Its not just my mouth apparently there is a list of things and if its that serious he should go find a more appropriate girlfriend who fits in that box.

The mom could careless who he marry she just wants him to be happy. However I think his mom is worried about how her mother his Grandmother,aunts, ect. Will accept me and Im not proud that my words hurt I just always speak my mind and sometimes the truth hurts. I want his family to accept me but then again I don't really care if they don't. The man put a 17000 dollar trillion cut engagement ring on my finger and thats U.S. dollars so you would think he would let me be myself.

^^^I agree! then there is something about he think he may be throwing in a bid for politics and the same rules apply around anybody we encounter not just his family WTF. No thanks! He has to much on his plate.

If he likes me the way I am then why wouldn't his family and I won't talk to him because, I always speak whats on my mind and that might not be good right now. As a matter of fact my last husband said the only mistake God made with me was giving me vocal cords to speak but since then I been working on it.

I will be there 2 weeks thats a long time to act like he haven't even exposed the whole list but when I asked him what kind of things he was talking about he says well me and my mother both know how you like to speak your mind well whenever there is a discussion about cultural difference look to me to nod and I will let you know who its ok to speak your mind with. WTF! Now I have to be told when to speak?

So I'm planning my second trip to Nigeria May 9th we will be saying in my boyfriends home state now I have already met his mother and she seems to be ok with me however on this trip I am suppose to meet his extended family being he is the oldest boy and his father is now deceased he took on the role as somewhat the provider of his family. So for some reason I am being told that everybody is going to be looking to point out every flaw in me and compare me to his first wife who everybody loved so much who is now deceased. Now I have delt with in laws before and always made a good impression but this is different he told me last night that him and his mother is going to put a list of do's and don'ts together for me to (FOLLOW) I am not a child. Teach me culture teach me customs and tradition but I am not a actress and I will not pretend I am something I am not. So I hung up haven't accepted or returned any of his calls am I wrong?

masonkz:

Gay celebrities always organise such parties, exclusive to other high class gay people in the society.

Ok and all I am saying is the poster claim to have been there but snapped no picture.

I don't believe this and I don't even know who the hell Wizkid is but I am guessing he is a celebrity, one has to think a celebrity recocnized by many if he wanted to be discrete about being gay then why would he show up at a masked gay party unmasked? Furthermore I am sure there was cellphones floating around but nobody snapped a picture for the tabloids. Hum sounds like a lie.

For a argument no, the police should be out solving crimes not breaking up argument between a husband or a wife. However were I live if you call the police for a argument somebody could get charged with disturbing the peace or disorderly conduct. I know of a mother who called the police on her son for a argument and thats the charges he received the punishment is usually just a fine.

Some women are only after money but there is a few that want a intelligent romantic man. I say tell her how you feel and if she rejects you because, your not rich then ask yourself is she really the one for you? I mean ideally no woman wants a man she is going to have to end up taking care of but if your willing to do your part then the ideal women should accept you for who you are not what you have.

Larry-Sun:

You live in Mordor, right?

I'm lost where is Mordor? Isn't that the place off lord of the rings?

Its 3:08 in the am where I live I should be sleep lol.

This news is fake I laughed when I first read this the only person that is catching backlash from this is Beyonce, I for one don't care that she lipped sync the Anthem it sound horrible anyway she probably would of sound better if she actually sung the song. Anyhow a lot of people look at it as a disrespectful to lip the national anthem.

LMAO! I never heard this until now.

Sad story

N. Korea may have 8 nuclear warheads I just read the US had a stockpile of roughly over 5000 but the pentagon will not release the number that are stored away inactive which by the way can be reactivated also they have destroyed a little over 8000 in the last decade I mean I am not saying that the US can't be attacked by nukes but there will be great consequences behind it. N. Korea need to go back to the 6 party talks because, I would hate to see so many innocent people die because of one mans struggle for power because N. Korea will never come on our soil if war is inevitable then we will meet them on their soil but we already have over 28 thousand troops sitting right next door in south Korea. If the US invade N korea thousands of their own citizens will aid the US all because, kim has turned a blind eye to their cries of hungar.

Nobody here is going to panic we have faith in our military we trust in our president that the US will push on you say we tricked other countries with a worthless piece of paper maybe next time we will use a shiny worthless piece of paper to buy ourselves another few hundred years.

