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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Nobody: 2:22am On Feb 27, 2021
shantti:
Such happens because most girls are retarded. All they know is big brother and telemundo. As a girl, its good you imbibe the culture of reading books, books that spans across different perspective of life(dont read from ur phone, buy the hard copy, have a mini library) so that you can contribute in intelligent conversations.Reading broadens your exposure. I was discussing with a girl last week, trying to tell her how i think ancient inca civilization is way too overhyped, and she was just looking at me like a goat. As a girl learn how to contribute to discussions spanning politics, history, business(especially stock market stuffs and share subscription) and even religion, develop a passion, set goals for urself. It makes your existence worthwhile


funny enough I prefer the girls in the big brother/telemundo range; they are great for small talk.

even though I'm not a fan of small talk. it's always easier to have small talk than a serious conversation.

I dislike acclaimed intelligent people; their talks are boring and full of clichés . especially acclaimed intelligent females that can form woke these days.



emotionally intelligent women turn me on wink smiley
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Regex: 8:37am On Feb 27, 2021
shantti:
Such happens because most girls are retarded. All they know is big brother and telemundo. As a girl, its good you imbibe the culture of reading books, books that spans across different perspective of life(dont read from ur phone, buy the hard copy, have a mini library) so that you can contribute in intelligent conversations.Reading broadens your exposure. I was discussing with a girl last week, trying to tell her how i think ancient inca civilization is way too overhyped, and she was just looking at me like a goat. As a girl learn how to contribute to discussions spanning politics, history, business(especially stock market stuffs and share subscription) and even religion, develop a passion, set goals for urself. It makes your existence worthwhile

Nah, all the know is 2k urgently.
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 27, 2021
nurain150:
I respect their privacy that why I won't post our whatsapp message.I have this sister more of a sister all she keeps saying is lol,smile I be like wtf.The other ones are just boring.
modified:
it not about relationships as most people are saying am talking about normal conversation a day to day convo
@op ur assumption is correct, but i think u should narrow this opinion down to Nigerian girls


They are the most worthless species I have ever come across

Sometimes when I try to hold a decent meaningful conversation with them, I just get fed up because they are so boring and irritating and their monosyllabic replies are unbearable (kk, lol, sup, kul, grt)

Eventually, I got fed up of texting Nigerians and decided to go to the west

In doing this I met so many wonderful people who are highly intelligent

All the relationships are completely platonic

I met this English girl and she is a very intelligent biologist, pro gamer and a writer (we decided to start writing a book during lockdown)

I also met this European guy who I game with (he's a great mathematician, a very good gamer and he's well into sports and all) we have a server in Discord and we have fourteen other guys and girls who are part of the team

Also I'm friends with a guy from the middle east, he's a brilliant artist and all his paintings are life-like and VERY realistic

There's also this Latino boy from Mexico who's presently teaching me how to play a guitar, he's a great musician and he's presently working on his debut album

My Scottish cousin and friend is teaching me how to illustrate on my phone

The list is endless and could go on and on, I just named a few of my Western friends

There's always something to discuss about, they are very smart, they have direction and dreams in life and we never run out of juice




And after all this, whenever out of courtesy, I decide to just say "hello" to my Nigerian friends (both guys/girls), I get so disappointed to be hit with waves of kul, fyn, av u eaten, aw ws ur day, api new month oo

Its all so heartbreaking


And at this points in time, I reason that something must be wrong with the average Nigerian's IQ

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 6:00pm On Feb 27, 2021
BlueKiddo:

@op ur assumption is correct, but i think u should narrow this opinion down to Nigerian girls


They are the most worthless species I have ever come across

Sometimes when I try to hold a decent meaningful conversation with them, I just get fed up because they are so boring and irritating and their monosyllabic replies are unbearable (kk, lol, sup, kul, grt)

Eventually, I got fed up of texting Nigerians and decided to go to the west

In doing this I met so many wonderful people who are highly intelligent

All the relationships are completely platonic

I met this English girl and she is a very intelligent biologist, pro gamer and a writer (we decided to start writing a book during lockdown)

I also met this European guy who I game with (he's a great mathematician, a very good gamer and he's well into sports and all) we have a server in Discord and we have fourteen other guys and girls who are part of the team

