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Very Laughable, Coming From Gbagi Himself, Please On Behalf Of 9ja I'd Say Everyone Would Pass, This Man Claims He Read Criminology Yet a Reputable Criminal Himself.

Anyone That Takes This Dubious Fool Of a Beast Seriously Needs a Brain Implant, The Man Has a Reputation Of Being Devilish Than Satan.

Burna Boy - Soke

Yuck Yuck Yuck!!! lol ewwwww Of Eternal Life

A Face Like That summed With The Incestuous Act, Surely The Devil Has Lost Its Place In Hell,He'll Run as Soon as This Man Kicks The Bucket

This Man Is The New Bad!

Omo bado lol

okeke00:
its time to search the whole buildings in ibadan and oyo state entirely. this people are really animals

Bros, Easy o!!

Hmmm Fake Currencies and Voodoo Practices, The Correlation ?
Omo Some Peeps Badt Gan!

Jawon ft Phyno, Olmide, May-D - Madantin !!

Nollywood is a brand known across Nigeria/Africa. It promotes and enhances the culture of the igbos given the fact that many of their stories and characters are igbo oriented and portrays the lingo and tradition of the igbos.

Many people from across the world now say things like "Chineke", "Biko", Nna" ,Ewo ,"Tufiakwa" and what not, all igbo words, some people in the east africa like kenya and uganda are very well aware of some of our cultural practices like "New yam festival" and the patrolling of masquerades as seen in some of our film flicks. These are evidences to that fact that Nollywood is Igbo made. And when I say igbo made I don't mean the shoes Ileked loves to wear that was made by my brother Chukwuemeka Aba

LoL

You people shouldn't take Ilekeh seriously, she loves Igbos and we love her too lol

njokusboy:
As for this thread.......
All that has to be said has been said, i must say this though, most women agreeing with the op already have a history which they do not intend to disclose anyway, this thread only serves to reassure them, which it has... To the few who intend to practice this, sorry for you in advance.
On the other hand, this is a wake-up call for the men, you owe yourselves a responsibility to find out every detail about the woman you intend to marry, sexual history, criminal history, family history, social history... Employ the services of a professional investigator if necessary, if she was a prostitute or criminal or have had abortions before, it shouldn't be too difficult to find out...
There's always that vindictive friend or angry ex-boyfriend or jealous neighbour, looking for an opportunity to deal with her... Dig hard enough and they would come through.... dont be a victim....

This input summarises it,that is why some igbos seek information about the intending spouse,i never saw the wisdom in it, I guess now I do.

And to add to it, those that think that for some reason they have or posses some super-natural power or instinct to determine the future if things are done this or that way regardless of the bad in their act, should also put that super magical prowess in good use by avoiding real life disturbing intricacies as premature death,sicknesses,bad omen ,subsequent disasters, after all, they know the future by their act.

Imagine the vague excuses of "Men do it" and so why shouldn't we, who are the men ? The men in peoples exclusive relationship or marriage ? You know about that ? Does it justify it as right ? Do we as good and respectful men shake the hands of men that were armed robbers,assassins and rapists for misleading women into marriage without telling them their disturbing past ?

This is sense Versus Nonsense, human beings are either good or bad, men or women are guilty of either being good or bad so why should some women justify or advance and advocate vice over virtue on grounds that "men do it so its right" bases ? The fickleness and intricacies of the female mind never ceases to be perturbing. Smh

I once revere some monikers I saw here with such hideous ideology as advice, not anymore, although it isn't important anyway, after all people are good or bad, just relate with them as what they are.

All I know is that we reap what we sow. For some glaring reasons the norm and order of some now is to sow a bad seed expecting good tidings out of it . Is that wise ? I believe the synonym for that definition should and would be everything adverse to wisdom.

Thank you.

Mother - Majek Fashek

Eyaah,

But it doesn't have to be that way had you catered for your own people and not dance to the tunes of the enemy by bettering their own lives.

No body has a monopoly of knowledge to what will happen in the future if things are done like this or that.

You owe it to abide by the ultimate rule to follow what is written to attain wisdom by doing good because only good comes out of doing good,so what is wise in doing what is bad and expecting good in the future.

Smh

Book of james 5:16, says and I quote, "confess your sins to one another and pray for one another because the prayer of a good person is powerful"

.......now if you confess to one another you ease your conscience and restoration is assured.

I'm disappointed at some, I didn't think this thread will drag itself to this degenerate form, I thought this thread was suppose to be cantered on "What Women/Female Shouldn't Tell Their Fiance" ? :O. How did it relate to men as the excuse that justifies why certain points should be endorsed and practised ? You can see that with this premise that some women are perpetual followers to Men and hence don't have a mind of their own, the fickleness of the female mind is disheartening and depicts of mental and emotional dependence. There's nothing independent about some women and its bad.

This thread is suppose to preach the goodness of the will of truth by all standards and what is right, why have we decided to pick vice over virtue ?

The questions we should ask are;

What Precedes Forgiveness ? Is it not remorse,repentance ?

How can we say we are clean and indeed changed of our old ways when we haven't come to self-realisation of the truth at hearts with our intended spouse(s), given that we'd be one and share everything as one including the body(your body and to become his by virtue) you already defiled in the past ?

Don't underestimate the power to hide or what led to your secrecy, that same power will make you commit same misdeeds and return to your old ways

Come clean to your spouse my dear females and males, its liberating and full of everything pure at mind. I repeat,don't think you re wiser than God! Smh

It is even more damage to your spouse to hoard things on the grounds that he/she might leave you.

You hide things because you know your stay and the likelihood to remain married is dependent on the truth (your revelation) and can alter his decision, people marry people with bad past ordeals and escapades,it is not new and certainly not news.

