angie541:


Thank you!

can we talk? your email or something. You can create a new email if you want. I hope you respond.

good morning, sorry for what happened to you angel, I don't know ladies like this still exist in this world, which Men with good heart are praying for to get married to and stay faithful not the one who would always cheat. please I'm sorry for you loosing your virginity and your true love and soul to him but you should have study him well when you know you are from a wealthy family and he is from a poor background, you have know the trick he is pulling the first 3 months with him you should have sense he is after your money but you are already in love, he used that to have his way, i know love makes people stupid no matter how hard human being are, when they love like this, know matter what person is doing to him/her it nothing as far as the victim is in love.you love him but you should have study him when you knew he is from a poor background, no matter the love you have for him, you should have wait and study him very well before giving your body and soul to him if he is a gold digger then you would know how to kick him out of your life but eventually he is and when you found out he has a child you should have make enquiry about the child and the mother, I don't know what to say again, I'm very sure he is the first man in your life or the first man you have date.. please don't kill him just leave him for God and let God fight for you, no matter what don't force him to marry you because you will eventually regret it...I'm really sorry for you, loosing your virginity and love to him .. I don't know ladies from a wealthy familyare still faithful, it's rare to see....may God be with you and direct your man to you who would love you and heal the pain.........I felt your pain, loosing your virginity, first love, happiness, money, marriage proposal and you even stayed with him for 5 years... please don't kill him.. just leave him and move on with your life and put him in God hands and see how God will fight for you

ChildOfDoom:
let go dear. I need a life-saving 300k. i have a good heart and need a companion. I can help you heal. Just help me with my financial woes. I am 29, tall and fair. i am ready to marry you even today (court wedding), irrespective of your complexion or age. Don't see me as fake or heartless. I will also sign a pre-marriage agreement to forfeit all i have if i cheat or get killed

despirado

Rip in advance to d guy...

angie541:
Please I need help before I kill someone, my fiancé just canceled our wedding because his baby mama wants to come back.
We’ve dated for five years and he told me he had a child but there’s nothing between him and the mother anymore, I’ve been helping him to pay child support, I’m from a very wealthy family and very hardworking too , I’ve helped set this guy up in life that I’m sure even up to his third generation can never suffer, this guy had nothing when I met him but I never looked down on him and I built him and established him, I was also a virgin , he disvirgined me.
After setting him up, this guy proposed to me and the wedding is in four months time and this guy suddenly informed me his baby mama wants to come back, I had informed the whole world I’m getting married, my Facebook,Instagram,sent out invitation letter, please I want to die the shame and pain is too much .
The most painful part is that I recently found out it was all a set up , this guy dated me to dupe me, but why don’t you dupe me and leave me in peace, you went to the extent of proposing marriage and make me send out invitation letters, he’s the only man I’ve dated in my life! I confronted him to know why he decided to ruin my life like this and his response shocked me , he said “what had he done that nobody has ever done before” , I couldn’t believe my ears, so this guy never loved me, even if he had lied on the devil that it’s the devils work I would’ve forgiven him , the boldness to tell me you hurt me intentionally!
No he can’t go just like that! He’s in the house I bought with another woman! I can’t do anything cause he’s name is on the documents! Please help me before I kill someone cause I’ve gone to the ghetto to get some hired killers and I’ve paid them already, but I called them yesterday to hold on because I’m scared I’ve never killed anyone In my life, what If his ghost haunts me? If I’m in my room will his ghost appear to me?
But he can’t just go scot free please what other thing can I do to this evil guy because he must also feel the same pain I’m feeling, this pain is everlasting and it will there until I die, he must also feel the same! Please anyone who know this guy should tell him to lie on the devil that it’s the devils work because I swear with my life he must pay!

If you're truly very very wealthy I can marry you on the date on the wedding IV you sent out. You also wouldn't have to worry about telling your guest that I am not that very guy as I will also do a name change to the exact name on the IV. DM me.

It's simple, since the money Is what he came to you for, then take the money away from him.
How??

Send a good scam artist to con him off his money, then he will come back to tell you he made a mistake by leaving you, but he will not know that you know.

