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Hello nairalanders, pls I need your assistance urgently. I recently got my visa card from diamond bank and then opened a PayPal account. And filled the details which includes connecting my PayPal account with my visa card.
I want to transfer some money to China, but they kept saying I cannot transfer money at this time. Please what am I not doing right. Thanks

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[quote author=chocolateme post=43333680]Yes for two reasons:
1: fro the fact that her marriage is not a happy one and her sugarboy makes her find happiness and peace which is a temporal one filled with wishes.
2: solely because she is a human being. Human beings has emotions. Jealous of the dude's babe and imagining herself in that position though she has no iota of idea what the babe too maybe passing throughin that her relationship which she " the married woman" is part of it.[/quote
But she is married, she has a family I think she is self centered. The guy would also want to start his family. Its not his fault she is in an unhappy marriage

I read an article about a married woman having an affair with a guy, a younger dude who just got engaged.
According to the article the woman is unhappy in her marriage, and this guy(her lover) is everything she wants in a guy. She practically introduced the guy to every one closest to her, from her family, to her best friend pastor etc as a close friend. Meanwhile she doesn't even know any of the guys friends or family.
Now her lover's fiancee came back from Us and the relationship had to take a break but she is feeling bad and wants to call it off cos according to her she isn't in the guys circle. Does she have the right to be Jealous and pained
NB: true life situation

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op I am from imo state and the characteristics that area you mentioned is true, talking from experience, they are quite deceptive,manipulative and destroy families. If she grew up outside the east pls go ahead but if she grew up in mbaise ,pls look very well before you leap. Enuf said

Its quite sad though!! But won't judge the woman. Nobody knows what she went through in that marriage,its obvious she didn't love the man. Dad died twenty years ago and my mum has refused to remarry, she keeps talking about how wonderful dad was and how she thinks she can't find a replacement. Its so easy to know a woman who truly loves her hubby and its can be shown thru the period of grieve and mourning. Having said that even if the woman was in a loveless and abusive marriage, I don't think it is right bringing multiple partners to her bedroom. Even if she never loved the hubby,she should at least show respect to the kids and consider their feelings! The deceased iis still their father and the memory of their lost loved one is still fresh. It is totally wrong and the kids would be resentful towards her... Nobody in OP's position will be happy..

kayo80:
Yes, she does. Working from 5am to 10 pm is her normal daily routine. That's 17 hours a day. And she had to blog for 5 years (2006-20011) before she made a dime. In 2010, on her 30th birthday, she didn't have up to a thousand Naira in her account, and she had been blogging for 4 years at the time. Think about that. People should stop downplaying the work this girl put in. There is nothing like luck here. If you work as hard as her, for as long as she did before she made it, and you are dedicated and focused, God will bless you too.

my dear if you own a business in this economy and don't work minimum 9hrs a day!! Peps would run you down and steal frrom you, we have businesses that existed for over five years , I still say its by Gods grace. Not just sheer hardwork. 'Excepts the lord builds a house(business) the builder labours in Vain'

dammytosh:
Dear Linda,

Learn to behave like a queen, then your King will surface.

Bragging about everything you buy including SHOES, BAGS, DRESS on instagram makes me wonder the kind of King that will descend from his throne of values and take you as his queen. It is not a criteria no doubt but you understand what i mean.

No matter how successful you are, I still believe it is a poverty mentality that screams about every achievement as if it is the end of the world.

Suddenly more people now know that there is an Island where Banana is planted called Banana Island. A lot of people have bought houses and lived there for years without this much noise.

Your well over 500 Million house is an awesome achievement but i know a section of Banana Island where a plot of Land is around A Billion Naira.

I have read Ibikun Awosika's book titled "The Girl Entrepreneurs" and I am inspired with what ladies are doing as enterpreneurs.
Making us believe this noise is because you did not eat banana to achieve them still does not justify it.

I hear you say that you want to show the girls that hardwork pays ? I will say that you keep quiet and just say that the grace of God pays.

If it by hardwork, Laila is a blogger, a banker, a mother and a house wife. Those who have worked in a bank knows what diligence mean to combine the 3 not to mention Stella's blog.

When i see a lady in the same Range Rover we could not sleep over when you bought it. I smile and wish my girls don't taste so much poverty that wealth will drive them in sane.

I am not hating on you and have no reason to. As a matter of fact i have been visiting your blog minimum of 365 times in a year for over 3 years running now.

Congratulations on Your Range, House and also Marriage and Child in advance.

Even after achieving all that 'feat' you might still feel empty. I am happy for the grace of God and his blessing over your life.

