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Sorry for your predicament. Have you seen a doctor? If not, please do. I hope you get justice. No man should force his way into a woman. I pray you find some closure and peace

richmond500:
OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

2nd advice, after recording it, stab him to death, report urself to the police, tell them he tried to rape u again and u killed for self defence. He is already death, they wont take his own statement except the one u recorded, its a win win situation

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God

MODIFIED
To all those quoting me, u think I give a rat ass about the life of a heartless rapist? If OP was my sister, I'll not even need touts, I'll put a bullet right though his skull

Girl9999 do whatever u want with him.

Dumb advice.

YoungBruzzy:
That's a lie from the pit of hell.. I have a friend who was gang raped by four girls all because he was a Secondary school student then and they we're in University, he now summon courage to ask of them out..The next thing that girl did was to invite him over to her house where he was chopped by em all (4 girls) ..
So women too dey rape.. Its just that its a shame for a man to claim being rape by girls. So they normally keep it to themself.

lool,. Chopped indeed,. Was it rape or consensual sex? . Did the girls perform MouthAction on him? And he managed to muster an erection, and had vagina sex, with one, maybe two, some or all of the girls? Was he pinned down? Or was he in charge? He also could not shout or scream for help because the neighbors had all gone to work? And they were alone in the building? Or did the girls threaten him with guns, machetes or other dangerous weapons? Tell me? Couldn't it have been an adventure gone awry? I think your friend probably had an orgy,. Lool, until you provide more information I remain undecided though!!

Aabheaven:
define rape, rape is sex without consent. So what does aunties are doing is not rape really? By the way who told you young men don't get raped that men dont speak up doesn't mean it does not happen. As a learned fellow, u can ask Google about stories of male rape victims in other to be enlightened. Don't be arrogantly confident in what u don't know. Go and seek knowledge

TF, this is totally unnecessary and excessive, Please mr, if you have a problem with me, write the problem on a piece of paper, fold it, and shove it up your ass,. Thank you!!

Mart1994:
How ladies always fall for this type of guys remain a mystery to me. Am sure the guy resemble justin bieber na why she fall for am like a pack of cards.

If na me chyke am na she go dey kpono.

Anyways... My condolences.

They are always attracted to bad boys

Please check if he releases in you, because may become pregnant too, know how to handle it.

Queenslander:
lool,. Chopped indeed,. Was it rape or consensual sex? . Did the girls perform MouthAction on him? And he managed to muster an erection, and had vagina sex, with one, maybe two, some or all of the girls? Was he pinned down? Or was he in charge? He also could not shout or scream for help because the neighbors had all gone to work? And they were alone in the building? Or did the girls threaten him with guns, machetes or other dangerous weapons? Tell me? Couldn't it have been an adventure gone awry? I think your friend probably had an orgy,. Lool, until you provide more information I remain undecided though!!

God, you are so unbelievable.. Like you really want me to provide evidence of that, come on he won't even tell me anything about it again.. But according to what he told me then, those girls belong to a secret cult group in school. I didn't confirm whether its true that they belong thoigh and also, I don't really know whether they threatened him with gun or cutlass or any other thing.. All what he told me was, they raped him shikena
Come to think of it, do you think its easy for a man to handle four girls at a go?? Well of course, if he is on a Viagra level

sorry my dear this is not fair at all. but hw culd u starve ur love of sex for two month and thinking not to react ? but he shuld hv beg u first not rape u. pls forgive him and call him back if u really love him, he did that for a reason known to him but he will explain the reason. sorry once again

Liposure:
ah! Do you know how many boys that were molested in their childhood? By so called aunties and sisters. Yet they moved on with their lives. Its not fair

I know dear,. Life itself is not fair!!

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Hey love!!! Please pull yourself together. Pay no heed to the cowards blaming you. Please report the rapist to the police. Have you washed up? If you haven't, go and see a doctor so they can confirm your assertion. You will be fine, in case you need somebody to talk to, I am just a PM away.

