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MissJoy29:
But truly, your values on friendship are inadequate.

@first bolded, so you got to friendship-ville before me. Will it be a crime if you wait for me? Like I said earlier, you shouldn't expect everyone to act & think as you do. That's why we are uniquely different with divergent views, opinions, experiences, etc to "spice up" the friendship.

@second bolded, I'm free too with everyone. But not everyone is my friend. Friendship is earned honey, contrary to what you posited in your earlier post. You work hard at building AND sustaining it. Except its fake or superficial which I don't do.

@third bolded, I didn't say I won't follow you or I can't. I only said you shouldn't mention me cos I won't reply. But, we have both broken that part of the "agreement". So......
truce?

I think you're way too serious.

I like to think of friendship more like a ride,a process, a movement with endless point of arrival or destination not a state or a room where you enter. My values represent freeness. I'm not a one rule follower. That doesn't guarranty anything. Life is in process. You ordinarilised my values being diff from yours whiles you also imply I'm trying to perforce you to follow mine. I'm not in anyway trying to change your mind but constant related conversations edifies us into better or advance thinkers.

Friendship being a ride by me depicts severity or degree by which we attain and it's in continuity. It could be a sweet smooth ride or a rough timid one but then since there're no rules to things pertaining 'freeness' it connotes spontaneity, Independence. You make it sound like your own perspective in friendship puts you in a higher pedestal. I think if you were a lot freer as claimed contrary to whatever,you'd not think homogenously. You'd be like a bird and fly to both or all sides of a map to be receptive to change and take whom ever emotionally and or psychologically balances with you despite the state of ride or journey, not building blocks or fences simply because you feel it hasn't reached the expected duration like you're on a timer. I was in friendship ville the moment I chatted with you friendly, another level or degree of friendship ville the second time we chatted. It's all in relative doses. The real issue here is more with you caught in the web of a friendship-approach- dilemma. That's why you got heldup at the rememberance of your rules despite all sweet conversations or mood our little relation brought. You reset the whole friendly voyage. LoL

We are all diff and we see things differently so
by the time you perhaps start to see things a little diff from your present state you might understand me.

Truce hunNay!

Remember friendship is not just a state but a ride,a rollercoaster,a wheel that propels you up n down to many states,places, stages. Where some you either like or dislike,love or hate. They transcend into memories.

Good night!

lol which one is regarded as food to the lay man. If some people eat both then the one that serves as both a pet and a meal is supposedly to sell more hence appended with more market value. However, from this side of the world I haven't seen much of the pet-Cravers so your guess is nearly half as good as mine 10mins ago before I posted

Don't ask me o.

20k is still pretty much dicey, seeing he'll be making let's say, 7-15 or above a day on a high or arduous movement peddling your car as a cab. If I were you, I'd appreciate it considering some days might be bad for him and he knows he'd have to makeup for the bad days with the good ones and report at the end of the week an income. It's not a bad idea.

lol e reach hospital matter ? Kai whose heart needs treatment now, one is in a church, functioning on a heartfelt matter and the other is in a hospital ?

MissJoy29:
@bolded, don't mind us.

Yeah the quarrel was too easy. But I'm not surprised. Because, anyone who thinks building friendship is easy,then definitely,quarrelling or breaking up should be easy for the person too.

So, it's alright.

Hmm I come online only to find the most Shockingly electrifying Wonder,a Follow(er) from my dearest Nwanyi oma seems to me the sore to mutual friendly feeling is starting to heal it self. That's what friendship is, at least for starters. My Joy couldn't help to shoot a fire ball at me subliminally indicating my values on friendship as inadequate. aww lol

Darling! Some of the bestest' friendship happen by a click like a switch it defies 'graduallity' or some duration period. At least that was it for me and from your countenance read by me, your responses concurred. Need I remind you sweetie that I'm a free man with full options of friendship patterns, spontaneity works. I don't just act a follower to just or a single rule of making or building friends/ship.

