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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by SeriouslySense(m): 8:27am On Feb 08, 2021 |
You are welcome dollynnn: 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Vaiki(m): 8:28am On Feb 08, 2021 |
MartinsD12:You are very stupid! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:29am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:Wait a minute here. Would it have killed her if she went to a public place to wine and dine? You fail to understand that people will be people and things like safety should not be taken likely. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by MartinsD12(m): 8:29am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Vaiki:I knew some senseless people like you will quote me |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by helinues: 8:31am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Donspicey: Emeritus... |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by emonis88: 8:32am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Vaiki:many guys translate spending on a woman to mean she il give u sex. dat is y guys ve to stop going out of their way to spend on a girl u know il not give u sex. rape is never an option cus say u don't spend for d babe. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by YourMajesty(m): 8:33am On Feb 08, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:God bless you richly for this. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:34am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:So you agreed they would have worked abi? Good. That is what I want to hear Peace. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:39am On Feb 08, 2021 |
MartinsD12:He should ask for it, not force her. A lady can never force you to spend on her, she can only influence you to do so, but at the end, the decision is yours whether you want to spend on her or not. Likewise, never force a lady to have sex with you. A little pestering can make her agree to sex as she has been considering it herself according to her post. I'm sure your position on this will change if the op happens to be your close friend or sister. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by specialmati(m): 8:40am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999:so sorry about what happened to you.you have to get yourself together and move on.first forgive yourself forgive him and dont fail to report the case as fast as you can.then move on.dont commit suicide it doesnt worth it.remember your parent love and live on. there is a good guy out there for a good soul like you.shalom God loves you get closer to him and have peace |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shinto1(m): 8:42am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Walk down the isle my foot.. the one I walk down the isle no be she wan kill me...women are completely demon. If you don't understand this today, wait you will tomorrow [color=#000000][/color] LMS1: |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:43am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:You chose to pick what suits you and ignore the rest. This tells alot about you. Shalom! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Olisehinnocent: 8:44am On Feb 08, 2021 |
You deserved to be rape my dear. Some of you ladies are very wicked. You no be virgin and you are dating a guy that has blood running o his veins. You chop his money yet you don't want to give him sex. I know that if he come to visit you that you will be putting on something that will taunting him. You are just wicked. If you are not ready to have sex with a guy don't collect something from him. You can't be suffering someone pikin and expect him not to plan something for you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:45am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Why do I have a feeling you have the capacity to do what the guy supposedly did? |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by MartinsD12(m): 8:46am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:My position might not change is she in school to keep boyfriend or to study? Let's set our priorities right. She invited the guy to her apartment who does that if not a girl who wants sex, I mean why invite a boyfriend in your own apartment to sleep over to do what, that should be the question, for me I know somehow what the guy did is wrong but she put herself in that dilemma, it's the negative consequences of her actions. And she says she is considering having sex with that boyfriend I don't see any rape here. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:46am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Olisehinnocent:If she is not giving him sex, he should stop spending on her or buying her stuffs. No justification if this truly happened. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:46am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:This has nothing to do with what suits me. It has to do with what works... |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:48am On Feb 08, 2021 |
[s] Dayzzy:[/s] That is a perverted way of thinking bros. Change please |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:51am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Here comes the obvious question I have been throwing at you which you chose not to answer. Careful in her own house? Besides, till when will she be careful? If you are having trust issues in basic scenario like this, then it's a failed relationship. I hope your girl (if you have one) starts demanding to meet you in a public space simply because she is afraid of the devil you might be |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 8:52am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Funny you can't see your opinion on this case as a perverted way of thinking. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:55am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:So throwing precaution to the wind and believing that all will be well is the right way to go abi? Please are you even listening to yourself... And by the way, my girlfriend and I always meet in public places. We choose to do this to avoid many ungodly acts |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 8:58am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:I speak what is right. You on the other hand speak what will continue to lure women into being rape victims 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by auwal83(m): 9:01am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999:Do not generalize your condemnation of men or human beings. There are few good ones actually. You just haven't met them. Regarding your situation, you should look at it as a unique thing and treat it your own way. At best, people can only offer you suggestions. What happened to you is now part of your life. You can live with it. In fact, if you choose, you can forget it. Life is so much. Stop over bloating the thing. I know it is a serious thing but much bigger things happened to others but they moved on. You too can move on. Remember this thing happened already. It is now past. Don't allow your past to spoil your present and your future. Trust yourself. Gradually you can wither the storm. Good luck! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Roddd(m): 9:02am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Most times, I find Nairaland uninteresting, I'd rather turn to reddit for help on very critical issues. A few questions here for all of us: Do we have phsychoterapists in here? Is the so much desired justice not most enjoyed by the living? Can we at least drift a little and focus on this quote below? Girl9999: @Girl9999 Listen sweet heart. You're just gonna give up? Okay, you're hurt and it's painful, but you're gonna just take a decision that'll hurt others for the rest of their lives? Real people who really care and genuinely love you, I'm talking about your mom, your dad what about your siblings? Have they done anything wrong to deserve such pain you could inflict on them? Lastly, I might not know who you are but I have sisters too. Your post caught my attention, so I'll not forgive you if you commit suicide. Think about it, I could be one of the people you're gonna hurt with that suicidal path. I'm more concerned about that. I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF YOUR MUM, DON'T DO IT. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Malawian(m): 9:02am On Feb 08, 2021 |
LeanonGOD:Be Simping there. Ode sombori. They both drank the same wine, but only she got knocked out. Nonsense and ingredients. Seems the noise about false rape accusations has ebbed and this one wants to come up with her own. Wonder if she is still in the man's house wanting a second rape. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by nkwuocha1: 9:03am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999, First of all, sorry for your predicament.Don't kill yourself.What we should do is to first talk to your parents. Tell them everything and they will take you for a police report and open a file on the case. The police will take it up from there. Sorry |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:05am On Feb 08, 2021 |
MartinsD12:Truth is, one won't think along the line of 'study or boyfriend' anymore if such happens. Some parents even expect you to be in a relationship in your final year of study so really, that's not it. Also, it's not clear if he was meant to sleep over..the norms could have been for him to take his leave in the night. For him to take along a wine, he probably had ulterior motives Truth is, rape is non-consented sex, even if she had it in mind to give in eventually, she isn't ready yet. There are other ways to satisfy his sexual needs, simple communication between the two could have solved this. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by LMS1(m): 9:06am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shinto1:wahala dey o,you and Duncan mighty na brothers?. anyway how she take wan kill you? abeg save a bachelor. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 9:06am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999:Its unfortunate that you meet bad and irresponsible guys. Never hide your feelings, open up to relatives and friends. You need serious help and counseling at this point. Never contemplate suicide please. Please, have you gone to the hospital for treatment; to avoid unwanted pregnancy and other sad possibilities. Don't hesitate, report to police too asap |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by dollytino4real(f): 9:06am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Vaiki:see human being o! |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:09am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Roddd:I tell you.. Reddit or Quora. You see this nairaland ehn, people will even make things worse |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Malawian(m): 9:11am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dpsychologist:Fact that she added that line shows she just one of those toxic feminists looking for a man to ruin. See as she is talking about sex as if it was goldmine. i have learnt how to read those creatures. |
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