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Ivan18888888888:
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Temioolajide:
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6k ikotun

let them sworn in tinubu first and see what happens after.
they reign cuz of their daddy in power. so make we see if they will burry their heads or continue

Napata77:
Ignorant dunce. That parade took them ONE YEAR to practise and perfect.

AND IT WAS PERFECTLY EXECUTED.

Dumbass air head.

Always an Igbo traitor as usual to come in here and hate.

Worthless. Just get out.

at the end they didnt disgrace Nigeria

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

Same story as mine but hey av moved on. We r still married but i dont disturb her for anything again. She gives sex no wahala, she cook or not no wahala. Have loads of them out there who r willing to come in as a wife.



U can drop digit for more interractiosn

goodnessme1:
The same Boko Haram your useless Nigeria army have not defeat since years of fighting them?

Now i truly believe am replying a kid.
Boko haram is a home made war. Ehy NA cant defeat boko haram best known to them.

Gosh!

This almost happened to me in 2015 same location. Set up event decorations for a client there and before u know one of my mood light plug caught fire. Thank God for my mins routine check. The fabric on the wall could have escalate the outbreak.

Who knows if thats exactly what happens here. To think they have a funny man here who always check power source and useage before any one can tap light.

The man rejected my wires until i bought brand new Nigeria wires.



Sad day for the couple. Once there is no casualties then its blessing.


Omo i feel for th decorator mehn. May God restore all u lost. Its not easy acquiring materials in anyway.

goodnessme1:
With help of Britain or without their help.

Ought not to dignified you wit resppnse but since na beer parlor gist u want make i dash am to u may be u will learn.

Dont think Nigeria defense is that weak. Cameroon is just not fit in any areas. If u judge by boko haram menace or large insecurities then u r a joke. Nigeria is not weak

goodnessme1:
I wish Cameroon will do same to Nigeria.

Jokes apart, Who did sub for you kid?

Sentiment apart, cameroon may not last a week if they dare Nigeria.

Have warned engineer here who are out to cheat customers thru unnecessary charges and others. If you don't desist, I will personally be dishing out original price for items customers need then ur service charge can come in.


You have been giving enuf chance to showcase ur self here but don't meek pls

godofuck231:
Lies , edos are the largest , from edo came lagos , which is even western , esan , usobo, isoko, itsekiri, agbor / okay , Owan, ikwere, eleme, akoko-edo, Auchi , akure , parts of ife were edo , most parts of west Africa was conquered by oba ovonramwen to the upper volta area

Is lagos now South south

Are you people for real?

Ijoh:
Abiola died 1997

You could have save ur self the embarrassment by using Google search

MKO Abiola born - died
24 August 1937 – 7 July 1998

This senseless war never end ........gosh!!

Myopic minds .....no wonder we can't produce good leaders

VikingKing:
Learn to appreciate good things

You have time to dignify fools with response sha !

You nailed it but the agberos menace is damn too much

EmekaA125:
You will be next if you don't refrain from thuggery.

Your name already depict the kind of response I got . Am not surprised. You kids with access to Internet.

I guess you already asked for what you wish for you and your household.

aljharem:
There was a viral video going round. A man was lynched to death by voters in Ago Palace. Why is no one talking about him, what is his name and where is he from ?

Is this the way we want some miscreates to keep taking laws into their own hands ?

Few minutes ago before coming across this thread I thought about that poor guy tagged as thug being killed.

Security outfit needs to carry out thorough investigation on what plays out.

Did he snatch ballot box, was he with gun, did he harm anyone. Different questions popping on my head.

heniford2:
Peter Obi is a King Maker .
Peter Obi is the leader of the new Nigeria Political Tsunami.
Without shooting a gun, he has retired many Cabals. The last one to fall is the banned Jaga."Nnamani" Peter Obi has created a system and i assure you the new Nigeria its POSSIBLE!

Remind me how many states he has won in the just concluded gubber election??
What you guys failed to understand is, the massive vote he got during presidential election was borne out of no choice and as he is the only neutral person coming under new party. If it was grv that contested for president under labour or even if its u, the same energy would have still be given to you free or charge. So what makes him king maker?

