₦airaland Forum

KingRex1:
Feeling a cloth, book or laptop on my bed while lying.. I just fling it away
Unarranged bed
Pillow outta the pillow case
The msg I get before a call when I'm low on airtime.. I cut immediately to either recharge or just redial again

iamJ:
[color=#59576F] only a man that isn't a man


Wouldn't think about having 3 of them at once


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#No Filter Attitude

anyaski4real:
The day I mistakenly saw my mum and dad making love in the morning,I was dumbfounded,we were living in a two room apartment then.I received the beating of my life that day,including pepper in my eyes and anus.

kristen12:
I insulted my dad ( its what my mum said but I don't remember doing it) because i didn't want to wash plate. My mumsy poured hot water on me and beat hell out of my life. I ran away from home with my singlet and pant, an old woman saw me and came to beg my mum for me. My mum swore with her life that she'll never touch me and even knelt down to thank the woman. I thought she had forgiven me.
I did not know when she locked all the doors and came to meet me with 5 slim canes. She beat heaven and hell out of my life. I thought I will die.

She doesn't even remember when I talk about it now

lefulefu:
what of the married woman with no kids..wetin go come be her duty? Abi u no know say there are childless couples all over the place.

RavenClaw:
Yes! But the woman is the helper. And if she isn't helping him financially, then where will she help him?

RavenClaw:
Yeah I support you. But only if women will keep their pussies then it would be possible.

And if men can have the mentality that both sides should spend money in a relationship then money would be saved.

thedondada:
Lol..

Black market sex would skyrocket in cost.

Marriages would crash faster because many would want to marry just for sex which shouldn't be the most important reason for marriage.

It won't work. You'll have a higher rate of divorce and infidelity. IMO

NoToPile:
Very very sane point

They will come and deny this point too, too much free sex everywhere why get married when you can get some sexual gratification from a particular lady which you will end up dumping to marry a fresh blood.

Until we go back to the "old school" method these issues will continue to occur.

majekoam:
I see it. Im sorry I shouldn't have called your sentence nonsense and I will agree to disagree.

thedondada:
Lol.

This is simply saying people should get married because of sex. It's irrational and such a marriage is doomed for failure. What if the sex isn't as mind blowing as they both expect it to be. And they begin to wonder if another person would be better.

Your point of view is your choice that doesn't make it reasonable.

It would only make black market sex cost more.

No need to discuss further.

majekoam:
Firstly I dont know where I have insulted you. If it is calling you ignorant i feel that is justified because you made an erroneous statement that is not 100% true. Even since biblical times pre-marital sex was occurring. People weren't automatically killed for it...or not to my knowledge. There are examples where one of Jacobs/Israels daughter was forced upon. They didnt kill the man...it was later when he came back to marry her. It was then that Reuben and Simeon killed him out of revenge. Pre-marital sex is frowned upon...not illegal. I fully understood what you meant. Society has relaxed about the issue. Fine. Totally agree.

Secondly you have made another comment: "But it's still 70% their fault because must ladies open their legs hoping that he would marry them" Please justify this. If you can explain I will apologise and not say another thing.

Lastly this is your first post:
"As far as am concerned, the major reason why men have refused to get married is because the society has made premarital sex legal. Ban premarital sex for six months and see whether men would not get married.And having different relationships prior to marriage would not allow them to progress, they have to spend so much sustaining their girlfriends, so business would go down or they can't save their salary.

Well. I call heaven and earth to witness what I am about to say. I am 28. I gave my Life to Christ April 9, 2015 and since then I have not had slept with another woman. I Own/Manage a Table and Pure water company and looking into getting a second job. I am not an ugly guy. I might not be anything spectacular but I know im not ugly. I have been wanting to get married for a few years. I am not a womanizer as it is not in my nature and with having 4 sisters my conscious wouldn't feel right if i were because I can only imagine how furious I would be if someone did that to my Sisters. I have been involved with four women....EVER. Two of them were not interested in knowing me the morning after (from the days I used to go clubbing). The two others were not interested in putting any effort. I realised I wasn't fully right with God and that I had to mature, grow and become a man. So tell me...hasnt my testimony completely destroyed the comment you made above?? If it hasnt why has a man who doesnt womanize, engage in premarital sex anymore, has an income and is progressing not able to get married?? Maybe it is more than SEX!!!!