Also I'm friends with a guy from the middle east, he's a brilliant artist and all his paintings are life-like and VERY realistic

There's also this Latino boy from Mexico who's presently teaching me how to play a guitar, he's a great musician and he's presently working on his debut album

My Scottish cousin and friend is teaching me how to illustrate on my phone

The list is endless and could go on and on, I just named a few of my Western friends

There's always something to discuss about, they are very smart, they have direction and dreams in life and we never run out of juice




And after all this, whenever out of courtesy, I decide to just say "hello" to my Nigerian friends (both guys/girls), I get so disappointed to be hit with waves of kul, fyn, av u eaten, aw ws ur day, api new month oo

Its all so heartbreaking


And at this points in time, I reason that something must be wrong with the average Nigerian's IQ

Nigeria economy and society is very different from western countries

U are somewhat ryt though most Nigerians are not intelligent but I don't believe ladies can be as intelligent as men.

I prefer a feminine lady to a hybrid pseudo masculine beast lady
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by TheVictim01(m): 6:10pm On Feb 27, 2021
All women are boring, that's a fact and let it sink in. What do you expect from a slave to neuroticism being an origin to logic?
For casual and friendly interactions needs the hypothesis of strategy and inductive steps and women lack such a trait. It all lies on you, you're the boring one among the bunch. Don Juan knows better!!

nurain150:
I respect their privacy that why I won't post our whatsapp message.I have this sister more of a sister all she keeps saying is lol,smile I be like wtf.The other ones are just boring.
modified:
it not about relationships as most people are saying am talking about normal conversation a day to day convo
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Nobody: 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:


I don't believe ladies can be as intelligent as men.
You're right bro

But u better be careful with this comment oo :-)

It has a hint of sexism in it, let someone not come to bash u
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 8:36pm On Feb 27, 2021
BlueKiddo:

You're right bro

But u better be careful with this comment oo :-)

It has a hint of sexism in it, let someone not come to bash u

How is it hinting sexism, women are not intelligent. They are not logical and are second class in the society.

Just saying facts though
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by nurain150(m): 9:22pm On Feb 27, 2021
BlueKiddo:

@op ur assumption is correct, but i think u should narrow this opinion down to Nigerian girls


They are the most worthless species I have ever come across

Sometimes when I try to hold a decent meaningful conversation with them, I just get fed up because they are so boring and irritating and their monosyllabic replies are unbearable (kk, lol, sup, kul, grt)

Eventually, I got fed up of texting Nigerians and decided to go to the west

In doing this I met so many wonderful people who are highly intelligent

All the relationships are completely platonic

I met this English girl and she is a very intelligent biologist, pro gamer and a writer (we decided to start writing a book during lockdown)

I also met this European guy who I game with (he's a great mathematician, a very good gamer and he's well into sports and all) we have a server in Discord and we have fourteen other guys and girls who are part of the team

Also I'm friends with a guy from the middle east, he's a brilliant artist and all his paintings are life-like and VERY realistic

There's also this Latino boy from Mexico who's presently teaching me how to play a guitar, he's a great musician and he's presently working on his debut album

My Scottish cousin and friend is teaching me how to illustrate on my phone

The list is endless and could go on and on, I just named a few of my Western friends

There's always something to discuss about, they are very smart, they have direction and dreams in life and we never run out of juice




And after all this, whenever out of courtesy, I decide to just say "hello" to my Nigerian friends (both guys/girls), I get so disappointed to be hit with waves of kul, fyn, av u eaten, aw ws ur day, api new month oo

Its all so heartbreaking


And at this points in time, I reason that something must be wrong with the average Nigerian's IQ
I never knew some people
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 9:33pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:


How is it hinting sexism, women are not intelligent. They are not logical and are second class in the society.

Just saying facts though

Try switching environment. Maybe the girls in your area are dull
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 9:45pm On Feb 27, 2021
qtguru:


Try switching environment. Maybe the girls in your area are dull

It's not about environment.

The ones that claim to b "intelligent" have feministic tendencies. They are pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies.

Women are not created for logical discussions

They are innately emotional beings, solipsistic and narcissistic too
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 9:48pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:


It's not about environment.

