SmellySperm:

I had but they just blocked it last week and i tried opening it again but to no avail...

so na hangout i dey now,no time
abi u go help me run am?

So na una dey for hangout dey send all those rubbish posts and porn links, dey use am dey do shit abi?

LordOfTheGame:



So na una dey for hangout dey send all those rubbish posts and porn links, dey use am dey do shit abi?

I no follow bros,I don pass that bombing level..


na as them block my us whatsap number i come fall back to hangout, just to dey update my woman

SmellySperm:

I no follow bros,I don pass that bombing level..


na as them block my us whatsap number i come fall back to hangout, just to dey update my woman

Make you dey careful oooh. Some ways are not really good ways.

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Everyone deserves to be loved and you are also entitled to be loved and to love
It is heartwarming to also note you are in the school of constant self appraisal and self development, please keep it up.
In matters of love, seek God's help to lead you and guide you to the right person for you..
Likewise, what kind of circle are you looking out for a lady? You don't find gold on the surface, they are found beneath. You can't go looking for love in clubs and bars, values ain't cheap.
It isn't perfect people that get into relationships and marriage, quit thinking you aren't good enough. You need a healthy dose of self worth.
You are a valuable reward to someone out there.
Let go of the past and focus on the glory and joy that awaits you.
Never be desperate, I got into my first and only relationship in life at 30 years of age, graciously my fiancee too has never been in any too.

You will find love definitely!

Till we all win!
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Everester:


well naturally, I don't get excited or impressed with ladies,but since I met her,things changed,

u are right about that prayer part, but praying about a lady that's still rejecting me is somehow awkward,

though this is what my mother too is saying(prayer first),cos she has never see me like this,she see that I really love this girl,
but if I were to follow this prayer first, assuming the prophecy support it, and she doesn't agree, how long would I do that for,how many girls will I follow this trend for

My brother from this response you are in error, sorry am sounding harsh.

The stages for relationship is Admiration, Friendship, courtship and then marriage.

Becoming friends with a lady is hardwork especially if she is slowing things down, you look desperate (that's why I said you're in error), true love does not put pressure, instead it walks away, if it's not welcomed over a defined time.

The fact that you admire her does not mean she's the one for you, being a church brother, let me get serious with you - depending on your specialized dealings with God, he may have someone specific for you bkos of what your calling requires, that's why we pray to allow God help us see His will and allow us overcome. Albeit you also need to know how to ask a lady out and manage the relationship.

Don't move in the flesh, when you fight to keep what God has not authorized, certain things from Him will leave you.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Every one with her own strategy

She may just be taking her time to know if you are the serious type

She may like you but not love you

She wants to know much about you because she is the inquisitive type

It's now left for you to answer all her jamb questions on you

My advice is slow down on her before she turns you to her puppet

oneolajire:
Hi, change your ideology. You are first guided by God's rules, before church rules.

If you want to marry a lady, to be in marriage for up to 50 years, it is not too much to give 6 to 12 months for a lady to know you in friend zone. It is even to your advantage.

As she is getting to know you, it shows she will give you a green light. But have you tried to know her? Guy, I see overconfidence in you.

Seems you are in a hurry to get into the relationship, hope you will not be in a hurry to get out.

Have you seriously prayed about it? Have you sought counsel? Have you taken time to know her friends and acquaintances?

Never force a lady to marry you. It is better a lady regrets that she didn't marry you, than to regret getting married to you.

Op is only upset because he wants to sleep with the lady.. and she is not giving him the opportunity.
That's all

LordOfTheGame:



The OP's story is similar to what I'm passing through right now and as I type this now, I have a feeling that she's with another man or she completely ignored me today. I have a plan to apply the advices given to OP here and here comes yours; .... "you gain some and lose some" .... in my whole life I've never gained any one who truly loved me. I have been heartbroken so many times and any time I picked myself up and moved on and possible run into another, same thing happens again. I have checked mys3lf in and out to see if am lagging behind in anyway and being rude or disrespectful, I've checked my physical appearance and dressing pattern (of which I got some good designers to lecture me about), I have a job and live alone with a guaranteed privacy and all that goes with it. So, in general I can say that an pretty cool and considerable but can't get a girl to stay. I watched my communication skills and home attitude and I can say that am not bad at that either but still do not know what is going with me. I am at the age where any woman that comes around me is a potential wife and I try as much as possible to make them understand that I am more interested in their personalities and not in sex or just fun. The whole thing is breaking me down bit by bit. Btw, I live in Europe.

