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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by obowunmi(m): 11:17pm On Feb 20, 2021
roli21:
I met this beautiful girl somewhere in ohio, i invited her over, we were both hot but she seems to push me away when we are about to have sex,
i was mad that night but the next day she confessed to me that he reason she didn't want to have sex was because she has herpes, instantly i became nervous and kind of resent her, but was happy she told me tho,
this is the first time i am hearing BOUT THIS STD,

PLEASE IS IT SAFE TO STIL BE WITH HER? because i think i love her but now this std is a deal breaker
i looked it up online and many people said herpes is nothing to worry about.
any body experienced this?

There's Herpes 1 and Herpes 2, which one does she have ? For her to have warned you, she probably has Herpes 2.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Bornboy4: 11:19pm On Feb 20, 2021
Use a face mask to prevent you from contracting COVID-19 and prick mask to protect you from being infected with herpes.

Na God Save you oh. Next time ask Mr. Prick to relax and behave himself whenever you are looking at A woman lustfully.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by oratorOdunayo1(m): 11:27pm On Feb 20, 2021
Most comments from above are quackery.... the littles ones that appeared elitist are just half truth ...,

Y’all should try research info before interloping on thread like this .....

Lori iro interlocutors of Nairaland
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by obayendo1010(m): 11:28pm On Feb 20, 2021
Oga run for your life not a curable diseasee
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by femi4: 11:32pm On Feb 20, 2021
divicoded:


Which planet are you from? How old are you? This is my problem with Nairaland, to much toddlers!

Herpes is incurable but can be managed!

Odẹ!
"Proper attention" means it's manageable not curable
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Nobody: 11:33pm On Feb 20, 2021
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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Kelvin3476: 11:40pm On Feb 20, 2021
obembet:

Just normal analysis
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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Nobody: 11:43pm On Feb 20, 2021
CalliDora1:
What sex will do to this generation of men. I pity all of you. She shouldn't have told you so that when next you come to this life, you'll learn to zip up.

You're still asking if you should stick with her? Ok, stick with her because it's a man like you that infected her.so, not a bad idea to stand by her.
Bitch wtf is you saying undecided
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Greekgod1: 11:49pm On Feb 20, 2021
Worse than HIV?lol Run mad or die? This must be a joke grin
You’re right that it has no cure and the rate of outbreaks(which were the sores you mentioned) varies, some people don’t have outbreaks at all throughout their lifetime,
Angelacruz:
Herpes is a virus and has no cure.It is worst than HIV.It really does not exhibit symptoms,d onlytin u will likely see at d initial stage is d appearance of sore on d lips or at d genital,this sore will appear n disappear for like 3 to 4 consecutive tyms and it will never come out.After 10 or 20yrs,d person might run mad or die.
The only tym to cure herpes is when d sore appear for d first tym.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Sandrafy(f): 11:50pm On Feb 20, 2021
Imagine if she didn’t tell you, you would have fingered her, sucked her and probably entered the pathway without protection ���� by now you won’t even think of oil change for a long time. she is nice though. Zip it una no Dey �
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Greekgod1: 11:58pm On Feb 20, 2021
How safe you are depends on the type, is it oral or genital herpes, type 1 or type 2? Ask that one first. If it’s oral you might get it if by kissing her when she’s having an outbreak(blisters on her lip region) most girls cover it with lipsticks though grin, your chances of getting it is 50:50. Herpes isn’t as deadly as people think, in fact it’s not at all, check the statistics of herpes cases in USA, it’s high. You should be happy she disclosed, even if you won’t date her don’t stigmatize her and don’t make a joke of it with her. Herpes na like flu my brother : grin
roli21:
I met this beautiful girl somewhere in ohio, i invited her over, we were both hot but she seems to push me away when we are about to have sex,
i was mad that night but the next day she confessed to me that he reason she didn't want to have sex was because she has herpes, instantly i became nervous and kind of resent her, but was happy she told me tho,
this is the first time i am hearing BOUT THIS STD,

PLEASE IS IT SAFE TO STIL BE WITH HER? because i think i love her but now this std is a deal breaker
i looked it up online and many people said herpes is nothing to worry about.
any body experienced this?

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by banmee(m): 12:01am On Feb 21, 2021
Uyi168:
.
Which kain mumu love??..
Morever, most herpes are not curable.

