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As if we don't have enough problemspace these people want to add drugs to it

Thank God I don't have your type as a sibling.

mbahdi:
Life no balance,u dey drive jet ride range,ride benz n porsche,na 2002 muscle toyota u come give ur sis

thank you for replying her kindly.

iRepNaija1:
OP, please don't pursue this. You're not even in a relationship with him and you two are already arguing, regardless of who is right or wrong. That's red flag number one. Red flag number two is that he wants you to come to his house only after a few days of talking. That's concerning because a) you should be meeting someone you don't know well in a public place, b) he should want to meet you in a public place for a meet-up or date, or c) he just wants sex. If you just want sex, then cool. But since you've declined his first offer, I don't think that's what you're going for. The third red flag is that he insulted you. From what you said, you told him, "I don't care." Is that an insult? To me, it's not because you did not criticize his person or his family. (Remember, critique the action, not the person). Could your response have been said in a better way? Maybe but you were straightforward. If he's willing to do this and you two have just started talking, imagine what could happen if you were dating or in a serious relationship.

He's just trying to test your limits to see how much B.S. he can get away with and how much B.S. you can tolerate. At 22, you're an adult but you're also much younger than him and he's seeing if he can take advantage of your possible lack of experience in dating. The fact that you're on NL may indicate to me you're still interested in him despite these red flags because if you weren't, I know you would've not continued talking with him.

I think you should really let this man go. It just sounds like wahala. You're young and there will be so many other men. When a man likes you and wants to spend time with you, you won't have to question it, you won't be on NL asking for advice from strangers. He will treat you like royalty and handle you like glass. You will never have to second-guess his feelings for you or his motives. Good luck.

you are crazy, go and join the FBI. Uve got talent

greatbuc:
Pure murder. The crime scene is very unrelated to suicide. The killers did a very poor job.
Pointers:
He was probably killed before his body was lifted to the noose.. See the folded part on his trouser indicating he was lifted.
No stool or block to have giving him the height he needed to hang himself. How did he climb up to the noose?? If you say the hole in the walls then he should have been facing backwards and his foot should also be dusty and bruised.
He is scared of dying from covid by wearing a mask but took his life by hanging? Haba. Poor job by the criminals.. Let them check how much was left for him to complete the instalment money.. Some people fit kill person so the bike will be theirs even when the instalment money is almost completed.

she's actually happy because she's not a kid anymore ( close to menopause), she also needs someone to inherit her fortune and she can afford to take care of her kid.

StOla:
Why the unnecessary media whoring by Linda Ikeji?

She is trying so hard to let everyone know that she is happy, even if she is now saddled with a bastard that looks like the father who some lunatic claim his sperm was stolen.

Tor, the problem with these type of men is that when God blesses them with a submissive wife they would start complaining that the responsibility is too much.

eyeview:
The truth is this: any girl not ready to be submissive to her husband should stay in her father's house

May God bless your generation

nwanneni:
if it's the money that is making your head swell,why don't you let her work or get a business for her?
From the way you spoke(misogynist),only the heavens know what the lady must have passed through in your hands(you sounded so disrespectful and like someone that has no single regards for women).
Just so you know,i spend six figures monthly just to handle my logistics(typing from a hotel room)as a single man so i wonder what in the world you are talking about

Has a black woman ever refused to date you?

Lordtimothy66:
Dirty ugly looking girls Where is bleaching cream when you need it.

she wants to commit suicide because she's too ashamed to tell anybody and she believes suicide is the best way out.

adaksbullet:
You are kept these thing since 12 year ago while are u not talked since you are afraid his go too killed u but u are want too comited suside, whot a dump gilr


And too the rapist uncle child, u we no no peace u even used baby oil too rape her both pussycally and analcally for these ting u are do, u we go too jail and gay men we rape ur yansh brutally




Idiot

There is nothing wrong with marrying a financially stable guy.

resurgent4oodua:
I was in a bar tonight and a girl was staring at me and eventually confessed to liking me ( which was strange) but I didn't even make an attempt to take her number. My friend (who's married) took her number and will eventually bang her. But I am not worried because I have had enough pvssy to last me a lifetime and I am desensitized to women. All I want is to face the law and make money so I can marry a good girl to make me healthy babies.

