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aManFromMars: I have mad respect for that place, my love for the place is as deep as the potholes on their roads...

choi!!! I yaff die!

Ihedinobi: To avoid an epistle, a man who's led a fairly decent life is under no compulsion to marry a woman with a colorful past because he loves her. There is nothing arrogant about that. If he chooses to forgive her past, that's his prerogative. If he chooses not to, it's just one more consequence she has to suffer for her poor choices. Love is very likely to forgive but it is not obliged to.

I'll say it simply: the day I discover that the woman I trusted with my heart deceived me will be the last good day in her life unless God does something about it.

you are a selfish and arrogant lover, putting up high standards that even you can't keep.

You're judgmental and massage you 'I lived a decent life' ego a lot, just because you had a rosy unspoilt life while growing up, doesn't mean you should expect others to.

A long time lover, finally opens up and tell you about her past, you flip out and send her outta ur house. While she goes on her knee praying for God to change ur heart?

You're wicked! Ika ni e! Where is the nice guy attribute you so proclaim in this act? Arrogance and selfishness reek all over you, jeez!

#are you such a story teller offline? Cos that attitude repulses ladies!

Joshthefirst:

as in eh...
Early momo thursday

Ishilove: Whew!! This love issue sef. The tin taya manpikin

The thing tire me sef...
I no even know who send me

Ihedinobi: Oh, and, er, if all girls aren't the same, then there are girls who don't even want bad boys or this weird thing y'all call "adventure" in the first place before settling down with a nice guy.

yeah they exist...but way down in their marriages.

They wish that they had...

Ihedinobi: Don't get it twisted, honey. I have never held or even implied that all girls are the same. You know why you raised that point, I don't. I'm the one who said I don't do used. I'd be crazy to say that if I didn't think there is better out there.

Girls, like boys, are basically the same. The differences come in with personal choices. One girl decides that a man is a toy to play with, another decides that a man is what she needs to attain her highest and fullest potential. Both use the same female qualities to pursue those choices. And end up with results as different as the choices they make.

So, no, I have not lumped and am not lumping them together in one genre. I believe that there are real women who deserve everything a real man has to offer and I know that there are little girls who shouldn't be allowed to get close to anything male because just like a baby would drool all over a thousand-dollar bill and tear it up, the little girl will ruin the man...











...and herself as well. Nothing, absolutely nothing, comes cheap!

we are even on that then

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Sometimes.......just sometimes I love you and agree with you.
This is one such time.
We should get married and get a house by the ocean.
You'll write me poems and stories, and i'll rub your feet and teach you to sail a ship.
Just the two of us [/quote]It will be my pleasure

Ihedinobi: Know that movie Hitched starred Will Smith and a Hispanic hottie, Mendez, I think it was? You remember why he built a career on helping "dorks" hook up? Well, that's why I'm here. I wasn't saying that I'm a chaste, unpromiscuous-whatever-whatever, not essentially. I was saying that that is what I value and respect. I'm as much a dog as the next guy. Took a lot of willpower to keep my horses tied up. It was costly and I know that there are lots of guys who because they respect chastity allow themselves to become unattractive and boring even. But because they respect commitment and chastity, they give their best once they fall in love. And some of you daughters of Eve think it's sexy to diss them? Lord God in Heaven! Then you come back to call me hypocritical because I say I value chastity and commitment? Dohohohohohohohohohoho. And that's the very reason my kind is so marriageable for you girls too, isn't it?

If I have anything to say about it, no good guy will ever be available for shallow airheads who think of them as a retirement plan. I watched enough pretty girls turn into trash in high school not to give a care how hot any girl is until she opens her mouth. And the fact that I perceive some appreciation of her past bad choices is not going to make me want to make up for all of them. Seriously! Who the hell told you girls that love is boring and "unspontaneous"? I haven't met a single guy who doesn't try to break records and even change his nature because he fell in love.

kudos on playing hitch on nl, buh am sure not gonna be needing your service. I can source my own man


you deserve an award for reining in your devils, i appreciate men like that

yeah, sorry but Eves are gonna be in this world, just like hookers, players and lovers are. It makes the world balanced.