Angelacruz:
Herpes is a virus and has no cure.It is worst than HIV.It really does not exhibit symptoms,d onlytin u will likely see at d initial stage is d appearance of sore on d lips or at d genital,this sore will appear n disappear for like 3 to 4 consecutive tyms and it will never come out.After 10 or 20yrs,d person might run mad or die.
The only tym to cure herpes is when d sore appear for d first tym.

Fun fact. You probably have it or had and didn't know. You know that sore that appears right above one's lips which most Africans say it is a sign of an illness? Guess what that is? It's herpes.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by SenecaTheYonger: 12:10am On Feb 21, 2021
Carlyboi:
Lol someone said why won’t use condoms!who said condoms can prevent you from contacting herpes that virus is a mad ass one and the worst part is for now it’s fucking incurable and the outbreak ain’t even funny,people living with it are highly prone to a lot of deadly and virus and diseases.

Lastly most people living with it especially the take drugs to reduce their viral load and making it untraceable so as not to infect their partners.

Herpes and HIV are in the same WhatsApp group if the former ain’t well managed and left untreated the carrier would only have very bitter tales to share.


You probably have herpes without even knowing. If you’ve kissed someone with a herpes outbreak without knowing, you have it.

If you’ve ever had sore on your lips and called it malaria fever lol you have herpes

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by seunmsg(m): 12:12am On Feb 21, 2021
CalliDora1:
What sex will do to this generation of men. I pity all of you. She shouldn't have told you so that when next you come to this life, you'll learn to zip up.

You're still asking if you should stick with her? Ok, stick with her because it's a man like you that infected her.so, not a bad idea to stand by her.

Aunty, herpes doesn’t kill and you probably have it.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Angelacruz: 12:14am On Feb 21, 2021
banmee:




Fun fact. You probably have it or had and didn't know it. You know that sore that appears right above one's lips which most Africans say it is a sign of an illness? Guess what that is? It's herpes.
u are very right

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Nobody: 12:17am On Feb 21, 2021
femi4:
I am an Odẹ!
"Proper attention" means it's manageable not curable

yes you are, but wiill you sharap there toddler

Eranko! Omo oshi
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Dreyton36: 12:24am On Feb 21, 2021
CalliDora1:
What sex will do to this generation of men. I pity all of you. She shouldn't have told you so that when next you come to this life, you'll learn to zip up.

You're still asking if you should stick with her? Ok, stick with her because it's a man like you that infected her.so, not a bad idea to stand by her.

Na ur time they shout baby harder
Innocent pregnant virgin undecided with ur face like cabad


Lights up my kpoli in peace
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Nobody: 12:28am On Feb 21, 2021
roli21:
I met this beautiful girl somewhere in ohio, i invited her over, we were both hot but she seems to push me away when we are about to have sex,
i was mad that night but the next day she confessed to me that he reason she didn't want to have sex was because she has herpes, instantly i became nervous and kind of resent her, but was happy she told me tho,
this is the first time i am hearing BOUT THIS STD,

PLEASE IS IT SAFE TO STIL BE WITH HER? because i think i love her but now this std is a deal breaker
i looked it up online and many people said herpes is nothing to worry about.
any body experienced this?


https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by heendrix(m): 12:29am On Feb 21, 2021
Kondomatic:
And the lady got the herpes by singing hymns and clapping in the church?

grin grin

praising god with the dancing cymbals and Harps

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by alterego17: 12:30am On Feb 21, 2021
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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by heendrix(m): 12:36am On Feb 21, 2021
roli21:
i looked it up on reddit and they said the disease herpes,that everybody might have it. and its no big deal

Ok

but when are you going to have ur own??
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by uchennamani(m): 12:40am On Feb 21, 2021
CalliDora1:
What sex will do to this generation of men. I pity all of you. She shouldn't have told you so that when next you come to this life, you'll learn to zip up.

You're still asking if you should stick with her? Ok, stick with her because it's a man like you that infected her.so, not a bad idea to stand by her.

He should stick with her because it was a man like him that infected her? Ewu!
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by uchennamani(m): 12:41am On Feb 21, 2021
CalliDora1:


Yes, sex has been in existence but the rate at which this generation is abusing it is so alarming. You just meet a girl and the next thing on your mind is sex, sex,sex. Haba! No more self control.

Hate? For who? Please I don't hate anyone. Just expressing my anger and dissapointment at the lack of self discipline being displayed by majority of our men. Biko.

To even marry now is scary because I can't afford to keep myself and one idiot will say because he lacks control will come and "kobalize" himself ( not me).

A lot of married women today are being infected with nonsense diseases by their husbands all because of this lack of self control because they see a fine girl.

