies put themselves in precarious situations even after being warned by the guy in question.

But generally, it's advisable to define your relationship with a girl, what ever you want from women, you can get, you just need the person who wants the same thing and believe me, they are in abundance.

It truly isn't fair to lead a lady on giving her hope, especially since her biological clock is ticking fast.

Skepticus:
At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.

At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.

The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.

Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.

It is what it is

Nice one brother.

oyolohi:


Oh! Dear men, do not be fooled by a woman's investment in a relationship! I repeat, do not.

A woman who invests in a relationship is highly dangerous. These kinds of women are capable of seeing a lifetime into the future while the man sees only a few years ahead.

Recently, my friend's good friend passed away. His wife was the kind who invested in relationships. Her husband went up the ladder and passed away as a multimillionaire. After his death, I noticed that there were no family members and friends! That was strange for a man of such status.

I was shocked the day I heard that his wife went against their family doctor's advise when the man was ill --something that cost the guys life. This young, healthy man died like a goat. He was fooled by his wife's investment in the relationship (Which of course, yielded profits for her --the sole aim of investment!)

Enchanted by her investments when they were younger, this man deserted his family and friend. As soon as he died, the woman took over everything. I was in denial of what went into play --only to later hear that the woman sent away the man's one nephew who was living with them shortly after his burial. This lady returned home barely 2 days after putting the guy in the hole, she left her husband's village; contrary to their custom/tradition. It is all her and her kids as I speak. She've sent away the "outsider" (her late husband's nephew).

She's still young and ready to mingle.
I find it hard to bring myself to think: what if her late husband's 2 kids aren't even his owing to the kind of paternity fraud perpetrated by some Nigerian women?

Women do not freely give, a woman will most likely invest in a guy with a brighter future (financially or whatever ways). While this isn't a general rule, I think I've seen and said enough. Begin to take note of such relationships and tell me your findings.
Even if the guy has no obvious bright future, believe me, for 'mere' companionship, provision and protection when she becomes old and 'expired.' is investment with good return. Same reason while you'll hardly see very young girls investing in a relationship: proof me wrong.


Remember, the sole aim of a woman's investment in you is profit --even at the expense of your life. Be warned!

GUY
GOD BLESS YOU
GOD BLESS YOU
GOD BLESS YOU
Guy especially that part where she will make the man cut ties with friends and family
And he's too much of a fool to see it
Guy you deserve one bottle

Lecturebidz:
Guess what I found guys?

https://www.nairaland.com/4371103/saw-used-condom-girlfriend-home

How wish i can give the OP of this thread digital slap

97% of ladies that commented hated the post because of its aptness.


Most ladies dont want you to need anything from them apart from their pussy and body.

One thing I've noticed is that when a lady hoping to hook up a man of values with her beauty and discovers that you're looking way beyond her mere physical endowments, and getting more deep with her about what you stand to gain from her as a man, she'd resent you cos at that moment, she's come to terms to the fact that you can't be manipulated by mere thirst or hoodwinked into committing. She already knew you're too smart to see beyond the surface. Ask her if she's a virgin or improving herself and you'd get a defeaning silence. She'd leave you at that moment and continue her search for thirsty simps that'd commit without asking vital questions.

heartofcity12:
Men age like wine, women age like milk.
Don’t be bothered when that chic rejects you, her prime years will soon be over, when yours will just be starting. Focus and stay on your grind all day. Now you know why they say men are the prize. #TRP

so right..

both genders are the prize but ladies have a very short limited window and thus, they being the prize is only shortlived. Men are the real prize! agreeing otherwise is pure delusion.

My fine elder sis at 34 with 2 kids..

here's what I discovered:
-Her shakara don end
-her partner is tired of fuçking her since like 8yrs ago and now living with his first wife.
-Youthfulness window is over
-Males validation on social media has greatly diminished since she was 30. nobody gives AF anymore lol.


so as a man, your life is just getting started at 34. while you were busy working on yourself building your empire, and while her beauty which is her topmost asset to hook up a man of great values diminishes fast, Theres trouble brewing for her in a decade if she fails to improve herself in areas that'd fetch her income. the man will definitely get tired of fuçking her at most 3-4yrs and he'd start showing his true colors.

21cents:
97% of ladies that commented hated the post because of its aptness.


Most ladies dont want you to need anything from them apart from their pussy and body.

One thing I've noticed is that when a lady hoping to hook up a man of values with her beauty and discovers that you're looking way beyond her mere physical endowments, and getting more deep with her about what you stand to gain from her as a man, she'd resent you cos at that moment, she's come to terms to the fact that you can't be manipulated by mere thirst or hoodwinked into committing. She already knew you're too smart to see beyond the surface. Ask her if she's a virgin or improving herself and you'd get a defeaning silence. She'd leave you at that moment and continue her search for thirsty simps that'd commit without asking vital questions.

Women hate criticism
Women hate when you tell them the truth to their face
But I understand the kind of clout
Tiwa Savage is chasing
Make she calm down
We know single mothers way