I am wrong in my approach and worldview?

I feel Nigerian girls just want to marry a financially secure man.

That's unfair

Immaculatesnow:
she is way hotter than that ugly scare crow called Simi

I will buy your Nigerian AdSense account

It was funny to me. I enjoyed the jokes

Baddest. Respect

addikt:
VERY EASY, IT WILL ONLY COST YOU 100 NAIRA.


1 TELL HIM YOU'RE TRAVELLING TOMORROW

2 WAKE UP AND PACK YOUR THINGS AND HE'LL DO THE SAME AS HE'LL BE SET TO LEAVE TOO,IT'S YOUR HOUSE SO YOU'RE TAKING YOUR KEY ALONG !...

3 TAKE A BIKE TO ANOTHER DIRECTION WHILE HE LEAVES TO HIS OWN DESTINATION ,

4 TELL THE BIKE MAN YOU FORGOT SOMETHING AT HOME ,TURN BACK AND GO HOME , PAY THE BIKEMAN....


I HAVE DONE THIS SEVERAL TIMES !!!

I swear that's the solution.

julybaba:
Simple. Just withdraw the food. He will exit sharply.

why do you have to condemn someone else's opinion to make yours? Its not right. You can make your opinion or suggestions without condemning another person's effort.

Sanchez01:
This is pure nonsense.

The best way to avoid getting sick as far as street food is concerned is understanding...

1. Your allergies (If any).
2. Know the source of water and other materials the food was made with.
3. Know your body: Just because people eat it doesn't mean you should too.
4. AVOID STREET FOOD totally as most are prepared in dirty environments.

why were you cheating on her?

Subsidy101:
I would have been in this position by my now ex wife who tried it twice.

Beautiful boy

ProsperOkec:
Is it true that I look like them.

One warm night, my relative was making my hair she was about my age mate. We were teenagers. While my cousin was making my hair, we were jisting and laughing loudly then I heard noise, like the dragging of ones foot, I stopped talking and paid attention, i heard nothing.
We continued jisting and laughing again then I heard the sound again, I stopped talking and... nothing everwhere was quite, I checked the time it was almost 12 midnight.

All this while my cousin was oblivious, she didn't notice any sound nor stop talking. We lived in an uncompleted building... It was our house we were still building it. We've fenced it but no gate.

While we were jisting we heard "every body lie down, we are eleven in number-- if you shout I would blow your head" l lay down quietly, my mum who sleeping woke up and started begging him. He told her to shut up and give him all the money we had. My mum was the only one who had one yeye phone and 800 naira, she gave it to him, he collected it and took it to his members who were outside, we heard argument I think they later accepted it.

Then he came back and started jisting with my mum, he said he was graduate and he has been looking for job, but no job. Hmm, he now said I look like his ex girlfriend who broke his heart, and if he wants to revenge he would use rape to scatter my Toto(p. Part). my mum started crying and begging again. While I was busy praying for ground to open let me enter, for where. He now faced me and started asking me who was the first guy to deflower me? I said I'm a virgin .
He said I was lying.
He told to me to tell him or else he would scatter my head, I had to lie and give him a name.
He started starring at me then he touched his penis and walking towards me.
I looked into his eyes and I knew he was going to rape me.

While he was standing close to me I told him I had condom let me go and bring it, he started laughing so hard and so loud I thought he was going to slap me. then he said Ok and I should do quick that he has younger ones like me at home. I said Ok sir. I ran upstairs followed the back door and jumped over the fence, my sleepers commot I no stop, I ran to my neighbors house and knocked, no answer I continued running oh, their yeye dog was busy barking, I thought he would pursue me sef, I finally saw a house, their gen was on and their door was open I ran inside and went straight for their wardrobe. Na there I hide.