The ones that claim to b "intelligent" have feministic tendencies. They are pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies.

Women are not created for logical discussions

They are innately emotional beings, solipsistic and narcissistic too

That's a shallow minded opinion, Read more books because that mindset will poison your outlook on life
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 10:00pm On Feb 27, 2021
qtguru:


That's a shallow minded opinion, Read more books because that mindset will poison your outlook on life

Shallow minded because I am stating basic biological and evolutionary facts.

Look at the west, just look at USA for example, they just abolished legal recognition of "biological sex" through this absurd "equality act" in their house and guess which gender is their speaker.... A bloody emotional useless female

Female are not built for intelligent conversations

Don't fight nature abeg
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:


Shallow minded because I am stating basic biological and evolutionary facts.

Look at the west, just look at USA for example, they just abolished legal recognition of "biological sex" through this absurd "equality act" in their house and guess which gender is their speaker.... A bloody emotional useless female

Female are not built for intelligent conversations

Don't fight nature abeg

That's the doing of the Left, not women. There are tons of women too who do not share such views. You should be careful what you consider "truth" because you can easily misguide others, just as most of you are actually misguided on this platform. The Left are very liberal and more woke, they are the ones responsible for the Identity Politics and Gender Identification. So you actually believe all women do not have capacity for Intelligence. That's a very serious shallow mindset not an insult but the truth.


What did you study in school ? because that's odd POV
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 10:11pm On Feb 27, 2021
qtguru:


That's the doing of the Left, not women. There are tons of women too who do not share such views. You should be careful what you consider "truth" because you can easily misguide others, just as most of you are actually misguided on this platform. The Left are very liberal and more woke, they are the ones responsible for the Identity Politics and Gender Identification. So you actually believe all women do not have capacity for Intelligence. That's a very serious shallow mindset not an insult but the truth.


What did you study in school ? because that's odd POV

I don't look at conservative women or ladies as intelligent. They are just pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies. Innately they are not logical. Especially that Candice Owens of a lady.

They have feministic tendencies and they are trying to play smart about it. But I can see through their facade
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 10:18pm On Feb 27, 2021
DEMZEE:


I don't look at conservative women or ladies as intelligent. They are just pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies. Innately they are not logical. Especially that Candice Owens of a lady.

They have feministic tendencies and they are trying to play smart about it. But I can see through their facade

Candice Owens even identify as feminism, she stated she loves being a traditional wife, and even explained that most feminist would rather enslave themselves to Corporatism than a family. Conservative has nothing to do with intelligence, it's how they don't allow Foreign ideologies change their way of life.

Seriously your outlook on life is very skewed, read a lot of APA and Psychology Publications there are tons of researches that puts women at intellectual standpoint. I get you hate women , but what you actually believe is not true. I feel like I am talking to a young person because that sounds actually immature.
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 10:26pm On Feb 27, 2021
qtguru:


Candice Owens even identify as feminism, she stated she loves being a traditional wife, and even explained that most feminist would rather enslave themselves to Corporatism than a family. Conservative has nothing to do with intelligence, it's how they don't allow Foreign ideologies change their way of life.

Seriously your outlook on life is very skewed, read a lot of APA and Psychology Publications there are tons of researches that puts women at intellectual standpoint. I get you hate women , but what you actually believe is not true. I feel like I am talking to a young person because that sounds actually immature.

She's a bloody feminist

I don't listen to Wat ladies say, I watch Wat they do

She wants men to b responsible but she doesn't want men to have authority. Just look at her name, she still bears Owens.... Her maiden name for goodness sake. She is even more popular than her husband. She is the dominant gender in her relationship, she's a pseudo masculine hybrid beast lady

PS: I love women, I love feminine women
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Nobody: 11:15pm On Feb 27, 2021
qtguru:


Candice Owens even identify as feminism, she stated she loves being a traditional wife, and even explained that most feminist would rather enslave themselves to Corporatism than a family. Conservative has nothing to do with intelligence, it's how they don't allow Foreign ideologies change their way of life.

Seriously your outlook on life is very skewed, read a lot of APA and Psychology Publications there are tons of researches that puts women at intellectual standpoint. I get you hate women , but what you actually believe is not true. I feel like I am talking to a young person because that sounds actually immature.



