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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 22, 2021
LordofNaija:

No I see why you are still unmarried. My people say that an uncouth mouth smells more than a sorely anus. You obviously need help
Lol. You know how to write rubbish but when we force feed you that same rubbish you are so fond of, you start bitching and whining like a cranky donkey. Ogbeni geddifok ke faraburuku koshi lo.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by LOVEGINO(m): 9:04pm On Feb 22, 2021
Tunagee:


Because na runs girls full everywhere now(Both married and single) as in, ashawo, and materialistic ladies who are not genuinely after you, but what they can get from you.
tell dem bro. Nigerians gals re nothing but liability. Stupid.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Lorayne(m): 9:04pm On Feb 22, 2021
chatinent:
My grandfather used to say: nwanyị mara mma bu nganga nke nna ya.

The day they left the traditional title of being called maidens to becoming registered as slay-queen, everything deteriorated. Yes, gbogbo nkan ti bajẹ.

This era of girls understand dating to mean a sex sentence.


Many took to willful prostitution; hunger for money...money to do what? Buy lashes, perfumes...money for nothing!


It's very difficult to see that promising ada bekee again. Abubuwa yanzu sun juye.
wow!...
you understand the 3 main languages. ya ka Yi ne? .. wanna learn too
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Feb 22, 2021
VeeVeeMyLuv:
a million likes for you
This is what we call facing the problem squarely or tackling a challenge headlong.

If our empty head govt can reason like u things will be a lot better.

Thank you. Do you think I stand a chance if I run for president on the platform of reviving our masculinity by constitutional law? I'm assuming that most women would vote against me. It's the simps I'm afraid that would swing the vote. They'd probably side with the women.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by OBTOREPA(m): 9:07pm On Feb 22, 2021
Nuttella:
I dont care if they lose interest, what I know is that I will marry by God's grace.





Can i see your picture or contact please.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:10pm On Feb 22, 2021
Givaxy:

Are you a good an loyal woman ?
Action speaks louder than words.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:12pm On Feb 22, 2021
chatinent:
My grandfather used to say: nwanyị mara mma bu nganga nke nna ya.

The day they left the traditional title of being called maidens to becoming registered as slay-queen, everything deteriorated. Yes, gbogbo nkan ti bajẹ.

This era of girls understand dating to mean a sex sentence.


Many took to willful prostitution; hunger for money...money to do what? Buy lashes, perfumes...money for nothing!


It's very difficult to see that promising ada bekee again. Abubuwa yanzu sun juye.
I no de hear hausa but I hear dis one.

this era things don scatter

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 9:14pm On Feb 22, 2021
Vickym1:

Action speaks louder than words.
Proof to me you are good and loyal
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:15pm On Feb 22, 2021
Vickym1:
Some men dnt appreciate good and loyal women.
I am not "SOME MEN" And what does it justify?
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PastorFire: 9:15pm On Feb 22, 2021
Nuttella:
I dont care if they lose interest, what I know is that I will marry by God's grace.
Marry me.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Stonewell: 9:17pm On Feb 22, 2021
[quote author=Warripikine post=99322963]
So how do men who are intending to settle down, find the genuine ones?[/op, you are serious ooquote]
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tegrianonigltd(m): 9:19pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.



MODIFIED


IT'S TRUE PLS KEEP ON QUOTING THIS MONIKER

SEEMS LIKE THE USELESS NIGERIAN MEN ARE THE ONE(S) QUOTING

And outsiders like us die
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Lovestrong(m): 9:19pm On Feb 22, 2021
overseasnbeyond:
Marriage is not about your Diccck hardness, the heat in it can consume or leads to separation. Women will tell you is not always about money but money is major because you got to pay for
Rent/ Building
Feeding/ house maintenace allowance.
Family and friends demand necessary.
Yourselves and social status
Then you starts planning for addition to the family (children) who are going to depend on you.
Then fear of unknown

U dey very stingy bros
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by denvers: 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021
@Op
To marry no be small thing o.
You go first target one babe and start toasting (you fit toast like 20 before 1 agree)
After that another hustle of taking care and trying to be in contact regularly....

After that na to plan wedding (the parents or siblings fit no like you,) , Na to try convince them.

After that na to find money for the wedding proper plus Bride price( hope no be ibo girl)

After that you realize all the time, money and energy exerted was just to please the society.