Normally i dont go hard at people especially women but I will blast anyone that wants to generalize all men. Im sick of all the hypocrisy.

In my experiences women cheat more. I have NEVER cheated on a girlfriend. I have been cheated on....so when i see people talking about all men i get irritated. LADIES IF A MAN CHEATS ON YOU SAY THAT MAN CHEATED ON YOU AND NOT ALL MEN because that is what has happened. MEN THE SAME APPLIES.

GENERALIZATIONS ARE WHAT DESTROYS SOCIETIES. All YORUBA'S ARE THIS, IGBO ARE THIS, HAUSA'S ARE THIS....MEN ARE THIS, WOMEN ARE THIS....YOUTH ARE THIS....

Im Out...before I explode.....

thowbie7ven:
reply your mail pls...

majekoam:
You think banning sex for six months will change anything? Those who fool around will get married and still cheat, the marriage will likely crash and you are back to square one. Its depends on the man if he wants to cheat he will and by the way this your sentence is nonsense:

" Ban premarital sex for six months and see whether men would not get married.And having different relationships prior to marriage would not allow them to progress, they have to spend so much sustaining their girlfriends, so business would go down or they can't save their salary"

So you havent heard the stories of a man providing for everything and then finding out his Fiance was sleeping with other men?? Even some were mentioned here on nairaland.

Stopped being IGNORANT in stating that this is somehow 100% down to the fault of men.

Even in general I cant stand it when people Say "Men/All men are this...." "All women/women are this"...Its Irritating.

thowbie7ven:
But you mention Men spending their salaries on women hence leading to low or no saving required to setting up a Family...now you're saying he should spend little...you women sef, una too dey contradict una selves too much...

alexialin:
Although it was wrong for the couple to steal the baby. But on the other hand, the mad woman will not be able to take care of the baby. The child will end up as a destitute, with no education.
What a pity.
The neighbor has successfully ruined the vibrant future of that kid.
And the couple who stole the kid were ready to take care of that child as if he was their own. They even took the child for medical checkup.
Na wa.
That child is unfortunate. When he's of age, he may even run away from his mentally unstable mum to go hustle by himself and probably cut off all ties from her or care for her. It can and of which ways.
No one loves to be stigmatized with a mad person, even if the mad one is a parent. It's a heartbreaking realization to face in life.

So the real mum is mentally unstable, why give her back the child?

The boy will curse that aproko neighbor later in life, if he gets to know the true story about the couple who stole him and returned him back. What's neighbor own?

Nigerians and sentiments sha. They will never mind their buisness.

thowbie7ven:
Enitan...can you go about dating/courting a man for aroud a year or two without him spending a dime on you?...can you?..wont you tag him a stingy person?

NwaAmaikpe:


Sissies everywhere.
Why will a man hide because he is caught cheating?

Every wise wife accepts the painful truth that only her can not own the D because man's primary assignment is to lay and impregnate as many women as possible. (Genesis 9:7)

Too many learners on the prowl.
The first thing you do with a girl who is not your wife is to lay her,
The next thing is to free her.

Straight to business...No unneccesary interludes like joints, parties, clubs or stadiums.

Too many girls to be screwed and no time to waste.

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Arsenalholic:
I should say she's brain-dead but I don't insult people.

She actually thinks she's disgracing the guy by going public with this. Sorry aunty, you are only disgracing yourself. The whole brotherhood will silently be giving this guy the thumbs up sign and some sharp shooters will pick 'format' from her rants.

The sharpest ones will even be plotting on scamming her again to access free pucci. This biatch musn't know how this game works.

NtoAkwaIbom:
I love ur Dp too... Lols, ... What that is normal music to a soldier, is heart wrenching to the civilian... Normal is relative.

NtoAkwaIbom:
Whr dis one comot from ?

iyke926:
I hate humans at times.