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[quote author=lalasticlala]One of the biggest dating questions which haunt women is whether her boyfriend is ready to commit. She may be sticking around with him for almost a couple of years now, hoping that he will make up his mind and still waiting for the elusive engagement ring. If you don’t want this to happen to you, learn to pick up ten signs which tell you that he’s not going to propose marriage in a hurry.

1.He Never Discusses Marriage

This is perhaps the first hint that should start ringing warning bells in your mind. Your boyfriend cannot be caught dead talking about marriage as an institution or even commenting on commercials for wedding products and services. He won’t mention it even if his own brother is getting married and he is going to be the best man. His aversion to the M-word should be indication enough that marriage does not figure anywhere in his near future.

2.He Is Hugely Ambitious (Overambitious)

Guys whose only mission in their lives is to reach the top of their professional ladder are likely to take their time settling down. This is because emotional commitment to a partner might force them to cut down on their working hours and make networking with business contacts or frequent out-of-town trips difficult. Though this is not to say that married guys don’t find success – witness President Obama and Bill Gates - super ambitious men who are perpetually looking for the next bigger and better thing are more likely to consider marriage as leading to professional stagnation.

3.All His Friends Are Single

This is as sure a sign as any that your boyfriend is not going to propose marriage. If you notice that his social circle is exclusively made of bachelors and divorced men, it is evident that he is uncomfortable around married couples and has no plans to join their ranks in near future.

4.He Has Strong Sexual Needs

A guy who places great emphasis on sex and considers it the most important part of a relationship is unlikely to settle for a single partner. Gone are the days when men could be baited into marriage on the lure of sex. The dissociation of sex and marriage as well as sexual freedom for women has also made it easier for men to keep sleeping around unless they wish to marry for other reasons. And if your boyfriend has a large sexual appetite, it is unlikely to be satisfied by a single person. He will sooner or later get tired of being with you and move on to someone else he can go to bed with.

5.He Lives Out Of A Suitcase

Men with unstable living conditions usually have priorities like work and travel which are bound to clash with a stable married life. You may be thrilled to have a high-flying war correspondent or wildlife photographer as a boyfriend, but such people are unlikely to settle down to tame domesticity. Far easier to spot - and avoid – are guys who are in and out of jobs or in trouble with the law and thus perpetually on the move. Rather look for men who have stable lives since they are the ones more likely to be looking for stable relationships.

6.He Does Not take You To Meet His Family

This is an unmistakable sign that a guy is not considering marriage even though he may be dating someone. Men usually discuss their families only with those who are close enough to be let into their inner lives. If your boyfriend has never suggested that you meet his parents and even appears to be uncomfortable talking about them to you, then perhaps he is not ready to make you an intrinsic part of his life.

7.You Don’t Figure In His Plans

When talking about his future, does your guy merely discuss his goals of starting a business someday and are his dreams limited to retiring by the sea with his very own beach house and luxury boat? If so or something similar, then this is an indication that you are not part of his future plans and thus unlikely to be his wife any time soon. Unless of course, he goes through a life-changing experience and realizes the value of a committed relationship which is again putting too much store by chance and therefore not worth wasting your life for.

8.He Doesn’t Ask You About Yours





op, stop discouraging does in a relationship especially d ladies here. Love is all that matter... Get a Job op

[quote author=jmoore][/quote]y did fg start what it can't finish?

lildrop: who are yuu?
y yu quote me...... i forgive yuu......no do am again oooo

u no get choice

Lol
shey everybody wanna travel abroad!

lildrop: tank me later

over sabi,it could b a typo error

masagoody: sure I learnt something....but am using a phone and do not know how to connect my mouse to it in other to click "LIKE".....
Meanwhile, you could do with more editing before posting if you know what I mean. Some persons may come up here and start pointing out errors, and others may want to make fun of your write up. Just remember that we learn everyday, so don't take it personal. I would also encourage you to write more. This piece can certainly be better.Cheers!

yours truly
A nairalander .