Your kind marriagable? There you go again blaring ur trumpets, do you have the certificate of Mr right already? Or is it written on your head, please spare me

who the hell told you we see love as boring and not spontaneous? A little extra doesn't mean we black listed every guy.


And i don't think you've met all the guys in the world yet. So speak for urself.

...and yeah, i still stand on the argument that all girls are not the same.

Even your argument suggests so. They can't be 'badoo' as you succinctly put, and the 'few virgins' who you are hoping to marry. And yet you still lump them into one genre. What then is the connection between them that makes them similar?


Point is. All girls are definitely not the same.

So in essence you're saying you're a chaste-unpromiscious-stick-with-one-girl kind of guy?

Oh well, guess i should give you a benefit of the doubt


and yeah you're right, virgins, though an extinct specie, still exists

Ihedinobi: Did I say anything about a girl? They build their world around themselves alone. They don't give a shitt about anybody else. They're all about protecting themselves from the risks of love.

The ones I screwed and dumped ke? Like who and who? My ex? I was bent on marrying her and we made a mistake that became a habit. The other girl? What a laugh. A slut is a slut is a slut will always be a slut. Unless some miracle has happened.

Abeg talk wetin you know. I wasn't promiscuous. And if I marry a non-virgin, na God!

hasty generalization sir, ain't the way to play. Its a canker worm biting into the cloth of everybody, but i trust you to know better. All girls ain't the same just as all boys ain't the same.

Like who and who? Ask me one more time
Ex...bent on marrying her...made a mistake...and she was off the hook. Why do i have a feeling this is just another cliche story, dude, this ain't the first time things like that occur. And at the end, she's gonna be another 'used' to another hypocritical man that thinks like you...

A non-virgin you say? Does that mean you are also of the school that are looking forward to settling with a 'virgin'?

#NaMethuselarThingBethat

Just so you know, bad boys don't build their world around one girl, why the heck do they bear the name then?


And the ones you bleeped and dumbed, are they gonna be Another man's used?

Ihedinobi: Why? Do all nuns lack a colorful history? If my last relationship had worked out, I would've ended up with "tear-rubber". I'm not going to a convent, but unless love knocks me on my ass in a place I don't plan I'm not doing used. Fact.

you don't do used? That's the most hypocritical statement I've ever heard. When girls are not the one bleeping themselves, jeez!


plus stop blowing ur trumpet, let girls like us determine if you're a nice, hot or adventurous dude...enough of you you you already!

Ihedinobi: Oh, I'm managing just fine without one. She's not an airhead

I bet it wont be for long
plus I ain't an airhead too, ask around

Ihedinobi: Of course I don't. I only expect the mind games to cease. Why play with him if you don't want him? 'Cos you like his selling points and might want them later?

#MenStillLiveEatAndShit

Mind games have always been for persistent dudes who can't understand NO when they hear one. If he ain't got selling points, then there's no need to waste our time.

#CosTheyHaveToLive

Ihedinobi: @princesa, lovely profile pic, by the way Totally love it. Looks a little like a painting though.

profile pic = sunset (Which am so in love with)

and it wasn't painted, it was googled

Ihedinobi: Airheads

...which ya'all can't do without

Ihedinobi: "Starts"? Starts?! The guy says he just ended the wooing with the frightening opening of his heart and you say you won't take him seriously? What the deuce are you talking about?

Tell me, lady, when does the wooing end for you ladies? When do you put away the mind games? When you've got the ring? Or ten years after? After the kids? When? Never? I'd like to know. I think girls like my ex would appreciate the info. No man likes to be strung along. Make up your damn mind as soon as you can and give him enough time to heal and find someone better suited to him than you are.

#MenDeyVex

and i still repeat. Do you seriously expect a girl to accept ever Tom, D1ck and Harry that comes her way to 'open up his heart'?

If it were so, then i sure wouldn't be able to count the number of guyz that I have dated ever since i grew two apples on my chest!

#GirlsDontCare