Amidst all said on this thread ,I only have one question to ask,

Are you saying it is right to not reveal your past ordeals to your soon-to-be partner ?

Your answer will give me a hint of what the world has turned to and for that reason I'll start now to advice guys/men to see the need to ask her about her past relationships ,s3xual escapades with ex, and other necessary required information too from her, by so doing ,you'll put her in a corner where she'd have to bear the consequences in the future should she lie.

Mtchwww

flyca:
My boyfriend is very handsome and an achiever. Who cares?

You are a rare Nigerian Like Me

Who the hell cares ?

Apparently, This Yusuf Buhari Guy Is Now The New Celebrity In Town,After all His Father Has Just Been Sworn In As The New President Of Nigeria, New Praises, New Face For The Ladies To Say " Ooh Wow!! Handsome", Maybe He Wasn't Handsome Before This Present Status as The "President's Son".

Bloody Ridiculous.

Confiding in him before he finds out is what is right, it'll mean you're trust-worthy, not telling him would mean otherwise.

If you're truly remorseful of your past,surely you'd want him to love and accept you for what you are, because your past is also a story of you, it should be his call and right/decision to either accept you or not, if he doesn't,take it like that, its your fate so long as you are true and repentant you'll see a man that loves you for you.

Don't hoard secrets in the name of still keeping him(your partner), you are not God and hence not wiser than him, how do you know what works when you aren't open,is there wisdom in that ? You can't be 100% sure or guaranteed that he wont leave/accept you.

It would be selfish,callous,unwise,unreasonable and tactless to not tell on matters that touches the heart as this.

I can never bend the truth no matter what/how a badosky I am

Let us preach and uphold it please please and please!!!

Thank you very much.

I man once asked me if told to choose between a wise woman and an intelligent one ,I said I'd go for the wise one because the wise woman is an intelligent woman.

Sorry there is no sense or ounce of wisdom in this advise because it doesn't in any way represent the truth.

The truth is what will set you free, forgiveness strives in openness. You can't cheat on your spouse or have a bad past record and not tell your spouse about it,it is deceit.

That will mean you aren't remorseful, a repentant mind/soul is a free one and a free person sees other opportunities, if you're truly remorseful,another closed door will open. Nothing stands against the truth,its a bold step further to unwind the future barricades.

How do you ask God for forgiveness when you aren't true, if you did abortion in ibadan, married someone in Enugu, that same womb is what followed you from Ibadan and stayed with you in Enugu with your spouse.

This thread reflects a clear case of you trying to eat your cake and still having it when you say he doesn't have to know and that you could lose him by telling him,why should that bother a repentant heart owing to the fact that you agree you are guilty,surely still keeping your spouse should be the least of your worries so long as you have done what is required by your God.

Don't think for men, using that as an excuse that men don't talk so why should you talk. You exist on your own and should take responsibilities for your own self. Do what is right please!

What Will Be Said About Those That Barely Post For Fear Of Not Getting Recognition or The Attention They'd Want Via Likes and Comments ? lol


......I Don't Think I Agree

limolalikamaila:
Draw her closer, turn her buttock to you and give her two slap.

Then tell her fiercely

I have 12 inch dick and am sure you can't survive a round.
Oya go find your mate.

Tank me later

This isn't suppose to be funny but I'm laughing anyway lol

Sssssh I'm one of those very very good boys that still believe in the evolutionary manner of chivalry ,I open doors for my babie ,sue me

I'm fit ,kinda have 6pack, well, maybe just 4 but she sure as well confirms my fitness beneath the sheet.

I like my goatee beard, e resemble beards not like Ross's but it gives me a sophisticated appearance in my slim fit self. I'm not the preferred "tall-dark" but the tall-Precious-sweet and handsome Nwa,

Omo I'm just a good bad guy,that's what's up!

These Marketers are not making things easier for us too,the masses, they are all bunch of thieves.

Waste of a country!

Warning - Notorious BiG

write2obi:
Yea ofcos, it just depends on the part you are from, I mean do you people say ihe or ife ? It's just a pronunciation thing.

I thought so mehn!!

I like Ihe" more, although we also say 'Ife. My guess would be "Ihe carries more masculine force while ''Ife is more feminine, if such name is unisex, then Ihemelumma should be male lol

write2obi:
And ifemelumma as well

Ifemelumma is a sweet name. Can the "f" factor be replaced with a "H' like Ihemelumma" ?
Just like "Ifeanyi and Iheanyi. Although both carrying same meaning ,just the differential tongue sound between North and southern igbo pronunciation.

E Toh Be - Dj Jimmy Jatt ft Phyno , Banky W

you go kukuma use am clean yansh after you sh!t your akara finish

ChinenyeN:
I'm male, and yes, I'm familiar with the name. It is actually one of only three Chi-names that I find allowable for my offspring to bear (if ever I am to have any).

Eyaah, Please Pardon Me For Thinking You're Female.

I guess the name "Chinenye is another Feminine Dominated name to the point I had to damn the gender on your moniker.

When I said strange as regards to the name "Chinkata", it isn't in a bad way, just that I'm not familiar with it. Obviously some names that aren't mainstream igbo names are ,to me, very unique with deep meaning, for instance now, I have a very unique surname that isn't very known in igbo land except my villa and you can count the number of people that are borne by it.

A naming trend that is common in southern igboland. Yes I like that name Chinkata too

I also like my native name too, not one I'm familiar with in igboland but can be easily interpreted by all igbos.

And our police though ?
Epic dribble'rs!!!

Azin, Seriously!!! To this point ?

Abeg make I laugh small today. These unbelievable news cropping up here and there about pastors and Reverend.

Running a temperature on these news lol

Sijo01:
Which other plans does a terrorist have?

Seriously ??
Smh