Regards.
dammytosh

. Well said its just the grace of God over her life nothing more. She always sound as if she works harder than most entrepreneur moi inclusive. I am happy for her!! But its just by God's grace

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Na WA oh,all this billions they are looking there is God.. I really support the probe, even if they is what PMB achieves in the next four years,it is okay by me. The amount of money been looted in this country is mind blowing. Poverty in the midst of plenty. This would send a strong signal to others in government.

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maclatunji: Sometimes, I am tempted to believe that you are from another planet. You have a way of making unique points and comments.

You are almost certainly right. OP seems tempted by another man. Maybe we should show her husband this thread. Who knows he might actually become jealous and want to do what it takes to keep her.

I'll be so glad if these thread would make him change...it would be my pleasure

chaircover: @poster I have a few questions

were you pregnant before you got married?
Are you his first choice or were you forced on him?
Did he have another woman in his life at the time that you two got married?
What are his reasons for not wanting to make love with you from day one?
were you having sexx before you got married & did he show signs of a low libido?
Does he have a low libido or do you suspect that he is having sexx elsewhere?
When you broke up and came back together again, what were the changes agreed and did he agree to them before you got back together?
What did he say the problem was during marriage counseling?
Do you really know this man in-to-to?

I find it hard to understand how from day one of the marriage that he didnt want to touch you or show you any affection and I may be wrong but it sounds as if there is something wrong right from the foundation and not something started during the marriage.

If you know the cause, then you are in a better position to know the solution to the problem. What you describe here could be due to a number of reasons which I dont want to mention and there are different solutions to different situations. So you need to really work out what the cause is before you can embark on the right action.

No was never pregnant, I wasn't even forced on him either, he proposed to me, though I wasn't a saint but after my last encounter with men I promised God and myself I wasn't going to have intimate relationship with a man till I got married. So I didn't try or rather test before saying I do only for me to end up with this Huh'

Thanks every one for your advice but the truth is from day one , I have begged, I have talked in private and in public, we have even gone for marriage counselling but nothing seems to be working! Becos of this issue it has caused a lot of disrespect and resentment toward him from me, I'm always angry. We separated initially for some time but reconcile thinking things would work out but it remains the same. I have even spoken to my mum and big aunt but what everyone says is endure becos of the kids.. How long will one endure I'm just open because I need people in similar condition to advice me on what to do..

alutacontinua: ^ ^ ^ ^Didn't you guys talk about the no of kids you would have before getting married? How would you trick a man into giving him kids?

Why isn't he interested in romance and intimacy? You said it started from day one...does that mean he was never attracted to you from the beginning? Like even right after marriage

Story sounds fishy but seems like you might be saying the truth cos the write-up is not that coherent. So, i'm confused.

like I said he wanted just one child he told me when we were courting but I felt he was joking, he didn't say it seriously oh, then on our wedding night I found out he wasn't experienced at all, that's okay with me but he is not just willing to learn and sometimes uses isex as a punishment when we have misunderstanding. He sees being intimate as hard work and as an ibo man would'nt want to allow it rub his ego..

pls I need advice from matured minds, I have been married for nine years and I have not felt any form of a beautiful conjugal relationship. Right from the first day I practically beg my hubby to sleep with me and it's becoming frustrating, I am from a Good christain home and due to this I don't want to commit adultery, my hubby is making things to difficult for me, first he said he wanted one child I thought it was a joke till I gave birth to my first son and he said that was it. I had to trick him to getting another one now I'm stuck with just two boys he doesn't even want to consider having a female child, then as the only son he allows his parents call the shot in our home. I am honestly tired, I am just 32yrs of age petite and attractive I go out and meet other guys but won't want to have anything to do because I am married but in my home I'm starved for his responsiblity he hasn't touched me for close to two years. Is divorce the way out to this madness of so called marriage...

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I was born into a catholic family, immediately my dad died at my tender age, we left the catholic church. My point is that I have gone round and the truth is that there is power in the catholic church, the catholic church prepares you whole I.e physically, spritually and mentally. How many pentecostal church provide affordable schools,healthcare for their members and even when they do, it's so expensive that even their members cannot afford. I'm married now to a non catholic but I still attend the catholic church. The church teaches you how to pray round the clock. Going to mass, saying your rosary, the angelus, divine mercy prayer every 3pm, and reading the scriptures. Seeking intercessory prayers thru your patron saints like ST Rita (saint of the impossible) and st Homobonus (patron saint for business owners). Spirituality is personal I find spiritual fulfilment in the catholic church. Like I said earlier on I HAVE Seen it all. You name it Redeem,MFM, anglican. None like the CATHOLIC FAITH

They were three occupant in the car, one died two are still in coma, they are pilots with Arik air, and the one that died just got married in october. So Sad

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