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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 2:38am On May 11, 2017
MVLOX:


I guess u re right...... I really love dis babe as she is even my 1st babe... But I just can't stand dis her attitude.... We will even eventually talk but for D Nw I have nothing to tell her as I have allowed her to do Wat she likes and feels like.... It's like dey say... She has the yam nd knife all to herself Nw she is free to do Wat ever she likes with it.... Any decision she takes concerning our relationship will be accepted by me....
Oga let's reason here o! don't you think that with her current attitude and behaviour, you tell her that youbare ending things with her, she might do something very drastic and spoil your trip for you. oga mi travel first and give her a call explaining your final stance at least you will be on the safer side. Because as I dey siddon here so, I dey see DANGER!!!!
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by MVLOX(m): 4:39am On May 11, 2017
dumo1:

Oga let's reason here o! don't you think that with her current attitude and behaviour, you tell her that youbare ending things with her, she might do something very drastic and spoil your trip for you. oga mi travel first and give her a call explaining your final stance at least you will be on the safer side. Because as I dey siddon here so, I dey see DANGER!!!!

Dats anoda angle to it ooo but it will be inhuman on my part to break up through a phone call..... Am not even breaking up with her just yet but if that's Wat she wants den am fine by it that way she can fine a guy Dat can marry her ASAP.....

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by robotix: 6:15am On May 11, 2017
Aderola15:

kiss kiss kiss

Op deactivated grin cheesy grin
na idiot na. Very proud and arrogant thing. She couldn't take the shots. If I ever meet her "man" I will give him a hand shake for dumping a very selfcentered and ego centric thing.

I detest people who are too proud and full of themselves.

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 6:18am On May 11, 2017
MVLOX:


Dats anoda angle to it ooo but it will be inhuman on my part to break up through a phone call..... Am not even breaking up with her just yet but if that's Wat she wants den am fine by it that way she can fine a guy Dat can marry her ASAP.....
OK I get your point. let's just assume for now that you are not her only option and considering her age of 27 into play she's contemplating her other option, what then would you do and have you tried asking her the reason for her current behavior?
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 6:22am On May 11, 2017
robotix:
na idiot na. Very proud and arrogant thing. She couldn't take the shots. If I ever meet her "man" I will give him a hand shake for dumping a very selfcentered and ego centric thing.

I detest people who are too proud and full of themselves.
Oga calm down na. but like for real the babe deactivated, then why are we wasting our strength typing advices here? I guess as they say the truth is a very bitter pill to swallow. Her man just dodged a sniper bullet.

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by MVLOX(m): 7:46am On May 11, 2017
dumo1:

OK I get your point. let's just assume for now that you are not her only option and considering her age of 27 into play she's contemplating her other option, what then would you do and have you tried asking her the reason for her current behavior?

True I haven't talked to her since I walked out of her some weeks back.... The been that in recent time she always wants to make me feel like I don't care.... On dis day Afta work I was suppose to go home to rest but I decided to go over to her place to share some work related issues and oda general issues I felt she ought knw cuz of course she is my fiancé.... Afta more than an hour of chatting I told her I had to go home so dat I could iron my cloths against work for the next day. At that point she told me Dat she wanted to tell me sometin. Well I told her I had to go iron but seconds after I sat back and asked her share.... Bros the next tin I heard was Dat I should forget that she wasn't going to tell me anymore..... Mehn I was enraged but didn't say a word and just left till Nw.... I felt like a fool... I could have gone home to rest or do something else but here I am been fooled..... It was den and den Dat I concluded that it had to stop.... Dis is just dating... If she is like dis and get angry and just lash at me for little or reason den marriage will be heal... True I knw am not romantic but even at Dat I knw I am trying to improve...... Becuz of my childhood I am really scared of marriage especially broken or failed ones.... So wen we final get to talk it will be to review the relationship.
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 8:28am On May 11, 2017
MVLOX:


True I haven't talked to her since I walked out of her some weeks back.... The been that in recent time she always wants to make me feel like I don't care.... On dis day Afta work I was suppose to go home to rest but I decided to go over to her place to share some work related issues and oda general issues I felt she ought knw cuz of course she is my fiancé.... Afta more than an hour of chatting I told her I had to go home so dat I could iron my cloths against work for the next day. At that point she told me Dat she wanted to tell me sometin. Well I told her I had to go iron but seconds after I sat back and asked her share.... Bros the next tin I heard was Dat I should forget that she wasn't going to tell me anymore..... Mehn I was enraged but didn't say a word and just left till Nw.... I felt like a fool... I could have gone home to rest or do something else but here I am been fooled..... It was den and den Dat I concluded that it had to stop.... Dis is just dating... If she is like dis and get angry and just lash at me for little or reason den marriage will be heal... True I knw am not romantic but even at Dat I knw I am trying to improve...... Becuz of my childhood I am really scared of marriage especially broken or failed ones.... So wen we final get to talk it will be to review the relationship.
sorry about the relationship issues bro. All will be well. Don't think too much about it and bro to bro, do take a well deserved vacation before you finally jet out.
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by MVLOX(m): 9:12am On May 11, 2017
dumo1:

sorry about the relationship issues bro. All will be well. Don't think too much about it and bro to bro, do take a well deserved vacation before you finally jet out.

