SmellySperm:

lol Bros be like u dey ment..no be me jare

tho I been dey plan to leave my state come that Lagos since job opportunities plenty for there but na accommodation be my wahala Sha...if i say mk u help me now u no go gree help me
#how ur hustle na?

Even me the try JAPA from this dilapidated Benue oh!

If you want make I help you come Benue.. that one no be issue ;

What's his Nairaland user name....?

Rhy I'd thid in romance?

99thEnemy:



Even me the try JAPA from this dilapidated Benue oh!

If you want make I help you come Benue.. that one no be issue ;

ah bros I no sabi do farm work na

Wich kind job opportunities dey Benue? lol instead mk hunger wire me for Akwa Ibom State here

Slimslimqq:
please forget about the issues I have recently encountered which made me an online begger last year, na condition make crayfish bend. i happen to have access to one of my late father's property, because I know some people will not believe this story, but it is real.

I just have to talk about this issue presently about a nairalander i accomodated late last year.

this guy created a thread that he needs to move to another state (lagos) to hustle, and possibly pursue his football career, he was previously living in Ilorin.

I saw the thread and I really wished to help him with the accommodation, mind u he's not the first person, and he's not gonna be the last I always reach out to if they need accommodation because I know what is to have nothing or be stranded, he's not the only nairalander I have helped with such, most unilag and Yabatech students got accommodation from me for free, I do this because that is what my dad does before his demise, and he has always told me to follow same step and I am glad I always helped out and I think it is hereditary, my grand father did same with his properties also.

I called this guy number, and we talked about how he will move to lag. he was so glad I offered to help him.

early this year, he called me and told me he was on his way to Lagos that I should give him a description of how to get to my place.

when he arrived, I went to bustop to pick him. he was surprised he met a very young man. so I took him to my room to drop his bags, and I took him round the compound and I also introduced him to my mom and my babymama.

I also gave him a bed he will sleeping on, mind you he will be sleeping in the church, because that's is where those I help with accommodation sleep, but they keep their bags in my room, but there is another available room we give out for free to those who sleep in church. but those who I bring in use my room. and they are free to watch films and do whatever they want.

few days after this guy came, i noticed he doesn't greet me, he doesn't even speak to me, but i take it as his character. sometimes whenever my babymama or mom cooks, I tell them to serve him also, but he will never come back to say a thank u.

meanwhile, when he came I explained my own situations to him because I already took him as a friend, I told him how life has turned around after my babymamas and i business collapsed and how we came on nairaland to beg. I told him how I do menial jobs to survive and I told him the challenges he will overcome but he has to tighten his seatbelt to survive in Lagos.

This guy is very lazy, but he's hungry, a lot of people are calling my attention to it...

he said he wants a daily job, so that he can be able to feed himself till he gets something better.
I told him to always follow me to were I carry pop for daily pay, he declined, I also took him to a driver who I also work for as a bus conductor, he said he can't do it, and many other jobs like that which he declined.

I noticed he started avoiding me, but he still come into my room to change to dress.
while he was looking for accommodation on his thread, he said he said he doesn't drink nor smoke, that is one of the things that also made me help me, but this guys roll with smokers and drug addicts since he got to our area. my mom will be mad at me if she finds out the guy smokes.

yesterday was my birthday, while all my tenants and well wishers were greeting, this guy couldn't even say a happy birthday, till this moment he's just looking at me like spoilt yam.

I just got a minibus yesterday as a birthday gift from someone I have once helped, and I will start using it for business from Monday, I still wish to help this guy more and I feel I should tell him to join me as a conductor because this guy is hungry, but maybe he will agree. but I don't wanna be disappointed, because I don't know why he has been so cold towards me. if he declines, I am planning to send him away.

pls any advice on how to deal with this issue. but I don't want to take a wrong step that will tarnish all the good I have done to him.


sorry for the long post.

oga see me I dey Lagos
I'm around ketu,my leg got broken in a factory accident I had but now it's healing thanks to God
I should be able to walk again by this month ending
I don't smoke or do drugs of any kind
if u can just help me find a way I can see any job to keep body and soul together,I would really appreciate it
na my number be this,07045850391
I live around ketu so if na job I can be seeing 1000 or 1500 daily,I go appreciate, even if na factory work
I don't need accommodation na only job
God bless

I just got a job in Lagos. The employer wants Lagos residents only, but I applied with the hope that I will stay with my friend for the meantime. I attended the interview and was successful, the employer wants me to resume immediately, but I couldn't cos no accommodation and no money to secure one. i may lose the job if I don't resume by March. My friend in Lagos stays at mile 2 while I will be working at Berger. Tfare from mile 2 to Berger is over 1k daily, hence I can't stay with him. If I can find someone that can accommodate me and I will be paying him monthly rent I would appreciate. Ojodu Berger area

Slimslimqq:
please forget about the issues I have recently encountered which made me an online begger last year, na condition make crayfish bend. i happen to have access to one of my late father's property, because I know some people will not believe this story, but it is real.