And at bolded again, you forgot "Making up''. As they rush in and out due to quarrelling or breaking up as you say, they also make up quickly. Proof my friendship with you isn't a quicky-fluke, you followed me even after verbally warning i shouldnt becsuse you won't. And I mentioned you after I implied I won't anymore

lol e buy market.

wayne4loan:
Oga upon all the whole problem when dey this country, your own problem na party meat

lol Oga help me ask the confusionist.

Sarkin:
From her face you can read that she's a chronic scammer.

But only the gullible and jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of bia-fra can fall for this.
Synonymous to this, when the jobless and aggressive scammer of MASSOB was telling them to pay TAx and the irredeemable gullible pigs will Still pay it.
This woman must have graduated from the institute of the jobless lazy aggressive idiotic pigs of Biafra same as COWNU!

Shut it. You demonstrate the character of a barbaric diabolical charlatan just perfectly as your ancestors before you.

Funke is 41 ?

MissJoy29:
If only you know the type of person I am, you won't be this critical....
I'm also very different from your average Nigerian girl & their mentality...just like you said.

Who mentioned physical presence? 'Cause I sure didn't. I have great friends here I haven't seen before. Not just physically only but even in pictures. We dont even know what we look like. But we have this amazing friendship & connection that is mind boggling. And I'm talking about close-to-a- year-friendship.

Do you think we got there immediately we started talking? Or is the word "gradual" not in your dictionary?

Precious, I think you were too hasty in your assertion & perception of me. And I'm not going to attempt to change that cos it's of no use to someone who has already mapped me out in his head. We are different people so you can't expect me to reason like you do especially when we don't know ourselves that much. And not only that; you shouldn't use your own views & behaviours to judge or criticise me & even insult me subtly.

So thank you for everything too.
@bolded, please stop following & chatting me up here. Stop mentioning me too cos I won't reply. Take care.

I think you chose to sound this way because your intentions differ from your actions with me. What assertion did I make of you. The one you gave me? In your quest to reduce me to just a stranger, you sound like friendship is a big deal. Like I have to earn it whilst we already relate as friends. I'm confused when you use the word "gradual" is it for the same friendship you opine about? Oh I thought you also admitted you considered me a little more than a stranger. You see my point, you have an undecided issue and I only spoke about it. If you didn't feel the insensibility of your bid to reduce my status i highlighted in my post you wouldn't have apologised.

What exactly is your issue here because I thought I was the one that got offended. It seema like you've always harbored the zeal to tell me off but I just aided you with the courage to do so. And that to me already reveals your person to me not what you tell me you are. What I see or observe is what I can bank on. Or are you saying you exude different characteristics from what you say on social media.

Well, for what it's worth. I thought we were already friends and i got along so spontaneously with you even while flirting but i also don't want to be misunderstood. So I'll grant your wish.

Oga lie. We are only interested in the projects that had met the percentile compliance of completion.

MissJoy29:
I'm sorry I upset you. It wasn't intentional. I just didn't think we are friends & that's the truth. After all, we just started chatting well recently (if I'm wrong, correct me).
2-4 months? Really?

How do you make friends? What or who are friends to you. I did consider you a friend, we don't have to acquaint it with some physical presence. You don't chat with strangers with so much gusto or enthusiasm. If I sensed your awkwardness lodged by my flirtatiousness then I was right. I have a great sense of perception so I can tell you haven't been truly friendly or spontaneous in our chats seeing you think of me as a stranger yet didn't have the utmost courage to relate it to me even in the most joking or friendly way possible yet you encouraged the flirts.. My dear, it speaks little of your Freewill.

As a lady that you are,I understand the undecidedness of it. But I've always liked bold ladies. Maybe we are truly strangers after all lol.
I actually related my friendly intentions with you the first time we chatted and I followed you as my first follow yet I had to sound it again that I'm your friend? Ok my nature might be such that I flirt on a low key anonymously ,so? I flirt whoever I want to but that's just what it is. Or should I have sounded I want you to be my "Nwa baby" before you know my likesness for you is beyond social media? I'm a strange being,so not the average Nigerian. It's very hard to find my ilk, I at least thought we had similarities perhaps not. So sorry I follow you,sorry I chat with you,sorry I flirt with you. Sorry I'm even mentioning you.

