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Neowanskywalker:
Why am i single. . Actually, am divorced. Lesson learnt. Waiting for a lady who would want me m0re than i want her. Thats the only solution to this relationship or marriage issue. Once bitten is 1000 times shy. I cannot c0me and kill myself

Ulrich01:
I never finish taking care of my own responsibilities

Michelle55:
Don't stare too long at a closed door(disappointment, breakups and emotional pains) you may end up missing out on the very best goodies planned for you while you're dwelling on the past mistakes, just let go.

Some people are in our lives to give us lessons while some are there to give us memories, only pick up what your heart can accept and let the rest go!

Live life like there's no tomorrow and love like you've never been hurt before, that's the only way you can fully live life to the fullest.

Don't let one yeye person turn you into a scared little cat, there's fun and happiness in loving the right person you know, just don't give up on love yet.

Divoc19:
Your highest chance should be a desperate single girl in her mid 30s or single mom but, you have to be careful with a single mum cos them don enjoy independence wella.

Every man needs a good woman. You won't know until you get to your 50s.

Good luck

Jaqenhghar:
Story.
Na so George Clooney talk after his divorce. He said he will never marry. He even got a pet pig and was talking about how the pig is loyal. Now nko?
Jay Z spent years rapping about hoes aint shít. Now nko? He even apologized for his past comment. Bro leave matter.

femifezzy:
Explore.......are u advising her to be cheating? or what bro

Divoc19:
Then grab the bull by the horn and approach the person but your chances are low for the person not to notice you before.

Cos, na you go dey find attention from the person even after marriage.

I'll suggest you have a plan B cos life after marriage no be here o. Married people won't tell you the truth but, if you settle with a friend the life go dey easier

A305:
Marriage is outlandish today.

Originally, The concept and idea of marriage seems to come from a well thought out perspective of both couple helping each other 50/50 but these days, Women seems to enjoy marriage more and thus, benefits them 70% of the time and the only one thing men find solace in; after their sacrificial effort of being a man (provider) is being used to continually manipulate them and also will forbid them from having a mistress/side chick. (why hoard the pússy then, And make me do your biddings for it?)


According to Briffault law: 1(b) A woman will remain loyal to you for what you can provide, And the moment you stop providing, you are ultimately useless to her and she will never 100% commit to you — meaning, women are hypergamous in nature and it isn't their fault, they do it for their offspring/children.


My approach.

We can both come to an understanding and still live happily, a win - win for everyone.

I get you pregnant, you have my child/ren, you live alone with with the kids (don't worry, I will always provide and set up a business for you) but am taking the male kid once he turns 15 (women can't raise an alpha, they usually raise simp).


Clause to the aggrement.

She can never have sexual relation with any other man except only me, even though we live apart. The day I catch her having an affair, All payments, upkeep allowances etc will be terminated.

She will vacate my rented apartment, We split the kids for good and then, she goes her way with the other kid or she leaves all my children to me to take full custody of them all.

Truthabulabula:
StacyO

A305:
Marriage is outlandish today.

Originally, The concept and idea of marriage seems to come from a well thought out perspective of both couple helping each other 50/50 but these days, Women seems to enjoy marriage more and thus, benefits them 70% of the time and the only one thing men find solace in; after their sacrificial effort of being a man (provider) is being used to continually manipulate them and also will forbid them from having a mistress/side chick. (why hoard the pússy then, And make me do your biddings for it?)


According to Briffault law: 1(b) A woman will remain loyal to you for what you can provide, And the moment you stop providing, you are ultimately useless to her and she will never 100% commit to you — meaning, women are hypergamous in nature and it isn't their fault, they do it for their offspring/children.


My approach.

We can both come to an understanding and still live happily, a win - win for everyone.

I get you pregnant, you have my child/ren, you live alone with with the kids (don't worry, I will always provide and set up a business for you) but am taking the male kid once he turns 15 (women can't raise an alpha, they usually raise simp).


Clause to the aggrement.

She can never have sexual relation with any other man except only me, even though we live apart. The day I catch her having an affair, All payments, upkeep allowances etc will be terminated.

She will vacate my rented apartment, We split the kids for good and then, she goes her way with the other kid or she leaves all my children to me to take full custody of them all.

IamBroke:
I believe there are alot of single people here on this forum and all over the world.

Reasons they are single are best known to them.
But for me here are few reasons I'm still single..

I'm in ma early 20s but I've never asked a girl out before because I always feel like they gonna turn me down... .
I'm single because I'm an introvert. I love being on ma own.
I'm broke and I'm not ready to take responsibilities of a girl financial situations.
There are alot of reasons but let me give room for others...

So WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE

Divoc19:
Your highest chance should be a desperate single girl in her mid 30s or single mom but, you have to be careful with a single mum cos them don enjoy independence wella.

Every man needs a good woman. You won't know until you get to your 50s.

Good luck

Spending123:
At sixteen years old she has seen more boxers more than Anthony Joshua

Jaqenhghar:
see as you dey contradict yourself. First you were broke and kept a rotation but others can't keep a rotation when broke.
SMH

IamBroke:
I believe there are alot of single people here on this forum and all over the world.

Reasons they are single are best known to them.
But for me here are few reasons I'm still single..

I'm in ma early 20s but I've never asked a girl out before because I always feel like they gonna turn me down...
I'm single because I'm an introvert. I love being on ma own.
I'm broke and I'm not ready to take responsibilities of a girl financial situations.
There are alot of reasons but let me give room for others...

So WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE

Xenry:
Probably because of mosdi quotes on Nairaland.

IamBroke:
I believe there are alot of single people here on this forum and all over the world.

Reasons they are single are best known to them.
But for me here are few reasons I'm still single..

I'm in ma early 20s but I've never asked a girl out before because I always feel like they gonna turn me down...
I'm single because I'm an introvert. I love being on ma own.
I'm broke and I'm not ready to take responsibilities of a girl financial situations.
There are alot of reasons but let me give room for others...

So WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE

Mide3367:
I am single after I discovered that girls uses us(guys) to meet all their needs. Card, data, hair, cream etc. They don't buy anything with their money and as a guy that is building up my dreams and my company, I need to save that money instead of spending it on a girl that will soon dump my ass. Nigeria girls are useless. All of them

microlincoln:
I can relate. It's more painful when you're not told what was wrong or the reason for the break up. Good people ain't appreciated but NEVER STOP BEING YOU

Babara1994:
Why would you spend 5 years waiting for one single guy? This is why I call ladies fish brain. When you were supposed to be open minded and explore, you were busy doing "I don't cheat"

CandyOps:
Sha get money first it's very important. But you can still bang chicks even without having cash esp if you know how to carry yourself and don't act like you're broke. Before I got my place I was squatting with my uncle for a long while and still hit the two baddest chicks in our close anytime the house was free. So far as you come across as confident enof and she's open to you then you can hit it.

Sha don't keep high maintenance chicks in your rotation. In fact, as u broke u no even suppose get rotation at all for now

Bawofss:
let hookup.......I promise to never make u cry

Heterodox:
You may not be as good as you think.

Fxwarrior:
If you are willing to forget the past, we can get to know each other better.
May I pm you?

justosee:
Everyone is good in their head. why date for a whole 5 years without marriage? anyone in their second year of relationship should start planning for marriage.

Wilsonzinny:
I simply choose to ignore this cos u r entitld to ur tots n free to talk...believ me there ar guys who dnt really knw wat they want...