After that woman problem....
The rest is history.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021
Givaxy:

Proof to me you are good and loyal
Prove it kwa? How
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by sinola(m): 9:20pm On Feb 22, 2021
Cos ladies are running promo with their kpekus

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:21pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:

you are you good?
grin fati my friend....of course I am, at least my mom and ex testified
If I can find a woman like me, then I have no problem
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by daddymummy(m): 9:22pm On Feb 22, 2021
I think it is a kind of God's judgement.

I heard that there was a time men were always looking for women to marry.

Some women didn't agree to marry the men.

Some men were so traumatized by the lack of willing women to marry.

There is what we call natural selection in biology.

If you are having a desire for something and the desire is not met, natural selection will take away the desire from you to save you from dying of frustration.

The same thing with a body feature that is not useful, natural selection will take it away either from you or your subsequent generations,then give you/your generations the feature that is needed/ useful.

Natural selection is what reduces male desire for marriage.

It does not totally take away the desire because women are still willing to marry.

It only reduces the desire in response to the initial frustration men experienced in finding a partner.

That is why natural selection is also a part of God's judgement.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:23pm On Feb 22, 2021
mezico96:


I am not "SOME MEN"
And what does it justify?
Since u're not the some men.. Relax then
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 9:24pm On Feb 22, 2021
Vickym1:

Prove it kwa? How
Looking for a good girl to marry. If you're loyal and you'll be faithful, it would make sense
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:25pm On Feb 22, 2021
SpicyMimi:
So who are the people getting married every weekend? Sometimes during the week? You guys just make assumptions to console yourselves! Next thing, you will see them kneeling to propose and uploading pre-wedding pics las las cheesy

Marriage is Divine.

sister I write Jamb 5 times.
b4 den I been say no be people de get admission every year.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:25pm On Feb 22, 2021
conscientionist:


There's no bad woman or good woman, woman is just woman. You just need to understand the nature of woman to know how it works.


Yo sai waht??

OYO

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:26pm On Feb 22, 2021
semyman:
Most women are after your properties especially those from broke homes
Secondly, they are never loyal to hubby but to the pastors or oga at the office

very right. a watched gal can never marry a wretched man. a poor gal go for an average man.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:29pm On Feb 22, 2021
Vickym1:
Since u're not the some men.. Relax then
Who said am not? Lol
Las Las I no marry, i believe it won't affect my 3square meals
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by witworth(m): 9:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
It's even more complicated nowadays, for most men, it's money they want to marry and have a good livelihood, for few men, money is not even their problem, they have more than enough to marry even more than one wife and take care of children well, but they just can't rely on ladies of nowadays, both old and young ladies self.
Though many ladies are ready if the guy is set as well, but some of them can't even cook anymore or even take care of home, all you see is care for their bodies only with so much beautifications and all.
The bottom line is... No matter how upside this world has turned, no be today, many men will still marry, same as women, even in for better for worst deal. Whether divorce will come up later or not, its all still part of the natural program

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:35pm On Feb 22, 2021
mmsen:
Men want peace.
Do women bring peace?
There is your answer.
Bros make good bless your brain
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HelpYourself(m): 9:39pm On Feb 22, 2021
Nuttella:
God has already told me I will marry that I should just be patient, I no dey bother myself.

grin

Prophetess

As a seer I can look and tell you if this is true. With your permission off course :

I can tell you exactly when and if at all you will find marital bliss or have children or your marriage if at all will be joyful or sorrowful

grin

Should I ?

grin

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 9:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
overseasnbeyond:
Marriage is not about your Diccck hardness, the heat in it can consume or leads to separation. Women will tell you is not always about money but money is major because you got to pay for
Rent/ Building
Feeding/ house maintenace allowance.
Family and friends demand necessary.
Yourselves and social status
Then you starts planning for addition to the family (children) who are going to depend on you.
Then fear of unknown



they only Women that can tell me money is not de problem, are Women that already have money or are employed
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
Givaxy:

Looking for a good girl to marry. If you're loyal and you'll be faithful, it would make sense
Lol
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
mezico96:


Who said am not? Lol

Las Las I no marry, i believe it won't affect my 3square meals
grin grin grin

I dey hail oo

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:42pm On Feb 22, 2021
We can't afford to buy oop marry bus we em Don jam bend
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Debra911(f): 9:43pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.



MODIFIED


IT'S TRUE PLS KEEP ON QUOTING THIS MONIKER

SEEMS LIKE THE USELESS NIGERIAN MEN ARE THE ONE(S) QUOTING
Lmao cheesy

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