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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by 1Sharon(f): 3:22pm On Mar 07, 2021
HellVictorinho:

Blacks express their anger in different ways just like whites.
There is no specific way in which blacks or whites express their anger.
I can express my anger in different ways.
1Sharon can express her anger in different ways,too.

While ppl are more in control of their emotions.

Black people are driven by instinct: 'I feel therefore must act'
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


What level? undecided
The level in which you have the power, resources and influence to get away with it.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by 1Sharon(f): 3:23pm On Mar 07, 2021
HellVictorinho:

The level in which you have the power, resources and influence to get away with it.

Lol do you know how many low down ppl have gotten away with murder in Nigeria?

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


While ppl are more in control of their emotions.

Black people are driven by instinct: 'I feel therefore must act'
I am in control of my emotions.
1Sharon is in control of her emotions.
Concerning instinct, it's not only blacks that can affected by instincts.
Whites can also be affected by instincts because they also have instincts.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by SeriouslySense(m): 3:28pm On Mar 07, 2021
you can say that, statistics also says something in USA, or in the colored community in the USA.

Is everything as simple as it seems, that poverty, lack of unemployment causes black neighborhoods to be more unsafe or is there a conspiracy such as black families lacking a father figure, who would motivate the child in discipline and self control and a mother figure to inspire thoughtfulness.

I will rather try to understand what is going on for a people that keep producing failed societies. Although Some colored societies (blacks) seem to be progressing.

HellVictorinho:

Blacks express their anger in different ways just like whites.
There is no specific way in which blacks or whites express their anger.
I can express my anger in different ways.
1Sharon can express her anger in different ways,too.

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


Lol do you know how many low down ppl have gotten away with murder in Nigeria?

Then it happened by chance.
They got away with it by chance.
Such can happen anywhere.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Sofia01: 3:29pm On Mar 07, 2021
Ijeburapper01:
With this kind economy you still dey ask that kind question
Spotted grin
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by 1Sharon(f): 3:29pm On Mar 07, 2021
SeriouslySense:
you can say that, statistics also says something in USA, or in the colored community in the USA.

Is everything as simple as it seems, that poverty, lack of unemployment causes black neighborhoods to be more unsafe or is there a conspiracy such as black families lacking a father figure, who would motivate the child in discipline and self control and a mother figure to inspire thoughtfulness.

I will rather try to understand what is going on for a people that keep producing failed societies. Although Some colored societies (blacks) seem to be progressing.


That's the thing, single parent homes in black America .

The men turn out feminine while the women are masculine.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 07, 2021
SeriouslySense:
you can say that, statistics also says something in USA, or in the colored community in the USA.

Is everything as simple as it seems, that poverty, lack of unemployment causes black neighborhoods to be more unsafe or is there a conspiracy such as black families lacking a father figure, who would motivate the child in discipline and self control and a mother figure to inspire thoughtfulness.

I will rather try to understand what is going on for a people that keep producing failed societies. Although Some colored societies (blacks) seem to be progressing.


The consequences of poverty can't be over-emphasised.
The consequences of poverty are independent of RACE.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


That's the thing, single parent homes in black America .

The men turn out feminine while the women are masculine.

If a black child is raised by a rich black single parent, what is the probability that he or she will become a criminal?
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Mar 07, 2021
Ademola47:
Recently, I noticed the number of angry Nigerians has increased.

From the saying "an hungry man is an angry man" we can say a poor man angry nature is understandable to an extent. What about the rich ones? The people in the middle and upper class? How do we explain their cause of angriness?
Fine, it's human thing to be sad or unhappy once in a while but how do we explain being angry unnecessary every time.

Everyone seems to be angry over little things that can be overlooked. You will mistakenly match them slightly and they'll want to fight you. You will ask a polite question and aggressive mode will be activated.

My most recent experience was yesterday morning when I went to the bank to get some money.
I took a bike which costs #50 normally. I gave the bike man #100 and he started shouting that I should have told him I didn't have change. Haha! #100 to collect #50 change. I forfeited the change. Own getting inside the bank, I saw 3 standing adjacently on the queue. I asked one of them "Please Sir, are you the last person on the queue" since it was hard to know whom I was behind. "You no get eyes. You no see say na my behind you dey".
When I left the bank, I wanted to buy sports newspaper. I told the vendor to give me Complete sports since he didn't display any sports newspaper and he replied angrily " I no get joor. If you no wan buy these ones make you comot for here".

