jojofola:
Isn’t the heart supposed to be more expensive than the kidney?

Lol! Your comment is funny. The issue is that: those organs are not supposed to be sold at all.

Vulcan24:
He's a soldier he should know the rules of combat
Weaker enemy aim to kill not maim

In domestic argument, never let your woman be on the offensive she will use deadly force and kill you instantly

How can he be sure, she wants to kill him.? We all believe our house, is the safest place for us. Then, we tends to relax and not be at alert as if we are in a war. Only God can protect us.

Medianna:
Both you and the adviser are not serious. Why una mind go just go there straight think of something better jare



By the way lemme burst your bubbles those visits was like a year back and guess what!
Nothing nothing oo
I can still go see him any day I want but I prefer staying on my own

Sincerely, my comment was not met as an abuse to you, it was just to tell you how your boyfriend might view your action (even though you are doing it with a plain mind). I think the guy I quoted earlier is just trying to tell you the same thing.

oluwaahmed:


Him and he's friend might have decided to pass you around themselves since you like both of them. I don't even think ur BF takes u serious anymore. Dem go use ur matter laff for joint or Bunk if you like no give urself brain.

@Medianna, the above is the best advice to you.

DMerciful:
We never knew our forefathers were so wise, we were brainwashed by the west that preaches one man one wife but marry an average of 3 wives in their lifetimes.

It is very good that many of us are coming to this realization. The method our forefathers used is tested and trusted, that has work well for many generations.

Accepting a strange culture, has destroyed our family values in Africa as a whole. It has led to high divorce rates, Stds. and worse of all, violence towards both sexes in marriage.

Again, the lack of repercussions for evil, the strange culture we accepted brought with it, is slowly destroying the little value we still have as humans.

madridsta007:


From the South East.

I like your culture.

madridsta007:


Ah I see. Thank you for your response. I was surprised that people were protecting her.
From where I am from, there are certain places that if the lady is unfaithful and her husband sleeps with her, he will die immediately. If there is unfaithfulness and a child comes from it, that child is taken from the lady and becomes a responsibility for the Ummuna. That is after her people have been seriously fined.
So when it happens, the woman does her best to hide it. Or run away to a different State/ Country.

If you don't mind me asking, where are you from?

madridsta007:


I have come to terms that the KEY thing you need in a woman isnt tribal affliations, or beauty or a certificate; it is their ability to stay genuinely faithful and loving.
Find this in a woman and marry her.
Unfortunately, it is very, very, rare.

Meanwhile, my South Western brothers, why is this paternal issue very rampant over there?

It is because there is no repercussions for infidelity in the South West. Disclaimer: nobody should say I am tribalistic because I am from South West.

Kriss216:
FG closed all borders so that we can patronize made in Nigeria goods.

Why looking for foreign coach when we can patronize the local ones?

Lol!......this your logic ehn

Olalan:
Opps never underestimate a fellow who threatens to kill you, you never can tell if they will make good their threats.
BTW never never tolerate a partner with a violent temper you might not be alive to tell the story

This is easier said than done. If your partner threatened your life, there is that part of you that will still believe that they can not do it.

ManIzHot:




Seems number eight gives me hope that i can be employed by the sexdoll company
to code for them in Pidgin and Yoruba when need be

Client:- kini oruko re
Doll:- Oruko mi ni AI sexdoll, Bawo le se fe si? Se latan ni abi fe'gbe wole? Se Sidi oke ni abi dadubule?
Client:- Osi da o loju pe gbogbo sitili yi lo mo
Doll:- Be ni, be ba se fe si ni, Papapa wa, La gbori wole wa, Je ko yo wa, fo wo ti ogiri wa, Legbegbe wa ati be be lo

Your Yoruba is very good

HumanistMike:
Good one. No man should manage a woman. If you are not happy in the union, kick her out. Don't excuse a female's excesses. You don't owe her. She has to act like an adult and be responsible for herself.

Guys let this be a lesson. Do not marry a female that will want you to setup a business for her. You are not a Microfinance bank. Let her get her own job/business.

Men do not owe women!

As much as I agreed with you that men do not owe women. But don't you think your position is too harsh. Why can't a man open a business for his wife, he claimed he love. Because one woman is wasteful doesn't mean all women are wasteful. There are lots of women that are resourceful and highly appreciative of whatever you do for them.

TINALETC3:
wen God decides to punish u on d judgment day, he plays d video of Hw u lived ur life, if u first see "viewer's discretion, my broda, no need to waste ur time, jst make a u_turn and trekk down to hell

Why you wicked like this........

I learnt that it's possible to raise funds through : GoFundMe.com. I think the family should try to use the site to raise the money for her. God in his infinite mercy will heal her, in JESUS name. Amen

gucci20:

Wise talk my brother!

Thank you.

madone:
I think u re too pushy and u have a nag for picking a fight over trivial issues ,maybr na too much book.sweet heart no african man will stick to a lady that argue and fight everytime with big big grammar. Gold was not in the wedding item u got angry.i think ur guy just tire for ur tomuch drama.listen girl in nigeria here a guy that travel to u.s to see his babe deserves worship from other ladies and am sure he has seen a worshipper... Not a fighter

The above is the best advice anyone can give you. Please stop picking fight over trivial things. Reach out to him, I believe you guys love each other in time he is going to calm down. Though you can register your displeasure that you don't like cheap things, but it doesn't worth fighting over.

"For I hates divorce!", says thy LORD, the GOD of Israel. Malachi 2: 16.

ZUBY77:



Great.. Thanks..

You always say things as its, I think marriage is overrated in Africa. And if I m not mistaken, marriage nowadays is totally different from how our forefathers define it.

ZUBY77:


Yea.. Any child coming from me should at least have a legitimate surname. Not that I would care when I am gone but the scummy backward Africa will alienate them.
If not for child/children, I see no reason to do so.

Oga Zuby, how are you doing.

Yeahhhhhh,enough moni for d lady to enjoy and flex around ,enough designers bag.shoes clothes .I hope d man did not die in anger ooo becos that na automatic hell fire

Why are we so religious yet very unGODly.do we even fear GOD at all in Nigeria.all what the guy says is correct.