Na dem

ceaser:
He most likely picked up the queerness and rubbish and sealed it while at University of Manchester in the UK.

Had he been in Nigeria, being schooled along with children of the commoner here in Nigeria, he most likely will not have conceived a gay idea let alone sealed the transformation.

I guess the children of the political class have the opportunity of spending the loots of their parents abroad, leaving the commoner and helpless Nigerians to live with decrepit educational infrastructure back home. The convenience and opulence they get from such free money gives 'em little to think about save engaging in inanities. This is worsened by that "liberal" UK society where it is seen as a crime to chastise an erring child.

If he schooled in University of Ilorin or OAU or UI interacting with the children of the commoner, he has a very slim chance, perhaps 3% chance, of toying with gayish thoughts but in the UK where LGBTQ specifics are already introduced in their students' curriculum as early as kindergarten, the chances get increased much more, perhaps to a distressing 80% chance.

Many Nigerians back home will likely mock Doyin Okupe's (I can remember him being called Doyin Òkúgbé - meaning dead shit, those days cos he acted the same way the duo of Femi adesina and Garba "Garbage" Shehu do now) current travails in schadenfreude, even though I personally will exercise some restraints in doing so. And believe me I won't blame the Nigerians that will, because they have every reason to do it. The years their common resources and patrimony have been looted by the political few like Doyin Okupe to send their children overseas for training cannot be forgotten in a hurry. So if the angered Nigerian sees what he is going thru now as a form of Karma or recompense from God, then who am I to condemn 'em.

I wish Doyin enough strength to go thru this trying times, even though his money, opulence and wealth can do little now to solve the problem notwithstanding the fact that it was fostered by the same wealth, opulence and too much convenience in the first instance.

Do you how many gay men and women are in nigeria? They are not coming out just because its been made illegal. That boy is gay Nigeria or UK. I'm happy he is in a country where he live his life without been judged.

He did not come to this world to live for his parents. They've lived their let him live his own. You are talking as if they are less of a human just because they choose to have sex differently ffrom you

Ugwuoha:




You clearly do not know Christ Jesus.
He is the Love of the Most High God
which has taken on form.
He is not a property of some deluded religious fanatics and their endless evangelical gushings.
Christ is universal love.
Love! Not condemnation.
Love, not self righteousness,
nor self-opinionated bigotry.
Go purge yourself of hate and bitterness you modern day Pharisee.
Get going, and don't mention me again.

Thanks a million times
for your time and attention.
Stay blessed.

What hate and what bitterness?

Don't be worked up to no profit.

I say that righteousness exists among, but you think everyone is corrupt.
Who then is fit to be Christ's mouthpiece between us?
If the love of Christ cannot deliver us from corruption, it means we should crave for a greater brand of love.
It however does.

Peace.

tsdarkside:


i dont know about that....

look,i know how subtile gays are....am not surprised....

Yh well, those ones haven't been abroad

hmm after graduating from uk is this how you will pay your parent back

edoairways:

I never mentioned bible non did I quote a bible verse. So what is your problem?

Last days of what, exactly?

GofuckYourself:


The Lord didn't make anyone gay!

Be mindful of your speech

Bye

For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things were created through him and for him." ~ Colossians 1:16

If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything -John 3:20

So, God is no logger Omnipotence, Omniscience and Omnipresence? Or you just pick and choose when God is responsible for certain aspects of your life and not everything?

Go and read your bible and stop ranting like a sinner.

Suky01:


Do you how many gay men and women are in nigeria? They are not coming out just because its been made illegal. That boy is gay Nigeria or UK. I'm happy he is in a country where he live his life without been judged.

He did not come to this world to live for his parents. They've lived their let him live his own. You are talking as if they are less of a human just because they choose to have sex differently ffrom you

This is why reading their shallow posts sometimes makes me cringe, intolerance, hatred and disdain for fellow human beings and God's creation is too deep and pervasive in Nigeria and other places.

How hard is it to even live and let live.

The saddest part is the father throwing his own son under the bus while ignorantly hiding behind religion and running away from perceived societal shame when in fact this is the moment to rise up as a parent to love, cherish and protect your child.