Ndi Uchu.
Rubbish
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by koolaid87: 12:43am On Feb 21, 2021
CalliDora1:
What sex will do to this generation of men. I pity all of you. She shouldn't have told you so that when next you come to this life, you'll learn to zip up.

You're still asking if you should stick with her? Ok, stick with her because it's a man like you that infected her.so, not a bad idea to stand by her.


Dumb
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by gaddafe(m): 12:55am On Feb 21, 2021
Haka anka root will cure this na
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by seunmsg(m): 1:12am On Feb 21, 2021
heendrix:


Ok

but when are you going to have ur own??

Who told you he doesn’t have it already?
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by ScrillyGOAT: 1:27am On Feb 21, 2021
Angelacruz:
Herpes is a virus and has no cure.It is worst than HIV.It really does not exhibit symptoms,d onlytin u will likely see at d initial stage is d appearance of sore on d lips or at d genital,this sore will appear n disappear for like 3 to 4 consecutive tyms and it will never come out.After 10 or 20yrs,d person might run mad or die.
The only tym to cure herpes is when d sore appear for d first tym.

Lori iro

Herpes isn't deadly and it usually doesn't cause any serious health problems. While herpes outbreaks can be annoying and painful, the first flare-up is usually the worst. For many people, outbreaks happen less over time and may eventually stop completely.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by karika2018: 1:44am On Feb 21, 2021
She actually did that just to stop you from having sex with her.........she just decided to end the relationship that she has with you for a reason.
Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Beey(f): 2:17am On Feb 21, 2021
roli21:
I met this beautiful girl somewhere in ohio, i invited her over, we were both hot but she seems to push me away when we are about to have sex,
i was mad that night but the next day she confessed to me that he reason she didn't want to have sex was because she has herpes, instantly i became nervous and kind of resent her, but was happy she told me tho,
this is the first time i am hearing BOUT THIS STD,

PLEASE IS IT SAFE TO STIL BE WITH HER? because i think i love her but now this std is a deal breaker
i looked it up online and many people said herpes is nothing to worry about.
any body experienced this?
I’ve seen you receive very scary reports from “Nairaland doctors”. You’d be surprised to learn that some of those advising you may have the herpes virus and not even know it . People innocently share spoons or innocently share each other’s drinks. Just like the common cold virus, we’ve all been exposed to the herpes virus in one way or the other though some may not have the virus actively. That’s why you see doctor’s are hesitant to test for it because many people already have antibodies.Someone exaggerated that it’s worse than HIV. Don’t you think doctors would be doing a lot of campaigning against it? It’s spread through body fluids in both sexual & non sexual manner. It can spread through saliva if someone has an active phase. However, the virus lives quietly in the body but can be triggered by stress or hormonal imbalance. It becomes active for a week to about 2weeks at most. There are some drugs given to quicken the recovery period both in the form of topical creams for the blisters or in the form of pills.There are meds given to be taken when the symptoms are felt or doctors can prescribe others to be taken daily on a low dose for a certain period to reduce breakouts. You’d be surprised to learn the percentage of the population that has the virus. Talk to a doctor for more advice and for help to decide whether you’ll go forward with the relationship and how you can cope if genital herpes is involved.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by OlawaleBammie: 2:48am On Feb 21, 2021
Angelacruz:
Herpes is a virus and has no cure.It is worst than HIV.It really does not exhibit symptoms,d onlytin u will likely see at d initial stage is d appearance of sore on d lips or at d genital,this sore will appear n disappear for like 3 to 4 consecutive tyms and it will never come out.After 10 or 20yrs,d person might run mad or die.
The only tym to cure herpes is when d sore appear for d first tym.

Aaahhhhh

Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Roseey0(f): 2:51am On Feb 21, 2021
If she is open to herbs
Let her come to our institute OIHM

We are not limited when it comes to Naturopathy. Everything is curable by the help of God.
We have recorded 6 HIV successes since Inception.
What then is herpes?

But you must come with patience and surely we will come up with medication for you.

Look us up online.

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Re: She Told Me She Has Herpes by madprophet(m): 3:03am On Feb 21, 2021
Roseey0:
If she is open to herbs
Let her come to our institute OHIM

We are not limited when it comes to Naturopathy. Everything is curable by the help of God.
We have recorded 6 HIV successes since Inception.
What then is herpes?

But you must come with patience and surely we will come up with medication for you.

Look us up online.

Look you online where??

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