dominique:
We should fear women but not the man that wasted 14 years of her life by concealing his fertility status from her? She should have made this move at least 5 years ago

Lordeh:
This one na casted situation, when the man find out make him adopt....

Coolsat:
How can you blame the woman in this case?
Op you are selfish.

OZIOGU1:


Understand me, i am not blaming her, she has the money, just tell the Man you are ending the marriage and leave his house in peace, let me be frank with you so long as there is no official divorce documents between both, if she goes out bleeping over there she is cheating on the man, coz she has a valid marriage, abi you are encouraging what judy did to May?

OZIOGU1:


Understand me, i am not blaming her, she has the money, just tell the Man you are ending the marriage and leave his house in peace, let me be frank with you so long as there is no official divorce documents between both, if she goes out bleeping over there she is cheating on the man, coz she has a valid marriage, abi you are encouraging what judy did to May?

Coolsat:
But the man also has been hiding alot of things from her in the marriage. Nobody is encouraging her but I don't tell people how to react when being hurt

Persephone1:
You are not a good friend... To her you are a friend she can confide in but here you are comparing her with a serpent and judging her.

How is this woman at fault? Do you know the pains she had gone through for inability to conceive, what has been said to her by relatives, in-laws, monitoring spirits? 14 years of her life gone on account of deceit. Not fair at all.
It's good she has changed environment to start over. Unlike here in Nigeria where she will be termed a barren 40 years old Evening Newspaper, she has other chances over there and won't be called names.

The way she handled the relocation may not seem totally right but she knows best.

beekind:
Reading the responses just shows why we have so many religious spaces in Nigeria yet the country is so evil.
Did anyone notice no one addressed the issue from a religious angle?

99% of this people commenting up there are very committed members of one church or mosque yet when it comes to issues of daily living the bible or quran they read does not influence their decision and judgement.
And this is why we have churches/mosques on every street in this country yet the country is full of evil, wicked, people who steal at every chance they get yet beat their children silly if they steal a piece of meat from the pot.

Now back to the issue, since it seems a lot of ignorant people have commented earlier let me address some issues.
1. A man with low sperm count can father a child all it needs to produce a child is 1 sperm
2. A man may have low sperm count and not know, as a matter of fact many people who have children actuallyy have low sperm count at one point or the other.
3. There is no way to 100% a ladies fertility unless shes pregnant, unlike a man that you can check his sperm parameters a lady may be able to get pregnant but may not be able to carry such to term, ladies reproductive system are way to complex that its only birthing a child successfully that validates a ladies fertility.

Having said all these, I didn't read that the man was beating her, she married the man and made a vow for better and for worse but she has abandoned the vow and fled abroad, there are lots of women in that abroad without a partner who are depressed and crying on the internet everyday.

As someone who is a citizen of that same abroad and have lived there enough, I can tell you that travelling out is not an automatic solution to anyones problem.

beekind:
Reading the responses just shows why we have so many religious spaces in Nigeria yet the country is so evil.
Did anyone notice no one addressed the issue from a religious angle?

99% of this people commenting up there are very committed members of one church or mosque yet when it comes to issues of daily living the bible or quran they read does not influence their decision and judgement.
And this is why we have churches/mosques on every street in this country yet the country is full of evil, wicked, people who steal at every chance they get yet beat their children silly if they steal a piece of meat from the pot.

Now back to the issue, since it seems a lot of ignorant people have commented earlier let me address some issues.
1. A man with low sperm count can father a child all it needs to produce a child is 1 sperm
2. A man may have low sperm count and not know, as a matter of fact many people who have children actuallyy have low sperm count at one point or the other.
3. There is no way to 100% a ladies fertility unless shes pregnant, unlike a man that you can check his sperm parameters a lady may be able to get pregnant but may not be able to carry such to term, ladies reproductive system are way to complex that its only birthing a child successfully that validates a ladies fertility.

Having said all these, I didn't read that the man was beating her, she married the man and made a vow for better and for worse but she has abandoned the vow and fled abroad, there are lots of women in that abroad without a partner who are depressed and crying on the internet everyday.

As someone who is a citizen of that same abroad and have lived there enough, I can tell you that travelling out is not an automatic solution to anyones problem.

OZIOGU1:
In this life ehh fear women,

I had the intention of bringing this story here since the journey begins but i wanted to be sure that she finalized her plans and actually believe the saying that if you meet a snake and a woman in the room, my guy secure the snake and deal with the woman .

My friend is married for 14yrs with no child, all effort to get the hubby to hospital for fertility test prove very difficult, on the other hand she did her own and it was confirm she is ok, fast forward to last year the hubby finally yielded to the family pressure and did the test in three different hospitals, lo and behold my guy was confirmed to have LSC or He can't give woman beans chop, the wife became very sad coz for her if the Man had agreed right from time by now there would have been a solution medically or trad.

Now she confirms to me she wasted her 14yrs with the Man and now she is no longer young enough to even look for a guy to settle with, then she open up on plans to japa last year October, i ask why? she said if she no get children make she get money and possibly oyinbo people no dey despise older a much older African woman the way we do here she is 40yrs. she requested i borrowed her 500k to support her movement i told her i dont have, even if i do i doubt i will give coz i am not happy the hubby is not aware of this plans.

fast forward to yesterday, this babe don move and she arrive safely and she just said comrade as she use to call me (Marriage don end be that), the hubby is not aware as i speak, how can women be this wicked?

I believe it should not get to this level, what do you think?