YoungBruzzy:
God, you are so unbelievable.. Like you really want me to provide evidence of that, come on he won't even tell me anything about it again.. But according to what he told me then, those girls belong to a secret cult group in school. I didn't confirm whether its true that they belong thoigh and also, I don't really know whether they threatened him with gun or cutlass or any other thing.. All what he told me was, they raped him shikena
Come to think of it, do you think its easy for a man to handle four girls at a go?? Well of course, if he is on a Viagra level

lool, tell that your friend to go and sit down,. This is probably a cock and bull story.. he wasn't raped jo,. For crying out loud, why in God's earth would a woman rape a man? If that is even possible,. I mean, not one, not two, not even three, but four women,. lool, Doesn't even sound right!! That guy dey use you catch cruise,. In his mind,. He's Prince Harry!!

My dear,your body must ve been defeated,but your soul was not defeated. Don't give up on true love when you find one. You're a sweet creature,you deserved better, you're amazing, you're strong, don't crack... I can imagine what you passed through. I wish I could meet with you to change your narrative. Be strong sweetheart.

Girl9999:
The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

Two men...!
Were you cheating

I won't say anything till I hear from the guy.. sorry for ur experience though.

Sofistcatdmoron:
This kinda thing gets me angry,,
,, How much is sex self, with 1k i can lay two street girls
And also the way girls like op makes sex to look like something special
I hate that kinda altitude
The guy is also a fool to drug a girl just to rape her
If a girl does not give you sex ,free her and go get it else
where na haba
God why me, sobs- sobs

You are funny man but this is serious even though I know that gender can fabricate stories

which isle, omo let her go and see a therapist before futre good man that does not know anything about her issues is affected and someone will now start starving because woman deny him sex.

LMS1:
Op You Just Lack Life Expirience.
Don't You Atleast Watch Nollywood Movies?
There Are Lots Of Scenes Like This
To Learn From.
You Are Just A Newbie Into The Dating World.
But It Isnt All Your Fault As You Taught He Was Heaven Sent
Thats Why You Dine With Him.
Just Keep Your Cool And Dont Always Hang Out With Male Friends No Matter How He Flatter And Spoil U With Gift.
Not Untill He Walks U Down The Isle.
Something Similar May Happen To You Again Except You Avoid Men As Much As We Avoid You. Gudluck!

Now, I see why TwitterNG feminists have so much venom towards Nigerian men. They get all my support. The vast majority of Nigerian men are cretinous fvcktards.

seanwilliam:
Na why we Dey encourage mastubation o..

I don’t know what to say sha

I swear man is better than to go and tarnish your image because of rot pekus that even smell. To get job after that go hard for you, no employment that 2minutes act will spoil your career.

FreeSpirited:
You were dating him..doing I love you I love you...u are not a virgin, you go to his house, he comes visiting u too..u dint tell us how many times both of you have kissed and romanced...And how many times he smooched and fingered you of which u disallowed him from having sex with u....you gave him mixed signals...you are dating him, enjoying benefits of dating, collecting his money, but u are forming smart for him...
..
I think that's why he used that format for you... otherwise, I doubt if he would have done that. You shouldn't have dated in the first place..you should only have maintain friends or bestie with defined friendship boundaries....
Imagine you saying u were planning to give him sex soon in your mind, that's suspicious of manipulation. The question is did you tell him this, that so so day o you guys will have sex as normal lovers do? You sexually frustrated him and he felt cheated, cos you are not even a virgin, he probably thinks you are fvvcking somewhere, so he resorted to that means, however traumatic for you....If you are not ready for sex..don't go and date bad boys who are not simps...who kiss you, press ur boobs..finger u...but u don't allow preeq..cos u are still counting time...you were playing him...then he played you...I dint say rape is the best way to handle ur situation...but
That's the way I see your story.......which u deliberately leave some details

Lol they like bad boys but come here they rant

fuckdemrepented:
Nobody should judge that guy until you hear his own side of the story cause I don't trust these Vag*na people

Meanwhile

Exactly you have daughters of Jezebel wickedness I guess

richmond500:
shut up, bloody hypocrite.

I know if she was ur sister, u won't think twice of putting a bullet right through the guys skull

we are too emotional in this part of the world, learn how to control your emotions,I will only advice my sister when she is not ready for sex she should not keep a man around her self, you don't want a sex you keep him around and keep talking about marriage, don't you think is some how?