I just have to talk about this issue presently about a nairalander i accomodated late last year.

this guy created a thread that he needs to move to another state (lagos) to hustle, and possibly pursue his football career, he was previously living in Ilorin.

I saw the thread and I really wished to help him with the accommodation, mind u he's not the first person, and he's not gonna be the last I always reach out to if they need accommodation because I know what is to have nothing or be stranded, he's not the only nairalander I have helped with such, most unilag and Yabatech students got accommodation from me for free, I do this because that is what my dad does before his demise, and he has always told me to follow same step and I am glad I always helped out and I think it is hereditary, my grand father did same with his properties also.

I called this guy number, and we talked about how he will move to lag. he was so glad I offered to help him.

early this year, he called me and told me he was on his way to Lagos that I should give him a description of how to get to my place.

when he arrived, I went to bustop to pick him. he was surprised he met a very young man. so I took him to my room to drop his bags, and I took him round the compound and I also introduced him to my mom and my babymama.

I also gave him a bed he will sleeping on, mind you he will be sleeping in the church, because that's is where those I help with accommodation sleep, but they keep their bags in my room, but there is another available room we give out for free to those who sleep in church. but those who I bring in use my room. and they are free to watch films and do whatever they want.

few days after this guy came, i noticed he doesn't greet me, he doesn't even speak to me, but i take it as his character. sometimes whenever my babymama or mom cooks, I tell them to serve him also, but he will never come back to say a thank u.

meanwhile, when he came I explained my own situations to him because I already took him as a friend, I told him how life has turned around after my babymamas and i business collapsed and how we came on nairaland to beg. I told him how I do menial jobs to survive and I told him the challenges he will overcome but he has to tighten his seatbelt to survive in Lagos.

This guy is very lazy, but he's hungry, a lot of people are calling my attention to it...

he said he wants a daily job, so that he can be able to feed himself till he gets something better.
I told him to always follow me to were I carry pop for daily pay, he declined, I also took him to a driver who I also work for as a bus conductor, he said he can't do it, and many other jobs like that which he declined.

I noticed he started avoiding me, but he still come into my room to change to dress.
while he was looking for accommodation on his thread, he said he said he doesn't drink nor smoke, that is one of the things that also made me help me, but this guys roll with smokers and drug addicts since he got to our area. my mom will be mad at me if she finds out the guy smokes.

yesterday was my birthday, while all my tenants and well wishers were greeting, this guy couldn't even say a happy birthday, till this moment he's just looking at me like spoilt yam.

I just got a minibus yesterday as a birthday gift from someone I have once helped, and I will start using it for business from Monday, I still wish to help this guy more and I feel I should tell him to join me as a conductor because this guy is hungry, but maybe he will agree. but I don't wanna be disappointed, because I don't know why he has been so cold towards me. if he declines, I am planning to send him away.

pls any advice on how to deal with this issue. but I don't want to take a wrong step that will tarnish all the good I have done to him.


sorry for the long post.

You don't need any advice

Just give him few days notice to leave

He is a lazy man but wants to get satisfied

He is the type you will help and regret at last

Slimslimqq:
please forget about the issues I have recently encountered which made me an online begger last year, na condition make crayfish bend. i happen to have access to one of my late father's property, because I know some people will not believe this story, but it is real.

I just have to talk about this issue presently about a nairalander i accomodated late last year.

this send him away.

pls any advice on how to deal with this issue. but I don't want to take a wrong step that will tarnish all the good I have done to him.


sorry for the long post.

So you went ahead to discuss my private life in public?

Is that how matured you are!!?? Instead of confronting me directly, you here saying all manner of lies just to appear good?

Don't worry, I know what to do. Let me see your face again and you will regret your actions!!

My brother you have done your best, don't send him away, sit him down and talk to him, you don't need anything from him, a beggar with ego issues. na wa.. Just talk to him,if don't see any changes then my brother you can ask him to look elsewhere and believe me you won't feel bad because you don try. All the best.

DavidUchechi:



So you went ahead to discuss my private life in public?