@angie541, i can't actually read this to the end cause i'm bleeding already.

This is an injustice i can never let go unpunished, such people can't be forgiven.

Can you kindly connect with me on gmail, via d.sailor1999, i would love to take this up.

BTW, i sent you a pm already.

Modified.

Just gone through the writeup, kindly contact me via mail, there are ways to make him pay without you feeling guilty, while you move on.

angie541:
Please I need help before I kill someone, my fiancé just canceled our wedding because his baby mama wants to come back.
We’ve dated for five years and he told me he had a child but there’s nothing between him and the mother anymore, I’ve been helping him to pay child support, I’m from a very wealthy family and very hardworking too , I’ve helped set this guy up in life that I’m sure even up to his third generation can never suffer, this guy had nothing when I met him but I never looked down on him and I built him and established him, I was also a virgin , he disvirgined me.
After setting him up, this guy proposed to me and the wedding is in four months time and this guy suddenly informed me his baby mama wants to come back, I had informed the whole world I’m getting married, my Facebook,Instagram,sent out invitation letter, please I want to die the shame and pain is too much .
The most painful part is that I recently found out it was all a set up , this guy dated me to dupe me, but why don’t you dupe me and leave me in peace, you went to the extent of proposing marriage and make me send out invitation letters, he’s the only man I’ve dated in my life! I confronted him to know why he decided to ruin my life like this and his response shocked me , he said “what had he done that nobody has ever done before” , I couldn’t believe my ears, so this guy never loved me, even if he had lied on the devil that it’s the devils work I would’ve forgiven him , the boldness to tell me you hurt me intentionally!
No he can’t go just like that! He’s in the house I bought with another woman! I can’t do anything cause he’s name is on the documents! Please help me before I kill someone cause I’ve gone to the ghetto to get some hired killers and I’ve paid them already, but I called them yesterday to hold on because I’m scared I’ve never killed anyone In my life, what If his ghost haunts me? If I’m in my room will his ghost appear to me?
But he can’t just go scot free please what other thing can I do to this evil guy because he must also feel the same pain I’m feeling, this pain is everlasting and it will there until I die, he must also feel the same! Please anyone who know this guy should tell him to lie on the devil that it’s the devils work because I swear with my life he must pay!

lol, don't kill anybody abeg
your patience being with a broke guy and building him up says alot about you. Any lady that can be this patient with a guy can be understandable and accommodating not minding the demons because every girl has one.
Please there is nothing new under the sun, be thankful you haven't married the idiot. Your husband will come give it a little time. Bear the shame and grow from it.

It's very annoying and painful but statistically you will be better off not killing him because if you get caught ur life don finish in prison.But if you leave him you get to live ur life peacefully and after some yrs you will forget about him.

heendrix:


Why not just let him go and let Karma do his thing. Move on and just let it slide

Which kinda karma? She should burn down d house. Squeeze him for every penny. We go see whether d baby mama no go run

lol, funny how grown up males are selling their birthright when they heard money, lol.

until you men decides to be one, this country will remain a hoax.

a lady came innocently to seek advice, if only most of you cowards commenting trash understands what it meant to be betrayed, but rather a show of sympathy, what comes to the mind of most of you is your selfish interests.

what a people.

Akamariner:
@angie541, i can't actually read this to the end cause i'm bleeding already.

This is an injustice i can never let go unpunished, such people can't be forgiven.

Can you kindly connect with me on gmail, via dsailor1999, i would love to take this up.

BTW, i sent you a pm already.

Modified.

Just gone through the writeup, kindly contact me via mail, there are ways to make him pay without you feeling guilty, while you move on.

Yiu bleeding already? Show me d blood. Omo men cant be trusted, so many wicked men out there.

Akamariner:
lol, funny how grown up males are selling their birthright when they heard money, lol.

until you men decides to be one, this country will remain a hoax.

a lady came innocently to seek advice, if only most of you cowards commenting trash understands what it meant to be betrayed, but rather a show of sympathy, what comes to the mind of most of you is your selfish interests.

what a people.

