Omo what did i just read

Michelle55:
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Quite an age...
How is everything?

If after going through these advise, you are still not convinced on what to do, kindly contact your pastor for advise. As for me, I cannot Marry such a girl, there is high chance you will die before your time. You have not yet married
her and you are already drinking and smoking. Omo, get sense.

For your sanity, Let her go.

ednut1:
Omo what did i just read

You dey mind the guy...
Make him dey there make woman dey use his head...

Oga na very bad product you buy so..just return am.
I won't say more than this

You have seen the red flag and you still want to continue,well in my humble opinion can you answer these few questions? Before you left the country did you make out her,I know why I'm asking,from what you wrote here this girl looks like she really has a stronghold in your life that you can forget her flaws easily and come back to her,I asked to know before she frames up being pregnant for you. Then two,why are you still contemplating on whether to run, continue or something else, uncle you need not to be told on what to do,you don't deserve the girl, she's damn ungrateful, imagine all you do for her,she's pained you cheated on her and still had the guts to do back despite your begging and cooling her off, giving her money,well all I have to tell you is to is your tongue and count your teeth.

She Use juju hold u? which kind advice u need again... na people like u fail GST108

I dont understand you.
Are you asking whether or not to break up with her because you find out, that she cheated several times?
Or
are you asking what to do to help her out of the lesbianism urge that shes feeling?
Which one...

Is it that there are no women outside Nigeria?

dump her dump her, one of you slept with her, one of you will still marry her as tears rubber .she'll learn to close her mouth from now on.


hehehe

Tbadbad:


This is deep, please what should I do? I am confused, she is in my house right now in Nigeria, this is some one I have her house and everything,

They said you deserve a long life which means give your Life to Jesus and start Going to Deeper Life, before some else dig your life out of this Life

Tbadbad:


This is deep, please what should I do? I am confused, she is in my house right now in Nigeria, this is some one I have her house and everything,

Distance is the problem, you can't expect this girl to be 100% loyal to you when you always leave her hanging, you know she's not decent from the onset, she told she dated 3 guys and have sex with all of 'em, now with you you think she will stop craving for sex, like what do you expect her to do when you are not there for her when she needs to be loved, you mean you don't have sex until you meet her, and for the lesbian part i will suggest you leave this girl alone

Lol, you kept asking and asking her, but now she told you her past, and the truth, now you can't swallow it. So I ask, why did you ask?

People with no business with either of you kept telling and telling you about her. It is either these strangers love you TOO much, or they hate her too much.

But if you knew such knowledge would make you go mad like this, why keep asking and asking? You 4 break up already, because you already believed those rumors. You wanted to play out the unnecessary drama of being a victim?

To me, you knew if you pressed enough she would tell you. And you knew you wouldn't be able to take what she tells you. So you just wanted to play an unnecessary 'angelic victim' role. If you believe what people said, what's all this drama for? Why not make your decision an leave? Than make her tell you again? Knowing fully well that when she tells you, you will keep her in suspense then dump her? Na wa o.

Drama loving king. Cut to the chase and stop punishing her and go if you want to go. Period.

Guy,

You are with a girl who has nothing to offer you but sex and you are happy.

You IDIOT!
NOTHING is free.
You will PAY for it one way or another.

Women do not give free sex, even the most liberal feminist wants something in return.
Never you forget this.
#PraisesNuggets

Ask ANY honest woman and she will tell you that she will not open her legs for a man without a PLAN or an expectation in mind.
Women are very strategic with sex.

My brother,the only advise I can give to you is ........RUN!

The only thing I have got to tell you is count the number of advices nairalanders have given to you, check if anyone either male or female supports her. Please help yourself out of a fail marriage in the future, you are lucky she’s not doing this inside marriage, what if you had married her, thank God it just an introduction you have done, you can easily back off since you ain’t married yet. Guy your girlfriend will not repent from cheating, whether married or courtship I bet you.

Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please

Pele

Baba, free that lady to avoid story that touch later on.. Ur life & happiness matters.. God b with you

If you know what you really want in a woman, then when you have decided, you will know whether to flee or stay.

pls just run away from her no marry her ooooo otherwise you will regret all the rest of ur life marriage is different from boyfriend and girlfriend.

It's normal not to tell a guy your real body count oo.

@Op perhaps you give her d benefit of the doubt and see if she sees it through.

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

@TBADBAD, note that introduction is not marriage. Don't marry out of pity if you're already seeing red flags. Seek for peace and love.

I have opted out of a relationship after introduction before and so far in my life, that's one of the best decision that I have ever made.

Life is good!

Bro....I just want you to know that sincerely and understanding is the most important thing in a relationship,please be careful with the advice you get on this platform....she was sincere enough to tell you how she feels and what she wants,bro it not a crime because you not in the country and secondly she has been starving herself for sex and romance and you are not there with her...you can kindly talk to her about her sex life,probably you get her a dido if you truly care about her and also if you put yourself in her shoes...bro the hard thing to do is to leave your woman and travel out

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

Sorry, but how did she bleep 2 girls? Is she a hermaphrodite?

Why exactly were you communicating with your ex, what else did you do with this ex? You people just don't know when to cut off relationships that aren't of any good to you.

You didn't chat with one ex, you even admit it is exes. Wish you would go further to tell us what escapades you had both abroad and with those exes. You won't, of course.

My brother, there is no perfect woman, all of them are like witch, just choose your own witch and keep spraying her holy water.

Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please

Hmm... you will kill your self o. what is your business with what happened before you met and what happened when you people quarreled? You that left a sexually active person and travelled out dont you know it is a problem? She is still in her prime for Christ Sake.

The advice you should seek is how often you will see yourselves.

purples25:
Lol, you kept asking and asking her, but now she told you her past, and the truth, now you can't swallow it. So I ask, why did you ask?

People with no business with either of you kept telling and telling you about her. It is either these strangers love you TOO much, or they hate her too much.

But if you knew such knowledge would make you go mad like this, why keep asking and asking? You 4 break up already, because you already believed those rumors. You wanted to play out the unnecessary drama of being a victim?

To me, you knew if you pressed enough she would tell you. And you knew you wouldn't be able to take what she tells you. So you just wanted to play an unnecessary 'angelic victim' role. If you believe what people said, what's all this drama for? Why not make your decision an leave? Than make her tell you again? Knowing fully well that when she tells you, you will keep her in suspense then dump her? Na wa o.

Drama loving king. Cut to the chase and stop punishing her and go if you want to go. Period.

I love your submission! Fact!

@Tbadbad you are on the wrong lane, man. She ain't gonna quit her shit. Beat a retreat. Do not get married to this babe.