Is that how matured you are!!?? Instead of confronting me directly, you here saying all manner of lies just to appear good?

Don't worry, I know what to do. Let me see your face again and you will regret your actions!!

bros?

MilesLamar:


bros?

Make I put fear for the guy body small...

You try sef. Lending a helping hand to someone in need is good. But how can you just take in someone you never met before just because he wrote something online? What if he turned out to be a cultist or a criminal? Just be grateful that your problem is not worse.

Slimslimqq:
no I haven't .. i don't want it to look as if am stalking him

DavidUchechi:
Make I put fear for the guy body small...

Lol

Op be careful of such people...
Don't force him to do anything so he won't blame you for it in the future.
Something isn't right.
If you can't take his bad behavior anymore I suggest you look for money and rent a place for him and wash your hand comot for him matter.

Bro i read all you wrote and i think i understand why he's acting so......i think its just his character....i'm also like that kinda...talk to him about how you feel....people like that are mostly loners....introvert....like,i dont want to disturb you kind of a person.....lemme mind my business you mind urs.....mostly they are kind people by heart.....

for him not wishing you well on ur birthday, you would have jokingly reminded him its ur day and he hasnt said anything to you.....he isnt that foolish to still keep mute....people like that needs you getting closer to them not them to you.

as for the job,bro no be everybody dey do any how job.....give him time, but still make him see reasons why he should look for something he feels he will be comfortable doing to help himself too.......you've tried and may God bless you for ur kindness

Bro you not his dad, How was he surviving before you entered his life, Omo focus on your hustle. When he's ready to hustle he'll let you know. Also limit your expectations and expenses on him

eternityk:

oga see me I dey Lagos
I'm around ketu,my leg got broken in a factory accident I had but now it's healing thanks to God
I should be able to walk again by this month ending
I don't smoke or do drugs of any kind
if u can just help me find a way I can see any job to keep body and soul together,I would really appreciate it
na my number be this,07045850391
I live around ketu so if na job I can be seeing 1000 or 1500 daily,I go appreciate, even if na factory work
I don't need accommodation na only job
God bless

hmmm. Na wa o. Factory job i know of presently is in ikorodu. Chikki foods industry but pay is less than #1k

afribabe:
hmmm. Na wa o. Factory job i know of presently is in ikorodu. Chikki foods industry but pay is less than #1k

I can come there to work
anything I go appreciate
but d koko b transportation,is there any way I can find a place to squat and go back home at weekend
cos from ketu to ikorodu is another thing
pls I will be expecting your reply

eternityk:

I can come there to work
anything I go appreciate
but d koko b transportation,is there any way I can find a place to squat and go back home at weekend
cos from ketu to ikorodu is another thing
pls I will be expecting your reply

let me make enquiry and get back to you.

miraculousGod:
I just got a job in Lagos. The employer wants Lagos residents only, but I applied with the hope that I will stay with my friend for the meantime. I attended the interview and was successful, the employer wants me to resume immediately, but I couldn't cos no accommodation and no money to secure one. i may lose the job if I don't resume by March. My friend in Lagos stays at mile 2 while I will be working at Berger. Tfare from mile 2 to Berger is over 1k daily, hence I can't stay with him. If I can find someone that can accommodate me and I will be paying him monthly rent I would appreciate. Ojodu Berger area

Bros I'm around ketu,ketu to Berger is at most 150 naira,I can find a way u may stay here for the main time with me.
but that job,can I see a way to also get that job?
I'm in ketu
call 07045850391 so we can talk more

afribabe:
let me make enquiry and get back to you.

ok thanks, God will uplift you more

eternityk:

ok thanks, God will uplift you more

*Age requirement: >=18<=40
*No accommodation on ground unfortunately.(as guy guy, u might be lucky to see some staff that can help u)
*Presently there is a vacancy for Gardner (just one slot) which will/can be converted to factory worker if need arise(same renumeration).
*I don't think there's any other monetary benefits attached except meal tickets
*If interested (let me know), you just have to present yourself. Maybe on Monday.

I have begged for the slot to be on hold for me to get back to them tomorrow.

NB: I am not working there but I have inside information from the source that matter

afribabe:

*Age requirement: >=18<=40
*No accommodation on ground unfortunately.(as guy guy, u might be lucky to see some staff that can help u)
*Presently there is a vacancy for Gardner (just one slot) which will/can be converted to factory worker if need arise(same renumeration).
*I don't think there's any other monetary benefits attached except meal tickets
*If interested (let me know), you just have to present yourself. Maybe on Monday.