The owner of the house was a man, thank God his girlfriend was there. I don't know him personally but I see him around and he sees me too. He asked me what happened and I explained, he told me to come out of the wardrobe I refused. After much cajoling I came out. I told him, let's go and help my parents he said no that I should just pray.
I could barely sleep I was wondering what would happen to them, were they dead or alive? The next morning they escorted me home.

Turns out everyone was fine. They ran away when they figured out that I had escaped. They thought I was going to call people to ....
** I think the arm robbed lied they were not eleven in number, maybe 2 or 3

actually 3, including his first wife (Tonto is the second wife)

Pelsmic:
churchill against 2 women

you need help

Shugarlord213:
I picked a Nigerian girl aged 27 Yoruba Girl

We went to Mr Biggs and I already brought a table water from the road on our way
We settled down and she made her order

1) Jollof and fried rice with chicken and 2 meat , ( plantain, and a Big Chivita to wash it down

As soon as I saw that I already know this one go hear word from me today. The attendant asked me what I wanted I told her I will call her. So I and the girl started talking. I was the one who was bringing up topics and she was just eating and saying ‘Abeg make I chop finish’ . For my mind I say no wahala. At least I don fuvvvk you before I come here so I no get issues... when she was almost done, na me come day tell am Make she buy monster drink and ice cream to take home, she said what of snacks I even stand up go meet waitress tell waitress make them come. I then asked ‘What snacks do you guys have’ she mentioned burgers, chicken pie, fish pie etc

I told waitress Make she first bring 2 fish pie for me as I never chop. As the waitress go counter I follow waitress collect the two fish pie( I never pay oo) just waka go outside, start my car, reverse immediately, the girl don day come outside say ‘Baby where are you going’ I just zoom off munching the meat pie.

6 mins later she sent a text the bill is 8,730 or so sha, (Meatpie is 300 per one) I just Control another girl and went to tantalizers opposite. From the screen I could see the babes hair already pulled and rough, with 3 attendants mocking her and throwing contents of her bag around at the backyard lol

I do this on a normal basis to girls ages 27 downwards they never mature

that's not an excuse, why didn't he use the vehicle to do cabucabu business

Flexherbal:
This is not a genuine excuse!

maybe he is looking for the submissive ones

Elder001:
90% of Nigerian ladies are like that ...


stop dating dependent ladies okay?.. there are many independent ladies everywhere.

I'm sorry I can't have this conversation. I'm a good girl.

OfficialDad:
I love black skin so much. Hope you've got a curvy behind. I love them black and crunchy

naah, I'm the same color with back of pot.

OfficialDad:
I hate light skin. If you know how i hate my lightskin colour eh.

I'm on Shea butter skin medication to see if i can get black, but no hope for me. I tried black soap, no hope, I used black Ghana soap, no hope.

Are you light skin?

why? Its very attractive, once you are light skinned you are 50% better looking.

OfficialDad:
I don't like light skin girls.. I'm light skin, I hate my colour

actually am different, at least that's what most people say about me.

IykeBazz:
You are right though and am expecting change from you

thank you

greatface:
I wasn't implying you're cheap. I got your point and I was just flowing along based on my own perspective.

I actually like those girls that are not easily influenced by celebrity trends.

You're right, both men and women need to change their attitude.

IykeBazz:
Really? Then ladies should change they altitude because that's one of the reason men don't raely want to get married. While growing up having girlfriend alone na wahala talkmore of getting married... Besides men are now interested on what ladies can offer in relationship not only sex, coz if its about sex, they are prostitutes everywhere that can give that 24/7

I'm not cheap and I don't intend to date any of them, I'm just trying to make a point.

greatface:
Everything cheap is always surplus.

I don't intend to date any of them, I just want you to understand that, men are not really scarce they just don't want to get married.

IykeBazz:
And don't come to my church when you get to 37yrs coz I will use cotlass pursue you. Just be ready to become a baby Mama

yes they are scarce, but what is confusing me is that boyfriends are in surplus. I swear if I want to start dating four different guys today all I have to do is flash them.

greatface:


Is it not better you go and hire a boy friend.
Or better still make money and boy friends will fill up your DM box.

She is also indirectly stating that husbands are scarce. The perfect truth other girls have refused to acknowledge.