He's claiming to be saved and a Christian while at the same time doing the most unchristian and evil thing just to absolve himself from his responsibility as a parent.

Where is the sense and wisdom in throwing your own son to cruel and insensitive evil people to be mocked, ridiculed and despised as an unworthy human being.?

Your own children comes first, your job is to love, cherish and protect them no matter what, you don't thrown them out to the cruel, hateful and bitter world just to please the immoral, intolerant, ungodly and hateful society.

What a terrible and horrible parent.

plaindealer:







So, God is no logger Omnipotence, Omniscience and Omnipresence? Or you just pick and choose when God is responsible for certain aspects of your life and not everything?

Go and read your bible and stop ranting like a sinner.

You are blaspheming

If you choose to be attracted to other men that was your choice

Just like a serial killer saying the Lord made him like killing

It is your choice to be the way you are

I don't judge but I also don't allow lies and deceit around me
Being gay is your choice

PDJT:
-Lol Keep deceiving yourself. Let the boy see your naked nyash and you go know how far?

-I bet that boy will soon move to Brighton, if he hasn’t already. Many Nigerian politicians will lose their kids to Western societal lifestyles having ruined Nigeria and made it uninhabitable.

This is deep.
I think Nigerian leaders are having many troubles with their children and it would have been better if they were raised in our culture but they created numerous challenges here and thinking keeping them from the public eye will satiate or offering superior education is everything, alas, its not at all. Many children of the elites will be well educated and still amount to some troubles because their upbringing has no elements of the African culture and then what about the collective resources that has been taken undue advantage of? we must all pray for a country in which we all have a say and can produce a generation of children who fear God- Nigeria.

GofuckYourself:


You are blaspheming

If you choose to be attracted to other men that was your choice

Just like a serial killer saying the Lord made him like killing

It is your choice to be the way you are

I don't judge but I also don't allow lies and deceit around me
Being gay is your choice

You mean when God created you, he did not know what you are going to become in life?

If is not responsible for your life and what happens to you in life, why do you pray to God for anything? Why do you ask God for anything? Why do you go to Church?

Go and read your bible and get off your hypocrisy, hatred, intolerance and evil sanctimonious alter.

plaindealer:



You mean when God created you, he did not know what you are going to become in life?

If is not responsible for your life and what happens to you in life, why do you pray to God for anything? Why do you ask God for anything? Why do you go to Church?

Go and read your bible and get off your hypocrisy, hatred, intolerance and evil sanctimonious alter.

You have free will go and learn what that means

You choose to decide to abnormally find another man of the same gender as you as attractive.

You decided to give into your baser instincts

What separates a human from an animal is self control

You never decided to learn to exercise restraint and instead of taking responsibility for your debauchery you are blaming your creator

That is absolute trash

You assume straight men don't also feel urges for strange things ? But the difference is they learned like normal humans not to act on every urge it's animals that act on every urge

Hammyaladin:
Most likely......But have you noticed that most Gays in Nigeria are privileged people...... Asin the normal average Nigerian won't even give gayism, if there is a word for that, Chance!!!

Lol...the irony is many of these average Nigerians are hiding in the closet. They reveal their status when they become rich enough to buy safety.

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GofuckYourself:


You have free will go and learn what that means

You choose to decide to abnormally find another man of the same gender as you as attractive.

You decided to give into your baser instincts

What separates a human from an animal is self control

You never decided to learn to exercise restraint and instead of taking responsibility for your debauchery you are blaming your creator

That is absolute trash

You assume straight men don't also feel urges for strange things ? But the difference is they learned like normal humans not to act on every urge it's animals that act on every urge

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Ignorant rubbish

You're embarrassed because y'all have refused to acknowledge human diversity and embrace inclusiveness.

plaindealer:
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Ignorant rubbish

I am sorry my revelation makes you see me as ignorant

Or11:
Nothing spiritual here, he is an adult and can make his own choice.

What stupid choice is that??

StanleyO22:
What stupid choice is that??

What stupid question is this?

