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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by COdeGenesis: 12:25pm On Jan 20, 2021
So what is the point of opening the thread. Some men can be very stupid

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Patrioticbreed9(m): 12:29pm On Jan 20, 2021
Na wa for this your thread o.. True or Not it is a very meaningles thread

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by JOACHINpedro: 12:47pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
I've moved on already. The last I saw her was in 2017. I'm just not in agreement with the new narrative she's trying to push .
That she used you guys?

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jan 20, 2021
JOACHINpedro:

That she used you guys?
I don't know about what happened after we broke up. I wouldn't speak for others but she cannot in good conscience come out to brag she used me to cure her konji. The relationship was much than that and it took a while before we had sex

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Doortun(m): 12:53pm On Jan 20, 2021
Another Paternity Fraud issue looming.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by BlackMamba69(m): 12:56pm On Jan 20, 2021
Nonexistent:
Actually no. I just checked out the guy and I can tell you that he knows what he is saying. Just be careful how you attack him and his adulteress ex mistress who he still simps for, else you get yourself banned here for 100years. This is the only cue I can give you for now.

I've confirmed it too:
https://www.nairaland.com/6369087/coping-impotent-husband-journey-into#98175873
DilatedPeoples might be telling the truth.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by JOACHINpedro: 12:57pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
I don't know about what happened after we broke up. I wouldn't speak for others but she cannot in good conscience come out to brag she used me to cure her konji. The relationship was much than that and it took a while before we had sex
In my opinion, she played a fast one in a low pace on you. She knew what she wanted and used reversed psychology.
And it seems like you fell in love on the long run.

Sorry bro.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by GrandFinale2021(m): 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2021
Vyolet:
We know the same person is behind the two stories but continue if that makes you happy.

I think say na only me dey reason this

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by BlackMamba69(m): 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2021
JOACHINpedro:

In my opinion, she played a fast one in a low pace on you. She knew what she wanted and used reversed psychology.
And it seems like you fell in love on the long run.

Sorry bro.

Too bad he fell in love with a married whoore. the power of pucci ey! cheesy

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by JOACHINpedro: 1:00pm On Jan 20, 2021
BlackMamba69:


Too bad he fell in love with a married whoore. the power of pucci ey! cheesy

Some women don turn players like this cry
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Doortun(m): 1:04pm On Jan 20, 2021
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There is no good woman, unless she is strictly controlled. If you leave a woman to her options she will choose destruction.

Men do it too they say, men won't mistakenly bring you maternity fraud.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Goddys(m): 1:07pm On Jan 20, 2021
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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Eluala(m): 1:08pm On Jan 20, 2021
Ok we have heard.
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by solomon36670: 1:09pm On Jan 20, 2021
:We know the same person is behind the two stories but continue if that makes you happy.This is my exact thought.
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jan 20, 2021
JOACHINpedro:

In my opinion, she played a fast one in a low pace on you. She knew what she wanted and used reversed psychology.
And it seems like you fell in love on the long run.

Sorry bro.
No doubt I fell in love. She appeared very harmless and even vulnerable. Nothing similar to the new
narrative she's pushing now. Maybe she played a fast one. That's her business. Coming here to 'bare it all' like she said means she's guilt-ridden and on an emotional downward spiral. I know her too well

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 20, 2021
Goddys:

Did you cum inside her?
Lols... Mad people everywhere grin grin grin

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by extol1(m): 1:14pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
Lols... Mad people everywhere grin grin grin
where is her post, I need to read it and see what she said before I will come comment
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
I don't know about what happened after we broke up. I wouldn't speak for others but she cannot in good conscience come out to brag she used me to cure her konji. The relationship was much than that and it took a while before we had sex

You still want to have sex with her, that is why you created this attention seeking thread.

I am sure she dumped you and you haven't moved on.

What happens to shutting your mouth up and not try to be a public nuisance all because of sex.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:22pm On Jan 20, 2021
HarunaWest:

Thread when don derail tey tey....You are a simp period...When you can't get over a b***, you are a simp, when you can't get over a pum pum, you are a simp, when you can't get over been used and discarded, you are a simp, when you eugolize a hoe, you are a simp....You tick all the boxes SIMP

You don't know the meaning of simp

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:27pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
Read well. I was number 2 and I stated that clearly
You even know there was a number one before you.
It seems she confided in you very well and told you things no girl would tell another.
She was really emotionally and sexually starved and you were a good friend.

Did she really say anything In the first thread that annoyed you enough to open a counter thread

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jan 20, 2021
Powerfly:
Story for the gods by the latest simpson in town.
But sha..it's good to know a lady can use a guy and dump him like no man's business.. And still manage to get him hooked to her illusious feelings..



am surprised you of all can't see is the same person behind the nonsense.

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:36pm On Jan 20, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Why are you so proud of being number 2?

How does it feel to be used and dumped like a tool? For Godsake you are a Guy ooh.

Wait aminute? dumped!
Were you expecting her to promote you to a husband overnight? Or you wanted to continue to be the side dude?
She made it in the first post that she left when she discovered the other person wanted more
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by DaInferno(m): 1:37pm On Jan 20, 2021
grin I've a feeling you are the cell leader she spoke about. my own be say make I no mumu like this when I come of age. A true legend would have simply kept mute, washing dirty pants in public Aint cool. Her thread seemed like it had a purpose, but yours seems like; what?? A pained man? what's the purpose?

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:41pm On Jan 20, 2021
BlackMamba69:


Ride on boss.
Please reveal her main account or at least give us a clue. I'm dying to know!! cheesy
If you do this, she will reveal you identity. Someone hinted you are a moderator. The news will make headlights.
Nairaland Moderator Involved in sex scandal.
Things will get worse never do this
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jan 20, 2021
tobechi74:


Wait aminute? dumped!
Were you expecting her to promote you to a husband overnight? Or you wanted to continue to be the side dude?
She made it in the first post that she left when she discovered the other person wanted more

Why ask me these questions.