He better managed the current wave otherwise he will become irrelevant come next elections

9jahotblog:
Sanwo Olu should tender his handover notes fully. Lagosians have rejects you fully. Even the MC Oluomo thugs they sent to disrupt the governorship election in Lagos State have been meeting their Waterloo. Lagosians rejects Sanwo Olu of APC fully.

Comedian!!!

Ow many vote did u cast that made u think sanwolu is gone?

Wait for the result

Omo e pain me. Gosh I love this guy composure in movies and his intelligence role make me prefer him......


Rip Lance. You will forever be remembered

Super sweet news......

Biodun556:
Larger % of the food consume in Lagos are from the north

Most manufacturing companies in Lagos are owned by foreigners

Most artisans in Lagos are Yorubas

Dangote refinery alone is bigger than all Igbo investment in south west

Igbos only dominate buying and selling of okrika, electronics, spare parts and what else?

I understand your point but u can't overrule their contributions to lagos growth thru petty tax and import duties. Most of the items they brought in from foreign lands pass thru ports and others. Decentralised all port in lagos, you will see drop in lagos state igr. Then u will believe that they also have their part.

FreeStuffsNG:
You are saara niyen. Tell your poor mother first shah.

I know you are not Yoruba, if you are, you will not ever think Oro will come out in day time that election holds. You are on your own so remove the "we", beat your chest and say you will come out in the night when oro is on so there is evidence that it is you signing out .

You took evert word out of my mouth.

If it were other places announcing oro I would have probably ignore but ikorodu ah....I have witness this before and it didn't end well. The running no be here.

undisputedKOC:
Do you know that Chinedu the IPOB terrorists candidate for Labor Party was part of the ENDSARS propagators distributing water to his fellow criminals that were burning, looting and destroying government and private properties in Lagos?

Chinedu was part of the foot soldiers following IPOB command to burn down Lagos and proudly supporting them to destroy Lagos. How can this fool now say he wants to be Governor of the same Lagos State he was trying to destroy? Why don't Igbos make Chinedu Rhodes-Vivour Governor of Anambra or Enugu?

Honestly you sounded sane until the bolded. The end sars protest was for a true course. Don't dare regard those who Risk/lost their lives to end police brutality as criminal thats not fair enuf.

The vibe is dropping

Exactly my points always. Sanwo will ride to that seat easily cux of politics of bigots the LP is playing. The result of presidency election can't be same. Both tribes and even tinubu loyalist voted obi but may not be the same with gubber

Truth be told, if you are justifying presidential elections result in lagos state and u feel same will happen with gubber election then uve missed it. Everyone is tired of buhari and tinubu wasn't an option for many.

The best man should win but the energy won't be the same.

FarahAideed:
I happen to have chartered choppers in the past and might still need to in the future even though I never plan on owning any ...The article clearly says choppers landing anywhere in Nigeria, trust me this is targeted at raising revenue so it will involve landing in oil sites ..any chopper that takes off or lands from a Nigerians airport already pays airport charges

Wow I doff the hat then but contrary to the bolded. Its not achievable. Who monitors where choppers land or take off? Except some targeted areas or marked sites.anywhich way remember wen u are back to hiring chopper I can be useful in anyway. Am an event planner and also am phone tech

FarahAideed:
Choppers handle most of the logistics around oil production if you don't know , they are the primary means of transporting supplies and personal around oil production sites

Baba stop justifying what you have little or no knowledge about sir.

This landing charges are meant for government space . Most of this oil industry has their helipad, choppers landing space for easy access.

I want to belive there is a tax on owing a chopper in place already but flying this chopper from one govt owned ppty to another should be taxed..


Let's come down to our level, why are we even arguing about this issue except ofcus you own a chopper. Otherwise am done arguing cuz i don't own one

FarahAideed:
You don't know that it's you this will affect , the heaviest users of helicopter service is the oil industry if you don't know and trust me they will pass this cost on to you whether you like it or not .
some of you are so Short sighted ..and don't come back to tell me you don't have car ooo

Bro forget about passing down bills on us or not.
Choppers are not used in conveying oil or fuel. Possibly for staff and officials. And besides Nigerians are used to incessant charges from every sector abi you are equally short sighted about the hardship your daddy in Abuja is bestowing upon us ? A litter was/is sold for 350/400 naira per litter