I have begged for the slot to be on hold for me to get back to them tomorrow.

NB: I am not working there but I have inside information from the source that matter

hmm
na on 1st March I can start going out again because of my broken leg.
I don't even have any experience as a Gardner
well thanks for helping me inquire about the job

miraculousGod:
I just got a job in Lagos. The employer wants Lagos residents only, but I applied with the hope that I will stay with my friend for the meantime. I attended the interview and was successful, the employer wants me to resume immediately, but I couldn't cos no accommodation and no money to secure one. i may lose the job if I don't resume by March. My friend in Lagos stays at mile 2 while I will be working at Berger. Tfare from mile 2 to Berger is over 1k daily, hence I can't stay with him. If I can find someone that can accommodate me and I will be paying him monthly rent I would appreciate. Ojodu Berger area

See go to Alagbole-Akute area, you will see face me I face you single rooms for like 5k a month. Some even takes monthly rent.

Akute is 200 naira bike from ojodu Berger.

eternityk:

hmm
na on 1st March I can start going out again because of my broken leg.
I don't even have any experience as a Gardner
well thanks for helping me inquire about the job

No experience required for the Gardner work.
I pray God provides something better before 1st March. However, u can mention me then, incase another offer shows

DavidUchechi:



So you went ahead to discuss my private life in public?

Is that how matured you are!!?? Instead of confronting me directly, you here saying all manner of lies just to appear good?

Don't worry, I know what to do. Let me see your face again and you will regret your actions!!

what is your problem with you and this guy....is there something he is not telling us? he wrote alot of stuff about you here n when you ask whom I matured I thought you would have wrote your own side of the story here for all to read since its now a public matter but instead you threaten him..that wrong bro.

let's here your own story then we can conclude!

afribabe:

No experience required for the Gardner work.
I pray God provides something better before 1st March. However, u can mention me then, incase another offer shows

ok thanks, will do so then

@op you are becoming something else on nairaland, o...why bring personal matter to the public? the guy you are talking about just replied you above n was saying a different story.......

where you making up all those stories about the guy or what?

always, you want to share some thing to appear good or sound good on nairaland where as thousands have done what you think you are doing n have never mention them publicly evennif the beneficiaries are ungrateful.

you invited this guy n if he is acting weird, N.a. your house, tell him to leave, its that simple...your happiness n peace of mind matters most.

he has already threaten you so be careful...


I will wait to hear him tell his own side of the story...this will be so interesting!

valentineuwakwe:


what is your problem with you and this guy....is there something he is not telling us? he wrote alot of stuff about you here n when you ask whom I matured I thought you would have wrote your own side of the story here for all to read since its now a public matter but instead you threaten him..that wrong bro.

let's here your own story then we can conclude!

he was just joking ni. Check his subsequent post

afribabe:
he was just joking ni. Check his subsequent post

ok

valentineuwakwe:
@op you are becoming something else on nairaland, o...why bring personal matter to the public? the guy you are talking about just replied you above n was saying a different story.......

where you making up all those stories about the guy or what?

always, you want to share some thing to appear good or sound good on nairaland where as thousands have done what you think you are doing n have never mention them publicly evennif the beneficiaries are ungrateful.

you invited this guy n if he is acting weird, N.a. your house, tell him to leave, its that simple...your happiness n peace of mind matters most.

he has already threaten you so be careful...


I will wait to hear him tell his own side of the story...this will be so interesting!

that person that quoted me is just catching cruise here. and about me bringing d matter on nairaland. firstly, I met the guy on nairaland before I decided to help. secondly, I decided to speak out because of his weird ways because I don't want to do something and later feel like I did something bad so I had to come for advise.
thanks

Djamel:
Bro i read all you wrote and i think i understand why he's acting so......i think its just his character....i'm also like that kinda...talk to him about how you feel....people like that are mostly loners....introvert....like,i dont want to disturb you kind of a person.....lemme mind my business you mind urs.....mostly they are kind people by heart.....

for him not wishing you well on ur birthday, you would have jokingly reminded him its ur day and he hasnt said anything to you.....he isnt that foolish to still keep mute....people like that needs you getting closer to them not them to you.

as for the job,bro no be everybody dey do any how job.....give him time, but still make him see reasons why he should look for something he feels he will be comfortable doing to help himself too.......you've tried and may God bless you for ur kindness

thanks for this bro, I spoke to him and I feel he is not truly interested in doing those kinda jobs. but I fear he is playing with hunger, though I heard from someone that his family sends him money weekly, maybe that's why he so relax