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sisisioge:
Hmmmm...happy new year o

Somehow, I feel like bullying you lot! You guys are terrible to befriend! Your social skill is zero! Your communications skill is non existent! Continue o...continue wearing the "I'm an introvert excuse" like a badge of honour and remain difficult to love. Love, life, promotion usually fly over social recluse fa...change your ways

By the way, I am 51% introvert and 49% extrovert but everyone thinks I'm by far more tilted towards being an extrovert. Try...just try to be less difficult to befriend

Lol I'm sitting pretty on this table. Unfortunately I love myself this way. But yes, I have been described by many as hard to love or even befriend lol.

Consider me attacked.

waywardpikin:
Lol I'm sitting pretty on this table. Unfortunately I love myself this way. But yes, I have been described by many as hard to love or even befriend lol.

Consider me attacked.

Dem internet extrovert

Please I'm a guy. I get quite emotional quickly, which for a guy isn't that good. I have firm voice but when talking to someone I'm emotionally attached to especially when I'm pissed, I sound teary(like one who is going to cry anytime soon) so because of that I don't complete my speech to the person like I don't say everything make I no go dey cry lol. What do I do now?

NewSoul:
Please I'm a guy. I get quite emotional quickly, which for a guy isn't that good. I have firm voice but when talking to someone I'm emotionally attached to especially when I'm pissed, I sound teary(like one who is going to cry anytime soon) so because of that I don't complete my speech to the person like I don't say everything make I no go dey cry lol. What do I do now?

How old are u?

Rubbiish:
How old are u?

24

NewSoul:
24

It happens to me too, especially when i feel wronged but not this much, don't explain yourself to people too much and exercise more, exercise tightens the body, expose yourself to pain more, you will be alright.

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TheHulk616:
that's the point, if my self esteem becomes high, i wouldn't be an introvert again

Being introverted has nothing to do with low self esteem.
You need to work on yourself and stop claiming introvert.

Introverts are perceived as proud and rude because they don't interact, how is that self esteem?
People like me see have my self esteem over flowing but don't like interaction with people cos humans are annoying and tasking to deal with. I rather avoid you and have my peace. Talking and interaction DRAINS me. That's introversion.
Extroverts don't get drained by such

Can an introvert have dominant temperament of sanguine? Or are we all phlegmatics and melancholics? I'm mostly phleg. But when I see talk with a close person, I'm a basketmouth,

vhuqnl:
Can an introvert have dominant temperament of sanguine?
Or are we all phlegmatics and melancholics?
I'm mostly phleg.
But when I talk with a close person, I'm a basketmouth,

Made me open up a dictionary...

Sanguine (joyful, optimistic, confident)
Phlegmatic (reserved, stoic, apathetic)
Melancholic (Sad, depressed)

I'd think it's the same for most of us, reserved in public, but when you're with close persons the talking seems endless.

A sanguine personality would seem to clash with introversion. I'd assume if you were one you'd most likely be an ambivert or extrovert.

vhuqnl:
Being introverted has nothing to do with low self esteem.
You need to work on yourself and stop claiming introvert.

Introverts are perceived as proud and rude because they don't interact, how is that self esteem?
People like me see have my self esteem over flowing but don't like interaction with people cos humans are annoying and tasking to deal with. I rather avoid you and have my peace. Talking and interaction DRAINS me. That's introversion.
Extroverts don't get drained by such

@bolded
Spot on for me

DonOms:
Weirdos bawo?

Actually, I can sincerely relate with how you may have felt with the quiet guy. I know a woman who is married to someone like the guy you described and sometimes when she talks to me about her husband's "kind of quiet", I can almost feel the pain in her voice.

See, while I can't deny that the quietness and reclusiveness can be a problem for those in the lives of introverts, I think it is important that the introvert learns to find comfortable ways to engage their extroverted friends, lovers and family. It is also equally important that the extroverts in our lives also learn to understand our nature and help find common grounds to make things work - achieving a win-win situation of sorts.

I totally agree with you , many introverts feel it’s a competition and try to express how they are better than them , instead of trying to mix up as much as they can , just because they find it difficult and they ain’t willing to learn they say nasty things about extrovert. I’m like extroverts are here to stay , we need to learn how to cohabit better, instead of evaluating their lives and ours

Compliments of the season to my wonderful fellow introverts. Trust y'all doing absolutely great. Well what I will like to advise someone here is that you should try as much to become improve version of yourself this year because as time goes on and as you become older, situation will warrant you to come out of your shell in order to take responsibility. It's well.











NB: I want to know. Are introverts naturally born stingy?..cos I feel a lot of them will fit into SMAN.

younowell:
Compliments of the season to my wonderful fellow introverts. Trust y'all doing absolutely great. Well what I will like to advise someone here is that you should try as much to become improve version of yourself this year because as time goes on and as you become older, situation will warrant you to come out of your shell in order to take responsibility. It's well.