That's Nigerians for you

SweetCunt97:
Yiu bleeding already? Show me d blood. Omo men cant be trusted, so many wicked men out there.

lol, i've really suffered a lot of emotional abuse myself while growing up, i had to fight for my freedom, hence whenever i heard of any similar occurrence, the pain is usually refreshed, and my instinct will be to fight.

i hate it when someone is taken advantaged of with passion, you are killing the humanity in such person, leaving him/her dead.

i can well relate to this type of occurrence (not relationship wise though, don't think i will be able to manage a heartbreak from a lover, hence i stare clear), being highly emotional (if i chose to be) also orphaned at a very young age, i was practically killed, fighting ressurects me.

angie541:


Thank you .

I don't know if this story is true but if it is
I salute you, your kind is rare.

The question is
What Do You want?
Off course start cancelling the wedding

Take time to heal and Start thanking GOD for saving you

Back to what do you want? Before that you have to deal with the realities
1. He didn't love you
2. He wasted your time, energy and resources
3. He's kind of made you a laughing stock among family friends etc

From your write up you're a very together person, resilient and tough and this will help you weather the storm
That said if you want to get back some of your financial investment a good lawyer can help
If you want to sue for breaking promise etc you can

That's why I asked What Do You want?

NB the best is yet to come Stay strong

@angie541, kindly disregard those ones trying to take advantage of your unfortunate situation, a desperate soul can't be trusted.

Nothing in life really worth more than your happiness and peace of mind, whatever it is that will take that from you should be cut off, how i wish you can simply forget about this and move on, there are better ways to deal with this, but i understand it can be hard.

The reason you fell into this at all was that you prioritise what is not important over what is, learn to differentiate both, you can then easily spot an error whenever there is one.

SweetCunt97:
Yiu bleeding already? Show me d blood. Omo men cant be trusted, so many wicked men out there.

You said men can't be trusted, what about women hmn?, lol.

i said i've never had an heartbreak from relationship, is it because i had no one willing to date me?, na, but my few experience with women affects my judgment, although that can't really stop me, i'm not just interested in one.

so, it's vice-versa, the best way to approach a matter is to understand it, and the best way to understand is to dialogue with the participating parties.
don't just judge based on one-sided assumption.

Akamariner:

lol, i've really suffered a lot of emotional abuse myself while growing up, i had to fight for my freedom, hence whenever i heard of any similar occurrence, the pain is usually refreshed, and my instinct will be to fight.

i hate it when someone is taken advantaged of with passion, you are killing the humanity in such person, leaving him/her dead.

i can well relate to this type of occurrence (not relationship wise though, don't think i will be able to manage a heartbreak from a lover, hence i stare clear), being highly emotional (if i chose to be) also orphaned at a very young age, i was practically killed, fighting ressurects me.

Thanks for your seemingly sincere reply. I think i wanna b friends with d male behind this moniker. I'll reach you one of these days

Nigerian girls are useless indeed....

Omo some men are wicked oh. How can you do that to someone for 5 years straight. Gosh... And they would have been fxcking behind her back too or maybe the baby mama used juju or what? There's some kind of premeditated and well-planned wickedness that will just make you lost in thought.

Madmazel:
can we talk? your email or something. You can create a new email if you want. I hope you respond.

Bloody simp, captain save a hoe. Your dick need to be choped off right now , you are a disgrace to men ....fvck you

angie541

You really need to thank God for sending that Angel to stop you from going ahead with that act.
Vengeance is of the Lord’s...sit down and watch the movie that it’s about to play out.

I understand you are in so much pains right now, no one can even dare to relate this pains, only you feel this hurtful pains and the desire to pour out in revenge. But if you go ahead to kill or hurt him, you’d pay dearly for it and might be x2 of your current situation. Never think of the present in all you do, think of the future.

You’d one day find your dream man and he would love you like no one on earth has ever done, and if you killed a man today, you won’t enjoy that marriage and you just might get killed too.


Let it go...let it go...slowly, slowly...just slowly the pains will go and in just few months it would be gone.

