₦airaland Forum

Good one from the LP candidate . Education really needs to be prioritized in every part of the nation especially the North. Otherwise the North will keep dragging us backwards

Twoclans:
Wike is yet to understand Abuja and the FCT.

I agree with you. Seems he took Rivers people with him there hoping they will govern Abuja Rivers style. It won't work. He needs to respect his hosts and learn their ways you can't go there and change them or bully them the way he bullies his people

Hmmmm

I have nothing to say in this

Ashley86400:
How much?

How much for what ?

Seun:
I'm happy that women are engaging with this thread, even if it is to express their displeasure. That's what this section needs. At least they know that whatever they have to say will not be dismissed or attacked unfairly on this thread, because someone who is fair-minded is watching it.

I have observed a difference between the way that young women and young men respond to gifts. I'm not sure that it applies to older people. My female friends often tell me what other men are doing for them as if they expect me to join an expensive competition for their attention. It seems clear that the way young men chase young women makes them feel entitled to receive gifts. Making it difficult to appreciate every gift.

It's just an observation that I made from my life, and I wanted to see if other people have had the same experiences or if I'm completely wrong.

not just young men, it started from our father's. Naturally Africa has always been a patriarchal society.

In the old days women were considered as possessions so to adorn your wife with expensive warlords and jewelry was also a way of showing off your status symbol.

Women were raised to expect gifts from men not work for them. Women were taught it's their entitlement to be given gifts to fulfil their role as women which was primarily to look good for their man.

So it's a far reaching problem from the basic ideology which was passed down and like all things evolved but in this case devolved.

PortHarcourtcit:
princeofsarcasm I didn't see judolisco comment as derailing , why are you always here on Nairaland constituting problem every time of the day...

Have you gotten a job finally ? I asked you to prove you are a graduate and have a job by just posting your LinkedIn profile url let us verify and you ran away ?

PortHarcourtcit:
princeofsarcasm I didn't see judolis comment as derailing

Who are you again?

advanceDNA:
Lucky you ....

Will be easier for her to manage...they will feed well unlike when they are many, pushing each other from the udder....

My bro I was experiencing this, had to reluctantly sell some of to reduce their numbers

Smile4mee01:
I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.

I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.

However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently contacted me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about

1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.


Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.



Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

You want to marry her because she is a citizen. That's the main motivation for you ...

So just know it won't be a marriage because this is purely transactional so don't go in there with warped expectations.

Don't go there looking for love because she is just desperate to have a family while you want documents

So don't call this what it is not. This is an arrangement

This is false and a big lie.

Check the most Googles football clubs 2023 this is not it at all

https://www.goal.com/lists/top-10-most-googled-football-clubs-in-2023/blt6f955d954e1a1078

Who is the most searched footballer in 2023?

Cristiano Ronaldo.
Lionel Messi.
Kylian Mbappe.
Neymar.
30 Dec 2023