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Bouz:
Come o!, how old are you? are you not over 30yrs and you are still reasoning like a small girl. you better grow up and start reasoning like an adult, which one is you cannot love again. respect ya sef o!

doris4u:
I had a bad break up from someone I confided in, he was more than a lover to me. Yes I was in love with him, he knew but along the line stories entered

Xenry:
Do you still feel MONEY again?

Polynek:
Mrs poster, You said 2019 right? if I tell you dat I haven't date any girl since my life, U won't blv me right, well u are a girl and am guy, we are in different world shaa,

Usorohtheman:
I'm in the same boat with you, bro.

How have you been able to cope?

Polynek:
I can't say it is easy, but I try to fill my mind with my work and studies, I see relationship as a distraction 4 now, but I always know dat 1 day I will be in a relationship

Usorohtheman:
It's well. So, you are practically saying, that you have not seen a woman that matches your fantasy or you just don't want to be in a relationship?

Polynek:
If course I hv seen, jox dat I am not emotionally and financial ready to be in a relationship.

Usorohtheman:
Bro, if you see any lady that comes close to matching your fantasy you want in a lady, please don't hesitate to be in a relationship with her.

Me, I've never seen any ooo

Polynek:
Hmm, U won't understand. Bro but how do u mean by u haven't seen? where do u reside?

Usorohtheman:
I stay at Port Harcourt. I haven't seen any because I'm not too shy but I'm shy. Maybe, I guess that's why I haven't seen any

Polynek:
Hmmm, U mean u are shy? nawaoo a guy 4 dat matter. bro man up oo. Anytime I want to start dating all I need is to have small cash, I stay in d middle of girls. I think maybe ur age is also a factor

Usorohtheman:
I'm not too old neither I'm I too young. I'm 26. Could it be that my age is the problem?
Or maybe, I don't understand their greenlights.

Polynek:
Really!! ur age is very okay, maybe u are suffering from inferiority complex. Try to build up your self-esteem

Usorohtheman:
How do I know that I'm suffering from inferiority complexity when I don't feel inferior? I'm kind of confused sha.

My self esteem is cool too

Polynek:
Bro. if u are not feeling inferior, den u can stop any girl of ur choice and preach 4 her.

doris4u:
Good evening guys, hope our weekend went well cos my did even though I was full of thoughts.
Have you ever have feeling that you can't love again or your finding it difficult to love.
I am in this situation , even though I have been out of relationship since 2019.
I have a lot of admirers but I don't feel like trying to love anyone to start up something. Even when a guy tries to get close to me, I feel scared and push him
away. Have anyone been in my shoes before?