Educated women even with high IQ are not capable of intellectual curiosity, critical thinking,open minded analysis, application of logic, not because they don't have the same cognitive ability as men ( same brain) but due to their innate Solipsisitic nature which allows them to rationalize based on feelings and not facts, if its not validated by their emotions, such data is discarded,women make use of rationalization hamsters to justify their emotive reasonings and arguments so that they can have the false appearance of logic and reasoning

As long as they are innately Solipsisitic, the peak of their rationality is to memorize and cram data and statistics, they are not capable of being logical and analytical like men because their feelings would always cloud their judgement

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Nobody: 11:19pm On Feb 27, 2021
yahjac:



funny enough I prefer the girls in the big brother/telemundo range; they are great for small talk.

even though I'm not a fan of small talk. it's always easier to have small talk than a serious conversation.

I dislike acclaimed intelligent people; their talks are boring and full of clichés . especially acclaimed intelligent females that can form woke these days.



emotionally intelligent women turn me on wink smiley



Women are only educated to become crammer's and memorizers of data and statistics,even the ones with IQ, they don't have the capacity for intellectual curiosity and critical thinking,they are Solipsisitic in nature( don't think outside what affects them ),they make use of rationalization hamsters ( rationalizing events and information and interpreting them with feelings instead of facts), they don't apply logic but result to emotive reasoning,they need a grouplike structure ( Feminism) to give them a political voice and make them all appear as rational thinkers ,since individual females can't think on their own, they make use of Dissociation ( to rationalize their incompetency or mistakes and make it seems ok and normal)

There are rarely inventors and contribute meaningfully to society and civilization as a whole asides from giving birth to and rearing children

They would in a pragmatical and realistic sense always remain second class citizens because their fundamental nature cannot make them to embrace masculine virtues and responsiblities

There is nothing they can do about it, they can't fight their nature, even Egalitarianistic-Equalism , humanism and Feminism can't solve it

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by nurain150(m): 12:34am On Feb 28, 2021
khiaa:


K






grin grin grin Just kidding, I'm not Nigerian. Anywho, what's good with cha?smiley
What not a Nigerian
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by nurain150(m): 12:42am On Feb 28, 2021
Thattallgirl:
Lol pele... mostly it happens when the lady isn't just interested in you or she's not interested in having a conversation with you. And sometimes, that's how some ladies are like. They're not just big on conversations... some guys are like that too. One time, I was chatting with a guy, I was mostly the one asking questions. He even gave me topics to discuss, topics to ask him. Lol I just had to ignore him.
Not about relationships now am talking about my sister like someone.i am talking about keeping up in any topic chat with a sensible American girl not the werey ones or the druggist or try Europe or Asia see the difference from Nigerian mode of chatting
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Mrscarter(f): 9:06am On Feb 28, 2021
KimberlyWest:


grin That's how it should be. Once you see those replies, don't bother continuing with the chat. If you disturb her too much, she will bill you just to chase you from her life completely.

Yeah but thats just rude and makes you look like ur dumb and a leech undecided
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by khiaa(f): 5:06am On Mar 01, 2021
nurain150:

What not a Nigerian

I'm American.

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by nurain150(m): 5:50pm On Mar 01, 2021
khiaa:


I'm American.
By ...... Birth or
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Soren4(m): 6:44pm On Mar 01, 2021
Oga there are more pressing issues and here you are complaining about how Nigerian girls chat... Ogbeni leave them and focus on other things.
Whether they converse well with you or not, you won't die
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by BrodaEuros: 7:11pm On Mar 01, 2021
all they want is money
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 10:55pm On Mar 01, 2021
DEMZEE:


She's a bloody feminist

I don't listen to Wat ladies say, I watch Wat they do

She wants men to b responsible but she doesn't want men to have authority. Just look at her name, she still bears Owens.... Her maiden name for goodness sake. She is even more popular than her husband. She is the dominant gender in her relationship, she's a pseudo masculine hybrid beast lady