The ladies that have been turning you down, are they Africans or Whites? Are you too straightforward? Do you call often? Are you clingy? I don't know your circle, but i will advise you tinker it and try to be lively and fun to be with.

Above all, try to go out of the regular way most guys relate with women when they see them. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN AND NEVER BEG FOR ATTENTION...Women are differentially wired from each other, but few women will resist a confident man who is fun to be with... If you are interested for more discussions/chats, hit me up on this email docslicky@gmail.com. Cheers!

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Thanks bro.... I sincerely hope that things turn around for good for me. It's not easy watching yourself growing past your prime stage yet no reliable commitment on sights. I am the church and morally decent type of guy and I've hoped to meet a likeminded lady but all I get is rejections and unacceptance. Some will even accuse me of coming after them because of documents which is not true but even if that's the case, at least I deserved to be listened to and observed to know my true intents. I don't believe that I have not set my priorities right or do not know what I want. My greatest surprise was when I carried out some sort of experiment by going for the kind of girls I would naturally not be seen with but in other to find out if am being too selective or mindful of class and social status, but to my surprise, she turned me down. And the worst is that none of them will ever tell me what I did wrong or how bad I was. Instead they've always told me how great and nice I am, caring and loving but then... no one gives me a chance. One even told me that any woman that opens herself and gives me a chance for love will be in paradise while still living on earth. This particular girl, I've waited for her for two good years and she haven't said anything concrete to me. Rather what she always says was that she's not yet ready, I mean a lady of 32 or above. It was later I discovered that she was secretly going out with a guy in the same church we all attends before they had a problem and that broke me down then I gave up on her. Then I met one who's from delta and everything started on the good side and she asked so many questions both the naughty ones and decent ones and I tried and provided answers to them, she contacted her family and I did same to mine, spoke with her mum several times and everything was moving fine but she haven't said yes yet, all of a sudden she started acting up. Started talking as if I'll not be able to take care of her. I bought her a lot of gifts but she didn't show real appreciation or excitement. All these things went on for over eight months and i was still waiting for her YES so that our both families can proceed, her big brothers even quarrelled with her and accused her of playing with men's emotions and she went crazy and flared up and that was the end of the whole story and that's when her mum revealed to me that she's been playing with men's emotions and I was not the only one. We just ended the whole thing about two months ago before this one that's dealing with me now, afyer she returned from her country last month. Though I've known her since one year ago and we became friends.
Bros the matter is too big for me to handle alone... I wish I can put a stop to all these things and be free from this world and the stress. That's how I feel sometimes...

McStoic:


The ladies that have been turning you down, are they Africans or Whites? Are you too straightforward? Do you call often? Are you clingy? I don't know your circle, but i will advise you tinker it and try to be lively and fun to be with.

Above all, try to go out of the regular way most guys relate with women when they see them. BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR SKIN AND NEVER BEG FOR ATTENTION...Women are differentially wired from each other, but few women will resist a confident man who is fun to be with... If you are interested for more discussions/chats, hit me up on this email docslicky@gmail.com. Cheers!

I am not unaware of these traits or will I say qualities you stated but believe me, I've got the shock of my life even when I applied some of these tricks. One even accused me being arrogant and selfish because I withdrew myself a bit from her. Yes, most times I go straight to the point of what I want without beating about the bush and and I also show compassion on their 'plight' if I see any... always willing to help out and provide comfort to the best of my ability but in return what I get is a NO. I applied the 'Bad boy' trick to play out of normal but that's not really my nature and most times I got caught. One even told me that she knew that I was acting up that, that wasn't the character she saw in me so I should free myself and be the nice guy I've always been and I was embarrassed by that even though I appreciated her honesty, I felt like I was being advised by a girl I wanted to date. Mehn, the whole thing is weighing me down and am becoming more scared of the women folks.

This one does not understand women.

Just stop deceiving urself with "she's this churchy type" you don't know her too well na urself you know. Forget the babe now since u want a relationship and she wants just friendship then you move doesn't mean u guys are enemy.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Getting a girl's number is a miracle for simps. E remain small, she go shock you.

Hahaha

One of the attributes of a responsible and well trained girl. If you need her for a wife, be man enough to approach her parents and she becomes yours.
I guess she is also doing here investigation about you to know you more.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Why would she Friendzone you??
Why not StrangerZone her?