The said person wanted more than he bargained for..she wanted sex, the negro wanted something else.
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
You'll know if she doesn't comment on this thread. As a matter of fact she won't



E for dope supposedly your moniker was "gulliblepeople" since you really think everyone here is dumb, adulteressss or whatever you choose to call yourself next i pray God find laborer work for you cos boredom seems to be your problem.
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 20, 2021
Omihanifa:
How did you feel knowing that you were sleeping with another man's wife undecided
what's special about another man's wife? Did the vagina suddenly upgrade to diamonds the moment some men drank palm wine?

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by LadySarah: 2:02pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
Wahala for who never commit sin before. Yes, she made it clear she was married when we met though it took me a while to accept. She actually had to send her wedding pictures before I could believe. I didn't go out looking for a married woman to nack. I did what every young man would do when they see a beautiful girl. It was unfortunate she was married. But again no regrets. It is what it is

I'm not interested in this revelation.
Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jan 20, 2021
It's even extremely suspicious how pocohantas didn't say a word despite being bombarded by a barrage of mentions. Poco wey no dey waste time to attack anybody wey mention her name for wetin no pure...

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by doeeyed: 2:06pm On Jan 20, 2021
tobechi74:

If you do this, she will reveal you identity
Nairaland Moderator Involved in sex scandal.
Things will get worse never do this

And what's the big deal about it.... Consenting adults.
She stands to lose, as hubby may let her go....

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by CASTAGNE: 2:09pm On Jan 20, 2021
LadySarah:


I'm not interested in this revelation.
yeah it changes the whole dynamic of the story which does not suit your purposes

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Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 2:22pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
I will tag the OP of that thread and a few other contributors.
Adulteressss
Pierocash, Hathor5, Imalma1, Graxie, LadySarah, Takotsubo, Adukpe19, Ladylite, FruitCakes, Kuns84, bukatyne, VanDerWaalforces, Liposure, JOACHINpedro, Ubunja, Vyolet

I was the second person she had an affair with. I'm just wondering why she decided to come here and chronicle her memoirs. So far, she has been truthful. Just that she left out a few details... Including the fact that we met here on Nairaland a couple of years ago.

She also has another moniker here like someone rightly pointed out on that thread. It took a while for me to figure it out and connect the dots. I had been wondering how she could've quit Nairaland when she deleted the account she was using after she broke up with me.

Anyway Auntie Adulteressss, congratulations on getting to your number 7 man now. I knew you were moving on to another man when you quit and never because you wanted to go and fix your marriage like you told me your mum advised you to do. How come you refused to tell your readers our relationship wasn't all about the sex?

Anyway for those that might want to know, the lady in question is an extremely beautiful woman, quite young at the time we met and very intelligent too. She operates on a frequency higher than where most of her age mates would naturally be. There's no man that wouldn't want to wife her. She's a complete package.

I won't disclose any personal details here but I will take any questions as regards the character and person of our philandering heroine and the relationship I had with her.

You're all welcome!

This is the link to her original thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/6372936/re-coping-impotent-husband-journey#98245510

I only read the first page of her story but so read yours up til third page. I can arrive at this conclusions (I might be wrong)

1) She is well far smarter than you. She has a very high Intelligent quotent

2);she is also a very emotional girl . It is rare to find a girl with that Combination. She must be a melancholic-sanguine. Google the meaning

3) reading her post, she used to be a good girl. Yes,she was honest to tell you of her marital status from the beginning. Many women would not do that

4) she was both emotionally and sexually starved. She needed an ear to listen to and you were there for her. You were her friend, she poured all her heart to you. No player does that.

5) she is(was) not one to sleep with a stranger without feeling something for the person. She was trying to control her emotion all along until the seventh month, she could not resist the urge. She fell in love with you

6) For a girl to divorce a guy is harder than you can ever imagine. She also has feelings for her husband. The fact that her husband had seen her messages makes it worse. The stigma of a good girl labelled a divorcee or is hard for her. Until society learns to respect a failed marriage.

7) As one gets involved in the act, her emotion are disconnected from them. She was in love with you yes .but the frequent guys she slept with,she did not love them as much as she loved you. As an intelligent girl, she learnt to disconnect her emotional involvement from next guys. That was what she meant by it was a sex thing. She used her present feeling towards the latter guys to summarize all other guys. That was her error. Women do this attimes. A woman may happily allow a guy to have sex with her yesterdayonly to accuse the guy of raping her tomorrow because she now regrets it.

6) she wrote the story not to diss you or tell the world how much she used guys.No, she said that because she has first hand experience on what can make a good girl turn bad. So society will understanding that no one wakes up morning and decides to commit adultery.
Your story confirms the fact that she never really wanted to do so initially ,like must cheats out there.
After listening to her story, I had great respect for her. It takes great courage to tell the world your story because you feel someone might benefit from it. You on the other hand decides to share a story so as to get back at her or for other personal reasons.

She respects you so highly that she would not subject her to argue with you publicly. Once she had feelings for someone,it lasts for a long-time despite the person shortcomings. That is applicable to both you and her husband and the few others she truely loved before bthe sex.

7) she has sexual needs. She got to get them satisfied. If not for the seven of you, she might have done something worse like commit suicide. Congratulations,you saved a life

cool If her husband had died somehow naturally, she might have considered you. But I doubt that would happen after this outburst

She got my resp

Meanwhile,you need to update your IQ on women . I suggest you read this article to help you

https://tobechispeaks./2021/01/11/the-beauty-of-divorce/

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