PS: I love women, I love feminine women

I was banned, Candance Owen is a foreign matter not Nigerian, Nigerian women are intelligent and they are dominating in the Medicine space in both the US, UK and countries seeking doctors. If you say Nigerian women are not intelligent then you are either consuming too much Red pill. Unless you are not a professional or never have worked with women. 13 years of working or more and women dey, smart ones. If you are not in that environment you will always classify women based on the ones you are exposed to. Change your environment. I don't mean move to the island, but go to places of intellect and you will see what I am saying.
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 10:58pm On Mar 01, 2021
I am bothered by this thread, why do you think Nigerian women are not smart, I'm worried how you people perceive things. Or are you guys actually trolling ?
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:43pm On Mar 01, 2021
Only commenting because you mentioned medical space. Your idea of dominance may be different from mine. A huge amount of pioneering medical breakthroughs were made my men. Perhaps, the recent female to male ratio in medical institutions and settings may be large but it isn't always based on intelligence.

Same with why we have more guys in engineering fields. It can be a numbers game and reflection of natural tendencies.

I believe there are women capable of intelligence and critical thinking. But I also feel they are more vulnerable to emotions than men and process things differently.

qtguru:


I was banned, Candance Owen is a foreign matter not Nigerian, Nigerian women are intelligent and they are dominating in the Medicine space in both the US, UK and countries seeking doctors. If you say Nigerian women are not intelligent then you are either consuming too much Red pill. Unless you are not a professional or never have worked with women. 13 years of working or more and women dey, smart ones. If you are not in that environment you will always classify women based on the ones you are exposed to. Change your environment. I don't mean move to the island, but go to places of intellect and you will see what I am saying.

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by qtguru(m): 12:04am On Mar 02, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
Only commenting because you mentioned medical space. Your idea of dominance may be different from mine. A huge amount of pioneering medical breakthroughs were made my men. Perhaps, the recent female to male ratio in medical institutions and settings may be large but it isn't always based on intelligence.

Same with why we have more guys in engineering fields. It can be a numbers game and reflection of natural tendencies.

I believe there are women capable of intelligence and critical thinking. But I also feel they are more vulnerable to emotions than men and process things differently.


My context for dominance was the great amount of eligible Female Medical Nigerians in the US not "pioneer" dominance , the person I was responding to stated Nigerian women do not have capacity for Intelligence and that's a very odd statement for a supposed reasonable person to state. Your response is understandable and true too, Men do dominate in Engineering fields and Science too, and women are also in such fields.

Everyone:
All these Gender wars here is childish everyone should grow up. especially the ones that keeps writing All Nigerian women are useless. That's a naive way of thinking, in life both men and women will help you in your journey.

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by khiaa(f): 2:26am On Mar 02, 2021
nurain150:

By ...... Birth or

I'm indigenous.
Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 2:54am On Mar 02, 2021
qtguru:


I was banned, Candance Owen is a foreign matter not Nigerian, Nigerian women are intelligent and they are dominating in the Medicine space in both the US, UK and countries seeking doctors. If you say Nigerian women are not intelligent then you are either consuming too much Red pill. Unless you are not a professional or never have worked with women. 13 years of working or more and women dey, smart ones. If you are not in that environment you will always classify women based on the ones you are exposed to. Change your environment. I don't mean move to the island, but go to places of intellect and you will see what I am saying.

I'm not saying women are not intelligent, all I'm saying is women can never b as intelligent as men.

Femininity is a comforting, emotional and empathetic trait mostly possessed by women

Masculinity is a abstract, adventurous and logical trait mostly possessed by men

No matter how intelligent a woman is, her emotions will always cloud her. Menstrual period too is also a factor why women can never be as intelligent as men. Also women possess estrogens- which makes women seek comfort and men possess testerones- which makes men seek adventure or want to crave challenges.

I don't see academic intelligence as a form of intelligence at all. It's too myopic and most of the times academic intelligent people are not educated, they are just indoctrinated and know nothing about real life or world issues.

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Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by DEMZEE(m): 2:56am On Mar 02, 2021
qtguru:
I am bothered by this thread, why do you think Nigerian women are not smart, I'm worried how you people perceive things. Or are you guys actually trolling ?

Because feminism is a lie

Men and women are fundamentally not equal

Women should embrace FEMINITY and not be pseudo masculine hybrid beasts!

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