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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:51pm On Feb 07, 2021
ozodigboo:
It's partly your fault, dear.
You told him no sex before marriage.
Now, you're saying you PLANNED to have sex with him, soon.....but before marriage.
You gave him mixed signals.
Girls should learn to come clean.
It's very difficult for a guy to agree to a no - sex relationship, when you already told him you're not a virgin anymore.


EXACTLY!!!

She is not a virgin and she is talking like a FIRST CLASS materialcheesycheesy


In as much as what the guy did was totally wrong, she is also to be blamed!!!!

If you know, you are NOT a VIRGIN,,,and not ready to have sex... FUVKING stay out of Relationshipgringrin

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Mykelhendriz: 10:51pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:


The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

Then don’t marry... one of the reason for relationship is sex... if you don’t want sex don’t date and if you want goals go to man United they might supply you with nine, sad
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by 080bjaked(m): 10:52pm On Feb 07, 2021
Mozino007:
You have already planned....Get d Bleep outta here Bitch!

Are you human or a BOT.

If by some mysterious circumstances you are human, do you have a mother, daughter or Sister? I'm not trying to be rude. Just trying to understand the circumstances that could deprive a right-thinking person of any molecule of human emotions.

No insults but if this is your personality, you really need Jesus.

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Jimmy231: 10:52pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:


I never told him no sex until marriage. I told him about my experience in University and we both agreed to have sex when I was ready; when I was emotionally prepared. We are just two months into the relationship.
Alaye he done happen be that continue the relationship
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Sixfeetbelle: 10:52pm On Feb 07, 2021
denvers:
Since you were still gonna Bleep him, just assume it happened earlier and move on...

Sex is no big deal, I don't know why women take it as if it's a big deal...

Rapists sees it as a big deal which is why they do it.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by johnsonm2g: 10:52pm On Feb 07, 2021
That's my fear. Just hope she hasn't done anything stupid. I notice she was last online 2 hours ago. Girl9999 call me 07064244311, I need talk with you. I feel your pain, but you don't just have to end it without getting the guy pay for his action... Please stay alive for your parents and siblings. They all have hopes in you ���
Sirmwill:
I just pray she has not killed herself already

Girl9999 say something embarassed
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Soulrebel2(m): 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.



Aunty nobody do you anything, another cooked up story


I pity the people replying her..another attention seeker looking for likes and comment
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Haywiz1122: 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
which flower?

Flower ko, Roses ni

You people just think because you had sex early made you a woman, you feel in charge but you’re wrong, men are real predator

I just hate it when women complain about sex, Simone left you the same day after having sex with you, ask yourself why and who is at fault?

Why you ignore the risky aspect of life then be ready to move on with the experience
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
luminouz:


You don come with this fabu tales abi?


The future is female indeed!!! undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by dollytino4real(f): 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
IamPlato:
maybe you got it wrong..

I wasn't trying to sound funny...


See the comment you dropped, you think say rape na play?
some of all this comments are not to get anybody angry but read and get some humour out of situation
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by zedegit: 10:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
Why are people liking her post? Should she be done with relationship forever because of a slowpoke?

Should we lose a sister like that?


Oh, this is painful. Op involve the police. Let them parade his useless self on TV.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by ThatFairGuy1: 10:54pm On Feb 07, 2021
CalliDora1:
I've always said it. All men are potential rapist. Girls beware of them. Trust them at your own peril.

Sorry for your predicament. Avoid them and stay safe.

One was itching to come to my house this weekend but I refused because I don't trust them even in my own apartment and because of that he went and unliked the pics I uploaded in my profile. I don't care.

Ndi Uchu.
ONLY he goat among men please. Not all men.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Theboss100(m): 10:55pm On Feb 07, 2021
richmond500:
Some people don't need to be humans.

U see an unconscious lady and ur dik stand, raped her and left.

Jesus Christ, I don't care if I go to hell but if I see some persons with me in same chamber in hell, I will protest. Me as a fornicator can't share same hell with a rapist.
OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God
Like Vladimir Putin. gringringrin

Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by simplesearch: 10:55pm On Feb 07, 2021
richmond500:
Some people don't need to be humans.

U see an unconscious lady and ur dik stand, raped her and left.

Jesus Christ, I don't care if I go to hell but if I see some persons with me in same chamber in hell, I will protest. Me as a fornicator can't share same hell with a rapist.
OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God


What an advisor you're. You mean her to commit indirect murder and when caught, not if, she then spends the whole of her life behind bar. Weldone for offering such an emotionally induced and shrewd advise to a soul in anguish to aggravate her pain.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by vincentjk(m): 10:55pm On Feb 07, 2021
I know a lot of women who accuse men of raping them when it's just mutual sex, who knows if the op actually gave the guy greenlight and undressed and slept with skimpy night and the og couldn't help it then romanced and entered her London only for her eyes to open after every every.

A girl once accused me of something like this and blocked me on Facebook and WhatsApp then I chose to totally ignore her, 3years later(last year) she came around and apologized and we still had that same sex.

If the guy truly raped you as you said then you should report him to the police asap, a rapist is an idiot however.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by luminouz(m): 10:55pm On Feb 07, 2021
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grin
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Emeka71(m): 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.
I would advise you not to visit the police but confront the boy and let him know that he offended you but you forgive him and I also advise you to invoke both parents because they can aid him to marry you because he may want to wed you but is shy; but what if he wants to wed you.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by tito44: 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
Ishilove:

Stop typing the same stuff that comes out of your frazzled anus. She never said no pre-marital sex. What she said was no sex until she feels she is ready because of her previous bad experience.