Girl9999:
The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

never ever trust any man, don't ever spend time with men my dear... Turn to a lesbian dear.
But seriously Bleep that idiottt, a man should able to sweet-talk a girl out of her pants n legs spread too

PLEASE DONT KILL URSELF, YOU STILL HAVE A LOT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE, THIS IS A LESSON LEARNT ,I AM SURE THE GUY WONT GO FREE,GOD WILL SURELY PURNISH HIM FOR THAT ACT BECAUSE YOU GENIUELY LOVE HIM.

MY ADVISE IS PLEASE GO AND FLUSH YOUR SYSTEM TO AVOID ANY UNWANTED PREGNANCY BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT WILL WORSING THE SITUATION IF YOU ARE PREGNANT WITH THAT ACT.

MEET HIM, ASK HIM WHY HE DOES
THAT AND LET HIM KNOW YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE HIM, THEN MOVE ON.

TAKE HEART AND DONT END YOUR LIFE PLS

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

debbydams:
I v went to an herberlist because of my ex before I almost sacrifice my life for him I gave him my everything ndwhere is he today?

Gone, for you to have a better life

richmond500:
OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

2nd advice, after recording it, stab him to death, report urself to the police, tell them he tried to rape u again and u killed for self defence. He is already death, they wont take his own statement except the one u recorded, its a win win situation

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God

MODIFIED
To all those quoting me, u think I give a rat ass about the life of a heartless rapist? If OP was my sister, I'll not even need touts, I'll put a bullet right though his skull

Girl9999 do whatever u want with him.

Nice advice but the killing part is what I won't support. Op do the recording get it to all these agency that support woman against rape. They will follow the case and make sure justice is served to the rapist

MartinsD12:
I knew some senseless people like you will quote me

na your papa be senseless man wey no train you!! Buffoon

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

First thing first pls remove the tout of suicide...
Secondly go to the nearest hospital and tell they that you want to see a doc. Explain that u are rape, they will do a test for you and possibly get some of the guy semen from your V... And that will be part of the evidence. Thirdly call the guy and record everything btw you ask him why he raped you and hear what he will say...

But please don't let this one bring you down. And please remove suicide from your mind pls.
Please if possible talk to some councillor so you can successful go through this period. I know it not going to be easy but remember You are not alone, I will also be praying for you.
Be strong pls.

Vaiki:
na your papa be senseless man wey no train you!! Buffoon

Anu mpam

mosesbola:
@OP be very careful oo...

All these guys asking for your number want to Fvck you ni o

Na now you know Abi? When you are hanging with bad boys and cultists, neglecting good men in the name of they are weak nko

luminouz:
Nawa o..

Such a sorry case.


If all men were like me ehn, women go dey cry for sex sef.

A girl visited me yesterday. She was all over me, teasing and taunting, rubbing my body and making sensual gestures. She was just on pussy and dick talks. My dick didn't even rise up. I wasn't interested in her game.

She got tired and left. She later updated status about how some men who look tough are cowards and jittery about taking the bull by the horns.


Bull and horn kee her dia.

Why do you leave her ni is she ugly

Queenslander:
Dear, so sorry for your sad experience, no woman or girl should ever have to go through that horrific experience, after a sexual assault,. It isn't uncommon to be confused or upset,. You may also be angry or scared.. you may not know how to react at all, all these experiences are valid,. Please it is also crucial to confide in someone you can fully trust,. Like a family member or a close friend.. rape is condemnable, there is no excuse for it,. It is an abominable and unjustifiable act,. I think it is finally time that we rise as a nation to condemn and eradicate this despicable act. The severity of the offense of rape cannot be over emphasized,. That so called boyfriend of yours is a monster and must face the full wrath of the law,. He has no conscience for doing what he did to you. Having conscience is what separates man from beasts,. Men who rape women are animals that should not be allowed to roam the streets,. There is simply no excuse for rape.. never has been,. Never will be.. teach that to your sons, and remind yourself everyday!!

Stop the conflagration, animals do not RAPE and have never raped, it's only unusual where this trait was gotten from!

tito44:
Only God knows how much u sucked the guy for the two months u guys dated. Maybe he wanted a revenge for all monies spent

Exactly lol