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Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by dre11(m): 4:03pm On Feb 10
Man whose wife I slept with in my village behind my impotency –Groom




Linus Oota, Lafia



The marital union, which 37-year-old Sunday Numko had hoped to establish with his former course mate and girlfriend, Mary Adamkua, crashed on wedding day, in church, when guests were already seated and waiting for the nuptial service to start at St John’s parish, Nasarawa State.

Numko who hails from Doma Local Government Area, Nasarawa State and holds a Diploma in Business Management from the Nasarawa State Polytechnic, Lafia, and Mary met as course mates in the same department at the polytechnic. A romantic relationship developed between them and they dated for one year and seven months, when the idea of getting married to each other came up. However, good reason prevailed as they decided to postpone marriage till after the completion of their diploma programmes.

Interestingly, Numko is an only child. His parents died in an auto-crash 15 years ago while Mary is the only daughter of her parents. While her father is late, Mary’s mother is alive. While in school, the relationship between Numko and Mary blossomed to the point of intimacy. As Mary told Sunday Sun, Numko never experienced “network failure” during their romantic trysts until one month before the planned wedding, when he suddenly became impotent.

Recalling the horrific discovery, Mary said: “His manhood stop performing, we did everything humanly possible to no avail. I was worried but did not disclose it to anybody until the day of the wedding, when I shared my worries with my mum. It was difficult for us arrive at the decision we took about the situation.”

She recalled the good memories of their days as students at the polytechnic, after they were introduced by a mutual friend, who told her that Numko could help with notes she missed on the first day of resumption. Mary pleasantly discovered that Numko had very good handwriting and was very good in Mathematics. They became best friends and inseparable.

Hear Mary: “Sometimes a good and intelligent person could be very attractive. Days and weeks passed and he became my go to person for clarifications. We studied together before tests and exams. We were inseparable and did everything together.

“Gradually, one thing led to another and he started toasting me. We were bound together and in love. He proposed marriage to me and we agreed to do that after our diploma programme. In the course of time I discovered that he was very good in bed and he satisfied me sexually. Honestly, apart from his intellect, his performance in bed was among the factors that attracted me to him.

“I am the only daughter of my parents, my father died during the crisis that engulfed the state in 2001. I am from Keana Local Government Area, Nasarawa State. My mother struggled to sponsor my education with the proceeds from her petty business and she was looking forward to my getting married and giving birth to her grandchildren. Having grandchildren has been her dream and that is the essence of marriage. Numko was sexually fit until late November 2018, when his manhood started failing. Meanwhile our wedding had been fixed for Saturday, January 5, 2019.

“I was very worried because he became impotent at the time of paying the bride price, but I kept hoping that the problem would go away. By the time we got to January 5, and situation had not improved, I decided to tell my mother the whole story. She became scared as we prepared to go leave for the church service. She consulted some people and resolved that I could not go for the marriage oath.

“I have no regrets over this decision even though I love him very well. Numko is very caring but I cannot afford to marry an impotent man. Although the elders of our village have already shared the money paid as bride price among themselves, and we cannot go to them to retrieve the various sums, however, my mother will pay back the bride price. The whole amount he spent as bride price was N190,000.”


‘I know where my trouble started’

Lamenting over the turn of events, the jilted groom, Sunday said: “I know where my problem came from; a man in my village whose wife I dated for four years is behind my predicament. I believe I am responsible for the birth of her firstborn child. The issue generated crisis and the man swore to revenge. I didn’t know that this was what he intended to do. I regret sleeping with his wife.

“He got me through a charm by using one of my old trousers. When my manhood stopped functioning, I consulted a native doctor somewhere in Benue State and he told me that the man I was sleeping with his wife in my village was behind it. He advised me to go and beg him, but the man denied being responsible when I confronted him.

“I’m confused about life; my parents are not alive. I struggled alone to train myself because my uncles were very poor and could not help me. My dream in life was to get married and bear children after completing my education and settling down. But now I have lost the chance.