LordOfTheGame:


I am not unaware of these traits or will I say qualities you stated but believe me, I've got the shock of my life even when I applied some of these tricks. One even accused me being arrogant and selfish because I withdrew myself a bit from her. Yes, most times I go straight to the point of what I want without beating about the bush and and I also show compassion on their 'plight' if I see any... always willing to help out and provide comfort to the best of my ability but in return what I get is a NO. I applied the 'Bad boy' trick to play out of normal but that's not really my nature and most times I got caught. One even told me that she knew that I was acting up that, that wasn't the character she saw in me so I should free myself and be the nice guy I've always been and I was embarrassed by that even though I appreciated her honesty, I felt like I was being advised by a girl I wanted to date. Mehn, the whole thing is weighing me down and am becoming more scared of the women folks.

There is definitely something you are not doing well. You are not supposed to just act the bad boy trait. You need to show a woman you can live without her. You need to make it a part of you. And get me right, being a bad boy doesn't mean you will be sociopath or always act against women. It centres of being confident and doing things on your own terms as well being in charge without being needy. It's a whole lot more than just acting.

Do you know that there are some brutally honest facts about every girl you are interested in? You can cut the chase short by confidently picking on that and hitting up and she will be all over you. I THINK YOU ARE TOO PREDICTABLE, THAT'S ONE THING THAT KILLS INTEREST BEFORE YOU EVEN GET STARTED...


THERE ARE SECRETS I CANNOT STATE HERE THOUGH, UNLESS I KNOW HOW PECULIAR YOUR CASE IS. Cheers

Xenry:
You just said it all! Op listen to this guy!

omo thank you for this your advice.. I will apply this method in one girl

festacman:
I think this should be a simple matter if you know what you want. Draw a line. Boldly but clearly tell her you want her be your girlfriend and that any other relationship will be emotionally upsetting for your mental health. And that you really want the special place in her heart. If she turns you down, then she doesn't like you. Move on bro.

This is what I always do, nobody can put me in a friends one except I allow it
You have the right to reject my offer to date, I have every right to reject your offer of friendship

1 babe said we can be friends, she’s dating this serial cheater.. she would complain about him every day
I just told her I don’t have the shoulder you want to be crying on, goan find another person
Walked out and never spoken since then...
op if you don’t want friendship it’s ok... na relationship u want, know exactly what you want and stick to it

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

She's only playing hard to get, she's interested. What you do is get busy and pay her less attention, maybe check on her through phone once in a week or sometimes once in two weeks then watch how she react.

RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you


Take back your power from her.

This works almost all the time... It worked for me and my friends.

Take your power... Be the person calling the shots and not the other way round.

Op, here's all you need!

extol1:
the second to the last paragraph, makes me to ask the op how old are you?

Same thing crossed my mind, when you say getting a lady's number was a miracle it just reeks of low self esteem and unworthiness.
The OP needs to snap out of this state of mind, men get rejected/ friendzoned all the time, ain't no shame in that.....the OP either needs to keep her as a friend if she has the potential to add value to his life or slowly move on from her if all he wants is commitment and she's not keen on it

op u don't need to toast a girl before u start. What matters is your relationship. You guys have a good relationship already. You don't need a prophet to tell you that d girl likes you already. Don't be in a hurry just take your time. The first thing in a relationship is likeness. You guys liked each other. Every woman have ego, she is just trying to protect her ego. You don't expect her to say yes immediately.

What advances have you made exactly? Have you tried to kiss her? Have you sexualized the conversation with her? Does she let you touch her arms, hair, waist etc? Is she open to paying u a visit? Do u ask her intimate questions about love, men, dating etc? Have u taken her ti any fun location so she let's her hair down abit? These are unanswered questions that would help us judge her affection level . Till I get response, yes you are in the friend zone and its super difficult to get out of it.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

Lol which of the abroad countries you dey?

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

A wise girl will get to know who she is going to date before saying yes to him

Use the opportunity to ask her details about her too while reminding her often that you are for real. You can't fall into friendzone unless you stop telling her you are for a serious relationship.

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

. Pls can u help me with d link to register?

Smh!!... what have men of this days become? It’s obvious she’s more matured than you are. What more do you expect from the lady if not friendship? You want the title of “GF” so you can have access to free pus*y I guess. Oga she’s on the right track and you also need time to understand her which begins as “friends”. All good things take time brother, one step at a time. Don’t be in a rush, you might even turn her off.