Recalling the series of event, I find it hard to fathom the reason behind everyone's lingering angry mood.
You need to pray against the spirit of bad luck and disfavour which is making people to be angry with you everywhere you go and it will in turn make no one to help you. I feel the spirit of badluck is following you up and down.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


What if I told you white supremacy is a myth and an imaginary boogeyman?

Right
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by iLegendd(m): 3:37pm On Mar 07, 2021
I guess I'm an exception. I keep my cool 90% of the time. Life is too short.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by mechanics(m): 3:38pm On Mar 07, 2021
It's well, i may know really know why they are angry, but it maybe frustration.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by AreaFada2: 3:39pm On Mar 07, 2021
There is pent up anger and frustration everywhere. It is a major social problem. It causes arguments, fights and violence as these thing seek avenues to be released.

You see headlines like man stabs best friend over 100 Naira, girl stabs roommate over missing make-up kit, etc.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by IgboWarlord(m): 3:41pm On Mar 07, 2021
Balistic4:
start a convo without using sorry and sorry will be your name grin grin grin grin

you have to start like this:

me: good morning sir, sorry sir what is it by your time

or

me: sir please sir, what is it by your time grin grin grin grin grin grin


I think sey na only me ooo..Even to go person shop buy something with my own money i go still dey beg..I'll be like,Sisi abeg you get Dorchester,no vex?..On top my own money oo..People no get chillz,i just try my best to avoid someone unleashing his/her accumulated aggro on me.

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by harmargedon: 3:45pm On Mar 07, 2021
SeriouslySense:
It seems so, but i want to understand why, because, in all my stay in whites mans land, i hardly see a angry white man, and they are very sensible and orderly.

Because they don't show it doesn't mean that they don't feel it. The black man expresses his emotions not minding what's involved, but the whites learn to hide theirs. But I call that deceit.

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by MartinsD12(m): 3:47pm On Mar 07, 2021
Ademola47:
Recently, I noticed the number of angry Nigerians has increased.

From the saying "an hungry man is an angry man" we can say a poor man angry nature is understandable to an extent. What about the rich ones? The people in the middle and upper class? How do we explain their cause of angriness?
Fine, it's human thing to be sad or unhappy once in a while but how do we explain being angry unnecessary every time.

Everyone seems to be angry over little things that can be overlooked. You will mistakenly match them slightly and they'll want to fight you. You will ask a polite question and aggressive mode will be activated.

My most recent experience was yesterday morning when I went to the bank to get some money.
I took a bike which costs #50 normally. I gave the bike man #100 and he started shouting that I should have told him I didn't have change. Haha! #100 to collect #50 change. I forfeited the change. Own getting inside the bank, I saw 3 standing adjacently on the queue. I asked one of them "Please Sir, are you the last person on the queue" since it was hard to know whom I was behind. "You no get eyes. You no see say na my behind you dey".
When I left the bank, I wanted to buy sports newspaper. I told the vendor to give me Complete sports since he didn't display any sports newspaper and he replied angrily " I no get joor. If you no wan buy these ones make you comot for here".

Recalling the series of event, I find it hard to fathom the reason behind everyone's lingering angry mood.
It's the frustration in the country, things hard and to make money now even hard, things bad for this country but that is not an excuse for someone to shout on me, if you shout on me I will reply back to you because we are in this situation together, no be me cause am so let's take life easy and jejely.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Moneyearners: 3:50pm On Mar 07, 2021
oh
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by SeriouslySense(m): 3:53pm On Mar 07, 2021
Yes, may not be deceitful as we think, but they don't show like us.
Especially when we express anger uncontrollable and they tend not to.

harmargedon:
Because they don't show it doesn't mean that they don't feel it. The black man expresses his emotions not minding what's involved, but the whites learn to hide theirs. But I call that deceit.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Mar 07, 2021
...i have a good control over my anger though.

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by nyiamfrank: 4:16pm On Mar 07, 2021
IPOBTERRORISTS:
Poverty, Climate change and lack of mental health awareness.

Big culprits. SOCIAL MEDIA. And Fake life style shown on social media making people feels inferior

Pacific Standard explores the effect that extreme temperatures brought on by climate change might have on our collective mental well-being: Studies make the link to increased stress and anxiety.