“It was the man’s wife that actually “toasted” me and I fell for it and then found it difficult to walk away even after the man had discovered our illicit affair and told everybody in the village about it. I completely regret my action.”

Though unhappy with the way events turned out, the mother of Mary, Mrs Patricia Adamkua makes no pretence about her stand on the decision to abort the marriage between her daughter and Numko. She said: “No on desires a bad and unhappy marriage; you don’t venture into marriage to dilly dally. Once you take the marriage oath, you and your husband must be ready and sure that you can ride out the tides and weather the storms of life. I took the decision to save my daughter’s future.

“I want to see my grandchildren; how can my daughter marry an impotent man? If she had told me about the problem early before that day, we wouldn’t have gotten to that level. I don’t have any problem with him. I did not disapprove of him, when my daughter introduced him. But the truth is that my daughter is too young for that kind of sacrifice. I will not allow it. She will get another husband at the right time,” she said

Mr Joseph Kwaghterver, who was accused of being behind the Numko’s denied any knowledge of it, saying, “The man did not mean well for me. He ate food that was not meant for him. I’m an old man and I don’t know anything about his impotency. Anyway, let him carry his cross.”

The catchiest of the church, where the wedding service was billed to hold, Mr. Thomas told Sunday Sun: “She knew about this for over one month and did not inform us, yet they were coming here regularly for marriage course and she waited till the last movement to reveal this. Considering the resources and efforts put into planning the aborted wedding. Besides this, you should consider the emotional, psychological and social implications of her action. It has been harrowing and traumatic. I can’t say much about the issue, she has a genuine case but approached it wrongly, by not telling us.”


https://www.sunnewsonline.com/i-am-too-young-to-marry-impotent-man-says-bride-who-dumped-groom-on-wedding-day/
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Fizzyflex(m): 4:06pm On Feb 10
FTC.. WOW.. THIS YEAR IS REALLY GONNA BE BLISSFUL.. I NO DEY SEE AM AS ANYTHING BEFORE OO.. BUT NOW I know SAY NA SOMETHING.. THANK GOD

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 4:08pm On Feb 10
In as much as I feel pity for the disappointed groom, I think the bride did the right thing by calling off the wedding.

No woman wants to marry an Impotent man and No man wants to marry a barren desert.

I believe if our society permits a woman to get married to more than one man, she would have married him for the sake of love, but the society has relegated the woman and placed the man in an authoritative position where he can marry more than King Solomon in the Bible.

Hard luck for the once active pennis, Karma came calling at the time of your happiness.

Another reason why Jason is an advocate of "testing the microphone" before marriage.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by daddytime(m): 4:09pm On Feb 10
Gargantuan gbege of enormous proportion...

If prick no work wetin she gain??

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Davash222(m): 4:10pm On Feb 10
"...she has a genuine case but approached it wrongly"


The Catechist is very wise.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by faithfull18(f): 4:15pm On Feb 10
Lesson learnt the hard way.
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Olalan(m): 4:22pm On Feb 10
The lady is plainly wicked why wait till the wedding day before spilling the beans out....
BTW a lesson to all randy men and women, having an affair with someone's wife or husband is a deadly mission

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 4:31pm On Feb 10
The Lady escape bullet. But the Lady did not do well at all. You should have break up with him before the wedding day. You just disgrace the guy.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 4:36pm On Feb 10
ODUNEWUWURA:
The Lady escape bullet. But the Lady did not do well at all. You should have break up with him before the wedding day. You just disgrace the guy.
That is KARMA way of reminding him of the four good years he spent dancing with his miserable dick on someone's wife.

Karma is sexy, I swear.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by busky007(m): 4:43pm On Feb 10
breaking up with the man on his wedding day and exposing his impotence to the world. the stupid man mumulishly accepted it publicly.

BOTH OF THEM NEED BRAIN IMPLANTS

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by reservd(m): 4:46pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
In as much as I feel pity for the disappointed groom, I think the bride did the right thing by calling off the wedding.

No woman wants to marry an Impotent man and No man wants to marry a barren desert.