NB: I want to know. Are introverts naturally born stingy?..cos I feel a lot of them will fit into SMAN.

I've been a member of SMAN for ages now
me o, today I could be an extreme introvert the next day I've metamorphosed into an extrovert.
this January I've been more of an introvert, I think this week I only went out of my house twice or so.

bennyflipy:
I've been a member of SMAN for ages now
me o, today I could be an extreme introvert the next day I've metamorphosed into an extrovert.
this January I've been more of an introvert, I think this week I only went out of my house twice or so.

Wao... you've been a SMAN member for ages! How come, who converted you or you born with it?

younowell:
Wao... you've been a SMAN member for ages! How come, who converted you or you born with it?

instincts

Merry Christmas everyone

ibkayee:
Merry Christmas everyone

Lol Christmas wey don pass tey tey

ibkayee:
Merry Christmas everyone

Lol,
Have you been sleeping since Christmas and just woke up to post this?

iamyemiakins:
Lol,
Have you been sleeping since Christmas and just woke up to post this?

Lol I was just being silly

Present..
I’m an introvert and honestly it has been my way of life but people out there think I do avoid them most especially my buddies who think I don’t want them around me.

Also I don’t like calls which I later made up my mind not to be answering any unsaved numbers calling, I don’t chat much and my Whatsapp unread messages is about 100 plus. Damn!

People say I do ignore/snub them. I’m tired cause I don’t know how to let them know the kind of person I’m. It sucks so bad!

Please any introvert Whatsapp group? If yes please I want Ming to join cause I wanna mingle with people of my kind! Have a wonderful day y’all

ValentineLALA:
Present..
I’m an introvert and honestly it has been my way of life but people out there think I do avoid them most especially my buddies who think I don’t want them around me.

Also I don’t like calls which I later made up my mind not to be answering any unsaved numbers calling, I don’t chat much and my Whatsapp unread messages is about 100 plus. Damn!

People say I do ignore/snub them. I’m tired cause I don’t know how to let them know the kind of person I’m. It sucks so bad!

Please any introvert Whatsapp group? If yes please I want Ming to join cause I wanna mingle with people of my kind! Have a wonderful day y’all

Sir,introversion has nothing to do with you ignoring calls and messages...

mezico96:

Sir,introversion has nothing to do with you ignoring calls and messages...

To some extent it does. Most introverts loathe phone calls / hate talking on the phone which inevitably means they would likely choose to ignore instead, but of course people need to know how to draw the line and make an effort to at least respond to messages at some point / make exceptions for people important to them.

Thank you for this thread!

pappyrose:
I think age and experience play a serious role in this. Another thing that I think contributed to mine was that people started insulting me for never taking anything serious. I made joke out of every issue either serious or trivial issues, I had to start learning how to 'couple'. I only catch fun with my inner caucus but when I'm in d midst of unfamiliar people, I play very safe cos I don't want to be embarrassed.

Same with me...I was a very lively kid, but I think I became withdrawn and introverted when I got into secondary school. I still don't know how that happened, but I love me the way I am regardless.
I only enjoy meeting new people majorly because of knowledge-sharing, asides that, I love being alone most of the time with my books, internet and good music!
So glad to find like-minded people here....bisou bisou!!

mezico96:

Sir,introversion has nothing to do with you ignoring calls and messages...

they blame all their Excesses on introversion. What does introversion have to do with ignoring calls , so if it’s an important person or an urgent situation, I would ignore call because I’m an introvert? That’s just a silly excuse to hide a bad character.

MunaEjio4:
Same with me...I was a very lively kid, but I think I became withdrawn and introverted when I got into secondary school. I still don't know how that happened, but I love me the way I am regardless.
I only enjoy meeting new people majorly because of knowledge-sharing, asides that, I love being alone most of the time with my books, internet and good music!
So glad to find like-minded people here....bisou bisou!!

Welcome to the lounge / thread

DonOms:
Welcome aboard flight INTRO2017 flying from Room to Couch. Don't expect unlimited options for in-house entertainment on this flight as introverts are not so big on that. You'll be glad there'll be little or no bashing but you can count on getting real-life experiences of introverts once in a while. Also, there's a wide range of encouraged activities to help passengers become better versions of themselves although that won't come up too often as introverts cherish their ME-time and recharge moments which can take forever sometimes. All things being equal, this flight promises to live up to its expectations and extroverts never board because they can't stand the in-flight activities. Sit back and relax. If you have any questions, do feel free to ask as all passengers are always ready to help. Your Pilot's name is @Olarewajub. Enjoy the flight!

This is awesome...I love the way you write

tot:
Welcome to the lounge / thread

Thank you!

MunaEjio4:
This is awesome...I love the way you write

Thanks.