If we cut off aid to all other countries then our debt would go down significantly however you say the US is greedy lets look at Nigeria one of the biggest oil producers in Africa yet over half their citizens live in extreem poverty now I call that greed, Sure we have hungry people in the US but not to this magnitude, N. Korea billions of dollars spent on weapons to kill us when the money could be used to feed their starving citizens but their more interested in power which is another form of greed.

Lol now he is yelling at me first off the US stockpile their oil and they limit drilling for oil on US land just in case they have to depend on it lets say we could no longer get foreign oil we have enough in our reserve to substain us for about 20 years further more we have land in Alaska enriched with oil that haven't been touched, Then you say the US dollar is losing its value because its not backed by gold or any other minerals lets say it loses its value completely our Federal bank reserve has about 400 billion dollars in gold just sitting collecting dust so imagine how many other minerals and precious metals maybe stockpiled in the US. Then you say alliance well I do believe the US have a few friends as well whom will aid against any alliance formed against us. With God with us who can be against us God Bless the USA!

I started to reply then said why waste my time? The US doesn't have to explain why they lost in Nam or can nobody use Nam as a example of the US military today. I had 4 uncles who served in Nam thank God they all came home safe but by talking to them they said they were not prepared and they saw things there that they never will forget further more they weren't familiar with the jungle. However today's US military is a stronger military from 50 something years ago.

dick hardener: relocate what? there are tons of factors should consider miss

Oh I been there once and Ive been doing tons of other research besides this sight lol

Forgive me if I offended anyone by saying Americans however I am proud to be an American and I love my country thats why its so hard for me to just up and leave everything I know to live in Nigeria but if it comes down to him or the US by next year I will be saying I am proud to be a Nigerian lol.

I came across this sight trying to learn about Nigeria before I make a decision on if I want to relocate there.

I am engaged to a Nigerian man.

Well my mother was born in the great state of Oklahoma and my father was born in Mississippi.

dick hardener: I am having a hard time believing you on this for some reason. I tell you what you are. You are no half Indian bla bla bla. You are a black girl born in the u.s with partial or whole African heritage. This heritage stems from either or both parents and I mean one of your parent or both are full blooded African. That is who you are.

actually my mother is full blooded Creek indian one of the 5 civalized tribes do I need to display my role card her last name was Saranoki far from any African family name or black American.

Im not saying the US will never fall but I will say we have the most powerful army of men in the entire world with a average response time of 1 hour which mean our military can engage in a full scale combat anywhere in the world in one hour what other country can claim that? We currently have the technology to stop a nuke from the launch pad or before arrival on US soil. So if N. Korea was a real threat I am sure other US networks would be reporting this so far I have only saw this on CNN.

None of the countries who have nukes legally under the UN treaty has used them since 1945 all the countries that feel they should have them or have them wants to wipe America out now America has its flaws I can admit that but have we not aided other countries in their time of need? Haiti's for example we sent billions of dollars in Aid when the earthquake hit, we have been the worlds military and piggy bank for years. There was a time when our military presence alone brung hope to a nation ruled by dictators that there will be a better tomorrow like when the Nazi's were in Germany there was hopeful wispers among people that the American's are coming now Im not trying to be boastful like we are better then every other nation but we are usually the first to step up when our foreign brothers and sisters are in need.

I guess this is a cultural difference because where I live its no big deal if a woman initiates a relationship with a guy just as long as she don't sound to desperate most guy's get flattered when a girl ask them out around here Hell I seen a few cases when women have asked a man to marry them however I think thats a bit to far lol.

obadiah777: YOU AMERICANS ? ARE YOU NATIVE INDIAN ? FEELAMONGER

I am Native America well half Indian and half black.

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Oops does it make any difference ? Must there be war before military personnel are deployed ? Someone gotta tell Jonathan he screwed up for deploying military to fight boko haram.

Jonathan is right by deploying military to fight Boko Haram but thats a whole different situation from what happened at that embassy. Boka Haram are terrorists and if the Nigerian police can't handle them then I pray the Nigerian military can.

@ Bluetooth someone in Washington will lose their job behind what happened to those ambassadors you just wait because, its being said we had US personal with in minutes of that embassy but no body acted but trust it will not go unpunished.