MissJoy29:
You upset.

I have every reason to be. It's baffling when you think your self a friend to someone and the person thinks otherwise especially when you and this person have had convos encapsulating durations of 2-4 months......

MissJoy29:
You are right. I had one like that for close to 2 years. How we got to the level of friendship we got to without my knowing basic things about me still beats me cos it's so unlike me.

Anyway, I'd like to think we are friends. But you know na, anyone could be hiding behind your moniker. Don't you think so?

@anyone hiding behind my moniker. Kindly explain that ?
If PreciousBro relates with you then it's Preciousbro not someone else.

MissJoy29:
I'm not used to being flirted with like that by a stranger.

Lol you even had to embolden the stranger. Like I'm supposed to get the memo that I'm still just a stranger. OK. If that's what or how you still see me. I'll resort to being one.

MissJoy29:
I'm sorry dear I didn't see your other mention. I'm not ignoring you.

And yes, @bolded, I feel uneasy about it sometimes. Especially when it leaves nothing to the imagination.

Good morning. Did you sleep well?

It is what it is. Just flirts. However it carries cordial intentions seeing my likesness surpasses my absolute awareness of you.

MissJoy29:
I'm not used to being flirted with like that by a stranger.

I thought I'd have passed the stranger status. Sometimes friends don't even know each other's last names.

MissJoy29:
Do you know I didn't see this until now?

Sad. I always thought my flirting might have some undertone of rudeness to you albeit you always make it seem like you like it hence sluggishly flow along but i sense it a lot. You ain't used to being flirted with huh darling?

@ MissJoy29
What's the P Lovely one. You're taking my Joy away ignoring me is it because I mentioned "bedroom" ? You know,I've always laid a mutuality friendly ground establishment between us and hoped you'd be open to me. At least be free to speak your mind. Does my flirtatiousness deliver uneasiness to you? Plesae tell me.

wingmanII:
No self respecting Igbo boy would want a dirty tramp like her.

Even the most supreme self respecting Igbo boy has a footmat in his house. We know what to do with the rags to enable a cleaner ground.

Drchristian:
Igbo hates igbo(themselves)

Igbo hates fulani

Igbo hates Hausa

Igbo hates delta Ibos

Igbo hates Yoruba

Igbo hates Edo

Igbo hates islam

Igbo hates Nigerians


This is what I keep noticing but it seems igbo are now forced to love Atiku they've lampooned so much just to have a say in 2019 election.

You forgot to type "DrChristian is obsessed with Igbo"

Come let's change that state of affair. I think you yearn love from an Igbo boy. I'm serious. No beef.

iphunanya:
Lucky her

Lucky her,lucky you too if your finger is without a ring?

Your name is spelt like an iPhone,makes me wanna browse you,buy you for you.

MissJoy29:
Did I hear you say "bedroom"?
What are we going to be doing there?

We'll be grinding pepper and onion. Or isn't that what they do in the bedroom?

Yea. Big deal. Only done in an environment devoid of barbarism.

MissJoy29:
What are you doing here?

lol see question o. Can't I enter the kitchen again. Is it only in the bed room me and you will play lmao

lol Sweetheart,I think you wasted your time.

MissJoy29:
Thanks for the info, epecially about the nuts.
I have learnt.

Which food will you make for me now ?

lol why are we having more crime related news gracing the front pages of Nairaland these days huh?

What do you need an open marriage for, why not just stay unmarried rather than defy the sacredness of the institution of marriage. Which devil sent you to normalise sabotage in marriage?

Indians are without doubt,one of the creepiest, harshest downright wickedest racists the world has ever witnessed. They represent with magnifying lens, every ill of the blacks. They worse than the white nazzis.

This sorts of stories encourages one to be brave. After an Elephant kill,one should hang the tusk around the neck as a title or some sort of symbolism representing strength, courage and wisdom.

Joe igbokwe is a recalcitrant parrot. One of the most useless,if not the most to have been of Igbo extraction.