One thing you can do is this ; Go to God in prayers, tell God all you have told us here like you are seeing Him. Cry your eyes out, tell God to arise and Fight for you, tell Him you will forgive the guy but He needs to Help you Revenge on this guy.

God’s vengeance is the BEST! That guy will crawl back to you in triple pains begging for your forgiveness.

angie541:


You can choose not to believe!
I’ve been a regular visitor of nairaland, I just don’t have account here, I created the account today because I needed to post my story because I’ve never posted here!

Am not move , This is just 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of what some female folks do to guys simps. Am happy they is a re-match .

my grandmom told me not to promise what I can't do for a woman.


If this post is true. I blame the guy. Why so heartless?

Judgment is pronounced when 2 sides to the story are properly provided.
For now, I feel your pain. It'll b hard to calm down at d moment, True.
It'll b hard to even take advises, too, true. You will derive 5 minutes motivation from replies here and still die alone when d evening silence comes up, true. It's very difficult to get over sudden pain, not even with prayers.
The only word of advise from me to u is for you to CRY. Yes, u heard ryt. CRY. Anytime u think of it, CRY. It's what tears are put in there for. Whenever u r in pain, Just cry. Till u r strong to pull through.

Nobody is worth killing. Distract yourself and decorate him as a monster in your head. Go outside more often and talk with people.

Theres emptiness after every motivation. I am not here to motivate u, cause I know how it hurts, and I know how motivations are useless at first. Your mind has alot of unanswered questions at d moment. I'm sorry

PS: don't bank of vengeance from God.
U may never see it. GOD is merciful. God loves him and loves u.

Vengance brings emptiness and lack of fulfillment.

Even if it happensto him, you won't be happy.
This life na just rubbish. Cry, cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up, move on

SpicyMimi:
angie541

You really need to thank God for sending that Angel to stop you from going ahead with that act.
Vengeance is of the Lord’s...sit down and watch the movie that it’s about to play out.

I understand you are in so much pains right now, no one can even dare to relate this pains, only you feel this hurtful pains and the desire to pour out in revenge. But if you go ahead to kill or hurt him, you’d pay dearly for it and might be x2 of your current situation. Never think of the present in all you do, think of the future.

You’d one day find your dream man and he would love you like no one on earth has ever done, and if you killed a man today, you won’t enjoy that marriage and you just might get killed too.


Let it go...let it go...slowly, slowly...just slowly the pains will go and in just few months it would be gone.

One thing you can do is this ; Go to God in prayers, tell God all you have told us here like you are seeing Him. Cry your eyes out, tell God to arise and Fight for you, tell Him you will forgive the guy but He needs to Help you Revenge on this guy.

God’s vengeance is the BEST! That guy will crawl back to you in triple pains begging for your forgiveness.

So she should cry to God so God will do what?
Where is your wisdom?

What if I told u that this guy has been praying to God for his baby mama to come back and God answered his prayers by using the OP to uplift him.
U guys think too much for God and get disappointed.
God works in mysterious ways. And God will console her

He's not worth it. Move on and show him how better off you are without him

mrdharkchild:


So she should cry to God so God will do what?
Where is your wisdom?

What if I told u that this guy has been praying to God for his baby mama to come back and God answered his prayers by using the OP to uplift him.
U guys think too much for God and get disappointed.
God works in mysterious ways. And God will console her

You are not God, neither are you his spokesman, so I’ll just ignore you.

Shup up hypocrite. Lie mohammed. Useless nigerian girl.

heendrix:


Why not just let him go and let Karma do his thing. Move on and just let it slide

Forget Karma, 5 years no be beans!!! listen angie541 : That dude gotta pay!!! but for Now let it go just Try and find peace but make it a personal goal in life to make his life miserable with everything you have!! make sure every breath he takes is mercy from you!! what Nonsense!!! Don't kill Anybody just Make him suffer for what he's done start by taking all you ever gave him, ruin any connection you ever made for him and stay bumper to bumper to him making him suffer for 5 years then you let him go but keep smiling show the fool everything is alright.