oneolajire:
Hi, change your ideology. You are first guided by God's rules, before church rules.

If you want to marry a lady, to be in marriage for up to 50 years, it is not too much to give 6 to 12 months for a lady to know you in friend zone. It is even to your advantage.

As she is getting to know you, it shows she will give you a green light. But have you tried to know her? Guy, I see overconfidence in you.

Seems you are in a hurry to get into the relationship, hope you will not be in a hurry to get out.

Have you seriously prayed about it? Have you sought counsel? Have you taken time to know her friends and acquaintances?

Never force a lady to marry you. It is better a lady regrets that she didn't marry you, than to regret getting married to you.

well naturally, I don't get excited or impressed with ladies,but since I met her,things changed,

u are right about that prayer part, but praying about a lady that's still rejecting me is somehow awkward,

though this is what my mother too is saying(prayer first),cos she has never see me like this,she see that I really love this girl,
but if I were to follow this prayer first, assuming the prophecy support it, and she doesn't agree, how long would I do that for,how many girls will I follow this trend for

Everester:


well naturally, I don't get excited or impressed with ladies,but since I met her,things changed,

u are right about that prayer part, but praying about a lady that's still rejecting me is somehow awkward,

though this is what my mother too is saying(prayer first),cos she has never see me like this,she see that I really love this girl,
but if I were to follow this prayer first, assuming the prophecy support it, and she doesn't agree, how long would I do that for,how many girls will I follow this trend for

Yea, the prayer part is the only point you wrote about.

Prayer is just one ingredient, as you need several ingredients in adequate proportion to make a great soup/food.

She has her choice to make, either to choose you or someone else.

The prayer you make is not for her, it is about you and your future.

If she rejects your offer after your set time, you can move forward to find someone else.

She is trying to play smart bcus she thought she is smart. She is insulting your intelligence. You should do away with such kinda relationship.

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..

meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

lol...

interesting...

RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you

I swear this method is hard, I've never felt like this in my entire life, nevertheless, I've to man up,try this style, perhaps it will work out

Everester:


I swear this method is hard, I've never felt like this in my entire life, nevertheless, I've to man up,try this style, perhaps it will work out

It's called emotional control and mastery. It's loving someone but acting like you don't. It instils self dependency strength and steals your power from her so with or without you are whole and in charge

I lost it when you said getting her number was a miracle. Nigga why?!

Karleb:
I lost it when you said getting her number was a miracle. Nigga why?!

lmao

Ihe m na-eri.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Prolly she is following the advice her mom gave her but in an over sabi manner.
You said you have told her what you want and she says no.
Then simply keep her as a side project while you keep doing your things and seeing other girls.

You're young and free and with plenty options but you are choosing to look at one of the option only. I don't see why this should bother you.

Lwkmd... Weere, you want our advice yet you are dictating what you want to hear and what you don't want to hear
OP don gbef

Na you sabi. Maybe your Village people are after you

RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you

Op can't do this. Person wey dey already lose balance. But seriously @op,if you can do the above you might win her.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BRUH, SHES A GOLD-DIGGER.

THERE’S NO DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HER AND SAPHIERE ABI WETIN DEM DEY CALL THAT CATFISH

Back out. Don't reveal much.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

It's good to be friends before you become lovers, so you both can know yourselves well, and!
besides, she is checking you out to know if really what you are saying is what you mean. She doesn't want to fall for the wrong guy, so it's best you open up to her and be sincere. If she is not interested in you, she would not want to know you more. It's because she is interested in you, that is why she want to know you as well. So use wisdom to follow her, and easy on the pressure. Women love to be chased, so you keep at it on a steady level. With time she will date you. She is just been careful so truly prove to her that you are not dating her for the wrong reasons. And follow your church rules on such as you said, you may marry her in the future, you may never can tell �

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

Baba abeg, I no follow dem chop Ohio, me self need update boss.
I heard 1400$+ will be disbursed this coming week sha as per covid 19 relief fund

Cut her off

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

Do you have a us number

Just go make money bro forget all this grammar that why she really want to know you very well .

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

$1400 dollars

Muhylonaire007:
Lwkmd... Weere, you want our advice yet you are dictating what you want to hear and what you don't want to hear
OP don gbef

His warning got me laughing too.

funny enough, people behaved themselves. the comments so far has been matured.

Werey re oo. Na woman matter dey confuse you like this

Muhylonaire007:


Baba abeg, I no follow dem chop Ohio, me self need update boss.
I heard 1400$+ will be disbursed this coming week sha as per covid 19 relief fund

Ohio I for use pay house rent and furnish my house the useless fool client no gree to withdraw the money Na so the aza cast .

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,
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That quote up there pissed me off ! You want to learn and at the same time you don’t want to learn about women ?

That you got her number by miracle means what?!?

See bros as we speak now ! Maybe some one is tearing her pant !

Surprise her with a car on her birthday, let see . Stop stressing your self over women, maybe when u get older u will understand this.

Hot bread and beans deh hungry me badly.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

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It is the most reliable SUCCESS test. If you are still wooing ladies, it is a clear indication that you haven't made it in life.

God is warning you through her but you refuse to listen.

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Swinger60:


His warning got me laughing too.

funny enough, people behaved themselves. the comments so far has been matured.

I'm surprised people didn't bash him
Very funny advice seeker baba gave nairalanders terms and conditions to his problem

She probably likes you. Think you need to give her space. Stop being all over her. No calling, no chatting, nothing but if she calls, pick and tell her you are busy and will get back to her but don't.

Watch for two weeks or a month. If she is same, forget her.

Possibly, she is being careful and want to be sure. You are being screened.

There are many guys that will be all over a woman but after having her are gone leaving her hurt and wounded.

Hope your feeling is genuine. All the best.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Hahahaha... Churchy type u say
Na them bad pass. I cant count the number of so called strict doctrine church types i have had affairs with and some of them i banged but on the surface guys think they are saints. See guy, she has someone that has caught her fancy and that shes tripping for. She just likes u as a frnd. I am just coming out of a relationship with a churchy type girl. Our whatsapp chats are so raw and explicit and we deep smooched like hell to the point i strip her always but she did not allow me have sex. Thats a churchy type girl that guys are afraid to approach.
Move on with ur life.