I believe if our society permits a woman to get married to more than one man, she would have married him for the sake of love, but the society has relegated the woman and placed the man in an authoritative position where he can marry more than King Solomon in the Bible.

Hard luck for the once active pennis, Karma came calling at the time of your happiness.

Another reason why Jason is an advocate of "testing the microphone" before marriage.
Y wait till d last moment wen she had enuf time bfr then so leave d relationship or seek solution

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by mespusinglez(m): 4:48pm On Feb 10
Hmmm Women And Cuccumber eh

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Divay22(f): 5:13pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
In as much as I feel pity for the disappointed groom, I think the bride did the right thing by calling off the wedding.

No woman wants to marry an Impotent man and No man wants to marry a barren desert.

I believe if our society permits a woman to get married to more than one man, she would have married him for the sake of love, but the society has relegated the woman and placed the man in an authoritative position where he can marry more than King Solomon in the Bible.

Hard luck for the once active pennis, Karma came calling at the time of your happiness.

Another reason why Jason is an advocate of "testing the microphone" before marriage.

Really

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 5:15pm On Feb 10
Divay22:
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Really
Yeah, are you an advocate too?
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Divay22(f): 5:19pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
Yeah, are you an advocate too?
No

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by hisgrace090: 5:19pm On Feb 10
The man need Gods mercy urgently.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 5:20pm On Feb 10
Divay22:

No
Okay, good looking out to your boyfriend then. smiley
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Divay22(f): 5:24pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
Okay, good looking out to your boyfriend then. smiley
smiley
Whatever rocks is boat

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 5:28pm On Feb 10
Divay22:

smiley
Whatever rocks is boat
tongue
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by lefulefu(m): 5:29pm On Feb 10
wen u tell some young men to do away with married women dem no go hear. dem go jus put all their mind in smashing and chopping a married woman. now see d problem wey u don cause to urself.sleeping with a married with a diabolical husband to even make tinzs worse.well i dont blame his would be wife o.either he goes to church to cast out d spell or he go meet d man to remove d spell.married women are destiny killers to single men.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Divay22(f): 5:32pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
tongue
Gerrahere abeg angry
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by JasonScoolari: 5:35pm On Feb 10
Divay22:

Gerrahere abeg angry
grin
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by dingbang(m): 5:37pm On Feb 10
Prick is the most wonderful creation in the universe. .

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Biglittlelois(f): 5:38pm On Feb 10
JasonScoolari:
In as much as I feel pity for the disappointed groom, I think the bride did the right thing by calling off the wedding.

No woman wants to marry an Impotent man and No man wants to marry a barren desert.

I believe if our society permits a woman to get married to more than one man, she would have married him for the sake of love, but the society has relegated the woman and placed the man in an authoritative position where he can marry more than King Solomon in the Bible.

Hard luck for the once active pennis, Karma came calling at the time of your happiness.

Another reason why Jason is an advocate of "testing the microphone" before marriage.


On point!!!

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Biglittlelois(f): 5:39pm On Feb 10
dingbang:
Prick is the most wonderful creation in the universe. .


Smh!!!
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by dingbang(m): 5:51pm On Feb 10
Biglittlelois:



Smh!!!
it seems you have a problem with my comment little princess.
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Biglittlelois(f): 5:52pm On Feb 10
dingbang:
it seems you have a problem with my comment little princess.


I do little prince, but it's your opinion anyway.
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by dingbang(m): 5:54pm On Feb 10
Biglittlelois:



I do little prince, but it's your opinion anyway.
but you should understand that its sarcasm.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by Biglittlelois(f): 6:00pm On Feb 10
dingbang:
but you should understand that its sarcasm.

I'm not complaining.

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Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by dingbang(m): 7:11pm On Feb 10
Biglittlelois:


I'm not complaining.
cool
Re: Nasarawa Bride Dumps Groom On Wedding Day, 'I'm Too Young To Marry Impotent Man' by generationz(f): 7:12pm On Feb 10
sorry to derail

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