people like u are called online typing error seekers,can't u just over look somethings n assume its a normal typo error??
Grow up who Eva u are

platz: let the dead bury the dead

sleep dey your eye? Wat d meaning of ur proverb

atlwireles: URHOBO nation was Saturday, thrown into mourning as the cold hands of death snatched the President General of the Urhobo Progress Union, UPU, General Patrick Aziza (rtd) away. He died at the age of 67.
Aziza who has been sick of cancer, reportedly died in Abuja about 3:45am . The news of his death took the urhobos and Deltans aback as people were seen in groups discussing the sudden death of the onetime minister of Communication under the military government of late General Sani Abacha.
His kinsmen at Adagbrasa who could not control their emotions were seen wailing and crying; “our iroko has fallen.” Reacting to his death, the Minister of Niger Delta Affairs, Dr. Steve Oru, described Aziza’s demise as very sad. “The Urhobo nation has lost a true son, a General indeed who had served the nation in the armed forces so successfully and at a point, he was even a minister in charge of communication in our nation and he performed creditably well.
“He emerged as the President General of UPU and he has been steering the ship of state of the Urhobo nation quite creditably. He has succeeded in promoting peace and unity amongst the Urhobo people. We will all surely miss him, but there is a time to come and a time to go as the saying goes. ‘There is a time when one is born and a time when one dies’.
“If it was possible, we would have prayed God to postpone his death. We all love him, but God loves him more and we wish him a peaceful rest in the bosom of the lord. He will be remembered for his astute management of the UPU and his performance as a very sound member of the Nigerian Army who served our nation creditably.
“He will surely be remembered for being a man that stood for the Urhobo course and promoted the emergence of an Urhobo minister because I can remember, during his first tenure he led a delegation to MR. President, Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan to advocate for the appointment of an Urhobo son and today I am one of those that benefitted at the national level, so my missing him is even more.”
On his advice to the Urhobo people, he said “I will tell them to mourn but also accept the will of God as the omnipotent and omnipresent that knows it all. Let them also take solace in the fact that those the lord calls early are the ones he loves most. They should take solace in that and pray for the soul of the reposed in the bosom of the lord.”
On his past, Senator representing Delta Central at the National Assembly, Senator Emmanuel Aguariavwodo described Aziza’s death as tragic and sad.
He said: “It is so sad that we don’t even know what to think. We have talked to some of our leaders and everybody is still in shock. In fact there is nothing to say now except to say that we are sad, we mourn his passage and we pray that for the repose of his soul that God should accept his soul. Meanwhile we await what the family will say and what UPU will say so that we can all have a meeting on what to do next.
“He stood strongly for the unity of the Urhobo nation and he was a fine soldier, he served Nigeria very well. After all that, he came home to serve his people. He was a true servant of the people.”

- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/aziza-dies-67/#sthash.mOVT4bD8.dpuf

y na only urhobo peeps dey miss am?

rash47: Many people here don't know this man,one of Gen. Abacha's loyal dog in charge of his kangaroo court as recent as 1998.... Too many kids on nairaland indeed.

seriously if i have my way i wud say dis dude don't deserve rip..


But rip sha

J3da: URHOBO´S GREAT LOSS; AN IROKO HAS FALLEN - UPF MOURNS AZIZA!!!!!

no b only iroko na banana tree...
Dis were d men dat shake Nigeria in d past


rip #respect to d dead

kobikwelu: And you expect us to take you seriously.....smh

d dude is 4 real, saw dis on nta but d part i did not see was d way he interpreted each point

What a fu*ked up country

What a bleeped up country

pacretus: dat is journalism for u.they use to weighty headlines.

as in ehhhhh, making we d family feel bad

akpanikpe: E be like na NITEL data service u dey use, is not fast enough.

na fu*king mtn

hazyfm: MUMU Snr, How old are you?

lol, i don't blame u if u call me dat, once a while a grown up man have to behave childish

WOW...THE HEADLINE SHD B HOW MANY BOKO HARAH WE KILLED NOT D ODA WAY ROUND

NA FOR ASIA ALL DIS STUFF DEY COMMON

SECOND TO COMMENT

BRING BACK OUR ABOKI

nawaooo: Yes o! Like say I escort people come dis world

i can help u

Na money sure pass fu*k fine boy

Na money sure pass Bleep fine boy

YoungDaNaval: Nah. I didn't break any law. Our 9ja Police are thieves and liarz!

so true man

munex007: Each time I read powerful Verses from the Holy Qur'an..

#scared

pyyxxaro: I normally cry when am about to CUM...... I just finished crying now.

congratulation

nawaooo: Yesterday when I was thinking of my sufferings

are u still suffering?

YoungDaNaval: When I was Arrested By Police 4 the 1st time 2months ago..

so u no get mind?? Y break d law

Merryglad: i cry easily...expecially when am alone

do u get scared?

EMEKA1MILLION: The death of Paul Walker... My favorite actor shook me greatly...
I was so devastated that I started seeing him in my sleep...
Rip paul

u shd also see a doctor

UnknownT: Reading Sam Okwaraji's story few days ago. The thought of wot d guy would have achieved if he were to be alive today brought some tears

dude see a doctor

Ladystewie: So men do cry eh?
Interesting....

lol, so u don't watch nollywood movies?