'Through a major spiritual Challeng"in deed, the Bible says'what a man sows he reaps', it is a fallout of all your atrocities and inhuman behaviors to Nigerians, you better watch your back as your Mobesurin, can attack you from your onus.Law of Kama falls upon you already.

tsdarkside:
wait wait....next question is,is he a giver or a taker....??

kiki....

Wrong label.

It's "is he top or bottom"?

Whether spiritual or not, this could be punishment from God.
We should try to live right

GofuckYourself:


I am sorry my revelation makes you see me as ignorant

Bigotry is the disease of ignorance, of morbid minds

Thomas Jefferson to John Adams, August 1, 1816

It is not me seeing your comment and stance as being ignorant, the definition for your comments and beliefs is ignorance, that's the terminology and I did not create that terminology.

Hate and prejudice are generally born of ignorance

Bigotry is the characteristic of a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from their own.

You called and labeled yourself ignorant based on your own comments, you keep saying ignorant things, but you are clueless per the fact that what you are saying and keep repeating makes you sound and look ignorant and bigoted.


Feel free to look it up in the dictionary.

plaindealer:






It is not me seeing your comment and stance as being ignorant, the definition for your comments and beliefs is ignorance, that's the terminology and I did not create that terminology.

Hate and prejudice are generally born of ignorance

Bigotry is the characteristic of a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from their own.

You called and labeled yourself ignorant based on your own comments, you keep saying ignorant things, but you are clueless per the fact that what you are saying and keep repeating makes you sound and look ignorant and bigoted.


Feel free to look it up in the dictionary.

You typed many words but ended up saying nothing at all.

You need some healing , I may be able to help you.

Bye

GofuckYourself:


You typed many words but ended up saying nothing at all.

You need some healing , I may be able to help you.

Bye

Healing is impossible for you until you wash away hate, ignorance, bigotry and intolerance from your being and form as a human being.

Not that I think you are capable of doing that, but give it a try, you never know.

bolaayenimo:
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6375900/yes-im-gay-bolu-okupe

https://www.independent.ng/just-in-gay-status-my-son-going-through-spiritual-challenge-doyin-okupe/

Blah blah,blah. This is what happens when U steal from the poor and use that money to sponsor Ur child's education in the west. Pls sir enjoy Ur living, breathing,daily reminder disgrace of a son. I spit on U and him.

PDJT:
-Lol Keep deceiving yourself. Let the boy see your naked nyash and you go know how far?

-I bet that boy will soon move to Brighton, if he hasn’t already. Many Nigerian politicians will lose their kids to Western societal lifestyles having ruined Nigeria and made it uninhabitable.

Yes that is karma for U and karma is a bit.ch.

Most of this politicians children they end abroad wind up as gays. Those that are still in Nigeria full asokoro, maitama,ikoyi,Lekki,bourdillon.

plaindealer:



Healing is impossible for you until you wash away hate, ignorance, bigotry and intolerance from your being and form as a human being.

Not that I think you are capable of doing that, but give it a try, you never know.

Calling homosexuality debauchery and a sickness isn't hate
It's fact

You should try and get some help

plaindealer:
The saddest part is the father throwing his own son under the bus while ignorantly hiding behind religion and running away from perceived societal shame when in fact this is the moment to rise up as a parent to love, cherish and protect your child.

He's claiming to be saved and a Christian while at the same time doing the most unchristian and evil thing just to absolve himself from his responsibility as a parent.

Where is the sense and wisdom in throwing your own son to cruel and insensitive evil people to be mocked, ridiculed and despised as an unworthy human being.?

Your own children comes first, your job is to love, cherish and protect them no matter what, you don't thrown them out to the cruel, hateful and bitter world just to please the immoral, intolerant, ungodly and hateful society.

What a terrible and horrible parent.

Am I missing something? You have judged this parent a bit too harshly.

Does he lose his own self to align with his son's choices? Note that the son did not lose himself in order to align with his father's beliefs.

Again, your statements are confusing as he has not denied loving or caring for his son, who is an adult.

TempleHouse:
I hate to say this :Muslims Asians don't tolerate this nonsense, and could waste him for honour killing as they can't bear such ridiculous status.

You shouldn't have said it. It benefits no one and you spread hate about muslims. This has nothing to do with Mr. Okupe and his son