₦airaland Forum

Most people don't have any idea what a date is


I marvel when men choose restaurant as a date


C'mon man


There are a lot of dates even low budget ones you don't have to spend much as a man


Date is an avenue to know the girl more not to gallop more food


When I was in uni , I took my girl back then to love garden
I bought Ice cream for both of us at the rate of 100 naira
We enjoyed it and discussed various intellectual topics.

Don't eat where you take poo

Typical glucose guardians and their glucose


Gone are the days I go to hostels of uni looking for young girls

This is bad


I don't support this


Why's it so hard telling her husband??


Some women are heartless

Time for afonjas to wail again

Take advice of nairalanders at your own risk

ahnie:
Lunch
I substituted with redoil...groundnut oil nor dey gree me eat.

Crayfish
Boiled eggs
Pumpkin leaf.

Where una day see this money??

Eggs for this Batified economy

I say make I use this one hold body

Fried rice by an ijaw woman

I married my woman because she was not the typical average woman , she was affectionate , passionate and loved me .

Because of my wife I quit drinking and frequent visits to beer parlour, I'm currently on a self therapy from womanising .

She was forgiving and caring even after I did certain things that make a woman divorce or separate.

My wife enjoys being spanked with a flogger and I enjoy cuffing her up.

Jollof rice from an ijaw woman

Seeking a babysitter to come in my house ongoing basis from Monday to Friday 7am to 7pm . Must be a church goer, female only, 21-27, non smoker, non drinker, and no criminal background. Must be a secondary school graduate at least. You'll be caring for 6 months old, 2 year old, 3 year old which are boys and a 5 year old ( a girl). Paying 17,500 per month.

Noodle stir fry infused with mushroom sauce and chicken

As a landlord, these are tough times for me.

My tenants are pushing for a rent reduction in October, with some even suggesting late payments.

I urged them to submit the full rent upfront before October to avoid story that touches the heart, but they decline.

This is my livelihood!

How am I supposed to weather this storm without their full cooperation?

I’m a married man with a mistress. She’s great, but I can’t take her to my house with my wife and child. Her place isn’t exactly available either. I can’t just get a hotel, because my wife would see that. Has anyone cracked this problem. It’s like I need a place that’s like a hotel for let’s say 5 hours, but where. Tomorrow after work I’m meeting up with her. Where can I take her? I’ve bleeped her in my car before, but I need like a hotel room that’s not a hotel room.

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I work as a senior lecturer and my wife a finance professional
Since my daughter was born (5 years ago) my wife has been spending most of her time either at her workplace or a hair salon
we have a professional nanny that I pay well to help us take care of our daughter
my wife still insists to keep working full time despite us being absolutely loaded with cash
we have two businesses, several investments and my bonuses are huge.
I barely managed to get her to ask for a full-remote position so she could spend more time at home with me
my wife still hasn't accepted to go on a single date night with me
my wife has refused any type of "adult alone time", our daughter must always be present
my wife hasn't allowed me to touch her for the past two years
I tried to force myself onto her once or twice and she refused to talk to me for the whole week and I had to sleep on the sofa

I'm getting absolutely desperate.
I'm in my 50's, I have high libido, and both of our timetables are getting slightly less crammed since we both respectively got promoted a few months ago, and yet she has completely estranged me.
She only lives for our daughter, and every time I suggest we do something - even the two of us - she gives me excuses
I've talked to my colleague, whom I am good friends with, about this matter, and he told me that this is normal, that all women become like this after they have children, and that i should just get a mistress to drain my balls and ensure emotional support. He told me he has three that he sees on a regular basis.
I've also talked to my wife, she is categorical that she still loves me, and that she just "needs time" to fully raise our daughter and then she will give me some attention.

Should I follow my colleague's advice?

Ttipsy:
As Nigerian citizen. What are you benefiting

My father's wealth

Saao:
and that is a pride that you have never works in your life? Check out the most wealthy families their children works, ask them why they work not because of money alone because they want to have sense of belonging, utilize their brains among other things.

So what's your point??

GBPUSD:
You didn't specify the type of question to be asked. I need money please. To start business.

Apply for a loan to start business

yrhuhfy113:
with all the KNOWN SHORTCUTS and CRIMES and shortcuts of the current president, as revealed in the news, why is he still in POWER?

What is the continuing inability you have to evaluate this situation rationally?

Peak11:
2K to take care of t-fare to work and other essentials at work place go make sense.

Quit being a slave to the capitalist society that we're in


Ever since I was born I haven't work a day in my life

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