You people just come online to type chochochocho. It is like you drop your sense in the waste bin each time you login, which is why you and your ilk inundate us with senseless comments.

This one is typing with her anus undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by 080bjaked(m): 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
How did the human race degenerate to such level of moral decadence?

How can someone be raped and dudes still found a way to pin blames on her? Jeez.

Even animals have better sanity and morals than some people (no insults, just fact).

Relationship is not all about sex and for what it's worth, I hope she sued his silly *ss and help him get sometime behind the bars (as well as some of his unreasonable sympathizers).

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Unrated900(m): 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.





Calm down sister
Don’t do any unreal things to your self.
We need to respect’s our privacy all times.
My advise goes thus-:
Get a recording phone and call him and asked him why he has to do such to you.
Anything he says over the phone should be used against him by you in the court of law.
Be wise.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Eberechi24(f): 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Hey, girl.

Visit the hospital for the proper test and involve the police. Don't kill yourself for this motherfucker. If you do, he has won the game and leave you messed up.

Girl, you don't want this, I bet. Get up and fight. Involve your mum if possible. Don't do this alone. You need someone by yourself and mum is your best bet.

If you can get the bottle of the said wine, keep it. It will help you in case you want to pursue the case.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by luminouz(m): 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
vincentjk:
I know a lot of women who accuse men of raping them when it's just mutual sex, who knows if the op actually gave the guy greenlight and undressed and slept with skimpy night and the og couldn't help it then romanced and entered her London only for her eyes to open after every every.

A girl once accused me of something like this and blocked me on Facebook and WhatsApp then I chose to totally ignore her, 3years later(last year) she came around and apologized and we still had that same sex.

If the guy truly raped you as you said then you should report him to the police asap, a rapist is an idiot however.

You are very correct. Especially those dramatic ladies. One needs to be careful not to totally castigate the guy before his own defense

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.
hello calm down, I would advise you call me so we can talk

I would be your emotional support (I am a homosexual male so I will have no sexual interests in you)
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Queenslander(f): 10:57pm On Feb 07, 2021
Gobengroup:
What of women who raped men ☹️
lool,. I've never heard about that,. Like forever,. grin grin though rape can happen to anyone, both men and women can be raped, but only men can commit rape!!
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by ekerintee: 10:57pm On Feb 07, 2021
Please dont kill yourself ,there are better Things ahead in Life .Lots of wonderful people you are yet to meet ,Lots of beautiful Things God has for u.This is Not the end,you are Not to blame ,learn one or two Things and please move on with Life .






Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Harmlesspill(m): 10:58pm On Feb 07, 2021
Oziex:
Hope you have gone to the hospital Sha, so they can put you on PEP (post exposure prophylaxis) against HIV, and prophylaxis against Other STDs, then contraceptives if it's still within 72hours
.
This should be your next course of action within 72 hours. Please do this quickly, the guy could have done it with the intention of infecting you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by richmond500: 10:58pm On Feb 07, 2021
simplesearch:



What an advisor you're. You mean her to commit indirect murder and when caught, not if, she then spends the whole of her life behind bar. Weldone for offering such an emotionally induced and shrewd advise to a soul in anguish to aggravate her pain.
Rapists don't deserve a place on this earth, they are as good as skull miners.
They deserve death.
And whatever substance he inject in that drink could easily kill her, what if she dies?
He will be free and still do same to someone else.

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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Crunchyg3: 10:58pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.
Abeg can you stop all these this might be my last day on earth. Is that how lily livered you are. Are you kidding me? Get a hold on your self it's not the end of the world. Better things are ahead. Don't quite you will look back and be grateful if you don't quit
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by 080bjaked(m): 10:59pm On Feb 07, 2021
My advise to you Madam, do not marry that idi*t.

Whoever is capable of rape is just a professional exam away from being a murderer. Don't let people push you to your early grave in the name of sympathy. And yes, involve the police, he deserves to spend some days in jail.

You are the victim, there is no shame in being raped.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Ishilove: 10:59pm On Feb 07, 2021
tito44:


This one is typing with her anus undecided
Okay....you've been noticed. Congrats. You can now hurriedly fuçk off to the rock from whence you oozed from.

Ignored henceforth.
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by tito44: 10:59pm On Feb 07, 2021
CalliDora1:
I've always said it. All men are potential rapist. Girls beware of them. Trust them at your own peril.

Sorry for your predicament. Avoid them and stay safe.

Ndi Uchu.

Is ur father a rapist?
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Omoslim26: 10:59pm On Feb 07, 2021
Girl9999:


The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

SMH it's not your fault at all

we now have a society that is wired to believe in the borrowed norms that in no way defines who we are as AFRICANS AND NIGERIANS in particular

gone are the days when our women had value and saw themselves as treasures to be won by men

gone are the days when you meet and date a girl with an open intensions of marrying her with consent of course from her parents ofcus

The essence of a relationship is marriage every other thing is just borrowed oyinbo packaged life style

if that guy has not made intensions of marrying you and you are doing boyfriend and galfriend upandan shame supposed dey catch you small

sense wey you no wan get u come get am by force with an injury dat will mar you for live if you don't seek help and equip your mind now

look for materials on SELF DISCOVERY
You need It more than the sympathy you will receive here Self discovery will help you be in the DRIVER'S SEAT OF YOUR LIFE

no sorry to give you apart the only thing wey I for like give you na better floggings but them no get App wey fit make am possible

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