True ooo I sure nid a good vacation..... As 4 tinking abt it Naaa I guess am even enjoying my almost single status.... Chai I miss being single kinda.... Tanks cha u have been so supportive.... I will wish u well in all ur endeavors and relationships too
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 9:13am On May 11, 2017
MVLOX:


True ooo I sure nid a good vacation..... As 4 tinking abt it Naaa I guess am even enjoying my almost single status.... Chai I miss being single kinda.... Tanks cha u have been so supportive.... I will wish u well in all ur endeavors and relationships too
Thanks for the well wishes. Anytime bro.
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Incrizz(f): 10:05am On May 11, 2017
Hahaha..gosh guys..
Did she type anything more than what I just read in her OP and then edited?
Because the emotional reactions on this thread and the original post do not seem proportionate to me!! lipsrsealed undecided

Poor girl must be begging her Fiance now lol.

As for that porn part, I not only would have quarrelled with him but also would have left him!

I don't mind getting married but not at the expense of my peace of mind.
Most guys who watch porn don't have a job or business.

I said "most" o not "all".
Read and understand properly o.

grin
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by robotix: 10:31am On May 11, 2017
dumo1:

Oga calm down na. but like for real the babe deactivated, then why are we wasting our strength typing advices here? I guess as they say the truth is a very bitter pill to swallow. Her man just dodged a sniper bullet.

We need to have a thanksgiving on behalf of the guy. He probably have had enough of her bullshitz over the years.

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by deflover(m): 10:41am On May 11, 2017
Incrizz:
Hahaha..gosh guys..
Did she type anything more than what I just read in her OP and then edited?
Because the emotional reactions on this thread and the original post do not seem proportionate to me!! lipsrsealed undecided

Poor girl must be begging her Fiance now lol.

As for that porn part, I not only would have quarrelled with him but also would have left him!

I don't mind getting married but not at the expense of my peace of mind.
Most guys who watch porn don't have a job or business.

I said "most" o not "all".
Read and understand properly o

grin

You want the bitter truth
All guys watch porn
And get ready to leave all of us cos we watch porn

Girls can feel d sun rises and sets on their ass
Nonsense talk

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 12:00pm On May 11, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
Thank you kiss
Most welcome
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by aribisala0(m): 12:49pm On May 11, 2017
Nancy2016:


Raving lunatic and a liar. Own up to your lies and stop ranting like a crazy man infected with gonorrhea.
Gonorrhoea will kill your mother
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Incrizz(f): 12:53pm On May 11, 2017
deflover:


You want the bitter truth
All guys watch porn
And get ready to leave all of us cos we watch porn

Girls can feel d sun rises and sets on their ass
Nonsense talk

That's where you missed it.
The sun rises and sets on us and we know it.
The sooner you accept that, the better your attitude. *rolls eyes* angry

@bolded
Don't make me call you "lousy mouth" or some other demeaning names that will make you cry grin
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by kollog: 4:59pm On May 11, 2017
Hear urself, ur parents gave them small list, yet u said all the things they brought are cheap not even any gold jewelry. Well the guy definitely walked away cos of the way u present things to me. Well u need to move on, the end of the relationship has finally come. That's the truth and fact.
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by praisehim(m): 4:02am On May 16, 2017
gucci20:

Wise talk my brother!

Thank you.
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by stuffs4me(m): 4:44am On May 16, 2017
Incrizz:


That's where you missed it.
The sun rises and sets on us and we know it.
The sooner you accept that, the better your attitude. *rolls eyes* angry

@bolded
Don't make me call you "lousy mouth" or some other demeaning names that will make you cry grin

Says the empty skull slay mama.

Some girls are so dumb. This one thinks the sun rises and sets on her ass.

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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Incrizz(f): 8:49am On May 16, 2017
stuffs4me:


Says the empty skull slay mama.

Some girls are so dumb. This one thinks the sun rises and sets on her ass.

Empty skulls are lifeless.
They can't type, read, nothing..

Empty skull slay mama?
How can an empty skull slay anyone?
No leg bones, no arm bones, just an empty skull

@bolded I told ya

Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by bigcp(m): 10:01am On May 17, 2017
Atmmachine:

I wouldn't marry you even if your parents pays me $60 million

You sound like a little kid that's ​not yet ready for marriage

The dude wastes his money to come visit you in the USA, you still not happy ??

This is one of the many reasons why i will never get married, our generation is bleeped

He watched porn on your computer ?? What the hell,
adults do watch porn, can you swear with your life that you haven't watched porn

Your father told him that he doesn't wanna sell you to him that's why he told your fiance to buy cheap stuff and just pay your bride price

You got angry because he didn't buy you gold jewelry ??

How many gold watch have you bought for him ??

Tell me a good reason why you deserve gold jewelry, does he owe you ??

I wish i could find that guy, he deserves a cold beer and an award for the smartest person on earth

He dodged a bullet

2 bottle of Hennesy 4 u my brother....this is why I'll always choose to hv a babby making machine (baby mama) that 2 get married....
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Duru009(m): 12:31am On May 18, 2017
Na by force to marry you...

Nonsense!!!!
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by robotix: 4:48am On May 18, 2017
kollog:
Hear urself, ur parents gave them small list, yet u said all the things they brought are cheap not even any gold jewelry. Well the guy definitely walked away cos of the way u present things to me. Well u need to move on, the end of the relationship has finally come. That's the truth and fact.
make her papa and mama marry her na smiley

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