Solutions. Download mental health apps, listen to soft instrumental music. limit your social media exposure. Read mental health books.

Instead of buying expensive necklaces, bracelets go to vacations. Take break from the city, Live in nature.

STOP TAKING DRUGS/ALCOHOL or limit to minimum.
So this nomadic alamajiri get sense like this?

Well your comment will tell me whether you copy and paste.

Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Mar 07, 2021
1Sharon:


Genetics. High testosterone in black men and women
Are the testosterones in whites low?
Are your testosterones high?
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Mar 07, 2021
SeriouslySense:
Yes, may not be deceitful as we think, but they don't show like us.
Especially when we express anger uncontrollable and they tend not to.

What the Hell are you saying??
Whites show uncontrollable anger,too.

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Elnon: 4:23pm On Mar 07, 2021
No...'Even we the thieves...' is the right word...You are a fraudster and you want to be happy?...NO WAY!....Your job and activities push many of your victims to depression/suicide and that will be your food forever.....The guts!!!...Nigeria is doomed.
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
Ogbeni the heat alone ehnnn....dey make person angry...

Every where now ehnnn.. dey hot....that alone can make people angry..I don baff reach four times today...rice way them give me...fear nor allow me eat am for inside because of heat....I carry am come outside
Coupled with the hardship.....
Person go huzzle from money till night still the money nor dey fall out....if the money manage enter your hand he nor go get value....before you know it ...one thousand naira note go be like two hundred
Even we the bombers..nor dey get am clear again....hungry want kill us....you go dedicate your time take chat client finish....time to bill client go reach....he go loose guard you....to cry you nor go fit cry.....depression and frustration go nearly set in
Na to restart again

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Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 07, 2021
nyiamfrank:
So this nomadic alamajiri get sense like this?

Well your comment will tell me whether you copy and paste.
Everything he posted affect whites too.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by SeriouslySense(m): 4:26pm On Mar 07, 2021
okay cheesy cheesy
HellVictorinho:

What the Hell are you saying??
Whites show uncontrollable anger,too.
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by SKINDOGGY: 4:30pm On Mar 07, 2021
IPOBTERRORISTS:
Poverty, Climate change and lack of mental health awareness.

Big culprits. SOCIAL MEDIA. And Fake life style shown on social media making people feels inferior

Pacific Standard explores the effect that extreme temperatures brought on by climate change might have on our collective mental well-being: Studies make the link to increased stress and anxiety.

Solutions. Download mental health apps, listen to soft instrumental music. limit your social media exposure. Read mental health books.

Instead of buying expensive necklaces, bracelets go to vacations. Take break from the city, Live in nature.

STOP TAKING DRUGS/ALCOHOL or limit to minimum.
Can you recommend any soft music?
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Lightorder: 4:32pm On Mar 07, 2021
Ademola47:
Recently, I noticed the number of angry Nigerians has increased.

From the saying "an hungry man is an angry man" we can say a poor man angry nature is understandable to an extent. What about the rich ones? The people in the middle and upper class? How do we explain their cause of angriness?
Fine, it's human thing to be sad or unhappy once in a while but how do we explain being angry unnecessary every time.

Everyone seems to be angry over little things that can be overlooked. You will mistakenly match them slightly and they'll want to fight you. You will ask a polite question and aggressive mode will be activated.

My most recent experience was yesterday morning when I went to the bank to get some money.
I took a bike which costs #50 normally. I gave the bike man #100 and he started shouting that I should have told him I didn't have change. Haha! #100 to collect #50 change. I forfeited the change. Own getting inside the bank, I saw 3 standing adjacently on the queue. I asked one of them "Please Sir, are you the last person on the queue" since it was hard to know whom I was behind. "You no get eyes. You no see say na my behind you dey".
When I left the bank, I wanted to buy sports newspaper. I told the vendor to give me Complete sports since he didn't display any sports newspaper and he replied angrily " I no get joor. If you no wan buy these ones make you comot for here".

Recalling the series of event, I find it hard to fathom the reason behind everyone's lingering angry mood.
point of correction. Average LAGOSIAN , you mean ??
Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Brushstrokes20: 4:35pm On Mar 07, 2021
It's the aftermath of the satanic change courtesy of the lifeless vegetable and cohorts....
Nigerians used to be the happiest people on earth SURFACE.

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